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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they put you off posting? If I see a thread with 100 replies I usually just assume there is nothing new I can add, so pass it by.

Is anyone else weird like me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the thread I comment regardless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I like the thread I comment regardless x"

Its a hit or miss getting a response anyway lol

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Do they put you off posting? If I see a thread with 100 replies I usually just assume there is nothing new I can add, so pass it by.

Is anyone else weird like me? "

Mostly depends on the subject rather than # of replies I don’t expect anyone to get impressed with my wise words anyway so whatever I feel it happens

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No doesn’t stop me, I’ll add my thoughts if it interests me

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"If I like the thread I comment regardless x

Its a hit or miss getting a response anyway lol"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I post if I find it Interesting

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If I like the thread I comment regardless x"

Same. Though sometimes if there's loads of comments I can't be bothered to read it all and don't want to post something that's already been discussed but that's more me being lazy than thinking about how likely I am to get a response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess the other thing is feeling like if there are hundreds of replies, mine is just going to get lost in the noise and no one will read it or reply.

It is kind of disheartening when you add what you think is an interesting point, and it just gets ignored.

I know this isn't massively important, just wondered if anyone felt the same.

(I'm also aware that this will start to look ironic if this thread gets loads of replies...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once there are more than like 50 replies I usually can't be bothered reading all the comments so skip it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I like the thread I comment regardless x

Same. Though sometimes if there's loads of comments I can't be bothered to read it all and don't want to post something that's already been discussed but that's more me being lazy than thinking about how likely I am to get a response."

Yes, that's a big factor for me too - too lazy to read 100 replies, but I don't want to be that idiot who chimes in at the end with something that's been said 25 times already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once there are more than like 50 replies I usually can't be bothered reading all the comments so skip it"

Yeah this is my feeling too

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, i waffle on regardless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, i waffle on regardless "

I respect that

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Varies on the subject matter, I don’t bother if people are having conversations within the thread that have no relevance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Varies on the subject matter, I don’t bother if people are having conversations within the thread that have no relevance."

Yeah that goes on quite a bit, it is a bit offputting

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Forum clique and conversation killers ( aka me sometimes) are exist. Don’t ever think that your voice will be unheard. Someone somewhere will read it and friendship will blossom because of it

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"Do they put you off posting? If I see a thread with 100 replies I usually just assume there is nothing new I can add, so pass it by.

Is anyone else weird like me? "

Yeah, me. I'm weird like you too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forum clique and conversation killers ( aka me sometimes) are exist. Don’t ever think that your voice will be unheard. Someone somewhere will read it and friendship will blossom because of it "

Haha, this is the most positive way of looking at it! Not always true though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they put you off posting? If I see a thread with 100 replies I usually just assume there is nothing new I can add, so pass it by.

Is anyone else weird like me?

Yeah, me. I'm weird like you too."

It's good to be weird. Glad I'm not alone.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Varies on the subject matter, I don’t bother if people are having conversations within the thread that have no relevance."

I swerve those ones too.

Other than that, I'll have a quick scan of the replies, often someone has already said roughly what I would have anyway, so I don't bother repeating it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend on the subject, if it's a topic I'm interested in or feel passionate about then I will read through and maybe comment or agree if what I want to say has already been said. If I see it going off on a tangent and people are just using it as an option to start their own convo or flirt then I will jump ship.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"I guess the other thing is feeling like if there are hundreds of replies, mine is just going to get lost in the noise and no one will read it or reply.

It is kind of disheartening when you add what you think is an interesting point, and it just gets ignored.

I know this isn't massively important, just wondered if anyone felt the same.

(I'm also aware that this will start to look ironic if this thread gets loads of replies...)"

Yep, I feel the same.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Forum clique and conversation killers ( aka me sometimes) are exist. Don’t ever think that your voice will be unheard. Someone somewhere will read it and friendship will blossom because of it

Haha, this is the most positive way of looking at it! Not always true though..."

Does it have to be “always” ? “sometimes” works pretty well for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forum clique and conversation killers ( aka me sometimes) are exist. Don’t ever think that your voice will be unheard. Someone somewhere will read it and friendship will blossom because of it

Haha, this is the most positive way of looking at it! Not always true though...

Does it have to be “always” ? “sometimes” works pretty well for me "

I'll take sometimes

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