FabSwingers.com forum: Appearance when meeting....

By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

So on fab, most men and women have naked pics of themselves and you can never tell What their dress appearance is like etc

Would the way someone dresses put you off or the way they speak...

What if they haven’t made any effort to smell nice for you...

I personally am conscious before I go on a meet... always Showered, neatly trimmed face and smooth down below... deodorant... put on my best fragrance on my face and even around the genital area etc

Always brush my teeth and use mouth wash and then maybe eat a couple of extras before I turn up etc..

Clean pair of socks lol

Depending on the time of day... pick out a decent outfit to look good....

Is this too much effort... or is that just being over board..

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

What? People actually meet? Mind. Blown.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not at all. First impressions are the ones that count the most, so why not go out of your way to make a good first one?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

That sounds pretty standard OP

Hope you get lucky after LD

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't overly care how someone dresses on a meet as we probably won't have out clothes on for long

but personal hygiene is really important, and it's something I'm always very conscious of.

I know the way I dress can be off-putting for people though, and I don't begrudge them that, but I won't pretend to be someone I'm not just for a fuck.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I don't overly care how someone dresses on a meet as we probably won't have out clothes on for long

but personal hygiene is really important, and it's something I'm always very conscious of.

I know the way I dress can be off-putting for people though, and I don't begrudge them that, but I won't pretend to be someone I'm not just for a fuck."

Can I turn up in my Unicorn Onesie then please ??

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Not me, what you see is what you get. I always dress to impress,

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m definitely never wearing my ugg boots

I guess one think that always sticks in my mind is how he smells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine going to meet someone new and not even making any effort.

My anxiety thinks NOT!

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Not me, what you see is what you get. I always dress to impress,

Xx"

So you do dress to impress which means you make the effort lol you don’t just turn up in mucky tracks bottoms you have had on for 3 days and the same top lol, that is my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go as I feel comfortable...

After all it’s me what ever I am wearing!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’m definitely never wearing my ugg boots

I guess one think that always sticks in my mind is how he smells

I dont mind Ugg boots

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think effort is a good indication of what’s to come. Sight and smell are important, but what about touch OP, do you think about how certain fabrics and accessories feel or sound , metal , leather , silk etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirt buttoned up

Suit dry cleaned and pressed

Tie pin on...

Shoes so I can see my face in them

Weapon loaded

Weapon cocked...

I enter the apartment...

Then I'll throw it a million miles.

Gangster no 1 what a movie!

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I think its extremely important...I always put in a huge effort when meeting someone so I would expect they would do the same? I'm sure thats pretty much standard.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Smart, casual and clean wearing a smile will do me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't overly care how someone dresses on a meet as we probably won't have out clothes on for long

but personal hygiene is really important, and it's something I'm always very conscious of.

I know the way I dress can be off-putting for people though, and I don't begrudge them that, but I won't pretend to be someone I'm not just for a fuck.

Can I turn up in my Unicorn Onesie then please ??

Well I do like unicorns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress up for a meet but if he turns up in joggers and trainers I’m not going to be thrilled. Pretty sure if we just wore joggers and trainers they would complain!

Jeans and shirt is nice. Have a thing for jeans and a white T-shirt too.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I don't overly care how someone dresses on a meet as we probably won't have out clothes on for long

but personal hygiene is really important, and it's something I'm always very conscious of.

I know the way I dress can be off-putting for people though, and I don't begrudge them that, but I won't pretend to be someone I'm not just for a fuck.

Can I turn up in my Unicorn Onesie then please ??

Well I do like unicorns

The Holy Grail

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

"I always dress up for a meet but if he turns up in joggers and trainers I’m not going to be thrilled. Pretty sure if we just wore joggers and trainers they would complain!

Jeans and shirt is nice. Have a thing for jeans and a white T-shirt too.

I like Jean's an a crisp white shirt, and a nice smell!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"What? People actually meet? Mind. Blown."

I’m sure they don’t - it’s a fabled myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the way they dress and speak can be off putting.

However if we have spoken to the person for a while, and they are of a likemind to us, fun and adventurous it is less likely to be a turn off.

I guess we are a wee bit judgey.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

"So on fab, most men and women have naked pics of themselves and you can never tell What their dress appearance is like etc

Would the way someone dresses put you off or the way they speak...

What if they haven’t made any effort to smell nice for you...

I personally am conscious before I go on a meet... always Showered, neatly trimmed face and smooth down below... deodorant... put on my best fragrance on my face and even around the genital area etc

Always brush my teeth and use mouth wash and then maybe eat a couple of extras before I turn up etc..

Clean pair of socks lol

Depending on the time of day... pick out a decent outfit to look good....

