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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bravery

Compatibility

Individuality

Originality

Presentation

Size

If you can do these well YOU will be looking good, more at peace with yourself and have a certain...

JE NE SAIS QUOI.

PS DO NOT expect cheering from the rooftops as you see them walk by in their North Face or leggings.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I love clothes. My style changes with my mood.

Sometimes I want to rock a look and have no problem standing out. Others I'm happy just casual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love clothes. My style changes with my mood.

Sometimes I want to rock a look and have no problem standing out. Others I'm happy just casual."

I read you. For me casual though casual is not emptying the bins casual...I'm not saying yours is.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

"

I do love a bargain and in my time I have shrunk a few items

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

I really like people to help me choose my outfits

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I love clothes. My style changes with my mood.

Sometimes I want to rock a look and have no problem standing out. Others I'm happy just casual. I read you. For me casual though casual is not emptying the bins casual...I'm not saying yours is. "

There's smart casual and just bin casual and just casual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

"

I use a lot of secondhand shops, got loads of cracking gear. I also buy new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

I do love a bargain and in my time I have shrunk a few items "

I bought a beautiful wool jumper once, ended up the size of a crisp packet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love clothes. My style changes with my mood.

Sometimes I want to rock a look and have no problem standing out. Others I'm happy just casual. I read you. For me casual though casual is not emptying the bins casual...I'm not saying yours is.

There's smart casual and just bin casual and just casual "

I couldn't have put it better!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

I use a lot of secondhand shops, got loads of cracking gear. I also buy new."

I have had a few charity shop bargains. I used to think, no way. And my mom turned me onto it.

I mainly buy new though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

I use a lot of secondhand shops, got loads of cracking gear. I also buy new."

Charity shops are really the only place I shop these days, Ive bought some amazing clothes in them. I love the gothic look so its in there I will find my type of taste x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

"

Shrinkage and Primark are two friends.

After shopping there a few times, no thanks.

Trainers socks or socks OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

I use a lot of secondhand shops, got loads of cracking gear. I also buy new.

Charity shops are really the only place I shop these days, Ive bought some amazing clothes in them. I love the gothic look so its in there I will find my type of taste x "

I totally get you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

Shrinkage and Primark are two friends.

After shopping there a few times, no thanks.

Trainers socks or socks OK."

..Trainer Socks etc...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like people to help me choose my outfits "

How do you achieve that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

"

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really like people to help me choose my outfits

How do you achieve that?

"

People often shop with others to get an opinion.

I am happy to have you model Huey in and out the clothes. Ill tell you your best look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?"

Different to others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like people to help me choose my outfits

How do you achieve that?

People often shop with others to get an opinion.

I am happy to have you model Huey in and out the clothes. Ill tell you your best look "

To be arranged!

Back on track....oh so that's why women often shop together...am I right?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really like people to help me choose my outfits

How do you achieve that?

People often shop with others to get an opinion.

I am happy to have you model Huey in and out the clothes. Ill tell you your best look To be arranged!

Back on track....oh so that's why women often shop together...am I right?"

Sometimes for company, opinion, a good catch up.

And it can be fun having company, make a day of it.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

london

I pretty much go to the same shop...they know me, have a great selection of clothes, and make helpful suggestions. Visit once every 6 months...sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others "

I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like people to help me choose my outfits

How do you achieve that?

People often shop with others to get an opinion.

I am happy to have you model Huey in and out the clothes. Ill tell you your best look To be arranged!

Back on track....oh so that's why women often shop together...am I right?

Sometimes for company, opinion, a good catch up.

And it can be fun having company, make a day of it."

Well I've learnt something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pretty much go to the same shop...they know me, have a great selection of clothes, and make helpful suggestions. Visit once every 6 months...sorted "
One shop, enough variety,can it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

"

Do you like the ‘I’m a walking advert’ look? Brand names splattered all over the clothes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

Do you like the ‘I’m a walking advert’ look? Brand names splattered all over the clothes?"

Love THAT question! I cannot stand it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never liked or bothered about clithes..so long as they were dark coloured keeping me hidden even in a crowded city then I had a meltdown..found all Id lived before was a lie..a cover up of my past to protect me..total meltdown...the outcome was the REAL ME! I love now to stand out, to look and feel as sexy as a person of my age can..I love colour and the weirdest thing after coming out the other side of my meltdown is that I have a creative knowledge of clothes and my gf says I know better than she does what suits and doesn t suit. I started to buy cheap boring stuff and then convert and fancy them up..to the point a local out of the box fashion shop photographed me as their model of the day in a coat I d altered and customised and have offered to sell anything I make. Its nothing to sit with gf and her mum talking clothes and stitches and designs..I love this new and proper me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

Do you like the ‘I’m a walking advert’ look? Brand names splattered all over the clothes?"

