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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts! ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts! ![]() Same here. I'd say the odds we're pretty decent OP, as long as you're nice ![]() | |||
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"At what age would you call middle age?" Depends when ya die, I can’t tell the future | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?" 80 is quite young nowadays is it not? | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?" I quite enjoy a man in his early 40s ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" The more effort you put in the more likely something will come of it. I've said before I believe age is not a factor. | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() That actually makes a lot of sense. To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me. | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you! ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() Are you calling me old bitch or something ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() Not bitch, bat maybe ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now now children, great auntie Freya says stop bickering! ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do? ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry auntie ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Shhhh I don't think she seen ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You’re dead to me ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" Im having to beat the clunge off with a stick op... | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Too late! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Dead sexy? ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x Im having to beat the clunge off with a stick op..." Ohhh hello you sexy man ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have no words for you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Words aren't needed ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Alright there pops ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() I once got called a cougar ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn’t know what to say so blocked him for fear he would call me it again ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I come and go as I please Benny.. not as I'm told ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() Wait was that me? | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think I see it, Dan | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar! | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() Well this is awkward... but before I go, are you a milf tho? ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" I am not a betting man. Sorry, I cannot help! | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() And as I told you, put a baby in me and I will be ![]() | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m claustrophobic Darren!!! | |||
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"I quite like some men in their early 40s ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I mean Jamie ** ![]() | |||
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"Fair to decent. If you are fair and decent. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Here was me thinking you where an ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" Any chance is better than no chance. I joined more to find out about the club scene in the uk but I actually enjoy the forums most. Nice seeing like minded people interact with each other. For me this is about research so when I go to a club I kind of have a better understanding. Stop thinking about the chance of getting laid enjoy the site and remember it's a swingers site not tinder hookup site Good luck though ![]() | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?" you've made me feel real old now ![]() | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now ![]() Would you like to prove it? ![]() | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now ![]() ![]() I just turned 40 on Sunday, and hate to think of myself as 'middle aged' | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now ![]() ![]() I'm not old so that can only mean your not old. Love my age | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now ![]() ![]() I think we both need to find somewhere nice and quite to talk about it. We have not reached middle age...YET! | |||
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"Id say 40 would you agree ? 80 is quite young nowadays is it not?" Definitely is. ![]() | |||
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"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way. Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. " This ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts! ![]() ![]() Ee, when I were a lad, middle aged was regarded as 40-60... Now I'm regarded as over the hill at 55! ![]() | |||
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"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way. Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. " Also true ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" Close to none if you cannot accomodate ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" With an essentially non existent profile like yours - none at all tbh. Most forumites have spent many hours on theirs over the years - taking plenty of imaginative and current pictures- and writing and re-writing profile text to make sure it states what they offer and what they’re looking for. For a female this is a courtesy - I have a fanny so I’d get a fuck on here showing my hairy ankles! For a male - it’s essential! Good luck ![]() | |||
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"Seriously op - your profile on fab - whatever your age or gender - is your marketing and advertising opportunity. The better it is, the more chance you have of getting meets. Look at it and ask yourself - if I were a woman, would I meet me? Make sure your pictures are flattering but not deceiving. Clothes should be smart, hair tidy or ‘sexily scruffed’ if that suits you - and penis pics - should you wish to display them - should be kept to a minimum. Always check the background in your pics is tidy and that you suck your tummy in and your shoulders back when taking body shots. Re the profile text - ask yourself ‘what can I offer that a 25 year old guy with perfect abs can’t? The answer is generally (but sadly not always I’ve found) a greater level of sophistication, more varied conversation, greater life experience resulting (hopefully) in you being more interesting, and the ability to laugh at oneself where appropriate. Essentially - you’re possibly going to be a better dinner companion/all night and breakfast next day companion than a fuck and go prospect - so focus on that! In bed I’ve met great lovers of all ages so I won’t generalise - but I’m sure you know where your skills lie. Try to articulate them without sounding arrogant. And remember - when they open up again - clubs and socials are a great way to meet people and get the ball rolling. Good luck op! ![]() Pretty much nailed it ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" Speak for yourself pal. I’ve met some lovely people on here. ![]() | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" . As a 52 year old single guy who can’t accommodate and not the most photogenic I don’t get much success by sending messages. I realise that a lot of people have their age filters set at 50 so there is no point getting upset just respect their preference and move on. I have more success by attending socials , attending members only club and attending a spa. I also have exchanged messages and met with other forum users with who like the way I come across on my posts.Just be respectful , polite and level headed and you will be fine. | |||
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"What chance do us guys have on here lol x" How successful are you with women in real life (pre lockdown) ? | |||
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"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way. Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. " I’m living proof of that statement ![]() | |||
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