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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

I most certainly agree with this. If only I could buy some for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

I most certainly agree with this. If only I could buy some for myself. "

Order a few bottles as I will buy one from you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "
Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever heard of beer goggles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I think it can be a combination of factors, I also find that if my view of one of those factors changes their sex appeal changes too. I think generally for them to ooze sex appeal for me, it has to be based on my perception of the whole package or at least those parts of the package I know about. Personality, looks, their body and how they express themselves are the major components for me. If I have met them in real life it would also include their physical presence and movement.

I know my sex appeal is limited but I’m still fond of myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I do. I think it can be a combination of factors, I also find that if my view of one of those factors changes their sex appeal changes too. I think generally for them to ooze sex appeal for me, it has to be based on my perception of the whole package or at least those parts of the package I know about. Personality, looks, their body and how they express themselves are the major components for me. If I have met them in real life it would also include their physical presence and movement.

I know my sex appeal is limited but I’m still fond of myself "

Very well put!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

I most certainly agree with this. If only I could buy some for myself.

Order a few bottles as I will buy one from you "

Isn’t it milked from unicorn vaginas.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yes but whether that transpires into real life when we actually meet is another thing

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

Sort of. I don’t get this from photos or profiles, but from people I know, then absolutely yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

Sort of. I don’t get this from photos or profiles, but from people I know, then absolutely yes. "

I certainly don’t get it from just looking at a profile but do you think chatting or messaging can change this?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

Sort of. I don’t get this from photos or profiles, but from people I know, then absolutely yes.

I certainly don’t get it from just looking at a profile but do you think chatting or messaging can change this? "

I do yes. Some people come across brillIantly in messages. For me it needs to be a combination of elements. Playfulness and naturalness, but also kindness and intelligence. Mix those ingredients together and I’m smitten Of course meeting in real life will either reinforce that attraction or end it. You just never know. But that’s the joy of meeting new people

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

yes some people do, its a combination of a few things that draws you to them.

Sometimes when you meet them in person its still there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a guy at my last job who ordinarily I would never have thought I'd be attracted to but he knew the world of data science inside out... Whenever he spoke about it or led our workshops I would get such a raging lady boner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah most definitely. I’ve encountered one or 2 that if I had seen them online would not of been attracted too but being in their company was just something about them

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

They have to be special on here for me to notice sex appeal. There are some who have it and they know who they are....

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Yes I do think that. I know that I do.

And others just catch you're eye with the confidence

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Confidence is a big factor. In men that definitely draws me in. Not arrogance though.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

People can and do ooze sex appeal. Sometimes we can't give one specific answer as to why. They just do.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Yup indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sexy oh yes I am I just dont appeal to the masses

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

For me, it's a lot about how someone holds themselves; the way they comfortably sit in their own skin and take ownership of their space in the world.

There's a lot more to it than that, but as an instant marker of someone oozing sex appeal, this would be an unmistakable factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I definitively know until I've met someone, but you can get a good idea from pics and conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes athletes are amazingly sexy! Super human as well! Just totally inspiring!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Most definitely, people give me the feeling just by walking in the room, you can’t explain what it is but you know it’s there

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. Sort of. It's a really personal thing isn't it? What one person might find cock twitchingly/ quim quivering raw sex appeal, I might roll my eyes and vomit a little in my mouth.

I can't say I've found that without meeting someone first though - I respond physically to pheromones or I dunno, something just clicks. I can find aspects of a person incredibly sexy before meeting but I don't think I put people on this sex appeal pedestal beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing

Sort of. I don’t get this from photos or profiles, but from people I know, then absolutely yes.

I certainly don’t get it from just looking at a profile but do you think chatting or messaging can change this?

I do yes. Some people come across brillIantly in messages. For me it needs to be a combination of elements. Playfulness and naturalness, but also kindness and intelligence. Mix those ingredients together and I’m smitten Of course meeting in real life will either reinforce that attraction or end it. You just never know. But that’s the joy of meeting new people "

That’s the exciting bit, sealing the deal. Knowing your instincts were right (hopefully!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There was a guy at my last job who ordinarily I would never have thought I'd be attracted to but he knew the world of data science inside out... Whenever he spoke about it or led our workshops I would get such a raging lady boner "

People that have passion for their work is sexy!! I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Sort of. It's a really personal thing isn't it? What one person might find cock twitchingly/ quim quivering raw sex appeal, I might roll my eyes and vomit a little in my mouth.

I can't say I've found that without meeting someone first though - I respond physically to pheromones or I dunno, something just clicks. I can find aspects of a person incredibly sexy before meeting but I don't think I put people on this sex appeal pedestal beforehand. "

Totally agree it’s a personal preference. What one finds attractive another won’t. And as for that Pedestal, I love that place!!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes most definitely. but also could it be the angle of the photo?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I have um too much sex appeal which is why I hide my profile to make it fairer to the other lads on here.

