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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Girls, when a guy is giving your clit some attention, would you rather it be his fingers or tongue?

Guys what do you prefer?

I'm probably going to be odd here, but I prefer fingers! Two in particular, rubbing over it with constant soft friction...mmm bliss.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Surely both but if I had to choose then it would be fingers

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use fork and knife! I am too classy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use fork and knife! I am too classy! "

You can stay away from my clit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to multi task and lick the clit while I put a finger or to curled in side the pussy

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Fingers and tongue. Both provide different tactile stimulus which just enhances the overall experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer tongue. I get way more excited giving oral than receiving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue.

But I would have done my research first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue cause I love the taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

These responses are making me horny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These responses are making me horny lol"
I'd like to make you even more horny and do it to you

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I like both, but if I use my fingers it means we can snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are better , taste and touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men start their life coming out of a vagina and spend the rest of their life trying to get back in. If you're a C-section baby, you're even further behind the curve!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like both, but if I use my fingers it means we can snog "

Love this, it's fun to orgasm and cry out while my lips are pressed up against his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me - it is fingers and tongue

Fingers, to gently pull open the labia to fully reveal the lovely clit and then my tongue to tease and lick xx

But I will listen carefully to anything the lady concerned has to say - it’s her pussy after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue, with one finger inside. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue, with one finger inside. Job done. "

Sounds easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always got to mix it up. Just a finger reminds me of being a teenager fingering people behind the shed in school and the bus stop

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The tongue is brilliant for different amounts of pressure, flicking and swirling and combined with some lip action can lead to explosive results. The fingers are great for stroking and rubbing and can also vary the amount of pressure applied. When both are used you can be very creative and send the recipient into the stratosphere

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I can't possibly choose, I love both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The tongue is brilliant for different amounts of pressure, flicking and swirling and combined with some lip action can lead to explosive results. The fingers are great for stroking and rubbing and can also vary the amount of pressure applied. When both are used you can be very creative and send the recipient into the stratosphere "

Drooling

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm getting a bit flustered here , stop it

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"The tongue is brilliant for different amounts of pressure, flicking and swirling and combined with some lip action can lead to explosive results. The fingers are great for stroking and rubbing and can also vary the amount of pressure applied. When both are used you can be very creative and send the recipient into the stratosphere

Drooling "

Oops....sorry. Or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely lick and suck the clit while my fingers stretching the sweet pussy

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Tongue as long as he knows what he is doing. It can be amazing with the right guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to suck the clit while fingering her pussy with one hand and massaging either side of her clit with the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue as long as he knows what he is doing. It can be amazing with the right guy. "
let me know how I do later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use both... Very gentle to start with using a finger in slow circles on the clit while kissing then the tongue on the clit with the odd lick up and down the labia and a finger or 2 in side. Love tasteing the juices.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Tongue for me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue for me to "

Could you please show me how to use it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 21/05/20 09:12:36]

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven


"Girls, when a guy is giving your clit some attention, would you rather it be his fingers or tongue?

Guys what do you prefer?

I'm probably going to be odd here, but I prefer fingers! Two in particular, rubbing over it with constant soft friction...mmm bliss."

Which ever the lady prefers, I'm good to go with , however would swing towards tongue..you're ymgood enough to take us in your mouths, it's only right we do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed her knickers by poster at 21/05/20 09:12:36]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed her knickers by poster at 21/05/20 09:12:36]"

Easy easy!

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By *illywizz1000000Man
over a year ago

north west

I love the tongue but depending on who I'm with its sometimes a nice feeling slipping a couple of fingers deep and slow whilst licking the clit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue as long as he knows what he is doing. It can be amazing with the right guy. "

If you text me I might show you some day cuz you are not to far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't stop boys, this thread is helping no end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls, when a guy is giving your clit some attention, would you rather it be his fingers or tongue?

Guys what do you prefer?

I'm probably going to be odd here, but I prefer fingers! Two in particular, rubbing over it with constant soft friction...mmm bliss."
depends if you like pineapple

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only answer is surely both, either separately or used in combination with each other...the tongue flickering and swirling either flattened for long slow lapping licks or pointed for just the tip of the tongue flickers, while fingers work and delve and curl - get that combination right and the effects can be delicious

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a rather sensitive clit so usually can't stand anyone else's fingers on it than my own as I can respond to the feelings in a way others can't to carefully tread that line between pleasure and over sensitivity. So I'm going to go for tongue .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (mr) I enjoy using my tongue. But I also love when a woman takes my hand and shows me exactly what they like and guide my fingers to the spots only they know to send those sparks flying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue, with one finger inside. Job done.

Sounds easy!"

Oh it can be with the right technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a combination. Enjoy beginning with tongue, moving to fingers and then back to tongue for the final moments. Overall I would say I prefer using my tongue but sometimes when everyone’s up for a good finger fucking, it can be incredibly hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue, with one finger inside. Job done.

Sounds easy!

Oh it can be with the right technique "

Can you teach me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to lick mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue.

But I discovered a new fingers technique last year that is rather intensely different.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"I can't possibly choose, I love both "
Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue.

But I discovered a new fingers technique last year that is rather intensely different. "
I'll show you my tricks some time xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well this thread did the job... Ahhhhhhhhh feeling much better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue for definite for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread did the job... Ahhhhhhhhh feeling much better now "

Did you climax?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this thread did the job... Ahhhhhhhhh feeling much better now

Did you climax?"

Yes, nice way to start the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread did the job... Ahhhhhhhhh feeling much better now

Did you climax?

Yes, nice way to start the day!"

