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Do you really think society expects most women to be bi?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

No I don’t think so.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t think that most of society do think that at all.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Which part of society are you moving in where that’s expected?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

No, I do not.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Only the men on fab society

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Discuss."

I don't know; FaF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just on here to be honest, I am bi and it's definitely not the norm in the wider world

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

It's a social conundrum, most man don't mind female being bi all though they see a problem with male being bi, But that's most man fantasy to see 2 female sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just on here to be honest, I am bi and it's definitely not the norm in the wider world "

I assume you're a gymnast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nar

Just some weapons about!!

Major keybored worriors!!

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Discuss.

I don't know; FaF? "

No, but thank you for the offer

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

No

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By *ulahlollipopWoman
over a year ago

Reading/London

No, I am bi, have it on my profile very clearly and people are still shocked or surprised when I mention an ex girlfriend. I would say it’s the opposite of what you’re saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women are down for girl on girl its more often to meet a girl out who is bi, or wanting to try her first girl on girl then straight we find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"

Society is not made up of some men on a swinging site.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?

Society is not made up of some men on a swinging site."

Oh thanks for making that clear

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and you didn't didn't say please....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Definitely no

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?"

Ive never wanted to know the answer. Do you have an opinion on that matter, have you done extensive testing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab society - wouldn't say most but a lot. Outside fab society - no.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?"

This is the type of question that leads to any kind of expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?

Society is not made up of some men on a swinging site.

Oh thanks for making that clear "

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For most people- no. For men who are wanking way too much to porn- probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?"

Why would that make a difference ?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"For most people- no. For men who are wanking way too much to porn- probably."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society doesn't. Swingers do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society no but majority of men on fab yes

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Bollocks to what society thinks, do your own thing that feels good and right.

Caveat being don't put other's at risk, especially now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but the question you should ask is are Bi women better play mates than straight?"

Of course they are...in fab land

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not at all. In fact the majority of women in society are not bi and probably don't even have bi tendencies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but swingers do! We've found having a 100% straight mrs cherry doesn't help with meets BUT it certainly puts off the unicorn hunting couples

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No I don’t think so in general society

As to your second question, I don’t think they do here either. Maybe people feel more comfortable asking the question here, not necessarily are you bi or fab straight, but ask whether you’ve ever thought about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"

This has certainly been my experience.

Some do assume it, and when you make it clear you're not they think it is a green light to challenge it and turn you.

Or you get challenged "I know your profile says straight, but do you ever play bi"

It used to make me feel inadequate, but then I realised some guys are just dickheads as standard.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"

Yes

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?

This has certainly been my experience.

Some do assume it, and when you make it clear you're not they think it is a green light to challenge it and turn you.

Or you get challenged "I know your profile says straight, but do you ever play bi"

It used to make me feel inadequate, but then I realised some guys are just dickheads as standard."
i must remember the last sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf, no

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"

Yeah they do for some weird reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok do, you get alot of men assume you are bi, just because you are on here?"

Yes without fail few minutes into a conversation. Would you have a threesome? I've always wanted a threesome with two ladies, I have a friend what you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn’t think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous."

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?"

I think there's a lot of pretence about it as a way of being seen to be more sexually adventurous

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

Not really.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?"

There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?

There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used."

Oh gosh, I don’t get why they’d do something they don’t want to do, just to fulfil their partners wants, if it’s not something they genuinely want to do...It almost makes a mockery of that relationship tbh.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?

There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used.

Oh gosh, I don’t get why they’d do something they don’t want to do, just to fulfil their partners wants, if it’s not something they genuinely want to do...It almost makes a mockery of that relationship tbh. "

Exactly. I guess some women will fo anything to try and please their men. It's sad and a little worrying really.

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

No

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Society at large? Definitely not.

On here, I'm not sure it actually is the case that it's "expected" at all, apart from by a small section of the Fab community, but they are mostly the ones that "expect" to get meets just for signing up.

I do however think in the swinging world there are some women who may feel pressured into it by others because they possibly have a mis-perception it is the done thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think that at all. It's sadly still frowned upon by many in the area that we live, so no it's definetly isn't expected.

However, in this lifestyle, we have noticed a tendency that women are expected to be bi, (I genuinely am bi) and the amount of women who pretend to be bi in this lifestyle is ridiculous.

Pretend to be bi? Is there such a thing or is it that they’re curious about being with another girl but not sure wether to go ahead and take the plunge?

There is such a thing, trust me, I have met a few (women who are part of a couple) They have admitted afterwards they only did it to fulfill their mans fantasy/their man wanted to see them with another woman. It's silly selfish behaviour and made me feel unwanted and used."

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