Is this too much effort... or is that just being over board..

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effort is good. I also go all out and look best I possibly can. Would give the fragrance round genitals a miss though!! Just need clean and fresh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of the people I have met have been during my working day for a coffee on a social I'll be in my work cloths more than offen lol but people are pre warned about that b4 we meet never seemed to put anyone off me if I was going to meet for drinks a meal or a night out or in then yer I'd get a shirt out not offen I wear them lol and make an effort though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I always try to look my best whether I'm meeting someone or not. If they clearly haven't made an effort then it indicates to me that they don't think I'm worth the trouble.

By making an effort I mean clean and groomed. If you're going to nip out from work to sneak a coffee with us at least take a clean shirt.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Depends on the type of meet tbh, I don't want him in smart clothes for outdoor play for example.

Clean and smelling divine will do for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Alot of the people I have met have been during my working day for a coffee on a social I'll be in my work cloths more than offen lol but people are pre warned about that b4 we meet never seemed to put anyone off me if I was going to meet for drinks a meal or a night out or in then yer I'd get a shirt out not offen I wear them lol and make an effort though"

Oh lol. I was posting at the same time as you.

We weren't warned.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I always dress in a way that's appropriate to the time of day and meeting place, so it would be different for a daytime coffee meet as opposed to cocktails in a nice bar. Honestly, I wouldn't be impressed if someone turned up dressed inappropriately or looking scruffy - first impressions definitely count with me.

I would expect that good personal hygiene would be a given for all parties - I certainly wouldn't be sticking around if someone wasn't clean and smelling nice.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

personal hygiene goes without saying, same as putting on some aftershave.

Clothes depends on where the meet is, always dress for the occasion.

I have been asked if I'd consider wearing my work clothes....obviously when we are able to meet others again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would always prepare as if going on a date where you expected to have sex. The preparation is part of the enjoyment, and excitement of a meet.

We’ve been surprised to find some single guys have turned up straight from a days physical work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lol. I was posting at the same time as you.

We weren't warned.

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haha sorry if I ever meet you ill be sure to have a clean top in my van for you to take off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to dress well and if I feel someone hasn't put in the effort to meet me too then I would be put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart, casual and clean wearing a smile will do me just fine."

I thought I'd be safe with that and got told I was overdressed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So on fab, most men and women have naked pics of themselves and you can never tell What their dress appearance is like etc

Would the way someone dresses put you off or the way they speak...

What if they haven’t made any effort to smell nice for you...

I personally am conscious before I go on a meet... always Showered, neatly trimmed face and smooth down below... deodorant... put on my best fragrance on my face and even around the genital area etc

Always brush my teeth and use mouth wash and then maybe eat a couple of extras before I turn up etc..

Clean pair of socks lol

Depending on the time of day... pick out a decent outfit to look good....

Is this too much effort... or is that just being over board..

Personal Hygiene is just standard practice for any human being.

As for dressing smart its a no from me, im not off for a job interview, so casual clothes will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both always make a huge effort to look and smell good and I would be hugely disappointed if the people/person we was meeting didn’t do the same ! We met someone once who was clean and tidy but dressed worse than my dad which put me off , shallow? Possibly

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I just thought I might be being a little OCD... but for me it’s just self presentation, I agree you do have to dress for the occasion, as I have met women after work but I do dress smart at work... which is a smart shirt and trousers or sometimes a full suit and I always keep my fragrances with me, but if I have time to go home then, I would always shower.. find a new outfit, jeans and a smart T-shirt or fitted top... I’m not trying to sound like a snob I’m just saying shouldn’t it be the norm.. as I think it’s a sign of respect for the person your meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just thought I might be being a little OCD... but for me it’s just self presentation, I agree you do have to dress for the occasion, as I have met women after work but I do dress smart at work... which is a smart shirt and trousers or sometimes a full suit and I always keep my fragrances with me, but if I have time to go home then, I would always shower.. find a new outfit, jeans and a smart T-shirt or fitted top... I’m not trying to sound like a snob I’m just saying shouldn’t it be the norm.. as I think it’s a sign of respect for the person your meeting."

Sounds perfect to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would be just as put off by someone being overdressed as I would be if they were underdressed.

I would be a bit weirded out if I was grabbing a coffee with them at the beach in my flip flops and summer dress and they turned up on a shirt and trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think more should take a leave out of your book

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I think I would be just as put off by someone being overdressed as I would be if they were underdressed.

