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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Good age in real life but crap on this site. Too young for most women. Anyone else having this issue? Any older women care to disagree

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Good age in real life but crap on this site. Too young for most women. Anyone else having this issue? Any older women care to disagree

Yes too young for some women who have sons and grandsons your age, but good luck

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

That’s the kind of answer I get a lot

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"That’s the kind of answer I get a lot

One day you will be older and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s someone on here for you I’m sure. But if you can’t fulfill your fantasy just yet, don’t worry. It’ll come

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"That’s the kind of answer I get a lot

Sorry

you are in the minority here, why not go to normal pubs and bars, when allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. Does it involve baby sitting too?

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

I’ll be old enough for the older women by time I can pull in a pub again

Someone put me back in my box and open me again in 3 years would you??

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Depends. Does it involve baby sitting too?"

Does tucking me in count?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I’ll be old enough for the older women by time I can pull in a pub again

Someone put me back in my box and open me again in 3 years would you??

Haha!

good sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up, I've been naughty with lads around your age. A good sense of humour will do you well. Perhaps change using the word milf so much. I don't mind it but there are many women who do x

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don't give up, I've been naughty with lads around your age. A good sense of humour will do you well. Perhaps change using the word milf so much. I don't mind it but there are many women who do x"

Thanks, if only I could sleep with my sense of humour.

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Mate stick with it... seriously!

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Mate stick with it... seriously! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give up, I've been naughty with lads around your age. A good sense of humour will do you well. Perhaps change using the word milf so much. I don't mind it but there are many women who do x"

Also not all of us older women are mums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe (when allowed) try a social OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively?

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively? "

I don’t think I can be fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively?

I don’t think I can be fussy

Brilliant attitude, you'll go far with that

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively?

I don’t think I can be fussy

Brilliant attitude, you'll go far with that

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively?

I don’t think I can be fussy

Brilliant attitude, you'll go far with that

We will see about that

haha

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"By "milfs" do you mean an older woman or women who are mothers exclusively?

I don’t think I can be fussy

Brilliant attitude, you'll go far with that

We will see about that

haha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age are you looking for OP... Milf could be a pretty big range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odds are not in my your favour, but there are definitely women who meet guys your age on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is, at 30, I don't like to feel like a cougar already

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I don’t have children but still feels too young for me. sorry! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely understand you, I’m 25 and not really had any luck, only met one woman so far since using this. From my experience it’s a site for at least 28/29 onwards. But I’m hard headed Lool ain’t leaving till I can find a good fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your verification it seems you are smashing it on fab so just treat it for what it is or should be which is just a bit of fun from real life.

Best of luck.

If it helps I’d love to see you hanging out the back of my wife(when Cummings says it’s ok). but I doubt she’d be as keen as me.

Stay frosty out there.

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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

To be fairly honest, even at 25 i struggle with the same thing! I think some people would make an exception based on looks and personality, if you look older and act more mature, maybe someone out there has noticed you? :o

All i know is, i get told by 35+ that I'm too young.. And I'm mid 20s haha

I do wish you luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much too young for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few successful young men on fab.

However - most men your age tend to think of fab as ‘instafuck’ rather than a swinging website. They join to shag about, not to swing. And that’s their downfall.

But - you can be successful. It’s all about how you approach it

I’m 23 and yeah, men under 30 is too young for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll be old enough for the older women by time I can pull in a pub again

Someone put me back in my box and open me again in 3 years would you??

Dude when I was your age I had much better luck IRL. On a weekend I’d go to Liverpool and head down Matthew St (where the cavern club is) with a couple of mates from my ship. We’d plonk ourselves down at a table near the stage but also near a group of more mature women. We’d find a way to strike up conversation but it’d all be aimed about the music we were all listening too for a good hour before we’d offer to push the tables together and buy drinks and take it from there. The next night we’d be at it again with a different group (like London, loads of tourists!).

Even in my mid-late 20’s on here I’d rarely get a second look. Not trying to put you off here but tinder will probably net you a lot more success. Either way good look to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you’re too young for me and many others on here.

Your profile text reads like that of an 18 yo. It doesn’t do you any favours imo.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You'll be to some peoples taste and not to others.