I was writing a story of my sex life. It doesn't have a climax!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tongue, fingers better elsewhere. Or just skip it altogether.

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By *uck_91Man
over a year ago

Stowmarket


"Tongue, fingers better elsewhere. Or just skip it altogether."

You can’t skip it. Defiantly prefer using my tongue

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By *4nd5omeMan
over a year ago

leicester

Start with tongue on nipples whilst slowly working fingers on clit... then come down with tongue swirling and licking clit giving some extra natural lube and whilst a gentle bite to thighs And tongue on clit use fingers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to mix it up when giving oral. Bit if tongue in the clitwhile the fingers slip inside...then I'll swap it over so my fingers can play with the clit and my tongue gets a good taste. I also like to give the ass some attention too!

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Don’t really have a preference, love circling my tongue round a nicely swollen clit and likewise, whilst using a finger, my tongue can be utilised on a nice firm nipple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer both but if picking one, it would be my tongue, giving oral such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Either for me and this thread has been lovely to read this morning

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tongue, fingers better elsewhere. Or just skip it altogether.

You can’t skip it. Defiantly prefer using my tongue "

You might not want to, but you definitely can. Overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both nice and sensual with the tongue on the clit then use my fingers to massage the whole of the vulva area and then gauging by the ladies response on how soft or hard to press so she gets the best possible results, ( trained by a gay lady friend of mine years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technique and compatibility, innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both. Tongue variying pressure on her clit whilst looking at her face to judge what technique is turning her on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a multitasking kind of guy but if I had to pick between the 2 it would be tongue

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I like the switching from one to the other, the different pressures, strokes and feelings it brings with the added element of not knowing which will be used

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Well if the guy knows what he's doing I'll take fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving oral, such a turn on !

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I just let him decide

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm a fan of using my tongue Women seem to prefer both at the same time though, greedy things

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I love the taste licking and sucking but I also love the feeling of a pussy clamping up on my fingers near the point of a orgasm and the sound it makes

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Reading with interest

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Fingers definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both. You need to hit the G-spot and her flower too. Same for us men.

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By *adbod52Man
over a year ago

Luton

Love to use my tongue mainly, but will also add fingers if it seems right.

You can achieve fantastic orgasms with just a tongue if you know what you’re doing.

I know some ladies love to just lie back for a couple of hours and just enjoy the oral stimulation.

I am also happy to oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue as I can use fingers myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all about tongue pleasuring for me, but if I feel you need fingers i will be sure to slide in one or two to help increase the sensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue as I can use fingers myself "

Good point, get someone to do what you can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue with both fingers inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use chocolate fingers. Melt pretty quick though

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

I like to use a combination of both Fingers and tongue and For a certain person my nose, and there is always the sucking on the clit to create a tingle as well, but M’Lady likes Mostly to face fuck me, as my nose hits the right spot for her and I enjoy it immensely Knowing she is getting off on me literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His tongue...my fingers

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Both, the thumb and forefinger over the top like an n, while tonguing over the clit.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love to use both. Not at the same time.

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By *eepminds67Couple
over a year ago

crewe

Definately tongue much more sensuous and intimate , oh and the taste mmmmmm

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

ramsey

Use both no!? Not always at the same time! See a woemnd reactions to both separate to get a feel for how and what she likes

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier


"The only answer is surely both, either separately or used in combination with each other...the tongue flickering and swirling either flattened for long slow lapping licks or pointed for just the tip of the tongue flickers, while fingers work and delve and curl - get that combination right and the effects can be delicious "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to use my tongue, but more than happy to use a finger or two with the ‘come to me’ motion whilst licking her clit.

If it’s tongue only, then I like to do a fairly rhythmic motion up and down over the clit, varying with swirls around the clit and just when she’s relaxed into that, a burst of flicking my tongue tip really quickly back and forth across the clit (so east-west, rather than north-south) for a different stimulus.

Repeat as many times as I can see it is still working well; when her breathing gets quicker and sharper like she’s getting close to an orgasm, suck the whole clitoral area into my mouth a little (minding my teeth) and use my tongue tip to gently push the clit hood back and move the soft underside of my tongue back and forth quickly across her more exposed clit.

Always worked well for me

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Tongue, tongue, more tongue, fingers & then tongue again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to use my tongue, but more than happy to use a finger or two with the ‘come to me’ motion whilst licking her clit.

If it’s tongue only, then I like to do a fairly rhythmic motion up and down over the clit, varying with swirls around the clit and just when she’s relaxed into that, a burst of flicking my tongue tip really quickly back and forth across the clit (so east-west, rather than north-south) for a different stimulus.

Repeat as many times as I can see it is still working well; when her breathing gets quicker and sharper like she’s getting close to an orgasm, suck the whole clitoral area into my mouth a little (minding my teeth) and use my tongue tip to gently push the clit hood back and move the soft underside of my tongue back and forth quickly across her more exposed clit.

Always worked well for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to put my tongue to very good use before bringing fingers into the equation. Tongue and fingers in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls, when a guy is giving your clit some attention, would you rather it be his fingers or tongue?

Guys what do you prefer?

I'm probably going to be odd here, but I prefer fingers! Two in particular, rubbing over it with constant soft friction...mmm bliss."

Happy with either but tend to start with fingers, then go to tongue & lips. Seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue and lips around clit, two fingers inside pussy and one knuckle then finger in ass, the triple tickle!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus. That’s heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to multi task and lick the clit while I put a finger or to curled in side the pussy "

This

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

I love it all. But gotta be my man's tongue always just ask my neighbours how much I love it they hear the outcome often.

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