FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Been musing again....

Are you a serial blocker?

Do you block for hardly any reason?

I block if I reject someone.

I block for abuse.

I block for forum content.

I block if I know I’ll not get on with that person.

Just wondering how you wonderful Fabbers manage this.

Please stay with site rules when posting.

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if someone is rude to me. If I'm not interested I just let them pass by.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If I message someone and it's set as deleted without a reply then I will block. This is so they don't show up in a search again. Same if it's set as read but no reply for more than a week.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I block if:

They are abusive

They send me the same introductory copy and paste message within days of each other

If they come across nasty in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block those too close for comfort.

As for forumites? Why waste energy on the matter? I simply dont engage with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they are rude/overly crude or abusing

If they are overly persistent

If they message me and call me a slut like someone just has!

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I will block if someone is being abusive or if someone is continually messaging me after I've said a polite " Thanks but no thanks".

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

A town and place not in the UK

Rude or disgusting messages.

And now a new addition, unsolicited friend requests.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We’ve never blocked anyone... at least not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only block people if they are rude or we have a feeling it’s a fake profile

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I only block those who are rude or damn right crude, can’t take no for an answer or the rare occasion blocked for their views shown in the forum as they are not my kind of person and want nothing to do with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been musing again....

Are you a serial blocker?

Do you block for hardly any reason?

I block if I reject someone.

I block for abuse.

I block for forum content.

I block if I know I’ll not get on with that person.

Just wondering how you wonderful Fabbers manage this.

Please stay with site rules when posting.

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "
i counter block thats all, i don't take offence to what people say although i do judge them on it as they do me but ultimately how can i be offended by someone i don't know, i can't i enjoy life and i enjoy people, I'm fun and life is fun if it isn't you're not doing it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was blocked after sending a face pic. I am always courteous and expect the same back. I clearly have a beautiful face

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By *egalBeetleWoman
over a year ago

London

Same as others, block rude/persistent people.

I also block profiles that view me but I'm REALLY not interested in.

Or profiles that that I dont want on my feed e.g. a guy who posted the same lot of pics on rotation and a couple selling crusty knickers.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I block all local profiles who I have no interest in or have no interest in me apart from forumites

My block list is in the 1000s

I have never blocked a forumite because I disagree with them. Dont understood this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block and currently have no one on my block list, but I’m blocked by many. I’m surprised it isn’t more. I even tell people to block me on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as others, block rude/persistent people.

I also block profiles that view me but I'm REALLY not interested in.

Or profiles that that I dont want on my feed e.g. a guy who posted the same lot of pics on rotation and a couple selling crusty knickers."

I am amazed that people firstly sell used underwear and that people buy them! I do like a smell of knickers now and again, but wouldn’t ever consider buying them! Also how many people would have sniffed them from the postal service before you got them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever blocked a few & that would have been because they were complete weirdos. Inked however has zero tolerance & has blocked 100s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for a number of reasons:

One word answers constantly in a conversation.

Deleted message with no reply.

Anyone asking to meet at the moment.

Abusive messages.

Any message from a T/V.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Block list is currently 100% blatant meeters currently.

Anyone else, eh I don't get bothered much

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By *oodoodMan
over a year ago

Suffolk / Essex borders

I got blocked after replying Puddleduck to the status of 'can you guess my last name' for someone called Jemima.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if people are rude to me or I get a man bombarding me with messages even if I've told them I'm straight and not interested other wise I dont block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block for a number of reasons:

One word answers constantly in a conversation.

Deleted message with no reply.

Anyone asking to meet at the moment.

Abusive messages.

Any message from a T/V."

But then for some of the above occasions, wouldn’t it be courteous just to message and say ‘thanks, but no thanks’ first?

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By *egalBeetleWoman
over a year ago

London

"I block for a number of reasons:

One word answers constantly in a conversation.

Deleted message with no reply.

Anyone asking to meet at the moment.

Abusive messages.

Any message from a T/V.

But then for some of the above occasions, wouldn’t it be courteous just to message and say ‘thanks, but no thanks’ first?"

Nevvvvverr ever reply with why you not keen!

People dont take it well!

Then it's a whole other conversation and begging and then insults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block for a number of reasons:

One word answers constantly in a conversation.

Deleted message with no reply.

Anyone asking to meet at the moment.

Abusive messages.

Any message from a T/V.

But then for some of the above occasions, wouldn’t it be courteous just to message and say ‘thanks, but no thanks’ first?"

I actually do that and then i block them.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

My block list is zero.

