FabSwingers.com forum: Middle aged single men

By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

What chance do us guys have on here lol x

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way.

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful.

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Always have a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re sexy, a good chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot better chance then younger ones... well for us anyway.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw OP you’re not middle aged, you’re a young’in

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x

The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts!

Same here. I'd say the odds we're pretty decent OP, as long as you're nice

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Thanks

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

At what age would you call middle age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At what age would you call middle age?"

Depends when ya die, I can’t tell the future

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Id say 40 would you agree ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say 40 would you agree ?"

80 is quite young nowadays is it not?

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

True true

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yep...we're screwed

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Id say 40 would you agree ?"

I quite enjoy a man in his early 40s

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Things may be looking up lol

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I would have thought 33 and above or over 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Providing I live to be 110, I’m middle aged.

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Yes I would agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way.

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Love all the comments

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Absolutely the age range I like

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spring chicken at 43 just getting into your stride

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Do you reckon ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather that age range, its finding single men thats the problem lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I was in my late fifties when I joined fab and I don't seem to have had a problem, I still don't it's only lockdown holding me back.

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By *abros OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Really thats good to hear x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only limiting factor on here OP is you, not your age - get it right and it won't guarantee a thing but you'll enjoy using the site, get it wrong and you'll find it a chore.

I joined when I was 51 and have no complaints whatsoever about my experience.

P.S. if you use the reply and quote button people will know who you are replying to

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Whatever chance you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

The more effort you put in the more likely something will come of it. I've said before I believe age is not a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me. "

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none if you are me

unless i want to meet guys then 100%

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t really think age comes into it so it’s all down to you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why do they always describe themselves as hot or sexy?

Especially when they are not

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

So wait, what are we calling middle age these days? Surely in pandemic times when we're all doomed, we'll be gonners by 60!?

Also dear lord, I'm middle aged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Now now children, great auntie Freya says stop bickering!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Now now children, great auntie Freya says stop bickering!

Sorry auntie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup "

Shhhh I don't think she seen

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup

Shhhh I don't think she seen

You’re dead to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

Im having to beat the clunge off with a stick op...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do?

Too late!

your not a bat you are a god dam sexy lady. Please accept my apology and get out my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup

Shhhh I don't think she seen

You’re dead to me

Dead sexy?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x

Im having to beat the clunge off with a stick op..."

Ohhh hello you sexy man

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup

Shhhh I don't think she seen

You’re dead to me

Dead sexy?

I have no words for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it helps if your taller than 5’10...... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

you cheeky pup

Shhhh I don't think she seen

You’re dead to me

Dead sexy?

I have no words for you

Words aren't needed

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Christ OP, you're not middle aged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit "

I'm a grandad then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP.

I’m almost 60 - no hair, overweight and only 5’9 but I am managing - somehow

I guess it’s a matter of being patient, realistic and above all “ real” - keep Woking at it as there are the right people out there for you if you look hard enough

Keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I'm a grandad then

Alright there pops

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit "

I once got called a cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I'm a grandad then

Alright there pops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I once got called a cougar

what do you even say to that?! I said ‘you won’t think it’s old when you’re my age’ then automatically cringed at how old that made me sound so blocked to save face

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I once got called a cougar

what do you even say to that?! I said ‘you won’t think it’s old when you’re my age’ then automatically cringed at how old that made me sound so blocked to save face

I didn’t know what to say so blocked him for fear he would call me it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do?

Too late!

your not a bat you are a god dam sexy lady. Please accept my apology and get out my head

I come and go as I please Benny.. not as I'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I once got called a cougar

I once got called a ferret...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit "

Wait was that me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

I once got called a cougar

I once got called a ferret..."

I think I see it, Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do?

Too late!

your not a bat you are a god dam sexy lady. Please accept my apology and get out my head

I come and go as I please Benny.. not as I'm told

. Inside my head is pure filth, you've been warned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

Wait was that me? "

Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Loads.... make some effort and you’ll be alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

Wait was that me?

Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar! "

Well this is awkward...

but before I go, are you a milf tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

I am not a betting man. Sorry, I cannot help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

Wait was that me?

Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar!

Well this is awkward...

but before I go, are you a milf tho?

And as I told you, put a baby in me and I will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

Wait was that me?

Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar!

Well this is awkward...

but before I go, are you a milf tho?

And as I told you, put a baby in me and I will be

I’m claustrophobic Darren!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like some men in their early 40s

I had a 23 year old the other day tell me they like older women and asked if I was a milf. when I questioned him on what what is an ‘older woman’ he said anyone over 25

cheeky shit

Wait was that me?

Ffs!!! I thought you look familiar!

Well this is awkward...

but before I go, are you a milf tho?

And as I told you, put a baby in me and I will be

I’m claustrophobic Darren!!! "

I mean Jamie **

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

That actually makes a lot of sense.

To reply you OP.. I hardly never met people younger than me.

That me off your list then. I'm a pup compared to you!

Are you calling me old bitch or something

Not bitch, bat maybe

Haha I will get stuck in your head and what you are going to do?

Too late!

your not a bat you are a god dam sexy lady. Please accept my apology and get out my head

I come and go as I please Benny.. not as I'm told

. Inside my head is pure filth, you've been warned!

