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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Is a killer and in the last few weeks I've had my fair share of this which is now thankfully and happily resolved.

So ladies and gentleman, other than the obvious, what is your favourite way to de stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a long walk along the beach, works every time for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be fucking but now stress effects my sex drive the opposite way,, which sucks,,, so now its mostly hot tub and going out with friends!

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Go for a long walk along the beach, works every time for me"

I know what you mean, but unfortunately my nearest beach is blackpool and that place just stresses me out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a long walk along the beach, works every time for me"

Same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a long walk along the beach, works every time for me

I know what you mean, but unfortunately my nearest beach is blackpool and that place just stresses me out lol"

I meant a nice beach........ Know what you mean there lol

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By *exyeyez23Man
over a year ago

Lytham St Anne’s

They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress "

Can sometimes cause it as well I believe

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By *exyeyez23Man
over a year ago

Lytham St Anne’s


"They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress

Can sometimes cause it as well I believe"
Not heard of it causing it before would you like an orgasm just now see if that helps ??

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress

Can sometimes cause it as well I believeNot heard of it causing it before would you like an orgasm just now see if that helps ?? "

Lol, nice try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very stressful April! Extremely stressful so much so that it affected my sleep, just wasn't getting tired so wasn't getting sleep! I listen to music to de stress! Nice and loud always work for me

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By *exyeyez23Man
over a year ago

Lytham St Anne’s


"They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress

Can sometimes cause it as well I believeNot heard of it causing it before would you like an orgasm just now see if that helps ??

Lol, nice try "
And god loves a tryer doesn't he lol well I am told I have a great oral technique too do a nice relaxing oral sensation and all the stress drifts away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very stressful April! Extremely stressful so much so that it affected my sleep, just wasn't getting tired so wasn't getting sleep! I listen to music to de stress! Nice and loud always work for me "

Music is good too, get myself plugged into my iPhone and I'm away into a world of my own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copious amounts of alcohol!!! You even forget your name if you do it well enough and the banging hangover last for days so you dont give two hoots about anything else!!

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Copious amounts of alcohol!!! You even forget your name if you do it well enough and the banging hangover last for days so you dont give two hoots about anything else!!"

Oh trust me alcohol and stress do not mix well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been said before......but dropping all and just going out for nice walk along south downs or sit on beach and watch the world pass by.

Yes I live right on top of both thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good drive with loud music works well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Copious amounts of alcohol!!! You even forget your name if you do it well enough and the banging hangover last for days so you dont give two hoots about anything else!!

Oh trust me alcohol and stress do not mix well "

have to agree here! It only makes you forget for a while! And it can bring you down even further!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

For me, I play back laugh out loud moments on my DVD Recorder; either whole programmes or snippets/one-off scenes which really touch my funny bone!

Yes, I've seen it all before, but I still have a good giggle. As the old saying goes, "laughter is the best medicine!"

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"A good drive with loud music works well for me "

Motorway drive roof down music on

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

High octane, adrenalin pumping Adventure Sport every time...being drawn to the Suizze Stockhorn cable car bungey jump....OMG Im stressed right now - a 1000ft of sheer adrenalin, that should destress me a little

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Fresh air to unwind. Reading. Meditation or breathing techniques.

Mrs FJ has just finished reading a book called A Little Light On Angels by Diana Cooper

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I punch the crap out of a punch bag, imagine its the person causing me the stress. Works great for me.

I've recently found running/jogging/walking fast also works. Started out with interval training at the gym, now I've realised once I get to 1.8km all the stress just melts away.

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Agree with that, just in this situation is wasn't caused by a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get in my car and drive wherever, while having a good think of all the positives in my life.

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By *ich_shadiwMan
over a year ago

closeish

Depends on what's brought on the stress to what method will help you De stress . Go gym for a high cardio workout . Knock the shit out of a punch bag. A darkend room and some chill music on. Watch your favourite film that makes you laugh. Enjoy a nice walk out beach,woods, countryside. Go for a massage or some beauty treatment. Spend time with friends talk about it don't bottle it up. Run yourself a nice deep bath with bubbles and candles on the side and some soothing music. Get ya toys out have a good wank and fall asleep wouldn't wish bad stress on anybody. Had it been down there don't want it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of sleep is what i find helps me and long bubble baths ... and shopping for new clothes ,, i like that too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spa day or go to a salon and get a couple of nice relaxing treatments. Dont know about you, but when I'm stressed I neglect how I look, so it's kind of nice to start looking after that kind of things. New haircut, new outfit. If you look in the mirror and look better sometimes it makes you feel a bit better in yourself. All the best x

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Spa day or go to a salon and get a couple of nice relaxing treatments. Dont know about you, but when I'm stressed I neglect how I look, so it's kind of nice to start looking after that kind of things. New haircut, new outfit. If you look in the mirror and look better sometimes it makes you feel a bit better in yourself. All the best x"

I'm off to the hairdressers next week and gonna have a change (again) went from Ice blonde, too pale, to bronze and copper, to darker blonde to brown, think gonna go back to blonde and have it chopped short again

Then off to my fave photographer for some new pics.

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Spa day or go to a salon and get a couple of nice relaxing treatments. Dont know about you, but when I'm stressed I neglect how I look, so it's kind of nice to start looking after that kind of things. New haircut, new outfit. If you look in the mirror and look better sometimes it makes you feel a bit better in yourself. All the best x

I'm off to the hairdressers next week and gonna have a change (again) went from Ice blonde, too pale, to bronze and copper, to darker blonde to brown, think gonna go back to blonde and have it chopped short again

Then off to my fave photographer for some new pics."

And then hopefully the week after a new club for me to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in the gym or just laid out on a fresh patch of grass in the suns embrace

ahhhh

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"in the gym or just laid out on a fresh patch of grass in the suns embrace

ahhhh"

forget the gym, the grass sounds good

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"They do say that the orgasm part of sex does help release lots of tension and helps relieve stress

Can sometimes cause it as well I believe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suffer from stress, never have. I'm not very empathetic so other people's problems don't have an impact on me and as for my own problems, I've always held the belief that without too much human interference things have a way of working themselves out one way or another eventually.

If I can't change something I'm sure as hell not going to worry about it.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I find a quiet spot by a river,.. there's something about the sounds of the countryside and water thats has a very calming effect on me,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a very stressful last 12 months. I usually go for a walk on the beach and listen to the sounds of the waves. That helps. If not I pick up the Xbox controller, play modern warfare and kill some twat in the game!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a very stressful April! Extremely stressful so much so that it affected my sleep, just wasn't getting tired so wasn't getting sleep! I listen to music to de stress! Nice and loud always work for me

Music is good too, get myself plugged into my iPhone and I'm away into a world of my own lol"

dont start me on the ipod one as well !!! lol

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I had a very stressful April! Extremely stressful so much so that it affected my sleep, just wasn't getting tired so wasn't getting sleep! I listen to music to de stress! Nice and loud always work for me

Music is good too, get myself plugged into my iPhone and I'm away into a world of my own lol

dont start me on the ipod one as well !!! lol"
or the world of your own?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For me, it's recognising the indicators that stress levels are getting higher, and preventing things getting to a less healthy position. So I aim to take action at that point, whether it's just reducing what I'm doing, doing other things, or stress relieving pursuits.

If stress is too high, then I ensure that I've got support from others and also ensure that I treat myself, whether to massage, beauty treatments, trips somewhere - in fact, I do think we should treat ourselves regularly, with special things. If we act as if we're our own best friend, then we can listen to what we think is right for us, and make sure that we give to ourselves.

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