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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? " Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself Its very different hugging your daughter after months apart and meeting someone for sex. " Exactly how if that is the only meet you have had for months, it's still human contact.... Maybe less intimate but still contact out of your household and not staying alert or 2m/1m apart | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself Its very different hugging your daughter after months apart and meeting someone for sex. Exactly how if that is the only meet you have had for months, it's still human contact.... Maybe less intimate but still contact out of your household and not staying alert or 2m/1m apart " Yes but fab rules don't say its against site rules to hug your family, they say its against the rules to have face to face meets at this time. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? " Oops! Almost got reported.. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself " True, but I know she is ultra paranoid about both breaking the law and getting sick. She and gf have been isolated this entire time, as have I. I live with people who are VERY vulnerable, and barely go out shopping, for fear of putting them at risk. My daughter--I never visited til the lockdown was eased, and would not have hugged (desperate as I was to) if I wasn't 100% sure she had had no contact with anyone but her gf (both of whom work from home, and don't go out). | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Oops! Almost got reported.. " Go on. I'd rather be reported for hugging my kid than for asking for sex! | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Oops! Almost got reported.. Go on. I'd rather be reported for hugging my kid than for asking for sex!" As far as I can tell you haven't broken fab rules by hugging your daughter. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Oops! Almost got reported.. Go on. I'd rather be reported for hugging my kid than for asking for sex! As far as I can tell you haven't broken fab rules by hugging your daughter. " The family hug is a difficult moral dilemma So far I've not hugged my mum in order to protect her However kids and I mean under 10 Not sure they should have hugs removed I'm aware of a situation where a 3 year old has had grandads hugs removed Its affected the childs mind It could affect the children for life | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself True, but I know she is ultra paranoid about both breaking the law and getting sick. She and gf have been isolated this entire time, as have I. I live with people who are VERY vulnerable, and barely go out shopping, for fear of putting them at risk. My daughter--I never visited til the lockdown was eased, and would not have hugged (desperate as I was to) if I wasn't 100% sure she had had no contact with anyone but her gf (both of whom work from home, and don't go out)." You really dont need to explain yourself to anyone on here. Two finger salute will do just fine for anyone condemning you for hugging your daughter!! Anyway, back to the question. I just ignore any meet requests. I'm not meeting anyone and that's all that bothers me at this time | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? " that you hugged your daughter no I'd keep that quiet | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense." (Faceslaps myself in disbelieve) | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense." Excellent so you and others may have been asymptomatic and you have passed it on to anothers grandad who has died Yey | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense." You are not serious right? Would you like to be the one to tell the nearly 34,000 grieving family's in the UK alone thats its all nonsense! | |||
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"There’s a whole virus sub forum for these threads !" Report it then! | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense." Stop talking sense. | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense. You are not serious right? Would you like to be the one to tell the nearly 34,000 grieving family's in the UK alone thats its all nonsense! " However that's not exactly true either Its It's reasonable to suggest 20 000 were tragically frail and Ill plausibly less than 6 months to live and their families prepared The flip side is Can we say to the families of people who have committed suicide The families of people dieing though reduced hospital care ( I was sadly talking to a mother in dispare about to lose her 36 year old daughter) Can we proudly morally without any second thought or conscience say their deaths are ok ?? I'm supporting the lockdown However it is also destroying lives It absolutely may in hindsight be illustrated to close I think we have to be careful about thinking our moral high ground is solid and absolute Said with care and respect Shitty times | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? " Reporting? No as Admin do nothing. People repeatedly reported by numerous profiles over weeks are still here happily meeting and asking to meet again but nothing gets done, Fab just needs to tick the box for the authorities. Just look at the bright side it's a great filter | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense." It’s hardly nonsense is it? It’s a potentially deadly virus that there is no cure for. It has affected the whole world so I would say it’s worth paying attention. It doesn’t make anyone big or clever to ignore the rules. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Reporting? No as Admin do nothing. People repeatedly reported by numerous profiles over weeks are still here happily meeting and asking to meet again but nothing gets done, Fab just needs to tick the box for the authorities. Just look at the bright side it's a great filter " Thats not true. Iv reported people who have messaged me to ask for a meet and their profile has been suspended or removed fairly quickly. | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense. You are not serious right? Would you like to be the one to tell the nearly 34,000 grieving family's in the UK alone thats its all nonsense! However that's not exactly true either Its It's reasonable to suggest 20 000 were tragically frail and Ill plausibly less than 6 months to live and their families prepared The flip side is Can we say to the families of people who have committed suicide The families of people dieing though reduced hospital care ( I was sadly talking to a mother in dispare about to lose her 36 year old daughter) Can we proudly morally without any second thought or conscience say their deaths are ok ?? I'm supporting the lockdown However it is also destroying lives It absolutely may in hindsight be illustrated to close I think we have to be careful about thinking our moral high ground is solid and absolute Said with care and respect Shitty times " It doesn't matter if people were old or ill they should not have had to die like that. I get what you are saying but to it comes across as very dismissive. | |||
