FabSwingers.com forum: So i got friend zoned

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't enough badboy. ^

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

Were you good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to be friends zoned. It implies, you have a friend!

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Self deprication is the least successful way to get laid

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

So cos they have friend zoned u you are going to be a badboy (which I always see as being a total knob - never understood the badboy bit). Why resort to being a bad boy/knob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friend zone doesn’t exist.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"The friend zone doesn’t exist."

It does lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it wasnt because you're not a bad boy

Maybe you're just not as nice as you think you are

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Are you saying you slept with her then she friend zoned you? Or just put you in friend zone by talking to you? I have many male friends i put in the friends category. Don't know if they think I will change my mind as we carry on getting to know each other.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Being bad isn't the reason. Usually it's because they don't find you physically attractive enough to want to fuck you but enjoy your friendship. Most of my best friends are men. I just don't think they're my type to fuck, willy too small, not attractive face etc but they great friends of mine and I would never want to change that. Not even if i was too d*unk and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's good to be friends zoned. It implies, you have a friend!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it wasnt because you're not a bad boy

Maybe you're just not as nice as you think you are"

DAMN I SENT YOU THAT BABE

Thank you for using my wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it wasnt because you're not a bad boy

Maybe you're just not as nice as you think you are

DAMN I SENT YOU THAT BABE

Thank you for using my wisdom

Ah yea I thought I read it somewhere

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Friend zone can happen naturally, without there being a negative personal reason. We've had it happen both ways. It's all part and parcel of this lifestyle.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Happens me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if there was no spark it would have probably gone horribly wrong anyway

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s our worse nightmare, being just friends with a hot swinger , the one thing you have in common is you both love sex, but you ain’t ever going to share it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

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I wouldn't worrying spend my life in the friend zone but better that than the block zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

Please don’t get stuck helping this friend with moving or doing chores around the house...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years ive met and played with some lovely men but over time ive found myself just more comfortable around then as friends so they end up friend zoned and im still great friends with them.

Some ive not played with but get on better then I do with my own brother, they become friend zoned and there would be no chance of play as id not risk that friendship. A few on fab are friend zoned and I think the world of them. I treasure the friends I have and if ive friend zoned someone it means we will be friends forever x

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Sometimes it's better to be put in the zone. Shows she trusts you and respects you. Someone they can talk to about their feelings. Or would you prefer to be the notch on the bedpost who gets the d*unken texts at 3am on a Saturday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there other zones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im friends with everyone I've had sex with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it sucks

guess i wasnt enough badboy again.

Please don’t get stuck helping this friend with moving or doing chores around the house..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He wasn't enough badboy. ^"

^^^No one could ever be as badboy as Jim...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Self deprication is the least successful way to get laid

This

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why does it suck OP?

Think of it this way - there wasn't sufficient attraction to take things beyond friendship, but they think enough of you to want to maintain that friendship - surely that's a good thing?

Or another way, if this were a site dedicated to something other than swinging, you'd be celebrating a friend made.

It happens, I have friends on here I think a lot of and whose friendship I value very much, and yet have no sexual inclination towards whatsoever - I see that as a positive and not a "missed opportunity".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you continue this relationship make sure she has lots of female friends to hook you up with....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Don't give up... As one guy on fab message me lots and chatted to me on forums, we eventually got chatting and now we really like each other. At the beginning, he just got lost in fab traffic, I didn't really rate his profile photo but then he improved his photo and chat with me... And now I'm so excited to meet him after lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a real friend is much harder than just finding a fuck.

Friends are the ones who stand by you, stand up for you, dont fuck you over when something more "shiney" comes along.

They are the ones who will be honest with you, about all things, even if it's not what you want to hear. When you stumble.... They will not let you fall. And if you do they will pick you up and carry you.

Real friends will not abuse your trust or you theirs. They will stick by you in good times and in bad. But that only ever works if you do the same with them.

If they are only friends when they want something, then that's not friendship, no matter how finely it may be dressed up.

There is a fortune in friendship....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Finding a real friend is much harder than just finding a fuck.

Friends are the ones who stand by you, stand up for you, dont fuck you over when something more "shiney" comes along.

Real friends will not abuse your trust or you theirs. They will stick by you in good times and in bad. But that only ever works if you do the same with them.

If they are only friends when they want something, then that's not friendship, no matter how finely it may be dressed up.

There is a fortune in friendship....

Very very true

Fucks are ten a penny. A good friend is much harder to find

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh sorry guys. I was pretty tired when i posted this. This wasnt fab related just an awkward self distancing date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The friend zone doesn’t exist."

I can't be bothered to write an essay on here, but I suggest you do a bit of googling. The friend zone isn't a real thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are my badboy in my heart and that's all that matters

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are my badboy in my heart and that's all that matters"

At least he's not the recidivist in your rectum...

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Fucks are ten a penny. A good friend is much harder to find "

Not round my way they're not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry I'm so far in the friend zone with some id need a helicopter air life to get me out but it's better that way than having people dis like you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Dont worry I'm so far in the friend zone with some id need a helicopter air life to get me out but it's better that way than having people dis like you"

hey my bestie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont worry I'm so far in the friend zone with some id need a helicopter air life to get me out but it's better that way than having people dis like you

hey my bestie

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see what I mean!!!! This beautiful lady sees me as nothing but a friend I'm ok with that though she still likes cuddles thats what counts

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