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How easy is it for you to find local fwbs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab changed his username?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab changed his username?"

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always plenty in my area when I’m on pornhub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab changed his username?

Huh? "

Oh, I think I get it now

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

It's not easy tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s always plenty in my area when I’m on pornhub."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

impossible in kent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not easy tbh "

Oh, no?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Good luck tho !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy in my area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"impossible in kent

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I imagine it would be good for people who are close to London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting back on topic, I'd love to find a local person. I ALWAYS end up with ppl ages away who want to love me and it's just not the convenience it's supposed to be....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck tho !!"

Thanks I need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"impossible in kent

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Depends what you’re looking for, we’ve met lots of hot people locally

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay


"impossible in kent

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Which is why I moved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Getting back on topic, I'd love to find a local person. I ALWAYS end up with ppl ages away who want to love me and it's just not the convenience it's supposed to be.... "

At least you are loved

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Piece of piss that’s why I’ve been on here nearly 3 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"impossible in kent

Depends what you’re looking for, we’ve met lots of hot people locally "

Depends what you are looking for indeed. Judging from the winks and messages which I have recieved from men, I imagine it is much easer if you are bi.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I found one in three days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not that easy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Piece of piss that’s why I’ve been on here nearly 3 years "

Fair play to you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found one in three days "

Sounds good!

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "

Not easy as The years tick by, hitting 50 is a killer

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By *utlaw KingMan
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Impossible. Got to beg just for a sniff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?

Not easy as The years tick by, hitting 50 is a killer "

It's no better hitting 40 mate

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not finding it easy, to be honest.

And although there's still a whole to go, the big Five-Oh is looming ever closer as well

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Been my mission ever since i signed up. Still no joy. Doesn't help living out in the sticks.

Having plenty fun during my search though. And made some (non sex related) friends, so all is good in pringles land

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Impossible. Got to beg just for a sniff. "

I know man, all I need is a sniff somtimes or a wet finger to get me through life

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Live in a small town , so have to travel as a rule

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Practically impossible!

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Been my mission ever since i signed up. Still no joy. Doesn't help living out in the sticks.

Having plenty fun during my search though. And made some (non sex related) friends, so all is good in pringles land "

Well sorry to say distance wise is do-able however but I’m not going to grow 2 inches, height wise lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And the ones who are far away are looking for locals lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to where they are

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Distance is do able if your willing to put the time in, and spent weekends with them rather than a night here and there,depends what your after really.dont rule anything out tho

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Move to where they are "

What ! Move house for a fwb , noooooo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure there are people in the Wilted Shire willing to meet but I am still working on my strut

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"I am sure there are people in the Wilted Shire willing to meet but I am still working on my strut "
by the time lockdown is over,you should have it down to perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much impossible find someone we click with that's close enough.. Mainly we get straight guys messaging us saying " oh I am bi but" insert excuse of choice here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty much impossible find someone we click with that's close enough.. Mainly we get straight guys messaging us saying " oh I am bi but" insert excuse of choice here "

Oh damn, I bet that's a regular thing aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems thst 95% of men I fancy on here are from England. The Midlands and surrounding areas seem to be a hot spot for sexy men

Its gut6as so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move to where they are

What ! Move house for a fwb , noooooo lol "

Turn up right next door. Ooh Hellooo

Or Just move to where more people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure there are people in the Wilted Shire willing to meet but I am still working on my strut by the time lockdown is over,you should have it down to perfection "

Haha very true. I might start giving lessons after

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I never looked for one but found one where I wouldn't have expected.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I suppose it depends on what you're looking for and how willing you are to compromise on your ideal...I've met a few lovely local guys, but they weren't quite right for me.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Never found one so I’d say 100% zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem.. But my standards stop me meeting the masses

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have only met locally, say within 30 miles.

Works for us as we have kids to work around.

And yes, we found someone

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of good ones and the odd fb too.

I guess they turn up when you least expect them.

You've also got to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince

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By *ectorRivaMan
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Move to where they are

What ! Move house for a fwb , noooooo lol

Turn up right next door. Ooh Hellooo

Or Just move to where more people are "

You’re spot on, I’m moving to Wye, what’s your address

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

In the countryside never easy at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everywhere is further away from the man cave. Move? Why?

My friends know where to find me.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

An absolute nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "

Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?

Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me "

Awww bonus points for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?

Not a problem, found the fab of my life and she is next door to me

Awww bonus points for you "

Would you let me do it up the bum next then tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My very first meet from here became my fwb, he's amazing and is very local

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Bloody hopeless, but then I am asking for rather a lot given my split personality!

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch


"impossible in kent

I imagine it would be good for people who are close to London. "

I’m in London and it’s not easy here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to find FWB's, hard to find friends without benefits, as they last longer as friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go on who is near now the nearest fabber is 220 miles away so it’s not that easy to find local FWB,s but we keep on looking!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have beepers fitted to all mine

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Try living near the Shropshire, Worcestershire, Herefordshire border there is no one local, just lots of sheep. Luckily though I am welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varying results.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"It's getting harder."

