FabSwingers.com forum: What are Older women looking for

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Out of curiosity I’m just looking for help, I’ve been with a few women older than me oldest being 38 and it’s been great, I love older women, but on this app I don’t have much luck. I know not everyone is going to find me attractive, I’m 25 and I’m thinking this app is out of my range as I’m either blocked by a lot of women or they have in their profile 29/30 plus only. Any tips or thoughts, I’m open minded

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Their reading glasses

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A lot will like the idea that you like them for them and not their age OP

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating! "

You might get something similar one day you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."

Yeah I’ve definitely noticed, older women love younger guys but just not as young as me, it’s tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marks and Spencer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot will like the idea that you like them for them and not their age OP

I’m not someone with a weird fantasy of older women. I just enjoy the maturity and comfort of being with someone older , could even be someone in their late 20’s

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

A nice sit down with a cup of tea.

Mrs TMN x

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."

I like ^ her ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the women in the age range you’re looking for that are open to or ‘into’ you get guys are out there. I mean lots of guys your age or younger have had meets with them on fab. It’s okay if people have filters because they’re not interested in younger men. It’s going to sound like absolute cheese, but I think it’s all in the personality and in how you treat people. When you’re looking, make sure you have the filter ‘I’m the age they’re looking for’ on and also just be patient. A good profile is bound to grab someone’s attention at some point!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"A nice sit down with a cup of tea.

Mrs TMN x"

Cup with a saucer

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

"Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"A nice sit down with a cup of tea.

Mrs TMN x

Cup with a saucer

Oh fuck that, one more thing to wash up!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Cake

I feel like you’re reading my mind

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx

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Also a great imagination I hate straight forward meat n two veg sex, I love it when guys are really filthy with me and think they are shocking me but never have been yet! But still hoping.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

OP - it’s about preference here - it’s just as frustrating as an older guy and you see a lady in her forties and her cutoff age is 50 but that’s their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cake

I feel like you’re reading my mind

Haha you know it Belle

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A years subscription to Knitting Weekly ??

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"A nice sit down with a cup of tea.

Mrs TMN x

Cup with a saucer

Oh fuck that, one more thing to wash up!

Someone who can accommodate and has a dishwasher?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!

You might get something similar one day you know."

100%! Already got a dripping tap

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"A years subscription to Knitting Weekly ?? "

I wish someone would teach me how to knit

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Cake

I feel like you’re reading my mind

Haha you know it Belle

Keep going you will find it interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guys who can still get hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of these comments have made me laugh.

I'd love a cup of tea and cake at m&s.

You're in there!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating! "

Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!

Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!

Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week..

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!

Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!

Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week..

Treated for rot & worm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."

*checks Amazon for joke books*

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By *nogs and SpanksWoman
over a year ago

Herts/Beds border

"Cake

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good sex that's all and so long as they are not full of themselves.xx

Also a great imagination I hate straight forward meat n two veg sex, I love it when guys are really filthy with me and think they are shocking me but never have been yet! But still hoping.

xx"

Meat n two veg sex is the best term Ive heard for vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you look for couples at all? Suspect you would be quite popular as a third party for couples shenanigans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you look for couples at all? Suspect you would be quite popular as a third party for couples shenanigans. "

Why do you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They look for men who want to meet them for them, and not because of the ‘I’m fucking an older woman!’ gimmick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you look for couples at all? Suspect you would be quite popular as a third party for couples shenanigans.

Why do you think that?"

He seems pretty mature, confident in himself, able to have the conversations about fantasies. Views after reading just one forum post

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This older woman who is by no means representative of all and probably double the age the op is thinking of, is looking for men with humour not based on tired cliché, respect and an understanding of sensual and erotic sex.

I'm not particularly keen on being stereotyped due to my age for *any*reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They look for men who want to meet them for them, and not because of the ‘I’m fucking an older woman!’ gimmick "

I appreciate all replies but please let’s not project here I previously stated that “ I’m not someone with a weird fantasy of older women. I just enjoy the maturity and comfort of being with someone older , could even be someone in their late 20’s“ I want to be with someone for who they are not age Lool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how does tea and red velvet/carrot cake sound ???

seems to be a popular wave

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Those really thin bladder control pants that are advertised every time I'm eating!

Some of us look after our pelvic floor and do t need them !!!

Yes...I sanded and varnished mine last week..

Mine needs very little work

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

[Removed by poster at 26/05/20 13:38:01]

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Knitting patterns and bingo halls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think a hairdresser.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Waxing ... excess chin hair !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would think a hairdresser. "

Isn't everyone at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glasses

There on top of your head love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis/ vagina/ both*

*Delete as appropriate.

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By *iger-NWMan
over a year ago

Preston

Do I detect some misogyny breaking out here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their teeth

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do I detect some misogyny breaking out here?"

No a whiff of stereotyping maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I detect some misogyny breaking out here?"

Bucketfuls and from men of a certain age in particular as per

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No misogyny allowed in my forum. Thank you and bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crossword puzzle or a bottle of gin

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

How old is an older woman? and I would imagine whatever age the female she will be looking at who she is attracted to and not a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old is an older woman? and I would imagine whatever age the female she will be looking at who she is attracted to and not a number "
45

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

An older women would be any women a year about the age a man is no!? I'm 32 and I class the "older women" to be 35 onwards!

I'd use the term "mature" women for 40+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bigger knickers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Older woman isn’t a general term, it dependant on the person using it, I’m 25 so 29+ I’ll start looking at you like you’re old loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their glasses?

Knitting needles?

A double parking space?

Bingo hall?

Any of the above?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bottle of wine duh

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Personality, experience, warmth, intelligence, sensuality and stamina, good conversation for starters.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Women are all different... we don't all suddenly want the same things just because we got older, it hard older than you.

There is no magic answer.

Forget thinking about a wonans age, if you fancy her and you meet her requirements, send an interesting message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality, experience, warmth, intelligence, sensuality and stamina, good conversation for starters.

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you called good lady freya

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

When I turned 50 on fab I suddenly started receiving messages from young guys interested in me as they considered me an ‘older woman’. I don’t see myself as that and thought they had a fetish for granny sex - which is absolutely fine but not me!

On a serious note I would not make any moves on people probably under 35.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"bigger knickers

Mine are like dental floss and I’m over 45 oooops

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality, experience, warmth, intelligence, sensuality and stamina, good conversation for starters.

I like this answer, really appreciate it. Thank you

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"I do like men younger than me but not as young as you. I love tall men who make me laugh and have as much stanima as i have."
having seen your profile and now red that I can’t help but think you are one hot fuck!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

The problem you have, is that many women/couples on here now have children your age and don't meet with people in a similar age group.

If /when things get back to normal, try a club, people are less likely to write you off because age isn't something they ask about straight away or maybe at all and if you have made a good impression may forget the age thing as you tick all of their other boxes...

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A helping hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bigger knickers

Mine are like dental floss and I’m over 45 oooops

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dental floss lol hey you have a great figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A helping hand

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up the stairs

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