Once a door is closed on here it rarely reopens....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I block if they are rude, if they wont stop messaging even when asked to, if someone has blocked me I block back, Very rarely due to what they post in the forum usually I just make private notes. Some times if someone keeps popping up in my updates with crappy updates I'll block.Or if they are a fake account I'll block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block for rudeness, open to meeting during lockdown, and profiles that are not what we are looking for. Saves keep viewing profiles we won't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to only block if someone continuously messages after I've declined an offer, or if someone is rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really care why other people block, I certainly don’t ?!

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Didn’t bug me at all... if they block me after a first message... just means I’m not for them.. sometimes I might block someone when I get messages and don’t find their pics attractive ... I’d rather Block or get block it takes them out of the search engine.

There is someone out there for everyone..... never take rejection as a negative... it’s not rejection it just means one side isn’t attracted... and attraction is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block for a number of reasons:

One word answers constantly in a conversation.

Deleted message with no reply.

Anyone asking to meet at the moment.

Abusive messages.

Any message from a T/V.

But then for some of the above occasions, wouldn’t it be courteous just to message and say ‘thanks, but no thanks’ first?

Nevvvvverr ever reply with why you not keen!

People dont take it well!

Then it's a whole other conversation and begging and then insults "

I wouldn’t even say you need to go into detail. A simple not interested but thanks would be good enough for me. If they get abusive, then 100% they deserve to be blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block If someone doesn’t interest me or is rude or wants to to meet during lockdown, try to engage with everybody and try to be respectful as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve blocked for forum content, bios and abuse.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Very rarely block - in fact think I've done so less than 5 times in 3 and a half years and currently only have two on my list - a woman who was hideously homophobic on a thread and a guy who persistently sent me messages inviting me for a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked for sending a dick pic to a lady. Apparently she is not into small talk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 25/05/20 10:36:41]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude or disgusting messages.

And now a new addition, unsolicited friend requests."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's been a day on fab where I didn't block anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there's been a day on fab where I didn't block anyone."

I am waiting for the day to get blocked by you..It would be the next best thing, to sleeping with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there's been a day on fab where I didn't block anyone.

I am waiting for the day to get blocked by you..It would be the next best thing, to sleeping with you!

Today's your lucky day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there's been a day on fab where I didn't block anyone.

I am waiting for the day to get blocked by you..It would be the next best thing, to sleeping with you!

Today's your lucky day!

I have got a massive hard on now. You are getting me excited!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suffer from RSI from blocking.....

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Ive only got blocked people on here that know me in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far too lazy to block. I don't read many of my messages let alone reply to them so I never get abuse. I'm not bothered enough by anyone on the forum to go to the effort of blocking. I can't remember the last time I blocked someone or indeed why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive only got blocked people on here that know me in real life"

Is this [not] the real life? Is this just fantasy?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I have only blocked one person that because I know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had the need to block anyone... Yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does fab itself put blocks between accounts does anyone know, or is it always the case that you actually have to block yourself. This is for the I havnt blocked you, you have blocked me scenario.

Just curious.

My block list is empty, I keep my profile tranquil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does fab itself put blocks between accounts does anyone know, or is it always the case that you actually have to block yourself. This is for the I havnt blocked you, you have blocked me scenario.

Just curious.

My block list is empty, I keep my profile tranquil

yep

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I hardly ever block anyone, the ones I have are because they have not taken no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really be arsed unless they're a persistent menace or stalking. I don't think most ppl would care if they received a Nippy block, but I do think some ppl block for effect and a reaction....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am indeed a serial blocker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you report someone they automatically get blocked. If someone’s rude to me I always report their messages. Chances are if they’re rude to me, they’re going to be rude to someone else so have no business being on the site. Whether they get removed by admin or not I don’t know, all I can do is bring it to their attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who give me the heave!

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I block if I’ve repeatedly said no to someone ... to be fair the first no should answer their question ....

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I block people who give me the heave!

That made me laugh .... brutal

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m a happy blocker ... if your missing a comma I will block ha ha

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My block list is pretty short.

I've very rarely had reason to block in the last three years.

It's genetally either if someone persistently messages after a "no thanks" or if I've seen something particularly dodgy in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with blocking someone you have no interest in interacting with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people who give me the heave!

That made me laugh .... brutal

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I block if I'm not what they're looking for, if they say they only sleep with BBC, for example, it saves me from having to read their profile again.

I also block incompatible opinions on the forums.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I block people who send the same message more than once, people I know

, anyone who is slightly annoying to be honest

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

"I’m a happy blocker ... if your missing a comma I will block ha ha

You're*

should I block you for that

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Lots of different reasons. I’m a mardy arse. I once went through a stage of HATING the word ‘dreamers’ so anytime I read it it was a block!

