FabSwingers.com forum: Is the fantasy ever better than the reality.

By *iddlesticks OP Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I know that lots of people are struggling with not meeting, fortunately as I’m not really looking for meets (it’s in my profile) it’s not really affected me as much.

I’ve had some very nice conversations that have really raised the pulse and they’ve been very nice, but I think that are things sometimes better as the fantasy, let’s face it, I worry that to try and make some things real I’d actually be quite the let down, after all I’m really only 5 ft tall, I have a tiny cock and weigh 18 stone in reality.

How are the fantasies for you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fantasy, if you're exposed to radiation, you become spider-man. In reality if you are exposed to radiation, you get visited by spider-man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some amazing experiences through fab, ones that have blown me away. I've had the best sex and the most interesting times from here.

Plus I've made some fantastic friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few great meets but because im a sub who loves BDSM I do tend to fantasise about the play alot and when it actually happens its a huge let down.

In my case I definitely shouldn't fantasise because ive high expectations especially after 8 years in the scene x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've had some amazing experiences through fab, ones that have blown me away. I've had the best sex and the most interesting times from here.

Plus I've made some fantastic friends

Lucky you. Share me your tips please as i just meet only timewasters here. They just talk the talk with no interest of meeting

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've had some amazing experiences through fab, ones that have blown me away. I've had the best sex and the most interesting times from here.

Plus I've made some fantastic friends

This has been very much my experience here as well. Some very memorable moments in the company of fabulous people are firmly lodged in the memory banks. I want more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have definitely been times when the fantasy was better than the reality

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I've had some amazing experiences through fab, ones that have blown me away. I've had the best sex and the most interesting times from here.

Plus I've made some fantastic friends

Lucky you. Share me your tips please as i just meet only timewasters here. They just talk the talk with no interest of meeting "

Shame, as I would definitely be up for meeting

If I weren't too old, too small where it counts and too hairy for you

Apart from that, a perfect match

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I know that lots of people are struggling with not meeting, fortunately as I’m not really looking for meets (it’s in my profile) it’s not really affected me as much.

How are the fantasies for you guys.

I knew it you fake you

Nah if I get on with someone I like I'd prefer to meet if possible. If it doesn't work out then no harm if it does than it can be better than you imagined. Mind you in saying that I have had some meets where the person was nothing at all like the pics they had

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's possible for things to not be or go how you imagined they might for sure, but you'll only find out by trying them - the key is being adult enough to realise that things may not always go to plan or how you imagine and either being able to say "actually that's not doing it for me as I imagined" or turning it to make it the best you can.

But when you find someone as open minded as yourself who you are relaxed and comfortable enough with to go with the flow, be able to talk about fantasies with and either try them or adapt them, and be able to laugh at them if they don't work out, it's a special thing.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"I've had some amazing experiences through fab, ones that have blown me away. I've had the best sex and the most interesting times from here.

Plus I've made some fantastic friends

This is the same for me (and us both). By and large the Fab experience has been excellent. Long may it continue xx

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm not one for fantasies and sex talk, it doesn't really do anything for me unless it's someone I've met before and have a connection with (obviously discussing likes/dislikes isn't included in that). I'm good at knowing who I will be attracted to from pictures and chat, and like to go to meets with an open mind and no assumptions of what will happen - I've never had a meet that I haven't enjoyed, and one person in particular blew me away, instant chemistry and attraction, and we've had some amazing times enjoying each others company and bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch weird porn to get off but would never do it in real life.

Theres a book called my secret garden (i think) all about womens secret fantasies. Proper eye opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet so infrequently that I’m not missing meeting. However when I have met they have always been fantastic for me. As for fantasy versus reality, I’m trying to tone down my imagination about what might happen, as I tend to get over excited and put too much pressure on myself in terms of performance. Probably due to the infrequency of it as well as some deep rooted psychological reasons, I’m prone to my excitement turning to anxiety at key moments. I’m much better off not over thinking it and relaxing. So my fantasy of me never lives up to the reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes, yes.

I have crushes on people I think are funny/attractive and sometimes fantasise what it would be like boning down with them on a beach in Bora Bora but sex on a beach is not fantastic in reality, and I have no intention of meeting them so the picture in my head is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent a few years making all my partner's fantasies a reality. That was great fun.

My fantasies have all been disappointing so I don't bother.

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