..........honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, mostly how they put themselves across and carry themselves.

It can change easily, I used to ooze sex appeal, now I just ooze.

Where you are mentally and spiritually within yourself defo impacts it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty certain I do?!...

Like more sex appeal than anything else!

But also smart, funny and witty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually can get the whole sex appeal vibe from just looking at someone's photos?! I mean it's very rare but it does happen. More so with women than men.. - k

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, mostly how they put themselves across and carry themselves.

It can change easily, I used to ooze sex appeal, now I just ooze.

Where you are mentally and spiritually within yourself defo impacts it

P"

As long as you don’t leak the ooze

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely. Some people just have it. Wish I did haha. Think it's a measure of good looking and confident, but not a cocky wanker

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely. Some people just have it. Wish I did haha. Think it's a measure of good looking and confident, but not a cocky wanker

"

Exactly This, no cockyness!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person /real life? Yes.

Online through the medium of photos and text? Not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessss. In person, definitely. And it’s not always based on how they look. It’s an aura.

Online, it’s hard to tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

Definitely so.. Some people just have that little something

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Yessss. In person, definitely. And it’s not always based on how they look. It’s an aura.

Online, it’s hard to tell. "

Sometimes you can tell online but not that often.

In real life those you may not have thought of as that sexy can ooze sex appeal I find and you just cant take your eyes off them or stop things going around in your head.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I have buckets full of the stuff

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Definitely! There have been one or two profiles I've come across and just didn't know what to do with myself

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Absolutely. Sometimes you can get an inkling of it from pictures and chatting, but definitely in person.

Conversely, there are some people that on paper should, but just don't in person.

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

Yes definitely. Some people make me go weak at the knees just being around them. It’s nothing specific more of an aura they give off I find it doesn’t come across as well digitally.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Absolutely. You might dislike them as a person but physically, you can't deny that you want to.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Oh yes. Some people just have it in spades. Without even trying and without even knowing.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Most definetly yes. Some people just have that 'something' about them. An aurora, something you cant explain or say it's because of this and that, they just have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sexy and I know it.. Wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle... Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do and everyone has sex appeal to someone. Wish I could find the person who thinks I have it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sexy and I know it.. Wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle wiggle... Yeah "

NOOOO

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

I think they do - but fortunately we’re not all sexually attracted to the same people - which means there’s hope for all of us!

I read that Gordon Brown, in person, had a huge amount of charisma and was very popular with the ladies. Clearly that didn’t come across on TV though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I can never quite explain to anyone what my "type" is, aside from a few things that generally turn me off. But when I see it, I know immediately and the attraction is strong.

Shame it happens so rarely for me.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Everyone has sex appeal to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has sex appeal to someone "

You are not wrong just need to find the right person

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Everyone has sex appeal to someone "

Very true..we all have varying tastes that turn us on (thank goodness)

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

In the eye of the beholder imo.

There has been times when I feel like the little boy in the Emperors News Clothes.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

For me it a look, style, a certain image. The way they hold themselves...good pics.

Other times the look is less important. It's the way they converse with me. The way they express themselves, their ideas, openness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to explain this, but it can happen because it is an aura... you're drawn to them without even thinking about it. Nature just takes over and naturally things happen.

Can get that initial feeling online, but for me more powerful in person. This is when chemistry, physics and biology all combine and take over. You just go with the flow

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Difficult to explain this, but it can happen because it is an aura... you're drawn to them without even thinking about it. Nature just takes over and naturally things happen.

Can get that initial feeling online, but for me more powerful in person. This is when chemistry, physics and biology all combine and take over. You just go with the flow "

The Chin!

You're back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult to explain this, but it can happen because it is an aura... you're drawn to them without even thinking about it. Nature just takes over and naturally things happen.

Can get that initial feeling online, but for me more powerful in person. This is when chemistry, physics and biology all combine and take over. You just go with the flow

The Chin!

You're back "

Pffffft oi! What is going on tonight... yeah I flew back in forums last night...

I been back for ages!!

Yay! I been promoted from Headless Suit to The Chin haha you ain't a stranger! Bring it in

*Virtual Hugs*

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you think that some people naturally just ooze sex appeal?

You have no idea what it is about them but something attracts you?

I have 1 or 2 on my hotlist that do this for me. I’m not sure if it’s personality, looks or their bodies that attract me but they are certainly very appealing "

Pics certainly ooz sex appeal but even more so if there's a mind and intellectual chemistry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a sex appeal of a math book. I've never seen anyone open a math book and didn't say "fuck me"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes OP!!!

100% hands down.

Just something about them you just can not get enough of

Prin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes OP!!!

100% hands down.

Just something about them you just can not get enough of

Prin x"

You are appealing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a lot better off here than on it with most experiences being with people from work.

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