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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

People will often click on someone's profile before reading or deleting a message, if your profile shows exactly what you were looking for and yourself as you are if they are interested they will message back, if they don't feel they are suited to your profile they are likely to save both your time and theirs by not replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe less dick pics and maybe a smile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are more than a cock, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like you gave up before you started. Your profile says people will not bother reading it.. so you are saving more for later..actually many women do read and base whether they want to reply partially on that. And that's a lot of cock pics. You might want some variety;-)

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Sorry but no imagination and just boring cock pictures! xx

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

50% non legal waffle....and bad dick pics, would you reply to yourself op?

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What are you putting in your initial message? If it’s want to meet? Are you free now? You’ve got no chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also have couples FF as your looking to meet.

You may want to adjust that.

Like others have said maybe put the willy away and have some clothed or semi clothed shots in your pictures.

Also expand on your profile text. Before you come back and critique mine it is changed to what it normally is due to the reasons in my text.

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You should read a women’s profile, compliment her pics, give a good introduction of yourself, attach a face pic.. just be genuine, if you get rejected.... there is always someone out there for someone just not that person you messaged who didn’t reply or said “no thanks”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks "
is it 5 or 5 pics of your dick and there lieth your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a taser gun. It works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use a taser gun. It works!"
yes but kissing is a little one sided and you get the tingly lip sensation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they dont respond I steal their cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't message. Less disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe something is wrong with your phone or you have a faulty in box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use a taser gun. It works!yes but kissing is a little one sided and you get the tingly lip sensation "

Make sure you don't taser the pussy. Taser somewhere you wouldn't want to kiss. I taser her bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use a taser gun. It works!yes but kissing is a little one sided and you get the tingly lip sensation

Make sure you don't taser the pussy. Taser somewhere you wouldn't want to kiss. I taser her bum!"
her bum but surely that makes a mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know your feeling OP. To break the ice, I asked over 100 women, what their favourite soap in the shower was? Most of their response was "how the fuck did you get in here"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks "

Your pics are off putting, one tasteful dick pic if you must.

Take that stupid disclaimer off.

Write about you, make it interesting, I always read the profile, and would wonder why you would need to be discreet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do it from the heart Op bare your soul tell em what you really really want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is just a cock with feet.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks

Your pics are off putting, one tasteful dick pic if you must.

Take that stupid disclaimer off.

Write about you, make it interesting, I always read the profile, and would wonder why you would need to be discreet?"

This a thousand times this.

I clicked on your profile and that first close up cock shot just put me off. Think about what women want to see not what you want to show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some effort in to the text.

A range of pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm laughing there is a guy on here giving advice on how to message a woman but hasn't followed his own advice

Anyway OP there are so many factors on getting a reply but if you send hey how are you then you most likely won't get one. I look for something that engages me on a message the guy has to have a look that I like. Be in a suitable location and his words need to stimulate me.

Yes it's hard work but when a woman is getting high numbers of mail then she has to pick and choose who makes her want to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is just a cock with feet.

"
omg is this the meaning of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I’d do is take off the legal paragraph. Don’t know why but they annoy me so much, it looks lazy and like you’re trying to bulk up your profile because you have nothing to say.

Plus it doesn’t work and also OP out of all the public pictures do you really think someone is going to want to steal your pictures?

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

"

The guy said nobody responds to him, people have told him possible reasons.

Also just because it’s ‘a sex site’ doesn’t mean people will just fuck anybody. There has to be attraction.

There’s literally thousands of Male profiles on here so people have to make their profiles as appealing as possible. It helps massively if you’re attractive and in good shape. If you’re not then you have to be super nice or super funny and even then that wouldn’t work with someone like me, I don’t fuck funny, I fuck handsome guys in good shape and that’s probably true to most women here.

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

The guy said nobody responds to him, people have told him possible reasons.

Also just because it’s ‘a sex site’ doesn’t mean people will just fuck anybody. There has to be attraction.

