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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

at what point do you class someone as a friend? When do you send a friend request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After you've had sex and verified eachother

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"After you've had sex and verified eachother "

FAF?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I only add people I've met and expect to meet again into my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After you've had sex and verified eachother

FAF? "

Oh go on then.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

After have meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often forget to ask!!!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It just depends how things are flowing. You get a feel and if you'd like to see more of them then you just ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested adding someone I'd been chatting to for a couple of weeks as a friend and she basically made me feel stupid, asking why it was so important It wasn't important, I just thought it would be nice to add a friend as we had chatted so much.

I don't chat to her anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People ask to early or even don’t ask at all and they just want to perv at your pics.

I might ask or accept if a meet is agreed and like others say... After the meet!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I add them If I've met them at a social and want to take things further or we already have sex so I can tease them

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"After you've had sex and verified eachother "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"at what point do you class someone as a friend? When do you send a friend request? "

Usually when we've chatted a bit and agreed to add each other as friends.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as possible so you can add them to the list of people you never talk too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks. I wouldn't meet someone that hasn't asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at what point do you class someone as a friend? When do you send a friend request? "
i always let them send a request, if its important to them they will

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By *samaleMan
over a year ago

tralee/newcastlewest

I don't know... They all just seem to add me..!!! NOT.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept them from people I like chatting to

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

We just accept all friends requests.

If they have no pics then its an unfriend.

Don't see why they should wank over ours when they have no pics for us to wank to. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When arranging the meet or have met already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only add people I've met and expect to meet again into my friends list"

The same for us as there are way to many picture hunters.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've met them or if we have chatted a bit online and may potentially meet or if I see someone as a online only friend

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Is it not the same as real life, some you quickly realise you want them around alot more. I have no set criteria of how long, or what has to happen for them to be a friend but its easier for an acquaintance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I accept them from people I like chatting to "

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’ve met their extended family and work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely waiting until you have there seamen splashed on ya face is maybe putting the horse before the cart. It might me just me though ??

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"at what point do you class someone as a friend? When do you send a friend request?

Usually when we've chatted a bit and agreed to add each other as friends.

Cal"

this

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We just accept all friends requests.

If they have no pics then its an unfriend.

Don't see why they should wank over ours when they have no pics for us to wank to. xx"

I have pictures

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
over a year ago

newmarket

Just after i cum inside them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends on here are people i have actually met with or chatted to at length and intend to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’ve been chatting well and both want to meet each other then I will add as friends but I like to be asked and I always ask if it ok to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 0 friends on here

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By *ottpair243Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield/Leeds


"It just depends how things are flowing. You get a feel and if you'd like to see more of them then you just ask."

Our sentiment here

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I add people I've either met or intend meeting. I never accepted random requests.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

When I’m being nosey and want to see their friends only pics

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Usually once met and found we are on the same wavelength and very occasionally when we have been chatting to someone for a long time and not got around to meeting that we feel have become like friends. Bloody annoying when you get friend requests from people when you haven’t even had a chat, what is the point in that, personal bug bear grrrrr! lol

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By *uck1buddyMan
over a year ago

midlands

I’ve chatted to women for a certain space of time and they’ve added me as a friend so I can see their private pictures.

The next day it’s like they’ve had a change of heart and deleted me as a friend.

Very confusing.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Our friends list is people we have actually met.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My friends are people I’ve met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to accept most requests as honestly I don't have anything in my friends section that is particularly different to what's in my public section, there's just more of it. Most guys send me requests because they want to see my photos and I'm happy to be looked at, so it's all good.

Anyone I actually befriend or want to meet, I'll move to another platform with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to accept most requests as honestly I don't have anything in my friends section that is particularly different to what's in my public section, there's just more of it. Most guys send me requests because they want to see my photos and I'm happy to be looked at, so it's all good.

Anyone I actually befriend or want to meet, I'll move to another platform with."

Yep, this for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok when you ask if they mind if you send them one and they say yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only add people we’re interested in spending time with usually, we keep our circle small. We’d usually expect it to have been discussed in chat before sending one, we’d never accept one from somebody who hasn’t previously been talking to us x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I suggested adding someone I'd been chatting to for a couple of weeks as a friend and she basically made me feel stupid, asking why it was so important It wasn't important, I just thought it would be nice to add a friend as we had chatted so much.

I don't chat to her anymore."

That's unpleasant to be made to feel stupid, especially after already chatting.

At the very least she could have declined in a mpre thoughtful way.

If I'm chatting like this I like to see more of the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggested adding someone I'd been chatting to for a couple of weeks as a friend and she basically made me feel stupid, asking why it was so important It wasn't important, I just thought it would be nice to add a friend as we had chatted so much.

I don't chat to her anymore.

That's unpleasant to be made to feel stupid, especially after already chatting.

At the very least she could have declined in a mpre thoughtful way.

If I'm chatting like this I like to see more of the person.

"

Yeah I didn't think the belittling was necessary. As this thread has shown, adding friends isn't a big deal to most people.

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