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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

How did you learn about sex and puberty?

Did your parents sit you down to have 'the' talk

Was it from school ed or was it all a bit of a surprise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a surprise

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

School mates plus finding dirty mags on the way home

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Mum sat down and told me. It was very informative! Apparantly I asked the question why did men not have babies?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

School friends, porn mags that the boys sneaked into school and experiences.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My sister is 4 years older so she was my main source. The playground was a great source of learning although not much of it was fact based. School and parents - basically taught about periods and abstinence. Didn't really tell us what we should abstain from though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never understood how the bird sisnt get stung

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

An older girl told me about it because she had just had sex education at school, I was absolutely disgusted and said my mum and dad would not do something like that, so she told me I was adopted lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It was definitely a surprise and wondering what was going on when first attempted.

Parents didn’t say a word. The only time it ever came up was when my dad found my tampax and went ballistic, until my mum calmed him down and explained we could use them without having had sex.

As for school all books had relevant pages removed (mixed boarding school). I can’t honestly ever remember talking about it either

I was so naive that on my first day at a mixed boarding school, I hit the school bully’s dick with a ruler as I thought it was a rat escaped from the cage but no one ever tried picking on Shortie again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents had a talk and got me a book but tried to stop me reading all of it as it was very detailed and a bit beyond my age...I found where it was hidden and read it multiple times through. I was then the font of all knowledge at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of everything - parents, school, TV, Internet, friends.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Visit to a reference library, copy of Claire Rayner's People in Love.

It was not designed for a curious primary school kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum gave me a facts of life book printed by some religious institution. It took about another 5 or 6 years before I realised there was pleasure involved

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Sex ed at school followed up by an open minded conversation with an aunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had to figure it all out on my own with no help from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Dennis Potter play like the Singing Detective or Black Eyes I think

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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My cousin told me during a racy scene in dynasty

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

School ed, old black and white footage, my only memory of it being William Woolard (of Tomorrow's World fame - at least I think it was him) using a rubber band round his bunched fingers to demonstrate how a vagina could stretch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) learned from finding porn mags at home and down the woods, from naughty films not full on porn, school friends.

I did have an awkward moment when at 15 I walked into the living room to find my gran watching porn. Thankfully she wasn't playing with herself but was sat there intently watching german porn... a young woman being fucked on a swing in a barn ... and my gran told me to sit down and watch it with her. I suppose that was her way of educating me.

Being the horny teen I was I probably went off upstairs and then fucked myself with a hairbrush handle

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Makes you wonder if porn mags are still discarded in the woods, seemed like every wood had some back in the day, I guess the internet has put paid to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a fantastic cartoon sex ed book at home about "when a man feels loving towards a woman his penis with a 'fro becomes hard and he puts it in her baby pocket" etc....

Came in dead handy in the concrete play tunnels at school....

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"We had a fantastic cartoon sex ed book at home about "when a man feels loving towards a woman his penis with a 'fro becomes hard and he puts it in her baby pocket" etc....

Came in dead handy in the concrete play tunnels at school.... "

Ah the tunnels..ours was the boiler room

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over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My parents gave me an age appropriate book on human anatomy when I was six or seven and banned me from taking it to school because of the male and female reproductive organs pages.

Mum gave me a very half hearted and unsympathetic lesson on periods when it started.

Some whacky shame based sex ed then changed schools and fact based gross diagrams.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

here and there

Mostly friends and porn mags. But my mum did say to me one day After I came home one night with mud on the knees of my jeans “I don’t care what you get up to, just use protection” wise words from a wise lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a fantastic cartoon sex ed book at home about "when a man feels loving towards a woman his penis with a 'fro becomes hard and he puts it in her baby pocket" etc....

Came in dead handy in the concrete play tunnels at school....

Ah the tunnels..ours was the boiler room "

Yeah my penis got very hard and hairy in the tunnels one time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still learning

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My mum took great joy in telling me all about it - warts and all in great detail. The joys of having a mum who works in medicine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt at school, and remember passing out with the crappy video in the staff room explaining about periods.. hahaha

I was about 10 at the time, and we are talking about the 80s when things were very less open..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember watching Brookside one night and realising that having sex was what made babies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum bought me books describing sex, the descriptions made me start wanking, that's weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No advice or instruction whatsoever, vividly remember my first time.... embarrassed doesn't come in to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh jeebus! Being raised by my single Dad, he got my Aunty in to have that 'chat' along with the period conversation...

I was traumatised.... You mean THIS happens once a month because of THAT!

And things go in what where when and why when you have a boyfriend!

I was 11 and cried, so upset, I did not need too or want to know

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