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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not....I've known people get together from all kinds of sites/ groups/ clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought so, experience tells me otherwise tbh.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Dating posts do get added by the forum members.

So we really dont need one, as you would end up with loads of idiots on here.

Though sometimes its bad enough as it is now, With no shows or the dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be good

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes definitely. I might be more successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this site just one big fancy dating app anyway?

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By *acktothefutureMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A friendship is all always welcome

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By *acktothefutureMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Just not tinder

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I think if the option is there a lot of people would go for it.

Sure a lot of us are looking for nsa but things do develop

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes, I think a dating section would be a very welcome addition.

Would save a lot of disappointment and wasted energy in the long run

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Maybe a separate site you have fab guys etc...a fabdating site makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like this! Would be fun to have a bit more of a ‘matching’ system too, especially if you still used the same profiles ie. you both like Anal and Webcams and live within 50 miles of each other - it’s a match!

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Would be a good idea and give people choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it would be handy and ppl in the area would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does work, although you need to be aware that most people come on here for sex. Dating is far from their minds.

It would be nice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like this! Would be fun to have a bit more of a ‘matching’ system too, especially if you still used the same profiles ie. you both like Anal and Webcams and live within 50 miles of each other - it’s a match! "

Great idea

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Swiping left or right to dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a great idea.

Those on others sites just want sex.. At least on here ore open with likes dislikes.

Yes fabdating great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site. "

Swings and roundabouts like any dating site.....theres girls I wouldn't fuck, theres girls I would only fuck and I'm sure there's some on here that I'd happily marry!

I'm also under no illusions that some women would feel the same 3 for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

I'd be all for it, just like any other dating sites, there would obviously be people that use it with a different intention, but I think if it was a different section, at least could differentiate between the two a little, therefor giving people options for either the full swinging experience and then a more conventional, as conventional as it could be, dating options

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think there's a place for it on here going by what I've read on statuses on the forums in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanx for the replies tbh I've found most people are more honest on here than normal dating sites, yes alot are wanting NSA but some just wanting to meet someone who isnt afraid of non vanilla sex lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site. "

This! I was told by a guy I was with from here that he had absolutely no respect for any woman who was on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People meet and date people in lots of different places. Here is as good a place as anywhere else. Every relationship has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely ??

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By *ombabudMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Definitely, would be more than welcome.

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By *acktothefutureMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Would make things so much easier

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

But can it be like Tinder, only matched people message each other?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people?? "

Would be good but I think it would be misused by many.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people??

Would be good but I think it would be misused by many. "

I agree with this.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes o/p good idea although I have social meets first anyway.

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

After recently returning here, this is a fab idea. It could help my desire to find an ideal companion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a separate site you have fab guys etc...a fabdating site makes sense "

A subforum would be cheaper for the owners.

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By *inell1Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Yeah I could get ignored twice as much lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "

That’s so sad. Completely blinked view.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on. "

Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode"

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It would be good but I don’t think *some* guys can see past the fact that women on here are worth more than a fuck. A lot of guys wouldn’t date us women because we’re on this site.

This! I was told by a guy I was with from here that he had absolutely no respect for any woman who was on this site. "

I hope you got your coat and left him then and there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if lockdown has made more people actually consider wanting more than just hook ups or friends with benefits?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Brilliant idea! Most users are single or "single" so it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I questioned that guy he said he wouldn’t want his girlfriend to have been on a fuck site with pictures of her tits and fanny out.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"When I questioned that guy he said he wouldn’t want his girlfriend to have been on a fuck site with pictures of her tits and fanny out. "

It's a magnet for the hypocrite.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I did not join Fab to be dated.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"When I questioned that guy he said he wouldn’t want his girlfriend to have been on a fuck site with pictures of her tits and fanny out. "

Yes complete hypocrite.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This would be a great asset to this site.

We know of quite a number of single people who are looking for someone to date, as well as to swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "

I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just for everyone’s interest, I have been using an app called KinkD, I think of it as a BDSM tinder.

I’ve made friends on there so it’s definitely worth checking out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’

I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles "

I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

A dating section would be fun. We spent a year with a lady we met on here. We would go on dates, go out for dinner, give birthday, Christmas and valentines gifts. She would stay over with us. She even met my dad. It just depends what people are actually looking for, or even what people are just open to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did not join Fab to be dated."

Nor me, but it doesn't mean it's not a good idea for those that do want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure thing.

If the right person came along I wouldn't complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did not join Fab to be dated."

Same.

There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.

I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did not join Fab to be dated.

Same.