For me if a brand name is on the outer clothing it's logo must have style and be small and subtle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never liked or bothered about clithes..so long as they were dark coloured keeping me hidden even in a crowded city then I had a meltdown..found all Id lived before was a lie..a cover up of my past to protect me..total meltdown...the outcome was the REAL ME! I love now to stand out, to look and feel as sexy as a person of my age can..I love colour and the weirdest thing after coming out the other side of my meltdown is that I have a creative knowledge of clothes and my gf says I know better than she does what suits and doesn t suit. I started to buy cheap boring stuff and then convert and fancy them up..to the point a local out of the box fashion shop photographed me as their model of the day in a coat I d altered and customised and have offered to sell anything I make. Its nothing to sit with gf and her mum talking clothes and stitches and designs..I love this new and proper me "
Go my brother, Go, sounds like a party over there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never liked or bothered about clithes..so long as they were dark coloured keeping me hidden even in a crowded city then I had a meltdown..found all Id lived before was a lie..a cover up of my past to protect me..total meltdown...the outcome was the REAL ME! I love now to stand out, to look and feel as sexy as a person of my age can..I love colour and the weirdest thing after coming out the other side of my meltdown is that I have a creative knowledge of clothes and my gf says I know better than she does what suits and doesn t suit. I started to buy cheap boring stuff and then convert and fancy them up..to the point a local out of the box fashion shop photographed me as their model of the day in a coat I d altered and customised and have offered to sell anything I make. Its nothing to sit with gf and her mum talking clothes and stitches and designs..I love this new and proper me "

Love this and you also look pretty hot in lingerie too

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

london


"I pretty much go to the same shop...they know me, have a great selection of clothes, and make helpful suggestions. Visit once every 6 months...sorted One shop, enough variety,can it be?"

It's been a family business a long time...really know how to source quality...I always find things I like ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never liked or bothered about clithes..so long as they were dark coloured keeping me hidden even in a crowded city then I had a meltdown..found all Id lived before was a lie..a cover up of my past to protect me..total meltdown...the outcome was the REAL ME! I love now to stand out, to look and feel as sexy as a person of my age can..I love colour and the weirdest thing after coming out the other side of my meltdown is that I have a creative knowledge of clothes and my gf says I know better than she does what suits and doesn t suit. I started to buy cheap boring stuff and then convert and fancy them up..to the point a local out of the box fashion shop photographed me as their model of the day in a coat I d altered and customised and have offered to sell anything I make. Its nothing to sit with gf and her mum talking clothes and stitches and designs..I love this new and proper me

Love this and you also look pretty hot in lingerie too "

Hey thanks you..my gf says similar..lingerie wise..she loves it. Theres not many gfs that have a guy that whilst shopping for heels, for herself, he teaches her how they should feel, how she should walk to look sexy and turn heads...what cut or line of a dress or skirt or pants suits her best and highlights her gorgeous petite body..not in a controlling way, we shop as a trio and discuss and feel..used to hate clothes shopping hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I pretty much go to the same shop...they know me, have a great selection of clothes, and make helpful suggestions. Visit once every 6 months...sorted One shop, enough variety,can it be?

It's been a family business a long time...really know how to source quality...I always find things I like ..."

Nice

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ll often go with opinion of a good flamboyant sales assistant on a high end suit or my daughter on shoes, jeans , shirts, ties, they tend to dress me like my character deserves rather than my tendency to be a little conservative / business minded. I love West African influences on our style of clothing , it’s hard to find the tailors here though. Also Italian silk and leather is good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll often go with opinion of a good flamboyant sales assistant on a high end suit or my daughter on shoes, jeans , shirts, ties, they tend to dress me like my character deserves rather than my tendency to be a little conservative / business minded. I love West African influences on our style of clothing , it’s hard to find the tailors here though. Also Italian silk and leather is good. "
I like your post!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

Do you like the ‘I’m a walking advert’ look? Brand names splattered all over the clothes?Love THAT question! I cannot stand it!!

"

I wouldn't want to look like I'm owned by my clothing manufacturer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My key words are,

Will they fit?

Will I look fat in them lol?

Am I likely to shrink them in the wash?

Are they in a sale?

I do love a bargain and in my time I have shrunk a few items

I bought a beautiful wool jumper once, ended up the size of a crisp packet "

Hahaha...DOH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to look different

I like good quality

I like figure hugging

I like black, red, orange and green.

Different from others? Or different styles of clothing for yourself?

Different to others I think individuality is important and clothing is a way to express that.

I couldn't do the North Face thing so many wore an item from (a London thing) too robotic, at least choose a different brand!

Do you like the ‘I’m a walking advert’ look? Brand names splattered all over the clothes?"

Nooooo...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll often go with opinion of a good flamboyant sales assistant on a high end suit or my daughter on shoes, jeans , shirts, ties, they tend to dress me like my character deserves rather than my tendency to be a little conservative / business minded. I love West African influences on our style of clothing , it’s hard to find the tailors here though. Also Italian silk and leather is good. "
Lightweight Italian leather.....

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I shop the same 5/6 brands of vintage inspired clothes either in the sale or second hand. I have same wardrobe in summer as I do in winter (just wear a cardigan with then in winter). And again same for daytime or evening only difference is shoes/accessories.

So before I buy anything new I ask myself do I really want it, will it suit all year round, will it look good day and night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I shop the same 5/6 brands of vintage inspired clothes either in the sale or second hand. I have same wardrobe in summer as I do in winter (just wear a cardigan with then in winter). And again same for daytime or evening only difference is shoes/accessories.

So before I buy anything new I ask myself do I really want it, will it suit all year round, will it look good day and night. "

You sound like you could give excellent clothing advice and help others save money for different things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sale? Online? Returns?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sale? Online? Returns?"
Tell us more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sale? Online? Returns?"
If you mean for now...have faith it'll even out.

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