I would be a bit weirded out if I was grabbing a coffee with them at the beach in my flip flops and summer dress and they turned up on a shirt and trousers

In that case I’d definitely have to go home and get my shorts and t-shirt or smart vest lol would never go to a beach in scorching hot weather in my trousers and shirt lol

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I think I would be just as put off by someone being overdressed as I would be if they were underdressed.

I would be a bit weirded out if I was grabbing a coffee with them at the beach in my flip flops and summer dress and they turned up on a shirt and trousers

In that case I’d definitely have to go home and get my shorts and t-shirt or smart vest lol would never go to a beach in scorching hot weather in my trousers and shirt lol"

Plus I’d get sand in my shoes lol so I’d need my flip flops too

If we were meeting for a coffee and didn’t have enough time for me to get changed.. I’d ask to meet on another day.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I think turning up appropriately dressed surely

If I invited a guy to my flat, I’m sure he expects me to be dressed similarly to my pictures. So if I’m at the door wearing my favourite shell suit and dirty trainers (ok before you start, I don’t own a shell suit ..dirty trainers on the other hand

) him turning away quickly wouldn’t be a surprise.

Same opposite I expect to be treated respectfully as well, so put in some effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine going to meet someone new and not even making any effort.

My anxiety thinks NOT! "

Some men don't bother even having a wash.

I find it worse when the man I'm meeting makes a point of saying he will shower before we meet. Like I should be grateful.... or impressed.... ?!!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arseless chaps and a denim waistcoat usually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine going to meet someone new and not even making any effort.

My anxiety thinks NOT!

Some men don't bother even having a wash.

I find it worse when the man I'm meeting makes a point of saying he will shower before we meet. Like I should be grateful.... or impressed.... ?!!?!

Oh goodness!

‘Just so you know, I don’t usually shower but for you I’ve made an effort’.

I genuinely couldn’t meet anyone unless I felt as though I was clean and wearing something appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d always think that looking your best means feeling your best!

If I’m meeting someone I plan to sleep with then I’d always make the extra effort to look beautiful, for them and my hubby.

Personal hygiene goes without saying.

If someone turned up to a meet not clean and with bad breath I’d just tell them so and leave. If your going to be intimate with someone, respect them enough not to have them smelling your stale sweat and garlic breath.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

hmmm I haven’t came across anyone who showed up scruffy looking to be honest... I make an effort and expect the same from the pair.. so far they were all lovely hence the reason, I never worried about this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brown trousers and shoes, crisp white shirt.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think pretty much all the points that have been said are standard.

As long as you don’t wear a Darth Vader mask I’m all good

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We have a simple rule, zero effort = zero reward.

We always make an effort for a meet/party/club and expect others to do the same.

When - usually a single guy - turns up scruffy, they get nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think pretty much all the points that have been said are standard.

As long as you don’t wear a Darth Vader mask I’m all good

So no interest in a sexy Darth Vader cosplay outfit then?

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I wouldn't be that bothered about what somebody wears, if I meet a nice MF couple or single at their place, they can be totally naked as far as I'm concerned....but I definitely expect freshly showered smells and hopefully freshly brushed teeth. And obviously I would do exactly the same and whatever I wore would also smell freshly laundered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would to be honest.

A badly dressed person in my opinion can appear unattractive.

There’s also no excuse for bad hygiene in any situation, soap and water is cheap, you don’t even need fancy smells (although I love them), you just have to wash properly!

I don’t think you can ever go to *too* much effort really, apart from far too much aftershave!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I think I would be just as put off by someone being overdressed as I would be if they were underdressed.

I would be a bit weirded out if I was grabbing a coffee with them at the beach in my flip flops and summer dress and they turned up on a shirt and trousers

I don't object to a bit of scruff. If it's a coffee after work or a quick lunchtime cuppa then you turn up how you turn up and as long as what you're wearing is clean, it's all good.

By the time we're meeting for more than a social I don't care what he turns up wearing because I don't plan on him wearing it for long!

Hygiene is a non-negotiable though, if someone smells then it's a very sharp exit for me.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

You might be more self-conscious if you went to any less effort so I think you've answered your own question there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would be just as put off by someone being overdressed as I would be if they were underdressed.

I would be a bit weirded out if I was grabbing a coffee with them at the beach in my flip flops and summer dress and they turned up on a shirt and trousers

I don't object to a bit of scruff. If it's a coffee after work or a quick lunchtime cuppa then you turn up how you turn up and as long as what you're wearing is clean, it's all good.

By the time we're meeting for more than a social I don't care what he turns up wearing because I don't plan on him wearing it for long!

Hygiene is a non-negotiable though, if someone smells then it's a very sharp exit for me."

*takes notes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So on fab, most men and women have naked pics of themselves and you can never tell What their dress appearance is like etc

Would the way someone dresses put you off or the way they speak...

