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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...block list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God, hundreds of people are on that

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It's still empty but likely not for much longer as my tolerance weakens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"God, hundreds of people are on that"

God's on Fab ?? Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is like spinning the wheel of fortune....

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

One, she's blocked me as well, hers is undoubtedly longer

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Hundreds AND hundreds

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

here and there

127 total only the 4 so far today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beyond the end of the rainbow, across the horizon, to infinity and beyond

So, fairly long

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve blocked three quarters of Fab. Men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines very long sadly, I hate blocking but beats abuse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting longer and longer. My tolerance has changed massively the past 4 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its tripled in length in the last 8 weeks

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Far too big, can’t remember why most they are there a mix of vile abusive people, people who we / they said no or just thought no and didn’t want to message them by accident. Could do with a not compatible feature instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 on mine

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not very long. I tend to ignore or report. They really need to cross the line for me to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 10

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not very long, I only block for abuse, and counter block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is endless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 3 and a half centimeters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 at the moment. Some slightly odd people out there

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not very tbh. Very rarely feel the need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive! Once on there it's very unlikely you'll be off and there's people on there from when we joined! Too big to sort through now for sure

Peach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only about 10 people

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Just counted 16 had twenty think they must have left fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just have a count.

I'll be able to tell you in a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually only 55.

Thought it was more and only one is a Male profile.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very long!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's bloody massive, these days

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Not very long at all. I've been on here nearly 9 years and it's low. Maybe some previously blocked folk have unlosed?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Really long and the past few days Iv added loads to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

94 crikey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massive! Once on there it's very unlikely you'll be off and there's people on there from when we joined! Too big to sort through now for sure

Peach "

I was told people drop off after a while though?

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"Massive! Once on there it's very unlikely you'll be off and there's people on there from when we joined! Too big to sort through now for sure

Peach "
likewise ,

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

0

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

"

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right "

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Far too many... I actually eased up on my blocking. I only block if they are abusive or harassing me too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 30, some guys go too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one at the mo.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile "

I wouldn't be that anal... If they sent me a message and look and sound creepy as hell, yes i would block. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any on mine at the moment. I rarely feel the need to block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"about 3 and a half centimeters"

Block Not Cock, you didn’t have to expose yourself there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile "

Funnily enough that happened to me only the other week. Somebody sent me a wink, and then blocked me.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

13, a couple of them are people we know in real life and the rest are mostly those who won’t take a polite “no thanks”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile "

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 so far but only recently just joined up again x

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you? "

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude "

Why is it rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude "

I don’t think it’s about being rude but more feeling comfortable.

Not everyone wants people they know knowing about their sex life and so block to maintain that privacy.

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list has over 250 on it x

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude

Why is it rude? "

When you block people for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting longer daily. X

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By *ticky 69Man
over a year ago

Stirling

I've only ever blocked anyone by mistake - fat finger trouble - so none currently blocked, whether intentionally or not.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude "

Or maybe it's their perfectly reasonable way of having looked at yours in return, decided you're not for them, and saved you the trouble of messaging them

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Around 70

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude

Or maybe it's their perfectly reasonable way of having looked at yours in return, decided you're not for them, and saved you the trouble of messaging them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile

That's their right. Maybe they know you?

Yeah lol thier constitutional right to be rude

Why is it rude?

When you block people for fun"

As I said, it's their right to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

"

My block list is long because I block women who are local and I dont want to meet them.

There isnt another way for them not to show in my searches

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have two - one homophobic woman and one guy who persistently asked me if I wanted to meet him for a BJ

Don't often feel the need to block

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Less than 40 in mine, generally they are from when I first came to Fab and I blocked most local guys from updates etc, then I changed all my filters and had no problems since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not getting bothered at all so I'm happy to say that its empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got alot alot longer since lockdown. This pandemic has sent some people loopy lol

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

About 30 last I checked..been growing lately

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We have 7 now we cleared it few months back and some of them managed to get back on it same day within few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I love you all

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Not many at all. We very rarely block as we rarely see a need to.

We are easy going people and don't get wound up about things enough to block people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooong.

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more block list you have, the troubled you are .

No one needs to defend the length of their block list. Everyone has their reasons, I block people if they are persistent when I say no, or if they send rude/crude messages. I'm not going to justify it, because it is my right

Some people will block you just by looking at thier profile "

I block people for not reading mine... Shame, as it says I will, in the text

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

It's a grower not a show'er

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

3 and they all know me in real life

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on."

Oh so true... I have one person three times on mine

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on."