There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.

I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."

Allowing other people opportunities doesn't restrict your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a dating section would be a great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did not join Fab to be dated.

Same.

There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.

I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."

I think many so called dating sites have many men who would prefer to just fuck and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly easier to meet couples here than in a bar or library

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some on here want to date

Some on here say they don’t want to date, but secretly do

Some on here just want to feel liked

Some on here just want to stir up hornets nests

Some on here don’t care..... use the site how you wish to. If there’s a dating part - it’ll be like most others.

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By *iggydog78Man
over a year ago

London

The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..

Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I personally don't think it needs a separate dating section - perhaps just the option to choose if you do want to date, which would show an icon on your profile, with the option to filter searches/contact to those also looking to date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..

Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters "

But there isn’t a filter on dating sites ....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"The men would bombade it, just play along and then still try and just bed the women and the men that really want it would get swallowed up..

Good idea would need a system to filter out the one nighters

But there isn’t a filter on dating sites ....

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I can’t see it working any differently, people will say what they think you want to hear. Put it on your profile what you are after, a separate section isn’t needed

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

They soon knocked up a “virus” header - so wouldn’t be to hard to input a dating one.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Some on here want to date

Some on here say they don’t want to date, but secretly do

Some on here just want to feel liked

Some on here just want to stir up hornets nests

Some on here don’t care..... use the site how you wish to. If there’s a dating part - it’ll be like most others. "

I'd also add:

Some on here say they want to date but secretly don't, they just see it as a way to not get an instant block from people that only want to date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's a twat, so it's fine for a bloke to do what they like ffs

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would love to date someone i met through fab, although the connection would have to be there, trust on all sides built etc

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I would love to date someone i met through fab, although the connection would have to be there, trust on all sides built etc"

I dated someone from fab for 7 months. Never expected to connect with someone on here in that way but it worked, untill it didnt

I expected it might be me with trust issues but it was actually the other way round which I found really hard as I gave him my everything!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I joined fab as is didn't want to date, times changed and so have I. I think dating and a relationship is what I'll be doing, or trying to do, once the lockdown is lifted.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

No it will still be the same people so nobody will date lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

It's easier to put up a who wants to date or find a fwb thread and go though the people who say they are in tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's hard dating when you have a very kinky side, but sadly found some guys think less of a woman because of it, their loss lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’

I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles

I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me "

Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss...

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people?? "

Yes 100%!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%... I’m constantly falling in love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on.

Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode" "

hahaha worst kept secret ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did not join Fab to be dated.

Same.

There are a plethora of good dating websites and apps out there which do a better job at displaying your interests and personality.

I feel like many on here think they're special 'cause they're on fab lol. Believe it or not, there are people outside of fab who are kinky and open minded."

i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as I want to be in a swinging relationship. Most vanilla don't think the same so it makes it difficult to look on normal dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as I want to be in a swinging relationship. Most vanilla don't think the same so it makes it difficult to look on normal dating sites"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’

I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles

I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me

Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss... "

Wait that’s not how you dress for sunday lunch?? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’

I've had exactly this aswell.... It was a "we can't be more because we met on fab" I was still fairly new to fab life and I was actually a bit offended ... But I got over it and learnt a valuable lesson about getting too close to a fuck buddy... Although I'm not sure a dating version could change that mind set, it's still fab, it's still kinky and many people are still "discreet" about their fab/kinky lifestyles

I’ve had this too, guy was essentially taking me on dates but I’m ‘not the kind of girl you’d introduce to your mum’ his loss though, mums love me

Makes me laugh... The not the kind of girl you take home to mum.... Yes dear, cause I'd meet your mother in fishnets and a ball gag in my mouth lol but def his loss...

Wait that’s not how you dress for sunday lunch?? Maybe that’s where I’m going wrong... "

You're clearly forgetting about butt plug, yup that must be it

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By *tokeman4str8funMan
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle


"It does work, although you need to be aware that most people come on here for sex. Dating is far from their minds.

It would be nice though "

Yeah I agree here.

I been on dating sites and nothing happens, happy being single anyway, but missing the sex and pleasing a woman.

I'm here to have safe and fun sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site "

But why would you put it on a dating profile? Kinks are quite personal and private for most people.

Somewhere along the line when you're getting to know someone the topic of kinks and sex comes up almost always.

I don't list kinks on my dating profile because I don't want a relationship which evolves around them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else think a dating bit on this site would be nice, would make it easier to meet like minded people?? "

That's a great idea. Would like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy I was meeting almost every weekend for months, sit next to me on the sofa casually reach to hold my hand and said to me ‘I wish I met you on a night out and not that site’ "

Ouch! I never understood that because if getting along so well on a regular basis and chemistry is great... why not!?