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"In answer to your question OP yes it is. Admin have actively encouraged people to report anyone asking for a physical face-to-face meetat this time. I reported a few and their accounts disappeared fairly quickly. " Admin have been hopless! We've reported accounts and the " criptic" status to meet has still been up the following day. Plus the ones that DM us to meet have still been live. Plus the amount of new pics, with not accepted content in have still been visible. For example, several photos of a couple, both with full faces showing on a single man profile. Still on account after 16 days | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Reporting? No as Admin do nothing. People repeatedly reported by numerous profiles over weeks are still here happily meeting and asking to meet again but nothing gets done, Fab just needs to tick the box for the authorities. Just look at the bright side it's a great filter Thats not true. Iv reported people who have messaged me to ask for a meet and their profile has been suspended or removed fairly quickly. " Not true in your experience, Very true in others | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense. You are not serious right? Would you like to be the one to tell the nearly 34,000 grieving family's in the UK alone thats its all nonsense! However that's not exactly true either Its It's reasonable to suggest 20 000 were tragically frail and Ill plausibly less than 6 months to live and their families prepared The flip side is Can we say to the families of people who have committed suicide The families of people dieing though reduced hospital care ( I was sadly talking to a mother in dispare about to lose her 36 year old daughter) Can we proudly morally without any second thought or conscience say their deaths are ok ?? I'm supporting the lockdown However it is also destroying lives It absolutely may in hindsight be illustrated to close I think we have to be careful about thinking our moral high ground is solid and absolute Said with care and respect Shitty times It doesn't matter if people were old or ill they should not have had to die like that. I get what you are saying but to it comes across as very dismissive." Actually no I absolutely did not come across dismissive !!! It's not pleasant when ANYONE dies from almost ALL causes ( some die peacefully in their sleep) SARS2 is not some new absolutely diabolical way to die . People have excruciating deaths from many causes I cannot explain the pain this ladies daughter is in I cannot imagine the pain to commit suicide I cannot imagine the pain people suffer with cancer and tuberculosis Some people with serious illness petition for assisted death due to their conditions I'd suggest I was rather balanced and not dismissive as opposed to yourself who is absolutely dismissive to the suffering deaths a lockdown absolutely causes | |||
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"Having worked the entire lockdown, I can confirm no body followed this rule at my workplace and I have met many from outside my household during this time. It's perfectly safe out there. Although I don't bother meeting from this site. There is only a very few who are to afraid to get close, like at the supermarket sometimes, too afraid to walk past you. People need to get back to normal and stop this nonsense. You are not serious right? Would you like to be the one to tell the nearly 34,000 grieving family's in the UK alone thats its all nonsense! However that's not exactly true either Its It's reasonable to suggest 20 000 were tragically frail and Ill plausibly less than 6 months to live and their families prepared The flip side is Can we say to the families of people who have committed suicide The families of people dieing though reduced hospital care ( I was sadly talking to a mother in dispare about to lose her 36 year old daughter) Can we proudly morally without any second thought or conscience say their deaths are ok ?? I'm supporting the lockdown However it is also destroying lives It absolutely may in hindsight be illustrated to close I think we have to be careful about thinking our moral high ground is solid and absolute Said with care and respect Shitty times It doesn't matter if people were old or ill they should not have had to die like that. I get what you are saying but to it comes across as very dismissive. Actually no I absolutely did not come across dismissive !!! It's not pleasant when ANYONE dies from almost ALL causes ( some die peacefully in their sleep) SARS2 is not some new absolutely diabolical way to die . People have excruciating deaths from many causes I cannot explain the pain this ladies daughter is in I cannot imagine the pain to commit suicide I cannot imagine the pain people suffer with cancer and tuberculosis Some people with serious illness petition for assisted death due to their conditions I'd suggest I was rather balanced and not dismissive as opposed to yourself who is absolutely dismissive to the suffering deaths a lockdown absolutely causes " Nowhere have I ever been dissmissive! Yes of course people die all of the time but Not normally without being able to have anyone close to them with them or even have a proper funeral. not being dismissive at all but you cannot compare them all as it's a totally different situation. So what's the alternative that we just let this virus run wild? | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself " We can break rules and pretend it's ok. When other people do it, it's wrong. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself Its very different hugging your daughter after months apart and meeting someone for sex. " Emotionally yes. But not in the context of stopping the transmission of Covid 19. Not saying you shouldn’t hug your daughter. This is where social distancing will fail. Like a secret....everyone tells one person, who tells another, who tells another | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? Your complaining about people willing to break the lockdown conditions but you freely admit you broke them yourself We can break rules and pretend it's ok. When other people do it, it's wrong. " This is so true One meet is one meet Does not matter if that meet is a fb or your grandmother In the context of sars2 | |||
