FabSwingers.com forum: Females, Men, Couples: your libido?

By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

High very very high

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull

Very high...always has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?"

Can o ly speak for myself of course..

D. Very high 100%

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Very high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?"

I think there's a lot of swingers who don't really like sex at all

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably high but the right person can make it very, very high.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

e) much more than “very high”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tooooo high

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"e) much more than “very high”

Is that only with a partner or do you masturbate a lot when single?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"tooooo high

Only with a partner or masturbate a lot when single? x

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

Lucy's is D+ and Ians is A-B

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"VERY high.

I've been toy shopping with friends and been shocked how tame and boring the vibrators are that they've picked saying how great they are "

So when you don't have a partner you masturbate a lot to satisfy yourself?

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Lucy's is D+ and Ians is A-B "

Hence your like of hot wife scenarios?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?"

Very high but hardly fulfilled

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Probably high but the right person can make it very, very high. "

How often do you have sex with the right person?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High, but the right person can move me into the very high category.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"High, but the right person can move me into the very high category."

How often would you typically have sex if with the right person? Do you masturbate a lot whilst single to satisfy urge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A-

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Probably high but the right person can make it very, very high.

How often do you have sex with the right person?!"

Like 3/4 times in a day.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Probably high but the right person can make it very, very high.

How often do you have sex with the right person?!

Like 3/4 times in a day. "

I think that is a perfect amount. Maximum pleasure without it becoming too much stimulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D...always about the D!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very high - for the two of us

L x

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"D...always about the D!"

Ha ha good answer

How many orgasms a day keep you satisfied?

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high - for the two of us

L x"

Well matched then! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up and down. Depends how much I’m being teased

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ours can vary depending on what else is happening in our lives at the time

When on holiday our libido is through the roof, when working very long shifts, libido is low.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Very high

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Low to medium at the min. Which is bad as dels is high...

Bloody annoying as i love sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very high and a little bit more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D...always about the D!

Ha ha good answer

How many orgasms a day keep you satisfied?"

I've never counted

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Mine varies. It can be very high and ten minutes later non existent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has gone on lockdown to be honest.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high

How high is very high?

How many times a day do you like to masturbate or have sex to feel satisfied?

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"D...always about the D!

Ha ha good answer

How many orgasms a day keep you satisfied?

I've never counted

Project for lockdown ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This morning it was D, its now fucked off again and is A

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

medium to high

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Now its Low in a meet situation off the scale and will be again i hope ../

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"medium to high "

Anything cause it to swing either way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?"
very low at the moment

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Now its Low in a meet situation off the scale and will be again i hope ../

yes I'm sure it will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say D.

But I’m not a raging nymph, I can control myself perfectly.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"This morning it was D, its now fucked off again and is A"

any specific reason? or generally fluctuates

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"I’d say D.

But I’m not a raging nymph, I can control myself perfectly.

nothing wrong with being a raging nymph!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too high! Hence why I’m here

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

Would you ever put yourself in the nympho category?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

d)+

I can't look at an attractive woman without thinking of her in sexual terms. I wish it was zero, I really do...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

Would you ever put yourself in the nympho category?!

Is there a category for that

I suppose I have an unhealthy obsession with deep throating lollies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D always has been 24/7 horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very high

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very very high

How many orgasms a day to keep you satisfied?!

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Mostly high. But can lose interest sometimes so it does fluctuate depending

During lockdown though... Through the roof

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

Would you ever put yourself in the nympho category?!

Is there a category for that

I suppose I have an unhealthy obsession with deep throating lollies

ha ha yes I just created it. Deep throating lollies is a handy skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High to very high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very very high

How many orgasms a day to keep you satisfied?!

If I'm on my own, I'd say 2 because I'm not a massive fan of self love. If I have a partner, at least 3 or 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off the scale high! Always been like that and joining Fab helped satisfy

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very very high

How many orgasms a day to keep you satisfied?!

If I'm on my own, I'd say 2 because I'm not a massive fan of self love. If I have a partner, at least 3 or 4 "

Yeah self love isn't as good as the real thing. Have you always had a very very high libido?

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I would say normally high but with the right person very very very high

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"I would say normally high but with the right person very very very high"

your username gave a clue

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Probably medium for me

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

"I would say normally high but with the right person very very very high

your username gave a clue

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Probably medium for me

Prone to going high with right partner?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D. I'm insatiable. But if I don't get sex I can lose my urges

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"D. I'm insatiable. But if I don't get sex I can lose my urges"

Not a huge fan of self love?

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"D. I'm insatiable. But if I don't get sex I can lose my urges"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what's going on in my life.

The right person and it can be off the scale. Equally I can go without and it's fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably say right now hubby's is low mine is lower than normal xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's high.

I wish it was low.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Mine's high.

I wish it was low."

I'm curious, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

I Sure you don't but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine's high.

I wish it was low.

I'm curious, why?"

Because lockdown means i can't go to a club. It's frustrating.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Mine's high.

I wish it was low.

I'm curious, why?

Because lockdown means i can't go to a club. It's frustrating."

Got you and I'm guessing you aren't a fan of DIY

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

I Sure you don't but

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

I Sure you don't but

Get a room you two

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Probably medium for me

Prone to going high with right partner?"

Yeah I didn’t have sex for a long time after I separated as my marriage put me off so I suppose I learned to live without it until a ‘friend’ Showed me what I was missing

so although I don’t really crave it as such I get aroused quite easily with the right person

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

I Sure you don't but

Get a room you two

That’s the intention

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Medium these days (much higher when younger).

Although if I’m getting good sex, regularly, then my sex drive increases and I want them (and sex) all the time.

But day to day it pootles along, waiting for that man who will jump start the booster rocket

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Medium these days (much higher when younger).

Although if I’m getting good sex, regularly, then my sex drive increases and I want them (and sex) all the time.

But day to day it pootles along, waiting for that man who will jump start the booster rocket

Well I hope you find that man soon...

Dare I ask how high it was in your younger days? We talking wearing men and vibrators out?!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high and a little bit more!

Ohhh an ickle bit more

sometimes even an ickle bit more than that!

Wonder whats getting you so hot

I Sure you don't but

Get a room you two

That’s the intention

Roll on no lockdown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine's high.

I wish it was low.

I'm curious, why?

Because lockdown means i can't go to a club. It's frustrating.

Got you and I'm guessing you aren't a fan of DIY"

Not especially although i have a sexy hubby but we both enjoy going to clubs

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

C - D especially being on fab and lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medium- twice a day would be fine, now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone

If you had to put your libido in a category would you put it as

a) low

b) medium

c) high

d) very high?

Everyone assumes swingers are highly sexed but is this a it of a false assumption?"

Z) absofuckinglutely off of the motherfucking radar kinky sexual bastard.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very high, to the point where it's a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going for B. B for boring

If Im stood with someone I can have sex with, I will be more rampant obvs, but my desires are quite polite and are happy to wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D - very high and getting worse the older I get.

Eros is the only man I have been with that can keep up with me.

The poor man can’t even get a coffee some days without me accosting him.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Im going for B. B for boring

If Im stood with someone I can have sex with, I will be more rampant obvs, but my desires are quite polite and are happy to wait.

Polite desires . Brilliant..

I'm an A currently and thankfully, desire and libido go hand in hand, but with the right stimulation well it isn't the only thing that goes up.

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