For me, I treat this just as I am outside of Fab and this is the only site I am on so would be great for dating to see what the potential is... seen as you already know sex is amazing so that has been ticked already.

Not easy though because things have been the opposite for me in the past... a few times after meeting regulars things did turn... it was ok for them to continue as normal and I encouraged it because didn't want to restrict on our adventures and we would do many things, but if I even spoke to another woman... oh lord all hell will break out! The jealousy takes over and ruins what we had.

It should work both ways. If you don't want me talking to others, you don't either... I used to think finding someone on here would be perfect because no secrets, no guessing/assuming... just grow together like many other Fabbers have done that started out as singles...

Finding that match is the holy grail. If we stayed on here together as a couple or went off site together... I wouldn't mind either for the right person. Till that time just continuing solo adventures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i disagree, i scroll past people from every day life including work and family friends on normal dating sites all the time, pretty sure most users do, so if something like this is included in your interests i don't see it getting shouted from the rooftops on a dating profile on a standard dating site

But why would you put it on a dating profile? Kinks are quite personal and private for most people.

Somewhere along the line when you're getting to know someone the topic of kinks and sex comes up almost always.

I don't list kinks on my dating profile because I don't want a relationship which evolves around them."

you wouldn't thats my point , but for many who would look for dating on here it is because those kinks are a very important part of dating for them so they would like to be able to get it out up front , and date from a source where they know they have a higher chance of meeting people with compatible sexual interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always potential for romance , with or without 'dating section'.

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire


"The problem is that guys with no intention of dating tell women whatever they think the woman wants to hear to get her into bed. When they’ve done it a few times they move on.

Jesus dude.....don't give away all of our secrets! Remember the "Mancode" "

We know the man code! Trust me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinks are a very important part of dating for them so they would like to be able to get it out up front , and date from a source where they know they have a higher chance of meeting people with compatible sexual interests"

That right there is a good point! Exactly why I think it would be great to find someone on here with compatible sexual interests. Some Fabbers are on multiple 5/6 different sites so I suppose more opportunities, but this is only site i'm on so my 'eggs are all in one basket' so to speak

If it ain't gonna happen on here then it ain't gonna happen... I should really put a time limit on it now because 5yrs+ is a long time.

Fab Dreams can come true!

Fingers crossed for 2021

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I would love a dating section. I'm on other dating websites. The problem with 'dating' websites is when I have told men about my likes and its either no thanks weirdo mentally (which is fine) or the whole conversation turns instantly in to sex all the time and he wants to talk about nothing else thinking I'm a sexual vending machine.

If I met someone on here it's all in the open and I wouldn't have to worry about explaining it. X

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I would love a dating section. I'm on other dating websites. The problem with 'dating' websites is when I have told men about my likes and its either no thanks weirdo mentally (which is fine) or the whole conversation turns instantly in to sex all the time and he wants to talk about nothing else thinking I'm a sexual vending machine.

If I met someone on here it's all in the open and I wouldn't have to worry about explaining it. X"

Mentality *

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Take me out "

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are plenty of dating sites, this is a swingers site, very different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are plenty of dating sites, this is a swingers site, very different things"

easy for someone already in a swinging couple to say

but what about the numerous posters above who have said they are looking for a swinging relationship ... those aren't easy to come by on conventional dating sites where people are generally looking for monogamy

people using a different section of the site for a different purpose wouldn’t take anything away from your experience would it? plus they might even form a hot couple you would like to meet n future ... so why object ?

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"there are plenty of dating sites, this is a swingers site, very different things

easy for someone already in a swinging couple to say

but what about the numerous posters above who have said they are looking for a swinging relationship ... those aren't easy to come by on conventional dating sites where people are generally looking for monogamy

people using a different section of the site for a different purpose wouldn’t take anything away from your experience would it? plus they might even form a hot couple you would like to meet n future ... so why object ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it definitely would...for some people. For me anyways!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Most definately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree sub forum would be great then the rest of us can just get on with swinging

ps tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agree sub forum would be great then the rest of us can just get on with swinging

ps tongue in cheek "

Haha like it cheeky

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

single looking for someone who is open minded and naughty like me can.

Dating would be more fun, never been keen on one off's or one nighters...

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

What percentage of single females and males on Fab would you say are looking for a swinging relationship as a couple? A friend of ours as been trying for ages on here to find that and no joy at all.

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