How do you deal with someone you have blocked and they follow you around the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on.

Oh so true... I have one person three times on mine "

Three times! You have a persistent follower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked about 30 men since I joined fab last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on.

How do you deal with someone you have blocked and they follow you around the forums? "

Good question. I am sure a few forum users at some point have had to deal with this and I know some that have really struggled. So I will share what I would do if it happens to me:

First thing is to report to admin and/or directly quote them saying you're blocked and you know, but still following me around. That would usually deal with the basic ones, but for the extreme persistent ones things are not that simple because they don't care how many times you report they know loopholes, ways around to keep getting to you... having digs... always in 'your face' so to speak...

Here is how I would deal with that:

My general rule is I don't focus on the things I can't control because that is a waste of my time and would be a distraction. For whatever reason those unwanted followers have made it their mission to try and derail/ruin your time... if they have multiple profiles or 'mates' keeping an eye on you... they will know when your logged in... so at times you will feel like it's a constant battle... can't get away from it...

My mindset to deal with that would be not to react/bite. I would carry on regardless. Remember the reasons why I joined and ignore any unwanted attention/drama. By sticking to your path you will gain control back of your time on here and eventually the persistent ones will either move on or you allow them to remain in the background. They need you to react so they can see they are getting under your skin... they will not stop if you continue to give them the satisfaction of knowing you're getting bothered by their actions... unfortunately there is no time frame when those blocked Fabbers finally leave you alone, but to overcome that is in your hands.

As I said I have not been through it myself so can't pinpoint exact solutions from my experience like I do with other topics, but hopefully this helps anyone going through a difficult time.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I don't block as I don't get many replies or messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has turned into blocking rights haha just like the old days

My thoughts:

Good or bad, nobody needs to explain or justify reasons. Block option is there for a reason. If you happen to be the person blocked don't dwell on it because you're only wasting your own time. People try to get around blocks by creating multiple profiles or have them... use forums to communicate... I don't get that, just move on.

How do you deal with someone you have blocked and they follow you around the forums?

Good question. I am sure a few forum users at some point have had to deal with this and I know some that have really struggled. So I will share what I would do if it happens to me:

First thing is to report to admin and/or directly quote them saying you're blocked and you know, but still following me around. That would usually deal with the basic ones, but for the extreme persistent ones things are not that simple because they don't care how many times you report they know loopholes, ways around to keep getting to you... having digs... always in 'your face' so to speak...

Here is how I would deal with that:

My general rule is I don't focus on the things I can't control because that is a waste of my time and would be a distraction. For whatever reason those unwanted followers have made it their mission to try and derail/ruin your time... if they have multiple profiles or 'mates' keeping an eye on you... they will know when your logged in... so at times you will feel like it's a constant battle... can't get away from it...

My mindset to deal with that would be not to react/bite. I would carry on regardless. Remember the reasons why I joined and ignore any unwanted attention/drama. By sticking to your path you will gain control back of your time on here and eventually the persistent ones will either move on or you allow them to remain in the background. They need you to react so they can see they are getting under your skin... they will not stop if you continue to give them the satisfaction of knowing you're getting bothered by their actions... unfortunately there is no time frame when those blocked Fabbers finally leave you alone, but to overcome that is in your hands.

As I said I have not been through it myself so can't pinpoint exact solutions from my experience like I do with other topics, but hopefully this helps anyone going through a difficult time."

I met a guy for a social a few years ago, it was awful and i was frightened, i blocked him after he had messaged me asking for a veri, i also reported him to Fab and detailed what had happened, they did nothing. He started following me around the forums, having a go at me, i reported him again but nothing was done. I deleted that profile and started again.

I now block people straight away if i get abuse or hassle, i ignore them on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 - but then I’ve never bothered to message anyone either.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill


"None. I love you all "

Really????

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Not many at all on mine.

Hmmm I wonder how many im on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few. Guys that insist on messaging over and over when I’m obviously not responding because I’m not interested go on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. I love you all

Really???? "

Yes! My block list is entirely empty

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I have 100’s on mine as I use it as a filter, if someone reads and deletes a message or replies with a no thanks, I block, then they don’t appear in any search I do.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Blocked quite a few, often they’ll not know, nothing too personal I’ll know we wouldn’t get on, off this site so don’t want any more interaction with them.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not counted, but I have added more since lockdown started than in the entire year before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 56 ppl on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Around 56 ppl on there "

Forgot to add

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HUGE... pages and pages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many on this profile but hundreds on my single one

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is a piece of string

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