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder."
i know i think its a morning thing

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It’s not easy either local or even distance, in fact it’s absolutely non existent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins "

What will be gone?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I was very lucky that my very local fwb found me just after I joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?"

the walnut whips.......... soon as you open box...... woooosh

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?"

The moment it seems lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?

The moment it seems lol"

Is it gone now? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the walnut whips....... yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes "

You're quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick "

really..... is that a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy at all here in grimsby, or surounding area. Maybe im not looking hard or need to join another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing "

Not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing

Not always "

you were really slow to say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing

Not always you were really slow to say that "

I went shopping, just got back

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?

The moment it seems lol

Is it gone now? Lol"

It keeps coming back

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By *aimtoplease69Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"impossible in kent

"

Not imposdible in Kent.. I have met up with a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?

The moment it seems lol

Is it gone now? Lol

It keeps coming back "

Well I'll be gone soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding a meet in a city may be easy enough but for that person to become a FB there needs to be some element of attraction, be good company to be with, good sex & within 30 minutes away should you be in need of a quick shag.. most importantly there should be no emotional attachment...you FB is a sexual relationship, that 1 800 number you can call when you need more than your vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing

Not always you were really slow to say that

I went shopping, just got back "

ooooooo what did you buy you could throw me something from 3 m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing

Not always you were really slow to say that

I went shopping, just got back ooooooo what did you buy you could throw me something from 3 m "

Fruit and gin with tonic and some wipes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking here too... But no chance in Basingstoke for a FWB idea...

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

On here it's not easy. Thankfully this is not my only source of a good time. In the past I have joined a site and found someone I really liked who lived in walking distance within the first month, met him at least once a week for a few years and we're still in touch (though purely platonic friends these days).

It helps to live in a heavily populated area!

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?

The moment it seems lol

Is it gone now? Lol

It keeps coming back

Well I'll be gone soon "

Not this time think it’s hanging around for a while

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Back where I used to live - Milton Keynes, hence the 'MK' part of my username - I had a few over the years...

....one I saw on-and-off for three years, who was only a five-minute drive from me; and one I saw for a few months who was only a two-minute walk away in a parallel road, almost within sight of my house...

....but down here in Cornwall, after over two-and-a-half years of trying, I haven't found a single playmate - and the way things are going, maybe never will...

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "

I find it difficult but that’s because I’m looking for far more than good looks in an Fwb. There are loads of good looking chaps locally who’d be great for a one-off - or even a semi regular shag.

However - an fwb is to all intents and purposes a non exclusive relationship (but hopefully without the boredom, jealousy and drama of a ‘real’ relationship) - so personalities need to align as much as sexual attraction.

It can be as hard, or probably harder, to find a ‘good’ fwb as it is to find a good relationship.

Also - when you see someone local it’s the norm to spend a few hours together fairly regularly. When you’re seeing someone over 100 miles away you tend to spend around 24 hours of ‘quality’ time together and drop everything else. I find this works really well and helps with compartmentalisation - when you’re not together you’re living your own lives - when you’re together you give each other 100%.

Works great in my experience tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "

95% of the locals here are fucking cringey.

A decent percentage further afield typically only want to meet if you live next door to them.

Shit state of affairs all round really

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home?

I find it difficult but that’s because I’m looking for far more than good looks in an Fwb. There are loads of good looking chaps locally who’d be great for a one-off - or even a semi regular shag.

However - an fwb is to all intents and purposes a non exclusive relationship (but hopefully without the boredom, jealousy and drama of a ‘real’ relationship) - so personalities need to align as much as sexual attraction.

It can be as hard, or probably harder, to find a ‘good’ fwb as it is to find a good relationship.

Also - when you see someone local it’s the norm to spend a few hours together fairly regularly. When you’re seeing someone over 100 miles away you tend to spend around 24 hours of ‘quality’ time together and drop everything else. I find this works really well and helps with compartmentalisation - when you’re not together you’re living your own lives - when you’re together you give each other 100%.

Works great in my experience tbh! "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The further away they the more sexual appealing they become,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living near the Shropshire, Worcestershire, Herefordshire border there is no one local, just lots of sheep. Luckily though I am welsh "

Baaaaa

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"Try living near the Shropshire, Worcestershire, Herefordshire border there is no one local, just lots of sheep. Luckily though I am welsh

Baaaaa "

Careful I’ll be after you if you make that noise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are not many around here in penge, but although lots of interests in northern england. I might have to move lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"impossible in kent

I imagine it would be good for people who are close to London. "

Depends what you want, I’ve not found a local one yet

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Virtually impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard. There dont appear to be any particularly local hotties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on off the site over 2.5 yrs not been able to find a FWB/fb within my area. It's shocking I may need to move

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Local is difficult but luckily I have a few not so local ones.

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By *abuma65Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

friends with beans ...yes....benefits ....hmmm

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Better odds winning the lottery

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I found one only a couple of miles away

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Hard. There dont appear to be any particularly local hotties!"

Slander

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't, at all. XD

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I tend to look further away from home as feel safer that way

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Truth be told I'm no longer looking but when I was there indeed were always lovely ladies around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?"