There’s literally thousands of Male profiles on here so people have to make their profiles as appealing as possible. It helps massively if you’re attractive and in good shape. If you’re not then you have to be super nice or super funny and even then that wouldn’t work with someone like me, I don’t fuck funny, I fuck handsome guys in good shape and that’s probably true to most women here. "

Sorry hun it wasn't aimed at you

And yes I totally agree with your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

"

Yes, exactly this.

The women on here shouldn't be allowed a choice of who they want to meet and just open their legs to everyone

God bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

The guy said nobody responds to him, people have told him possible reasons.

Also just because it’s ‘a sex site’ doesn’t mean people will just fuck anybody. There has to be attraction.

There’s literally thousands of Male profiles on here so people have to make their profiles as appealing as possible. It helps massively if you’re attractive and in good shape. If you’re not then you have to be super nice or super funny and even then that wouldn’t work with someone like me, I don’t fuck funny, I fuck handsome guys in good shape and that’s probably true to most women here.

Sorry hun it wasn't aimed at you

And yes I totally agree with your comments

"

Take back your comment then and state that you were wrong and then you have to pinch your nut sack hard for 15 seconds. Don’t post another word unless it’s to say you’ve punished yourself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The site is full of men competing with you and we're in a national emergency which is stopping people meeting.

Men who perform better at giving others what they need before meets do better.

People need to see eho they find most sexually attractive.

They need to know what your personality is and find it attractive.

They need you to be sexually compatible, which means you selling how you are to them.

Anyone who does not do the simple basic things like this is ignoring others needs. So they move on to the next person who is.

It's not immediate easy clunge. And certainly not whilst people don't want to be infected. Some people only meet in clubs or hotels - these are shut.

A man who fails to deliver what people need before they even meet is the highest risk of doing the same sexually. People don't waste their precious time and energy on a possible no hoper. There are clueless people here. Will you be one of them? It's too high a risk that you will be, until they know otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell em your bank balance and show em your teeth if they are good you're in

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Think of your profile as your shop window on a busy high street. You need to make it as appealing as possible in order to attract peoples attention and intrigue them to want more.

Your profile needs a lot of work. Results are often determined by the effort put in.

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

The guy said nobody responds to him, people have told him possible reasons.

Also just because it’s ‘a sex site’ doesn’t mean people will just fuck anybody. There has to be attraction.

There’s literally thousands of Male profiles on here so people have to make their profiles as appealing as possible. It helps massively if you’re attractive and in good shape. If you’re not then you have to be super nice or super funny and even then that wouldn’t work with someone like me, I don’t fuck funny, I fuck handsome guys in good shape and that’s probably true to most women here.

Sorry hun it wasn't aimed at you

And yes I totally agree with your comments

Take back your comment then and state that you were wrong and then you have to pinch your nut sack hard for 15 seconds. Don’t post another word unless it’s to say you’ve punished yourself. "

Sorry boss don't whip me I'll be a good boy

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks "

You do know that people are not obliged to read or reply to any messages they receive, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks

You do know that people are not obliged to read or reply to any messages they receive, don't you?"
damnit........ rethink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Messaged a few people and don’t seem to get a response any advice? Thanks

You do know that people are not obliged to read or reply to any messages they receive, don't you?"

I would be devastated if you never replied to mine!

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

How many women do you message... ? You must have had a lot of no replies or rejections for you to put a post up like this... what do you normally put in a first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

"

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship with someone's cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship with someone's cock."

What is wrong with my cock? It wakes the neighborhood up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship with someone's cock.

What is wrong with my cock? It wakes the neighborhood up!"

I don't like to be woken up at 4.45am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship with someone's cock.

What is wrong with my cock? It wakes the neighborhood up!

I don't like to be woken up at 4.45am "

You have been with my cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are threads like this daily and we feel most guys just ignore the advice they are given,

We opened up our messages recently to guys and to be honest there are a few common trends that have already been mentioned that we have came across.

The bio and dick pics only make you just the same as 99% of the other single guy profiles on here of which there are many.

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"The guy asked for some advise not to be insulted

Just the same old on here I thought this was a sex site I didn't realise people were on here looking for love and relationships

I'm certainly not looking for a relationship with someone's cock."

Glad to hear it sorry I don't plaster my face all over this site lol

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