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Ties. Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When and why did men start wearing ties? What is the point of them? They are uncomfortable and they dangle in my soup.

Discuss.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

They are sexy on the right man though, especially when leading him to the bedroom after a seductive dinner

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"When and why did men start wearing ties? What is the point of them? They are uncomfortable and they dangle in my soup.

Discuss.

"
but cunningly the perfect restraints and obviously cannot be arrested for carrying a tie or wearing one , Some people should be arrested for that style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are sexy on the right man though, especially when leading him to the bedroom after a seductive dinner "

This. 100%. Also useful to tie his wrists together if I don’t have any chains to hand.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I love ties. Great way to restrain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because im meant to be tied up with one especially when theres no rope about lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are sexy on the right man though, especially when leading him to the bedroom after a seductive dinner "

Dont serve soup.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well ladies I am learning a lot about you today.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Ties are dam sexy especially with the right suit/shirt

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I read recently they are a sign of oppression. Hence the term ‘wage slave’.

I have some nice ones, can’t remember when I last wore them though and hope I never will again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A friend thought it could work as a makeshift blindfold too.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

...

I love a man who can rock a suit and tie

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

So I can tie them to the bed

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Got to love a tie in the right circumstances.... the little ‘let me adjust that for you‘ fingers just teasing along the torso, pulling them in for a kiss, leading them to somewhere a little more comfortable, tracing it lightly down your body and finally a readily available wrist tie or blindfold ..... so many reasons

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A quick Google tells me that ties date from the seventeenth century, originally as part of a military uniform, and were used to do up the top of jackets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got to love a tie in the right circumstances.... the little ‘let me adjust that for you‘ fingers just teasing along the torso, pulling them in for a kiss, leading them to somewhere a little more comfortable, tracing it lightly down your body and finally a readily available wrist tie or blindfold ..... so many reasons "

Its getting very hot in here.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"A friend thought it could work as a makeshift blindfold too. "

Ties are very versatile

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

They are also meant to subliminally represent the cock too..as well as leading the eye down to the groin area

Apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend thought it could work as a makeshift blindfold too.

Ties are very versatile "

I can see the benefits outweigh the discomfort of suffocation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never find my tie uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are also meant to subliminally represent the cock too..as well as leading the eye down to the groin area

Apparently "

Oh...a signpost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this question actually had me in deep thought the other night, like really deep. who decided one day that from now anyone wanting to make sure of there appearance wear a tie, im not even joking i was in a deep debate with myself. very odd

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not a lover of ties. I prefer the top button undone and a bit of flesh showing.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Thought they were to hide buttons.

Pain in the arse getting the length right and not looking like a school kid with a short time or Donald trump with a massive tie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this question actually had me in deep thought the other night, like really deep. who decided one day that from now anyone wanting to make sure of there appearance wear a tie, im not even joking i was in a deep debate with myself. very odd "

Do you also wonder why the fashion for mens hats disappeared?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no....not upon till right about now, but i now have to doff my cap to you good sir, for starting a new inner head debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ties:

They were a rich man's way of saying I am set apart from the unfortunate.

That is why you would often see a rich man using a tie to hang himself, it was the ultimate statement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no....not upon till right about now, but i now have to doff my cap to you good sir, for starting a new inner head debate. "

You are welcome

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"They are also meant to subliminally represent the cock too..as well as leading the eye down to the groin area

Apparently "

Exactly what I was going to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ties:

They were a rich man's way of saying I am set apart from the unfortunate.

That is why you would often see a rich man using a tie to hang himself, it was the ultimate statement.

"

That's deep Huey. For some reason I want to try if the tie can handle my weight. Would need to test it before I embarrass myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ties:

They were a rich man's way of saying I am set apart from the unfortunate.

That is why you would often see a rich man using a tie to hang himself, it was the ultimate statement.

That's deep Huey. For some reason I want to try if the tie can handle my weight. Would need to test it before I embarrass myself. "
Let's talk first about your assets....and I don't mean 34-32-9.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are also meant to subliminally represent the cock too..as well as leading the eye down to the groin area

Apparently "

They are big downward pointy arrows I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a good way to get your crush up close as you fumble and say you need help to tie it. Works well with stocks and dicky bows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a good way to get your crush up close as you fumble and say you need help to tie it. Works well with stocks and dicky bows. "

Oh ok, I will remember that so many opportunities

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ties:

They were a rich man's way of saying I am set apart from the unfortunate.

