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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone got any words of wisdom on how one can improve themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do nice things

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By *anacekMan
over a year ago

nantwich

Be kind ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Anyone got any words of wisdom on how one can improve themselves "

Earn your downhill xxxx

Oh and practice

Absolutely not to make subjectively perfect but simply for the joy of practicing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear clean pants !

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Be nice to people on the way up and they'll be nice to you on the way down

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Treat people the way you wish to be treated. Listen. Learn. Accept mistakes and learn from them. Show humility and compassion.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be true to yourself

Yep nothing else matters

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Wash thoroughly behind your ears

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Treat people the way you would want to be treated

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Treat the elderly with respect you will be old one day

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Just be yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

nope. Its a case of living and learning

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Be honest and open to the people that matter most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Mark Mansons take on this:

'Finding something important and meaningful in your life is the most productive use of your time and energy.

This is true because every life has problems associated with it and finding meaning in your life will help you sustain the effort needed to overcome the particular problems you face.

Thus, we can say that the key to living a good life is not giving a fuck about more things, but rather, giving a fuck only about the things that align with your personal values.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get less than twelve hours sleep.

Never play cards with a guy who has the same first name as a city.

And never get involved with a woman with a tattoo of a dagger on her body.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Take any insults as a complement. Don't trust anyone at work.

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By *otterabzMan
over a year ago

Ellon

Believe in yourself.

Dream it, believe it, achieve it

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By *amesoflondonMan
over a year ago

London

A man never lost a woman chasing money, though many men lost money chasing women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man never lost a woman chasing money, though many men lost money chasing women..

I did. True story!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

That’s very vague! You write a list of all the things you are good at and enjoy doing and spend more time doing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take any insults as a complement. Don't trust anyone at work."

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Dont fuck anyone you work with

Dont fuck any of your neighbours

Try everything twice

Tell your mum you love her

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Practise

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Cheese string arms seems to be the way forward...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Know when to hold them

Know when to fold them

Know when to walk away

Know when to run

You never count your money when you’re sitting at the table, they’ll be time enough for counting when the dealings done.

I used to think the song was about playing cards with money, how wrong was I

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Don't change who you are to try and fit in

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always march forward and never look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are what you are!!

People dont like it you really arsed?

Be honest, straight as!!

Say what you feel!!

Dont regret just learn form your mistakes

Always remember no one is perfect an no one ever will be!!!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Lesson not just karate only. Lesson for whole life. Whole life have a balance. Everything be better.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try as, much as possible, to make sure your behaviour aligns with your beliefs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning"

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ever hit rock bottom

Always remember the only way is up from there!!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Sometimes it’s all small things that accumulate into big things that you have not realised yet

always be yourself no matter what because you will feel better for it whether it’s today or tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be true to your self and strive everyday to live your best life as it’s the only life you get(as far as I know but could be wrong).

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Don't sweat the small stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't sweat the small stuff. "

My wee pal, who is an absolute darling but a total stress ball always says this. So wish she would take her own bloody advice!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Anyone got any words of wisdom on how one can improve themselves "

Your “Cheese String” arms need bulking up lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat everyday as your last!

1 shot at this life thing enjoy it!!!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

If you have things to do, write them down as you do them, then cross off. By the end you'll have done everything on your list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and don’t be a self loving twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a friend like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t take the piss out of other fellas arms !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone got any words of wisdom on how one can improve themselves "
sit ups, study Shakespeare and swim the channel if David Walliams can do it so can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat people the way you wish to be treated. Listen. Learn. Accept mistakes and learn from them. Show humility and compassion.

Jo x"

I live by this.

Plus, don't be a b*stard.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Don’t assume anything

Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups - Steven Seagal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get started

And

You ll never be finished!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live by ‘the best things you’ll do in life will be for other people’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t take the piss out of other fellas arms !"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be kind. But don't mistake kindness for weakness.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?"

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open. "

New evidence emerges to strengthen your position, to be the best you can be.

And the world is full of wonder, things to be explored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open. "

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good old Kenny.