Which is pretty much par for the course for everybody on FAB.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Just get on your swiping apps

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a fit and good looking fella from what I can see and appear to have a good sense of humour, just stick with it and keep chatting, definitely try some socials or clubs when we are all allowed, there will be some lovely ladies/couples that will love to join you I’m sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also definitely get rid of the MILF bit , maybe read some of the other guys profiles to get an idea of how to improve your text , good luck !

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Don’t give up hope there’s someone here for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don’t give up hope there’s someone here for everyone

Thank you beautiful

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?"

Reimagine myself as a cool, devil may care young man who people worship on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?

Reimagine myself as a cool, devil may care young man who people worship on this site

Oh, I’d wait until you were 41 then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?

Reimagine myself as a cool, devil may care young man who people worship on this site

Oh, I’d wait until you were 41 then"

And female

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?

Reimagine myself as a cool, devil may care young man who people worship on this site

Oh, I’d wait until you were 41 then

Know any good surgeons?

And female"

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

All power to you. As long as you know you're own mind, are responsible and respectful then give it some welly.

I get a little fed up of people's attitudes (in general) towards young people - you're old enough to fight for us and vote...

Have fun.

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By *addycool76 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"All power to you. As long as you know you're own mind, are responsible and respectful then give it some welly.

I get a little fed up of people's attitudes (in general) towards young people - you're old enough to fight for us and vote...

Have fun.

Great speech

thank you x

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Personally I think Mrs C prefers younger guys as long as they are Mature enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good age in real life but crap on this site. Too young for most women. Anyone else having this issue? Any older women care to disagree

Nope, can't disagree with you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’d plonk ourselves down at a table near the stage but also near a group of more mature women. We’d find a way to strike up conversation but it’d all be aimed about the music we were all listening too for a good hour before we’d offer to push the tables together and buy drinks and take it from there."

Masterclass

18yos on fabs... I always wonder if they may be lying about their age and I might be chatting and and arranging to meet a 16 or worse. Since there is no age verification of any sort I don't think I am being unreasonably paranoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whitwoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should do fine on here, just be patient....

But please never invite a couple or older woman over to play in your parents house....

Trust me on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should do fine on here, just be patient....

But please never invite a couple or older woman over to play in your parents house....

Trust me on this one"

they might know the parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely understand you, I’m 25 and not really had any luck, only met one woman so far since using this. From my experience it’s a site for at least 28/29 onwards. But I’m hard headed Lool ain’t leaving till I can find a good fwb "

I'm not so sure. I'm 27 and people complain about my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should do fine on here, just be patient....

But please never invite a couple or older woman over to play in your parents house....

Trust me on this one

they might know the parents "

Never thought of that

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

"Mate stick with it... seriously!

OP (Oliver) Respect mate! personally Ive said it before and will say it again this site needs and should welcome more younger blood but hey sadly not all share this view.

Have you tried going to a swing club?

After lockdown of course, before the lockdown police rock up haha.

In the forum section theres a swing club and events for pre (and post lockdown obviously)

One of the clubs in my area does a themed night Young Guns and Mums, where you would be welcomed by peeps without the negative attitude

I cant msg you, due to your filters but if you wanna PM me for a gab feel free

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Keep trying mate and get yourself on tinder and bumble for more people your own age.

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

"Keep trying mate and get yourself on tinder and bumble for more people your own age. "

But isnt this is why hes on here, as hes not looking for people his own age??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should do fine on here, just be patient....

But please never invite a couple or older woman over to play in your parents house....

Trust me on this one"

Then the parents come home early. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should do fine on here, just be patient....

But please never invite a couple or older woman over to play in your parents house....

Trust me on this one

Then the parents come home early. ...."

Mothers tend frown upon women their own age having sex in their homes....

They kinda think being the older person , you should have your own place for sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just waiting until I’m 21.

Until you do what?

Reimagine myself as a cool, devil may care young man who people worship on this site

Oh, I’d wait until you were 41 then"

Can anyone be classed as cool on FAB?

I'm way cool but on here I'm Billy no mates.

You got used to it after the 200th knock back.????

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