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"We all have to do what we can , do what we feel is best for us and our families, do what we can to keep ourselves and others safe , do what we can to keep financially sound , do what we can to support those that need it , what we do not need to do is judge and criticise and make others feel bad ! " | |||
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"We all have to do what we can , do what we feel is best for us and our families, do what we can to keep ourselves and others safe , do what we can to keep financially sound , do what we can to support those that need it , what we do not need to do is judge and criticise and make others feel bad ! " | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. " Yes and no It's the worst of both worlds where grandparents over 60 are concerned They should not hug the kids The kids really want to hug many dont understand Grandparents are split on this Some say fk it my life my risk I'm going to hug Some say they are not concerned for their health but they dont want to burden the NHS Bear in mind the above "guidelines " for split families are for compassion reasons and not it's safe reasons It's just shitty I wonder statically which would have caused the NHS more distress A person who hugged during lockdown or one who smoked? | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. " Where did you see those guidelines? | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. Where did you see those guidelines?" The courts and judiciary website. Plus all over interweb. I also heard it in the early days in an interveiw on the BBC, with a goverment aid. | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. Where did you see those guidelines?" They are on the government guidelines. Boris also said about this precise detail in his speeches. | |||
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"But still not OK to meet more than 1 person from a different household, while maintaining a distance of 6 feet. (Though yes, I did hug my kid when seeing her after 2 months). And people are still asking to meet. Is it worth reporting? " No I wouldn't report it. Unless of course you witness a real crime like murder or robbery. Why would I not report it? Because you may find yourself in the same boat or you just left that boat without even realising. | |||
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"Children are going back to school in little over a weeks time. Children will be touching each other and sharing items, and sitting in the same room. Fact. Lockdown is easing. Would we meet strangers for sex? No. But we are conscious that lockdown cannot continue as it has been. This virus is going to be around for a very long time and will become part of our lives. Life has to carry on. " Some children have still been attending school through out. Some children are returning to school not all. Children are being set into pods, so limiting contact with each other and other pods. They are also putting their coats / bags and lunch boxes on their own desks. Along with having their own pencils ect at each desk to limit " sharing items". They have to take in their own water bottles, to be taken home each day. Summer uniform or pE kit to be worn in school and to be washed at the end of each day. Handwashing, cleaning, moving around schools, and staggard start, play and end times are all set in place. Meeting others for swing dates and exchanging body fluids is totally differant. And is still a big NO! | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. Where did you see those guidelines? The courts and judiciary website. Plus all over interweb. I also heard it in the early days in an interveiw on the BBC, with a goverment aid. " The day after lockdown it was clarified that children who are under shared custody of both parents, can go from one house to the other continuing their usual arrangements | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. Where did you see those guidelines? The courts and judiciary website. Plus all over interweb. I also heard it in the early days in an interveiw on the BBC, with a goverment aid. " Those guidelines don’t say anything about how often they can visit the other parent, or for how long. | |||
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"Children under 18 who live in a spilt household are exempt. The guildlines are, they can visit the other parent, once a week, for not an extended amont of time, and only if no symtums by all. Where did you see those guidelines? The courts and judiciary website. Plus all over interweb. I also heard it in the early days in an interveiw on the BBC, with a goverment aid. The day after lockdown it was clarified that children who are under shared custody of both parents, can go from one house to the other continuing their usual arrangements " | |||
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"Children are going back to school in little over a weeks time. Children will be touching each other and sharing items, and sitting in the same room. Fact. Lockdown is easing. Would we meet strangers for sex? No. But we are conscious that lockdown cannot continue as it has been. This virus is going to be around for a very long time and will become part of our lives. Life has to carry on. Some children have still been attending school through out. Some children are returning to school not all. Children are being set into pods, so limiting contact with each other and other pods. They are also putting their coats / bags and lunch boxes on their own desks. Along with having their own pencils ect at each desk to limit " sharing items". They have to take in their own water bottles, to be taken home each day. Summer uniform or pE kit to be worn in school and to be washed at the end of each day. Handwashing, cleaning, moving around schools, and staggard start, play and end times are all set in place. Meeting others for swing dates and exchanging body fluids is totally differant. And is still a big NO! " Yes you are correct. And we said we wouldn't be meeting strangers for sex. Children will mix with others though. My child is going back into a classroom of 10. That is 10 different families. The virus is here to stay and Life will go on. | |||
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