Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Depends on what they were in for, but they probably wouldn't tell me the truth anyway so no I'd cut ties " Yes thats what i was thinking. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Given that visits have been suspended since March, I'd suggest most of them are having phones taken in to contact family and loved ones." But they are not allowed mobile phones at all. Any prisoner using a mobile phone is breaking the law. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s one of my weird fantasies of being crossdressed in a Prison But the reality of big Dave getting his kicks from seeing my pictures and communicating with me. What’s the question again " You just answered it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s one of my weird fantasies of being crossdressed in a Prison But the reality of big Dave getting his kicks from seeing my pictures and communicating with me. What’s the question again You just answered it. " Sorry chatting with Dave now | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact?" Not for what that scumbag did. I know you’re talking hypothetically though. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s one of my weird fantasies of being crossdressed in a Prison But the reality of big Dave getting his kicks from seeing my pictures and communicating with me. What’s the question again You just answered it. Sorry chatting with Dave now " I'm that case I will leave you and Dave to it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact? Not for what that scumbag did. I know you’re talking hypothetically though. " You obviously read the same thing as me and I couldn't agree more but it did me thinking there must be others. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Given that visits have been suspended since March, I'd suggest most of them are having phones taken in to contact family and loved ones. But they are not allowed mobile phones at all. Any prisoner using a mobile phone is breaking the law. " I know. However, by the very nature of being in custody, many don't give a fig about the law. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Given that visits have been suspended since March, I'd suggest most of them are having phones taken in to contact family and loved ones. But they are not allowed mobile phones at all. Any prisoner using a mobile phone is breaking the law. I know. However, by the very nature of being in custody, many don't give a fig about the law." I'm aware. I wanted to know what people would do if they found out they were chatting with someone in prison. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" However, by the very nature of being in custody, many don't give a fig about the law." | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"People in prison are on fab! I've spoken to someone on my old account , sent me a photo from his cell! " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact? Not for what that scumbag did. I know you’re talking hypothetically though. " Who? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact?" Heck no | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact?" I don't see why you would want to get involved with somone like that they ain't in prison for the fun of it now | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Women do like bad boys, so I assume most of them would." No, some of us really don't | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. " What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. " That is true, but there is a difference between someone having been in prison and someone who is in prison using devices illegally to contact people whether that be on fab or elsewhere. Prison should not be a holiday camp, communication with the outside world is limited for a reason. Victim intimidation, drug dealing, gang related matters, sex offenders etc, the list goes on. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’d make a catfish account, chat from that, find out they’re in prison and tell them I’m grassing them up. Then when they get out, they’ll go looking for the catfish I see no problems" Sounds like a good plan queenie | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. That is true, but there is a difference between someone having been in prison and someone who is in prison using devices illegally to contact people whether that be on fab or elsewhere. Prison should not be a holiday camp, communication with the outside world is limited for a reason. Victim intimidation, drug dealing, gang related matters, sex offenders etc, the list goes on." Totally Agree. I was just getting across the “prison tag” | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. That is true, but there is a difference between someone having been in prison and someone who is in prison using devices illegally to contact people whether that be on fab or elsewhere. Prison should not be a holiday camp, communication with the outside world is limited for a reason. Victim intimidation, drug dealing, gang related matters, sex offenders etc, the list goes on." Thank you glad I'm not the only one that's had their weetabix today | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now " I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. " So your defending rapists, pedos murderers ect wtf is wrong with you il say what the hell I like to those who defend scum | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. " Have you been in prison or in one now by any chance ?? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. Have you been in prison or in one now by any chance ??" Well for someone that's not looking for drama is certainly not showing it here | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. So your defending rapists, pedos murderers ect wtf is wrong with you il say what the hell I like to those who defend scum " . You need to read post correctly. Nowhere in there have I said the above. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"There’s just as bad as people on the outside of a prison than inside one. Just because they have a “prison” label on there head doesn’t automatically mean they’re animals. Some people are embarrassed they’ve been to prison, some not, some have no other choice. What do mean some don't have a choice they made their choice by committing the crime no some offences are worse than others they are still criminals up or down so quit defending them embarrassed my god I've heard it all now I’ll defend them all I like. There’s people that are born into this world and don’t have a choice. Moms and dads junkies and they don’t have the proper guidance. There are also people that protect their families who may never been in trouble with the law before. So I suggest before you jump on the band wagon think about what you say in the future. Have you been in prison or in one now by any chance ??" Nope but Im a key worker that works with young and vulnerable and young offenders! