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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it easier to love or hate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it easier to love or hate?"

Love comes more naturally to me.. hate stems from past pain..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what we're talking about

When it comes to dogs, love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it makes me feel at piece, hate causes me pain and drains me. I try to forgive and I feel better x

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I only hate marmite, so I choose love

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By *artyanna16200TV/TS
over a year ago

leeds

Easier to hate,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much easier to love.

Hate is draining and really hard to sustain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much easier to love.

Hate is draining and really hard to sustain. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So much easier to love.

Hate is draining and really hard to sustain. "

Yesssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is the feel good factor!

Hate is negative but can be channelled into something productive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is the feel good factor!

Hate is negative but can be channelled into something productive!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Love.

Hate is a negative emotion and you need energy to do negative. We try to avoid negativity at all costs.

Lqove is a natural positive emotion that comes naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we on about things or people? It makes a lot of difference to me, hate is such a strong worf, so don't use it when comes to people or animals, but I do have pet hates..

I tend to be a lover not a fighter, so probably over use the term love also.j

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we on about things or people? It makes a lot of difference to me, hate is such a strong worf, so don't use it when comes to people or animals, but I do have pet hates..

I tend to be a lover not a fighter, so probably over use the term love also.j"

People, thinks, animals...anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate is a drain on all concerned, and it's catching. Love is beautiful but takes sacrifice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving is easier in my opinion.

Hate is not really something I do.

There’s things I don’t like and people I don’t like but I wouldn’t say I hate anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loving is easier in my opinion.

Hate is not really something I do.

There’s things I don’t like and people I don’t like but I wouldn’t say I hate anything.

"

I love the look of your penis when it’s in the bathtub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loving is easier in my opinion.

Hate is not really something I do.

There’s things I don’t like and people I don’t like but I wouldn’t say I hate anything.

I love the look of your penis when it’s in the bathtub"

That’s sweet

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Loving is easier, I try to see the good in everything, give it a chance. Probably too forgiving. But

cross me or betray me the you find the hate kicks in.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hating is easier. If you hate someone it comes as a wave..which I suppose eventually dries itself out when they become a distant memory and you just learnt to ignore them and let these feelings and their behaviour wash over your head..

Love needs working on I believe. It requires commitment and passion and adding to that fire.

But both are separated by thin wall of forgiveness. Love needs it to survive. To overcome weaknesses and move on from mistakes. And our love subject will thrive if we are capable of it. Hate needs it eventually.. otherwise it can consume us. Which would our hate object love I suppose. So why give it to them?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

For me they are the extremes of the emotional spectrum and both can cause pain.

I prefer to take one step away and say care and anger, easier everyday emotions that are quickly righted before they consume you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we on about things or people? It makes a lot of difference to me, hate is such a strong worf, so don't use it when comes to people or animals, but I do have pet hates..

I tend to be a lover not a fighter, so probably over use the term love also.j

People, thinks, animals...anything "

Right, people, animals I don't hate.

Milk that's left out to curdle I hate, or tops not put on properly on jars.

But I'm sure after the annoyance and bit of a breather it's not actual hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t think of anyone I hate. So love all the way

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Love, always love x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Is it easier to love or hate?"

I dont hate easily

I do fall in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate certain individuals and nothing said or done will ever change that for me.

I prefer to "like" someone but I've been known to fall in live easily!

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By *artyanna16200TV/TS
over a year ago

leeds

I may just qualify my choice , im niot saying that hate is the more productive , desirable or acceptable , but people find it easier to describe what they dislike , than what they love, people will readily deny , they are selfish, vain , and motivated by money above altruism , generosity , and care for others , and they will readily indulge i judgement of others if it is convenient to the preconceived ideas the share woth other people even if those ideas are factly wrong! For instance , someone accused of multiple sexual offences against numerous individuals over the last twenty years remains surprisingly popular , yet , others have been subjected to smears and contempt despite showing altruism philanthropy , and speaking up for oppressed people for over forty years , because they are told to. if you are asked openly what you really love , you are vulnerable by expressing ernestly what you feel , it may take some careful thought , and you ll probably pick a safe subject , rather than something you know in your heart to be true of yourself, whereas , if you are asked about something you really dislike , it will roll off the tongue , especially if its a theme which people commonly express. , there we go , love , difficult , hate , susprisingly easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think hate is easy, love isn't easier but braver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is effortless, hate consumes all your energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only hate marmite, so I choose love "

Totally agree, I hate marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say love, it's easy to fall in love, to truly hate someone you really have to work at it x

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Much easier to hate, love leaves you open to so much pain and hurt

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Personally - loving is easier. If I'm in a good place, love comes naturally. Even when I'm in a not particularly great place, I'm not one to hate others. That's how some people manage, fair enough.

That's not to say I like every person, I'm not fond of all but people have their own difficulties. Hate brings with it toxicity that seeps into other areas of your life and brings with it other negative emotions. I find it far easier and better for my mental well being to be a loving person, rather than a hateful one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love. I can honestly say I don't hate anyone, obviously there are people I Majorly dislike though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when I want to hate I can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much easier to hate, love leaves you open to so much pain and hurt "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I find it really hard to hate anyone I may dislike you but hate is a very strong word

I don’t love easily either but those that I do know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Circumstances will dictate. You may love your dad because hes your dad but he maybe a law breaker (not specified) so you hate him too. Its all down to circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the subject matter.

Some things I find much easier to love, others much easier to hate. But really mostly indifference to most things!

People that use “k” as a shortened version of ok? Much easier to hate.

People that are prepared to gently run their fingers through my hair for an hour or so, much easier to love.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Depends on the type of love. Love for family? No problem. Romantic love? I find that harder and harder to express because you have to open yourself up to being vulnerable, and I don’t like being vulnerable.

Hate? Well i guess it’s just exhausting negativity. Never actually hated anyone but I can see how it would give some the impetus to spur them on and get stuff done - sort of reversing the negativity? Making the hate work for you?

I dunno. I’m rambling.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Easier to love,

Hate is a negative and sometimes a destructive emotion I'd rather not have.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It's much easier to love as its effortless to do because you naturally want to give to that person.

Hating takes effort and they're not worth the steam off my piss so that makes the answer easy...

Love is easier than hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really hard to hate anyone I may dislike you but hate is a very strong word

I don’t love easily either but those that I do know it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are the same side of the coin, as they say.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Hating takes effort and they're not worth the steam off my piss so that makes the answer easy...

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Very wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hating takes effort and they're not worth the steam off my piss so that makes the answer easy...

Very wise words. "

See I think not hating takes effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only hate marmite, so I choose love

Totally agree, I hate marmite"

I love marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's *much* easier to love. Hating someone is a lot of effort.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is it easier to love or hate?"

Much easier to love. Dont think I've ever hated anyone.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Is it easier to love or hate?"

Definitely more of a lover than hater.

I can be annoyed but I also easily forgive too.

Which goes back to me being more of a lover.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I love loads of people - but I’ve never hated anyone, though I’ve probably had good reason to at times!

There are people I dislike - but generally I’ve felt sorry for them rather than hate them - and simply been glad I don’t share the same obsessiveness or paranoia that they do!

Hate is a very destructive force and is often totally illogical.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

All you need is ...

All together now....

is all you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are so extreme, both are so uncommon.

It's the grey bits in between that are harder to quantify/comprehend.

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