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By *eorge Jetson OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

.... Play as singles.

We've had a very well put together message from a very well put together couple who have invited us (after lockdown and the country is fully rid of this virus of course) to meet up at neutral ground for a social evening and discuss the possibility of play meets on a 2nd visit.

Now this was going fine until the part that said they prefer play meets separately **bells go off** UNTIL we realised they were referring to US meeting THEM separately, even had a phone call from the lady explaining that its a preference they have and even assured us that Mr.J would get the invite first just to be totally up front about it all and have offeted to let us have pics of the evenings fun to take home.

Its very intriguing and very thought provoking...

But is it for everyone?

Discuss........

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It probably ian't something for everyone, we don't meet separately.

The question you should be asking is...is it something you are interested in doing?

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth


".... Play as singles.

We've had a very well put together message from a very well put together couple who have invited us (after lockdown and the country is fully rid of this virus of course) to meet up at neutral ground for a social evening and discuss the possibility of play meets on a 2nd visit.

Now this was going fine until the part that said they prefer play meets separately **bells go off** UNTIL we realised they were referring to US meeting THEM separately, even had a phone call from the lady explaining that its a preference they have and even assured us that Mr.J would get the invite first just to be totally up front about it all and have offeted to let us have pics of the evenings fun to take home.

Its very intriguing and very thought provoking...

But is it for everyone?

Discuss........

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We always used to play in the same room, now we sometimes do separate rooms which is good also as you can concentrate on your play partner, the watching bit is also important to us but variety is the spice of life. There is a bit of us that thinking meeting separately would be fun, but I would like to see what's going on as I'm a voyeur, it would need to be with someone we trusted and knew

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By *eorge Jetson OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Oh no. Its not something we'll be taking them up on.

Was just a thought provoker to how others would react and respond if it were them in the situation. x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I've done it with an fwb, we did it with a couple at a hotel and room swopped male partners after a social, only do what you both feel comfortable with, communication with each other is key when considering separate room swopping

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By *xploring GentlyMan
over a year ago

bath

Its interesting from the point of view that personally I,ve come to have a preference for threesomes over foursomes. My reason is with a foursome it usually sub divides in to two x two couples usually swapping partners where as with a threesome it tends to become one delicious tangle of limbs,searching mouths and getting lost in sensations of multiple desires. Also its way easier for three to maneuvere on a double or kingsize bed and even all curl up together on breaks or when the sex is over. Drifting off to sleep, sated, with four hands caressing you is hard to beat, waking up with two mouths kissing different parts of your body or to the sounds and feeling of your lovers making out and joining in or just quietly watching is so hot. So I get where this couple are coming from but why not target singles rather than a couple. I think its interesting that they assured you that your Mr could go first rather than the lady going first and then the guy never gets the invite but who would want to be the one left at home? You could turn the tables and invite them to join you guys one at time to play with you both as singles and see if they go for it. I somehow doubt that they would take up the offer when the boot was on the other foot so to speak but if they do it sounds like a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different strokes for different folks.

if you aren't comfortable OP, obviously don't take it further.

personally, if im speaking to a couple with a view to meeting, i expect to meet the couple.

Px

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