Here was me thinking you where an

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

There is someone out there for everyone.. sometimes just have to be a little patient. There are age ranges on profiles and majority have a wide bracket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 65 and I’ve never had a meet from messaging on here. I have,however, learned about clubs and when I’ve attended there, I have enjoyed socialising and sometimes maybe flirting with ladies (and occasional couples) has bought a great deal of success and enjoyment. I don’t intend that to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

Any chance is better than no chance. I joined more to find out about the club scene in the uk but I actually enjoy the forums most. Nice seeing like minded people interact with each other.

For me this is about research so when I go to a club I kind of have a better understanding.

Stop thinking about the chance of getting laid enjoy the site and remember it's a swingers site not tinder hookup site

Good luck though

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By *issT35Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Id say 40 would you agree ?"
you've made me feel real old now

No I wouldn't agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now

No I wouldn't agree "

Would you like to prove it?

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By *issT35Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now

No I wouldn't agree

Would you like to prove it?

I just turned 40 on Sunday, and hate to think of myself as 'middle aged'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now

No I wouldn't agree

Would you like to prove it?

I just turned 40 on Sunday, and hate to think of myself as 'middle aged'

I'm not old so that can only mean your not old.

Love my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id say 40 would you agree ?you've made me feel real old now

No I wouldn't agree

Would you like to prove it?

I just turned 40 on Sunday, and hate to think of myself as 'middle aged'

I think we both need to find somewhere nice and quite to talk about it. We have not reached middle age...YET!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Id say 40 would you agree ?

80 is quite young nowadays is it

not?"

Definitely is.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way.

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. "

This

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Fair to middling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x

The vast majority of guys I meet are in their thirties and forties actually - and very occasionally 50 or thereabouts!

Same here. I'd say the odds we're pretty decent OP, as long as you're nice

Ee, when I were a lad, middle aged was regarded as 40-60... Now I'm regarded as over the hill at 55!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

This

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way.

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. "

Also true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life gets better when your middle age. I'm wiser for my experiences and definitely still ready to show the youth a thing or two about respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

Close to none if you cannot accomodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late 30s to early 50s for O so your in the ideal age range...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hope for a 58 yr old then. Lok

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Seriously op - your profile on fab - whatever your age or gender - is your marketing and advertising opportunity.

The better it is, the more chance you have of getting meets.

Look at it and ask yourself - if I were a woman, would I meet me?

Make sure your pictures are flattering but not deceiving. Clothes should be smart, hair tidy or ‘sexily scruffed’ if that suits you - and penis pics - should you wish to display them - should be kept to a minimum.

Always check the background in your pics is tidy and that you suck your tummy in and your shoulders back when taking body shots.

Re the profile text - ask yourself ‘what can I offer that a 25 year old guy with perfect abs can’t?

The answer is generally (but sadly not always I’ve found) a greater level of sophistication, more varied conversation, greater life experience resulting (hopefully) in you being more interesting, and the ability to laugh at oneself where appropriate. Essentially - you’re possibly going to be a better dinner companion/all night and breakfast next day companion than a fuck and go prospect - so focus on that!

In bed I’ve met great lovers of all ages so I won’t generalise - but I’m sure you know where your skills lie. Try to articulate them without sounding arrogant.

And remember - when they open up again - clubs and socials are a great way to meet people and get the ball rolling.

Good luck op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men in thier 50's 60's hell yes please

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

With an essentially non existent profile like yours - none at all tbh.

Most forumites have spent many hours on theirs over the years - taking plenty of imaginative and current pictures- and writing and re-writing profile text to make sure it states what they offer and what they’re looking for.

For a female this is a courtesy - I have a fanny so I’d get a fuck on here showing my hairy ankles!

For a male - it’s essential!

Good luck

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

There might be hope for me after all, then

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Seriously op - your profile on fab - whatever your age or gender - is your marketing and advertising opportunity.

The better it is, the more chance you have of getting meets.

Look at it and ask yourself - if I were a woman, would I meet me?

Always check the background in your pics is tidy and that you suck your tummy in and your shoulders back when taking body shots.

Re the profile text - ask yourself ‘what can I offer that a 25 year old guy with perfect abs can’t?

In bed I’ve met great lovers of all ages so I won’t generalise - but I’m sure you know where your skills lie. Try to articulate them without sounding arrogant.

And remember - when they open up again - clubs and socials are a great way to meet people and get the ball rolling.

Good luck op!

Pretty much nailed it

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"Fair to decent.

If you are fair and decent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 52, I found that there are a lot of young ladies find "mid aged" men more attractive than the young ones.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

Speak for yourself pal. I’ve met some lovely people on here.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"
. As a 52 year old single guy who can’t accommodate and not the most photogenic I don’t get much success by sending messages. I realise that a lot of people have their age filters set at 50 so there is no point getting upset just respect their preference and move on. I have more success by attending socials , attending members only club and attending a spa. I also have exchanged messages and met with other forum users with who like the way I come across on my posts.Just be respectful , polite and level headed and you will be fine.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I think you have a very good chance of finding what you are looking for. It’s all about your approach I think. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 44 years old I deffo feel to old on here sometimes....also not sure if I am now classed as middle age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re sexy, a good chance "

I'll give up now then

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"What chance do us guys have on here lol x"

How successful are you with women in real life (pre lockdown) ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Positivity and a sense of humour can go a long way.

Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to be young with the body of a Greek God to be successful. "

I’m living proof of that statement

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