Also. I’m anxious AF. I was telling a forumite the the other day how I often go through threads and check on profiles to see if I’m blocked or not for absolutely no real reason whatsoever. Madness.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I block very few. They really have to cross the line for me to block them. If the message is overly rude or not nice i tell them off and sometimes they apologise.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

I only block if i click on a profile and see im blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suffer from RSI from blocking....."

Sure it’s the blocking that has your wrist all sore?

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've blocked someone local to me because they spam so many pictures of themselves that there was nothing else in my updates feed.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have yet to block anyone I know I am blocked by some people but that’s ok it their right to block the block button is there to use for whatever reasons you want.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I block those who send me messages that are abusive or where the content makes me uncomfortable for some reason.

Those who keep messaging despite being told no, also get blocked along with anyone contacting me on behalf of someone else to get round said block

Until lockdown I only had about 3 people blocked. It's now a rather longer list.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Only block if someone is persistent! Some guys will just keep sending messages. Of course, block if they are rude too xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I've been blocked by people I never spoken to. Go figure that?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Or I never sent a message to or even looked at their profile. Crazy

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I've blocked someone local to me because they spam so many pictures of themselves that there was nothing else in my updates feed. "

I had to block someone local on my news feed who kept posting vag pics. I really not into women. Sorry

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I block if I'm not what they're looking for, if they say they only sleep with BBC, for example, it saves me from having to read their profile again.

I also block incompatible opinions on the forums. "

You can still read their opinions. Just you two can't view each others profile

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We only block rude and abusive profiles

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I block for all sorts of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously i block the bullshitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an indiscriminate blocker..

There is no rhyme or reason to it

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I use the block button as a filter, if I dont like their profile or if I message and they delete, then they don't pop up in future searches and that removes the temptation to re-message.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto "

I don't drive a fiat though. Must be another reason

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I block for a few reasons

Folk being rude

Folk sending the same message over and over- when I had replied

Pushy

Wanna fuck?

And now - a new reason - covidiots who are clearly still meeting and think I should because, well I MUST be gagging for it! Before they are blocked they are reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto "

If someone owns up to driving a shit car on here I think that's a great endearing quality! All the other devious so and so's will try to convince you they drive porches, range rovers and mercs when their pics have stained carpets and laundry baskets in the background.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We block if people have a list Of hurdles, such a sign of closed minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

I already know you're lovely. Yuri said so, and a friend of Yuri's is a friend of mine because you must be soooooo fucking tolerant...

no seriously, you're both gems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been musing again....

Are you a serial blocker?

Do you block for hardly any reason?

I block if I reject someone.

I block for abuse.

I block for forum content.

I block if I know I’ll not get on with that person.

Just wondering how you wonderful Fabbers manage this.

Please stay with site rules when posting.

Answers in the thread please.

Bhubaysi xx "

As above really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

Do you just lean your arm out the window so it looks like you meant to wind it down in December....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

Do you just lean your arm out the window so it looks like you meant to wind it down in December....?

Where is he? I miss him when he goes but then he always pops back up when I least expect it!

I really should do it so I look cooler

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I block if they send me a dick pic straight away.

I block people who send one word messages or ones asking if i wanna fuck or blow them right now.

I also block those who ask me to shit not sut on thier face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

Do you just lean your arm out the window so it looks like you meant to wind it down in December....?

Where is he? I miss him when he goes but then he always pops back up when I least expect it!

I really should do it so I look cooler

If you looked any cooler then shit would start to freeze and shatter as you walked past it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

Do you just lean your arm out the window so it looks like you meant to wind it down in December....?

Where is he? I miss him when he goes but then he always pops back up when I least expect it!

I really should do it so I look cooler

If you looked any cooler then shit would start to freeze and shatter as you walked past it.....

!!! That’s the coolest anyone has made me sound! Ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes if I suspect that the owner drives a fiat Punto

I don’t want to brag but I drive a V reg Toyota Yaris with a broken window

Do you just lean your arm out the window so it looks like you meant to wind it down in December....?

Where is he? I miss him when he goes but then he always pops back up when I least expect it!

I really should do it so I look cooler

If you looked any cooler then shit would start to freeze and shatter as you walked past it.....

!!! That’s the coolest anyone has made me sound! Ever! "

Yvw, I'm just riding on your coat tails hoping to pick up some of your rejected fanny, it's the fab way....!

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