Start a thread about it shag

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Mrs finds it easy but more of a selection process. I find it harder but I'm a married guy so no surprise. Also I'm the happier one of the two of us to travel.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’ve still got a fb I found on Craigslist lol

I have a few guys I enjoy fun with locals from here, I have no bother finding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

Start a thread about it shag "

Yes I might do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

Start a thread about it shag Yes I might do that "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?"

Further away is a bigger pool of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

Start a thread about it shag Yes I might do that

"

I have done it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

Further away is a bigger pool of people"

That is a good reason as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how it is why it is hard to find locals but not further away?

Start a thread about it shag Yes I might do that

I have done it now "

Good man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hard. There dont appear to be any particularly local hotties!"

Ahh, yes not many within a hours drive of me.. And the ones who I like, don't know I exist lol.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

In the past I’ve had two lovely ones from Fab. Both an hour from me. Is that close enough?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the past I’ve had two lovely ones from Fab. Both an hour from me. Is that close enough?"

I was thinking I could of found someone who I clicked with in the same town as me. But I never click with anyone localish, they're all miles! away.

One hour away is starting to feel local to me now.

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"the walnut whips....... yes

You're quick really..... is that a good thing

Not always "

Why aren’t there matching walnut handcuffs & blindfold to go with the whips!? #oversight.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."

What about us 2/10 women?

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Almost impossible

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women? "

You are definitely a good looking women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically impossible n theres barely ones that are serious bout meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy at all

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

Im wanting to find a greedy girl to partner up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating."

Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.

Power gets to their heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.

Power gets to their heads "

It's not that. It's pure economics. Fab has way more men than women.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Pretty easy.

Shitloads of Welsh men on here

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.

Power gets to their heads "

#pussypower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not easy tbh "

Almost impossible I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found one in three days "

Lucky you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible. I want a local fb but I'm finding nothing in Doncaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women? "

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty easy.

Shitloads of Welsh men on here "

I will move there!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!"

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light. "

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light. "

Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.

Power gets to their heads

#pussypower"

Just like that.

Cringe

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right"

One can only dream!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right

One can only dream! "

nothing wrong with dreaming big

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion."

Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

Problem is, Men allow women to be "superior" on here.

Power gets to their heads

#pussypower

Just like that.

Cringe "

It shoots lasers and everything! Sorry I'll try not to use my pussy weapon in front of you if you find it so embarrassing.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right

One can only dream!

nothing wrong with dreaming big"

Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/05/20 11:51:50]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right

One can only dream!

nothing wrong with dreaming big

Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said) "

The 'that's what she said' joke just got you a huge step closer

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

I might let you ride me one day if you play your cards right

One can only dream!

nothing wrong with dreaming big

Yeah but there's big and then there's you (that's what she said)

The 'that's what she said' joke just got you a huge step closer "

Note to self: brush up on teenage boy type humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult as I never have my location set to my actual postcode

But I think in general finding a fwb is difficult. I depends how much your willing to sway from your desires. I've yet to find one that could keep up with me.

The thing is they could tick every box but you could find your just not compatible in the bedroom. So it's hard to find the ideal person

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Not a problem? Or like me you find yourself having to look further and further away from home? "

There are plenty of people local for me, but it’s who you make a connection with that counts, plus there’s always that added thrill of meeting someone you know very little about, and may never see again......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's getting harder.

Sorry bout that I had a quick peek at your profile don’t worry it will be gone soon in a couple

Of mins

What will be gone?

The moment it seems lol

Is it gone now? Lol

It keeps coming back

Well I'll be gone soon "

Depends on different things like the area you live in. If secluded not easy and some Fabbers prefer only meeting out of their areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.

Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here? "

Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

Try living in a different country and perving pics across the water!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.

Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here?

Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10 "

I'll update my profile right away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just stopped seeing my local fwb. So I'm browsing for a new one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here about a year and not found a one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy for women hard for men. I think 5/10 women want a 10/10 Man and a 10/10 man would happily take a 5/10woman. Im struggling only being an 8 competition is too high and there are a lot of time wasters who chat but when it boils down to the meet they let you down. Can be very frustrating.

What about us 2/10 women?

You are not a 2/10 at all!!!

Fine! 3.5 in the right light.

Come on you know is not true! At least 8/10 in my opinion.

Does that mean I need to find 16/10 men on here?

Exactly ... minimum requirement 16/10

I'll update my profile right away! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Difficult as I never have my location set to my actual postcode

But I think in general finding a fwb is difficult. I depends how much your willing to sway from your desires. I've yet to find one that could keep up with me.

The thing is they could tick every box but you could find your just not compatible in the bedroom. So it's hard to find the ideal person "

It’s difficult even to start a chat with someone on this days in here... at least for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up looking ages ago.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"It's not easy tbh "

I dont find it too difficult

However I'm not looking and not sure I will again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems quite hard

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Our last Male guy we saw regular was 20 mins away! Very handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be none near me, just those looking for a one off knee tremble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t seem to be any near me either

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Extremely difficult

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It’s easier to find lord Lucan riding Shergar then it is to find a fb or fab

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