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I had a fab meet with someone who had spent 6yrs in jail. He had been a rogue in his youth and had gunshot scars to remind him. A lovlier guy you could not meet who had managed to turn his life around." Oh i totally agree that people can and do reform. But if he had messaged you from his prison would you have stayed in contact. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact? Not for what that scumbag did. I know you’re talking hypothetically though. Who?" It was about the man who was prison for killing Reese Jones. The reason I didn't mention who in the OP is I didn’t want people get up in the who. I was interested to see what people would do. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No Lorna. If I found out, I would stop chatting. It would have all been a lie as something this major should really be outed early on " Thats exactly my thinking. Plus you couldn't be sure what they were in prison for and the idea that my photos would be shown around to goodness knows who would really put me off. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact?" *block* & *delete* | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Prisons are going to give prisoners mobile phones because they haven't had any visits since march. It's happening within the law now. " But they aren't going to be internet enabled, and they will still only be able to call approved numbers. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Prisons are going to give prisoners mobile phones because they haven't had any visits since march. It's happening within the law now. But they aren't going to be internet enabled, and they will still only be able to call approved numbers. " Yeah , face time. It's internet | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so I've seen in the paper that some prisoners are using smuggled phones to chat to women on dating/sex sites ect... So if you had been chatting to someone for a while and really liked them and got on well, then you find out they are actually in prison would you continue contact?" If they were upfront I think I could manage it depending on what they’re in for and how long they have. But as they weren’t honest, even if that was because they were worried about judgement, I couldn’t. I think they’d owe People honesty from the beginning, they deserve to make that decision before they start to really like you. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If they're using a smuggled phone in prison then they have quite clearly learnt nothing from their mistakes and have zero regard for the law. So no, I would not continue contact with someone so untrustworthy. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours " Respect man. Really good that you give back as well! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours Respect man. Really good that you give back as well! " Thank you, if I can you my experience just to help 1 person turn their life around, i'll be happy with that | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Women do like bad boys, so I assume most of them would." I don't | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Women do like bad boys, so I assume most of them would.I don't " Girls like bad boys but they don't impress women. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours " Good for you. My job is to help people resettle back in the community, to stop the cycle. But you can reach the guys on a level I could never reach. Keep on going. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours Good for you. My job is to help people resettle back in the community, to stop the cycle. But you can reach the guys on a level I could never reach. Keep on going." Hats off to you. The hardest part of prison is walking out of those gates into uncertainty | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours " It’s not as easy life inside as people think. Yes they have access to something the public may think is unfair...but they are paying a price and some really with the support can and do turn things around. That’s what it is supposed to be about. As a former prison officer, some of these men work really hard to get the “luxury” items they have. Yes they are there for a reason but in essence no different to any one of us. You never know what’s around the corner....the most rewarding job I’ve done. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours " Top lad. This is all o was trying to get across but got shot down. Well done pal keep up the good work | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting thread. Couple of organ wasting bellends who think all prisoners are scum - Congratulations for never making a mistake in your life (thought not!) I spent 2 years inside (really dont give a single shite about any negative opinions either) I started out as I went in, got a mobile (cost £300 for a £10 phone) saved me loads of money instead of ringing people on the prison phone (45p a minute or something) on £7 a week for some prisoners takes up most of their money (lucky i was getting £35 a week by the end) I carried on with my social media aswell, I wouldnt go as far as using a dating site though... Seen some comments about holiday camps - somewhat true, I had and xbox and a few other bits, But It can be hard, it is what you make it, all of the tools are there to help you change your life. I know work in Prisons giving speeches and running workshops. Imagine that outcome eh Mr all Prsoners are Scum, up yours It’s not as easy life inside as people think. Yes they have access to something the public may think is unfair...but they are paying a price and some really with the support can and do turn things around. That’s what it is supposed to be about. As a former prison officer, some of these men work really hard to get the “luxury” items they have. Yes they are there for a reason but in essence no different to any one of us. You never know what’s around the corner....the most rewarding job I’ve done. " I bet you was really popular as a pricing officer lol | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I had a fab meet with someone who had spent 6yrs in jail. He had been a rogue in his youth and had gunshot scars to remind him. A lovlier guy you could not meet who had managed to turn his life around. Oh i totally agree that people can and do reform. But if he had messaged you from his prison would you have stayed in contact. " No. That would have been a different story. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |