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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

How many of you keep swinging secret in your lives, or do some of you tell your friends and family and have it out in the open?

We have it as our secret. We quite enjoy the fact it's something private between us. We also know our children, family and friends wouldn't understand. Some of our friends can be a little judgemental, but we still love them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't mind who knows really

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

There is NO need to tell anyone. I never get this .....

Do non swingers announce at the family table that they had a damn good fuck with maureen from the office next door and she showed you how to finger your arse ?

No ..... I do what I do for varied sexual experiences nothing else. Who needs to know ?

I went out with this bird last night is a phrase that suits monogs and polys..... who cares. It's sex.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's our secret!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is NO need to tell anyone. I never get this .....

Do non swingers announce at the family table that they had a damn good fuck with maureen from the office next door and she showed you how to finger your arse ?

No ..... I do what I do for varied sexual experiences nothing else. Who needs to know ?

I went out with this bird last night is a phrase that suits monogs and polys..... who cares. It's sex."

This.

I'm single so in many ways its diffrent for me but it really is no one else's business.

I have a couple of friends who know I'm on here but that's just because I was very candid in a discussion about online dating.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"How many of you keep swinging secret in your lives, or do some of you tell your friends and family and have it out in the open?

We have it as our secret. We quite enjoy the fact it's something private between us. We also know our children, family and friends wouldn't understand. Some of our friends can be a little judgemental, but we still love them."

Exactly the same! couple of my best friends aware that I’m in the lifestyle and that’s about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is NO need to tell anyone. I never get this .....

Do non swingers announce at the family table that they had a damn good fuck with maureen from the office next door and she showed you how to finger your arse ?

No ..... I do what I do for varied sexual experiences nothing else. Who needs to know ?

I went out with this bird last night is a phrase that suits monogs and polys..... who cares. It's sex."

Couldn't agree more, never understood the need to share my sex life with family or friends.

Maybe I'm just a weirdo tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s our business and no one else’s, except for all the lovely people we swing with x

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Absolutely not, it’s my life and business. Of course if any of my friends were to ask my opinion I’d give it.

I tend to find a lot of people outside of this lifestyle would struggle to understand and be rather judgemental.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Some close friends know but our general friends and family don’t.

No need at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows. 30 year long friendship. Can’t get rid of her for love nor money I jest, I’d be lost without her. We’ve always been very different sexually. She likes wined and dined, and would like the roses round the door. Whereas me.. ha ha... I’m happily single and no intentions of ‘dating’... only making good friendships where we can giggle and fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is the key

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Secret.

I like my private life to remain that way, plus too many people gossip.

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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Looks like the majority of us feel the same way.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Secret.

I like my private life to remain that way, plus too many people gossip."

Snap

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No one knows about my Fab life apart from my Fab friends. Everyone else thinks butter wouldn’t melt in my mouth lol!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We're a Chief Constable and a Chief Inspector, we need to keep it quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're a Chief Constable and a Chief Inspector, we need to keep it quiet"
lol you were two doctors the other day

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To be fair, we don't tend to discuss our sex like with family members. There are a few friends that know, but it's not common knowledge.

Cal

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My inner circle of friends know that I see and go on dates with lots of men but I won't tell them the details of them or of my kinks

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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"No one knows about my Fab life apart from my Fab friends. Everyone else thinks butter wouldn’t melt in my mouth lol! "

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

It’s our secret life...

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