What if they haven’t made any effort to smell nice for you...

I personally am conscious before I go on a meet... always Showered, neatly trimmed face and smooth down below... deodorant... put on my best fragrance on my face and even around the genital area etc

Always brush my teeth and use mouth wash and then maybe eat a couple of extras before I turn up etc..

Clean pair of socks lol

Depending on the time of day... pick out a decent outfit to look good....

Is this too much effort... or is that just being over board..

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aftershave on your nob omg that must sting after you shaved them hairy suckers smooth your neighbours must have thought somebody been murdered

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

It’s a kinda interview. so dress appropriately. We’ve had meets where the guy looks like he’s put no effort in. We always try to ensure we look our best. Unfortunately if their best looks like they’ve not put any effort in, then it’s a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Not everyone has the same standards unfortunately.

We were at a party early this year, a nice, good looking guy starts chatting to Frisky, unfortunately in a hot house he was wearing a thick puffer jacket that going by the smell had never been washed.

Frisky nearly gagged when he leaned in to talk to her.

Yet people still played with him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine going to meet someone new and not even making any effort.

My anxiety thinks NOT!

Some men don't bother even having a wash.

I find it worse when the man I'm meeting makes a point of saying he will shower before we meet. Like I should be grateful.... or impressed.... ?!!?!

Oh goodness!

‘Just so you know, I don’t usually shower but for you I’ve made an effort’.

I genuinely couldn’t meet anyone unless I felt as though I was clean and wearing something appropriate.

Yes exactly that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant."

They need a lot to hide the cock cheese scent though.

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant.

They need a lot to hide the cock cheese scent though. "

Hahaha this made me laugh... I usually splash some on my boxers... I don’t drown my self in aftershave how ever I do use and nice fragranced shower gel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant.

They need a lot to hide the cock cheese scent though. "

It will help to hide the smell of my fishy fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant.

They need a lot to hide the cock cheese scent though. "

Wouldn’t be a proper ploughmans without a cheesy scent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rem_mber, less is more when it comes to aftershave.

Some men put far too much on and it’s overbearing and not pleasant.

They need a lot to hide the cock cheese scent though.

It will help to hide the smell of my fishy fanny

I add croutons for extra sensation.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think that's ott OP, I really appreciate it when a guy makes a real effort to look good for me

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I always make an effort to dress well in life regardless.

For a meet I would dress appropriately depending on where we are going. I have told a couple of people that I'd be in gym kit because the only time they could do was straight after the gym. They were cool with it. But I wouldn't rock up in gym kit without warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal.....

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal....."

I'm currently sitting in track pants and slippers and smell like a badgers armpit

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal.....

I'm currently sitting in track pants and slippers and smell like a badgers armpit

Same but without the badgers armpits

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal....."

Maybe they have experienced where someone has turned up and didn’t make any effort at all.. or has bad hygiene it’s happened to me in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal.....

Maybe they have experienced where someone has turned up and didn’t make any effort at all.. or has bad hygiene it’s happened to me in the past.

Ok , I thought Having good hygiene was normal human behavior.....

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal.....

Maybe they have experienced where someone has turned up and didn’t make any effort at all.. or has bad hygiene it’s happened to me in the past.

Ok , I thought Having good hygiene was normal human behavior.....

You would hope so wouldn’t you..

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over a year ago

"I’m a little confused.......

Isn’t dressing nicely and smelling nicely standard everyday practice, regardless is you’re meeting someone for sex.....

Maybe I’m reading this thread wrongly , but people are giving the Op a pat on the back for being normal.....

Maybe they have experienced where someone has turned up and didn’t make any effort at all.. or has bad hygiene it’s happened to me in the past.

Ok , I thought Having good hygiene was normal human behavior.....

. Wait until you find out people aren’t even washing properly in the shower!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Making an effort both sides is a must.

I’m not into the whole track suit wear look unless if it’s just lounging around at home but that’s my personal preference.

If we’re going out for a social meet then yes...look sharp

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

100% dress to impress!! Both parties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put in a bit of effort everytime i have to leave the house. During this lockdown stuff i have enjoyed just wearing joggers and a t shirt most days. I hate ironing shirts.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I'm afraid I will take a bit of a different stance to some of you regarding the aftershave issue...obviously I will not rip off the vaporiser tool and drench myself in it but a good 6 to 8 squirts of it, I am definitely guilty of doing.

Then again, I've been told also that an eau de toilette smells differently on freshly soaped skin and not freshly soaped skin...and also you have the variable of mixing different scents like that of a shower gel and an aftershave (supposedly never a good idea)

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