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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Sending big bear hug your way X

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Dash you’ve always been perfectly lovely to me.

I’m sorry you’re having a tough time x

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I think the current situation has caused alot of folk to be out of sorts. It's a testing time, and so much uncertainty.

I hope you find some relief from the tinnitus, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man hug Dash! I’m just glad to see you round again. Hope the Tinnitus improves, I’m fortunate mine is mild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did notice OP especially some of your comments. I picked up you were having a bad time. I think you're also very funny and make me giggle especially your postman comment. I hope to see more of you on here OP ive even got a nickname for you "SC"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this mean you like BBQ's now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sending hugs to you too.

Tinnitus must be so frustrating!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did notice OP especially some of your comments. I picked up you were having a bad time. I think you're also very funny and make me giggle especially your postman comment. I hope to see more of you on here OP ive even got a nickname for you "SC" "

Ooooh I'm intrigued now, what's SC? Or am I being thick and missed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?"

Oh god no they're still shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?"

Only on his days off

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?"

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Big hug OP. It’s trying times for everyone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hope you feel better soon.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm sorry to hear that you've been feeling low.

Any ongoing health issue is bound to get to someone.

Something like tinnitus grinds you down.

I hope you can find some relief is possible, somehow.

You're post is lovely, especially considering how you are feeling.

I really hope you feel better in yourself soon

Best wishes to you Dash xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?

Oh god no they're still shit "

I'm not sure I can accept this apology just yet then!

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Stick with it mate!

Keeping posting - I enjoy reading them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?

Oh god no they're still shit "

Virtual hug from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"

Just take care and be kind to yourself.

I can't see anywhere where you have said or done anything out of turn. I think our perceptions can be skewed somewhat when we are in a negative mindset.

Don't worry, concentrate on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea who you are, but don't be so hard on yourself and just take it one day at a time.

Hope you are feeling happier soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadnt noticed any grumpiness, was just pleased to see you back. Feel better soon. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did notice OP especially some of your comments. I picked up you were having a bad time. I think you're also very funny and make me giggle especially your postman comment. I hope to see more of you on here OP ive even got a nickname for you "SC" "

OP looks liked you are very much liked on here and we all like you wit and humour, even dry it makes me laugh. Dont change. I am sorry you have that shitty tinnitus though . Hope it eases x

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does this mean you like BBQ's now?

Oh god no they're still shit

I'm not sure I can accept this apology just yet then! "

Haha fair comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, Dash, I thought something was off, after the bbq thread, sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn’t it good when people's comments from a swinging site who I've never met can make me smile and feel better

Big dash hugs to everybody X

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"

Tinnitus is really annoying.

I find distraction helps.

It might also be worth getting your hearing checked, my hearing aids help no end with my tinnitus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn’t it good when people's comments from a swinging site who I've never met can make me smile and feel better

Big dash hugs to everybody X

"

Your posts make me chuckle if that’s any help? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should

Tinnitus is really annoying.

I find distraction helps.

It might also be worth getting your hearing checked, my hearing aids help no end with my tinnitus."

I had them,then got rid, to much noise coming at me, found it as bad as tinnitus

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP, I've been having Tinnitus symptoms, was due to see a specialist in early April, but that is naturally all on hold for now.

My issues are aggravating but I've learned to cope with them so far.

I hope for your sake you can resolve the issues. Good luck.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Dash

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dash "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you Dash

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love you Dash"

I love you too cheeky

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tinnitus fucking sucks mate. I feel your pain.

Mine gets worse when I’m angry stressed or riled up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, I've been having Tinnitus symptoms, was due to see a specialist in early April, but that is naturally all on hold for now.

My issues are aggravating but I've learned to cope with them so far.

I hope for your sake you can resolve the issues. Good luck."

Certain things make mine louder, the main one is stress, and

silence is deafening, the quieter it is the more prominent the tinnitus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"
you were rite about the bbq.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re just as acidic as the last time round....

Take care of yourself as it doesn’t seem as if you’re in a good place atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dash, I am a Veteran with tinnitus in both ears, each at different frequencies. I make sure that I have some low level of sound at any given time. It does help keep me chilled out. If I ever tune into the sounds, I get pissed off with the world pretty fast! Accept you have good days and bad ones, don’t be so hard on yourself!

You just have to out hum, the hum!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"

Dash, I don't know you, but the fact you have taken the time to write this makes me like you already

I think many of us aren't our usual more chirpy/understanding selves at the moment. You have no need to apologise for being a human being.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*hugs* don’t stress about it! We all have our moments. Xx

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"

My thoughts go out to you OP, I have had tinnitus for sometime now and know how frustrating it can be.

stress and anxiety Elevate the situation, good luck and hope it calms down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you wonderful people x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thank you wonderful people x"

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

As long as you've tried the soured cream version of the crisps in your pic it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, no need to apologise. We are all struggling in one way or another and have good and bad days. You've always been a good egg and made me laugh with your funny Broccoli thread and random stuff.

Sending a big hug to you. X

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Awww don't know who you are or what you said but that’s brave

Sending positive anti-tinnitus vibes your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been a bit low lately,my tinnitus is louder than ever and has an impact on my train of thought,I've always been a glass half empty,pessimistic all my adult life,this has been manifesting itself in my posts and comments on here lately

But I'm trying really hard to rectify this,hope you are all well and take care... Dash x

P. S. I don't know why I felt the need to say this, I just thought I should"

This week has been my lowest so far during all this lockdown, not sure why. Good on you for posting this, all the best bud

Might have a BBQ tomorrow in your honour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are a lovely man OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much love my man. I don’t think I’ve ever interacted with you but I’m sending you strength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dash man, honestly there's no need to sweat it.

Some people paper the cracks on here, use it as an escape and act like life is perfect. Others like me, and you it seems, don't try to fluff everything,

We're all human and have different shizzle going on. At times the shizzle can be consuming and spill over into almost everything coz that's the "who" of you at that time, it's what you're feeling, it's all over you and all inside of you.

Recognising it is a great quality to have, it means that you do actually give a shit and aren't a bad person by any stretch of the imagination.

I've been off as fuck recently. Got tons of confusion, insecurity, frustration, anger and sadness going on. People can see it, a few have checked in on me as they've noticed the distinct change in my posting and anguish.

We all have funks that strike us that we need to work through and a lot of the time we lack patience, tolerance and fucks during those periods. Providing you ain't a right cunt the rest of the time people DO understand, and some of them will try to help.

Hope you feel better asap.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Much love my man. I don’t think I’ve ever interacted with you but I’m sending you strength "

Mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dash man, honestly there's no need to sweat it.

Some people paper the cracks on here, use it as an escape and act like life is perfect. Others like me, and you it seems, don't try to fluff everything,

We're all human and have different shizzle going on. At times the shizzle can be consuming and spill over into almost everything coz that's the "who" of you at that time, it's what you're feeling, it's all over you and all inside of you.

Recognising it is a great quality to have, it means that you do actually give a shit and aren't a bad person by any stretch of the imagination.

I've been off as fuck recently. Got tons of confusion, insecurity, frustration, anger and sadness going on. People can see it, a few have checked in on me as they've noticed the distinct change in my posting and anguish.

We all have funks that strike us that we need to work through and a lot of the time we lack patience, tolerance and fucks during those periods. Providing you ain't a right cunt the rest of the time people DO understand, and some of them will try to help.

Hope you feel better asap.

P

"

LOTS of love

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Challenging times on so many levels, I've got tinnitus which gets more noticeable when I'm stressed.It ain't fun.

Hug of support to you OP

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