That is why you would often see a rich man using a tie to hang himself, it was the ultimate statement.

That's deep Huey. For some reason I want to try if the tie can handle my weight. Would need to test it before I embarrass myself. Let's talk first about your assets....and I don't mean 34-32-9. "

We need a NDA first. I will send my lawyer over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ties:

They were a rich man's way of saying I am set apart from the unfortunate.

That is why you would often see a rich man using a tie to hang himself, it was the ultimate statement.

That's deep Huey. For some reason I want to try if the tie can handle my weight. Would need to test it before I embarrass myself. Let's talk first about your assets....and I don't mean 34-32-9.

We need a NDA first. I will send my lawyer over. "
Thank you

Sir.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

To tie the Mrs up when you get home from work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To tie the Mrs up when you get home from work "

Bit extreme? I am sure you can talk things through.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I love men in suits with expensive ties... Such a turn on. Especially when i get them in the bedroom and tie it around their hard cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s when the spare tie is necessary to put in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It represents length and width of one's penis!

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By *ot CocoaMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"They are sexy on the right man though, especially when leading him to the bedroom after a seductive dinner "

Now that sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. "

Jim's got a bum!

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Originally OP, for the practicalities of keeping warm, then later, for affiliation, status and fashion.

Check your collar size if it's uncomfortable.

There's nothing better than a well tied tie, upon a quality crisp shirt, to focus the eye. Mesmerising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When and why did men start wearing ties? What is the point of them? They are uncomfortable and they dangle in my soup.

Discuss.

"

Saves putting a collar and lead on as it does the same job

They are sexy though I must admit

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Ties are essential attire for a suit. Don't like suit without the tie look. It looks unfinished and sloppy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel they must have been invented purely just to point at area or interest ..

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Love a suit and tie especially when it can mean I lead him astray, and also doubles as a restraint. Some naughty thoughts to start my day xT

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Ties are essential attire for a suit. Don't like suit without the tie look. It looks unfinished and sloppy. "

I agree. My previous job required a suit but not a tie! I still wore my tie as it didn't feel right without it.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Ties are essential attire for a suit. Don't like suit without the tie look. It looks unfinished and sloppy. "

Agreed. Not that I have many opportunities to wear one, but I don't feel right in a suit without a tie.

Never been restrained with one yet, though

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Got to love a tie in the right circumstances.... the little ‘let me adjust that for you‘ fingers just teasing along the torso, pulling them in for a kiss, leading them to somewhere a little more comfortable, tracing it lightly down your body and finally a readily available wrist tie or blindfold ..... so many reasons "

Oh, my....

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Originally OP, for the practicalities of keeping warm, then later, for affiliation, status and fashion.

Check your collar size if it's uncomfortable.

There's nothing better than a well tied tie, upon a quality crisp shirt, to focus the eye. Mesmerising "

Thanks Kitten

I try to avoid ties when wearing suits because its uncomfortable. You are right the collar size is a factor. I do struggle to find the shirt to fit me. If I went for the right collersize the shirt would be too loose. I prefer it to be fitted which makes the coller size slightly smaller. Dont want to pay a tailor to make my shirts.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

If your tie is uncomfortable you’re doing it wrong, or wearing a shirt with too small a collar.

I’m not missing wearing one at home, but I always do to the office - it’s a great way to make a statement, and the ladies seem to like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read recently they are a sign of oppression. Hence the term ‘wage slave’.

I have some nice ones, can’t remember when I last wore them though and hope I never will again."

They're more a symbol of being in service I think...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I love ties. Great way to restrain "

it’s one of my favourite restraints, if not the favourite. A nice soft Italian silk tie. She’s pushed up against the wall, both her hands in one of mine above her head, the tie comes off and is tied around the wrists while enjoying lots of eye contact and kissing. She’s then on a little lead. It’s took years to perfect these moves , I really hope they don’t disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They look good, especially with a nice pocket square.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think the ritual of putting on a tie puts a chap into a slightly different frame of mind? Like symbolically separating "free" time from work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think the ritual of putting on a tie puts a chap into a slightly different frame of mind? Like symbolically separating "free" time from work?"

Reminds me of school so yes.

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