"Know when to hold them

Know when to fold them

Know when to walk away

Know when to run

You never count your money when you’re sitting at the table, they’ll be time enough for counting when the dealings done.

I used to think the song was about playing cards with money, how wrong was I

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning? "

Not aimed at you, but that makes me think about knowing the difference between denialism/ raising doubts for no reason and genuine enquiry/ scepticism.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning? "

Uh oh...have I missed the joke again

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning?

Not aimed at you, but that makes me think about knowing the difference between denialism/ raising doubts for no reason and genuine enquiry/ scepticism."

I’m doing some stuff on this right now...and my current answer is that healthy questioning feels good...light, exciting - your own truth; and when things feel bad and heavy, and make you feel worse, that’s probably the inner critic/socialised voice speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't say yes to something/doing something unless you want to. Say no and don't feel bad about saying no if you don't want to. Don't let anyone treat you badly and perform random acts of kindness towards people without any other motivation other than simply being nice.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning?

Not aimed at you, but that makes me think about knowing the difference between denialism/ raising doubts for no reason and genuine enquiry/ scepticism.

Hmm. Maybe. I think growth can be intensely uncomfortable.

For me it's more about whether you're looking for the best evidence, whether you're prepared to change your mind, whether you hold all positions to the same standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat people as they treat you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning?

Uh oh...have I missed the joke again

But it’s good because your response was insightful

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Treat people as they treat you "

I cannot do that I prefer not to be that rude xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Treat people as they treat you

I cannot do that I prefer not to be that rude xxx "

Hear hear

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Never put your hand where you wouldn't put your willy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wise woman once said to me "don't fuck it up, Steve....!"

Don't fuck it up matey...

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Develop your understanding

of emotional intelligence specifically empathy.

If robots are going to take over the world and ours jobs...you want the one skill they can not master...Human emotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never argue with an idiot. They'll drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put your dick in a blender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and 'Wear sunscreen'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Botox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a wise man once said he who laughs loudest laughs last

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Never stop questioning, including yourself.

Keep learning

Why ?

Because 95% of what we think, and therefore believe and do is un-conscious reaction. Remaining open and questioning yourself keeps the door of self awareness open.

I thought the why was a joke Because you said never stop questioning?

Uh oh...have I missed the joke again

But it’s good because your response was insightful

Aw thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

What a life hack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never scratch and sniff

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

That Tesco advice I’d take with a pinch of salt...I was queuing to pay for 30 mins from 9pm!!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

That Tesco advice I’d take with a pinch of salt...I was queuing to pay for 30 mins from 9pm!!

Was it just one queue, or did you leave the queue to go get extra whoopsie cookies?

You can tell me. I do it too.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

What a life hack! "

Orchids as a tank top, also a good one!

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"Tesco after 9pm.

Packs of cookies on the whoopsies, 12p a bloody bag.

That Tesco advice I’d take with a pinch of salt...I was queuing to pay for 30 mins from 9pm!!

Was it just one queue, or did you leave the queue to go get extra whoopsie cookies?

You can tell me. I do it too.

Just had to google whoopsie cookies...so basically a party ring from the 80s but without the icing, dipped in American chocolate..? Nope, wouldn’t have left my place in the queue for that!!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Never trust anyone.

Always wear gloves.

Always do one extra wipe to make sure you got all the clinkers.

Only look directly at the sun.

You can't outswim a shark.

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By *reeSpiriT17Man
over a year ago

Local

"Anyone got any words of wisdom on how one can improve themselves "
kindness and family. enjoy life stop worrying about materialistic things. We don’t want to be old with regrets wish I’ve done this and that why not do it while you can I’ve had a few close call and I’ve watched friends and family dies in my arms and to look in there eyes and you can tell what they thinking off it’s heart breaking all they worried about is there families.Always be kind and nice to everyone as we don’t know what people go through in there day to day life. Plz look after your family as they will be the last thing you be worrying about when our time is near,We live everyday but we only die once’s life is way too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be kind.

It's not all about you.

Listen.

Work to live not live for work - theres never enough money!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't be a doormat.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just accept that women are always right

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