FabSwingers.com forum: Feel-Better Hugs..

By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.

So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Awww Lisa

I need some and have loads to give out too

Hope you are well hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like a hug Lisa. X

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Awww Lisa

I need some and have loads to give out too

Hope you are well hun

Hello lovely...hugs on their way to you x

I'm safe and well, and very thankful.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Would you like a hug Lisa. X"

I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be well x

I'm coming down with something. No, I don't think that.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Can I have a gentle hug please xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs are great. Even when I'm feeling rubbish, always happy to give them out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you like a hug Lisa. X

I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?"

Ohh yes please. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Be well x

I'm coming down with something. No, I don't think that."

Hope it’s not to bad and you get well soon

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

I’m sure everyone loves a good spooning too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Be well x

I'm coming down with something. No, I don't think that.

Hope it’s not to bad and you get well soon

Thank you.

Not coughing. Not worried

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Be well x

I'm coming down with something. No, I don't think that."

Then you need a hug x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can I have a gentle hug please xx"

Always xx

Are you ok?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I love to cuddle. Come on you lot group hug

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hugs are great. Even when I'm feeling rubbish, always happy to give them out xx"

We need you x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would

doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime

As if supermarkets aren’t already a weekly traumatic experience these days.... I made the effort to self scan to cut out handling of my purchases by anyone other than me. When I went to pay an assist rescanned several items as a check .... totally defeating the object, no gloves, no hand sanitiser

I was fuming and crying at that point!

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

You have such a lovely chest..I'll be your little spoon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I love to cuddle. Come on you lot group hug

Excellent work, Babs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would

doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime

I was fuming and crying at that point! "

Have an extra sanitised hug from me for your tough day DC xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I get a hug please? Happy to return the favour with a big squeezey hug!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Thank you for the thread x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would

doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime

I was fuming and crying at that point! "

Aw DC...you really need lots of TLC & hugs xxxxx

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx"

Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Can I get a hug please? Happy to return the favour with a big squeezey hug!"

Of course.

Human contact, especially the long hugs, release oxytocin, the 'feel good' hormone. But only if the hug is given with real feeling and care. I think that social distancing has really highlighted how important human touch is.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Thank you for the thread x"

Welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

this

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

this "

Spoon buddies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?"

Me too. Not being able to hug my nearest & dearest is so hard. I’m really missing the contact and, like a lot of others, finding it even more difficult this week.

Sending you all warmest hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a lovely hard squeezy hug x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

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" I always love hugs. I'm a very tactile and huggy person. Would you?

Me too. Not being able to hug my nearest & dearest is so hard. I’m really missing the contact and, like a lot of others, finding it even more difficult this week.

Sending you all warmest hugs x"

Thank you x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I could do with a lovely hard squeezy hug x"

One of my best squeezy hugs are on their way to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could do with a lovely hard squeezy hug x

One of my best squeezy hugs are on their way to you xx"

Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd really like a feel better spoon tbh.

The feel of my chest on their back, arm tucked under their breasts, the cold of their buttocks against my groin.

You have such a lovely chest..I'll be your little spoon x"

Deal.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those."

Then have a PPE hug xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.

So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx"

I have a lot of time for that. A hug can do so much...i do love myself a nice cuddle xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.

Then have a PPE hug xx"

Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask

lol xx

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"It seems to me that lots of people are exhausted, feeling low or run-down.

So I have lots of fresh hugs, ready and waiting to give to anyone in need. It's ok to not be ok, and to reach out for a hug xxx

I have a lot of time for that. A hug can do so much...i do love myself a nice cuddle xx"

What' not to like?

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.

Then have a PPE hug xx

Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask

lol xx"

Deal.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would

doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime

I was fuming and crying at that point!

Have an extra sanitised hug from me for your tough day DC xx "

awe thanks Lois x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I saw my bestie in Tesco late this afternoon - we cried because we couldn’t hug like we normally would

doesn’t seem as traumatic in FaceTime

I was fuming and crying at that point!

Aw DC...you really need lots of TLC & hugs xxxxx"

Tomorrow will be a better day

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Contact, hugs and touch with our peers or intimate partners are, for most of us, essential for our mental health, well being and general functioning.

Our bio chemistry is designed so that even from being in the womb, we help to regulate each other with touch,sound, movement and exchange and response.

Our mood, instincts, parasympathetic nervous system, serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine levels and all rely on close human contact and in the flesh exchange ranging from smiles and conversation to touch.

It's so wrong that lots of us are without this during such a stressful time with many people facing huge challenges.

Our bodies and minds know it innately and it causes us to feel imbalance and confusion in our regulation systems.

I have found it jarring and challenging. Like a feeling of losing all my reference points at times!

My children give me hugs but the chemistry is different .. as a parent, I'm hard wired to be in the role of 'regulator', so it's not quite the same .. and this is the reason why lots of single parents quarantining with children are still suffering with lack of meaningful contact.

Oh for a beautiful regulating hug to sink into. I wonder when it will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love a hug please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throwing one in addition to the already fine bunch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs.... I’ve forgotten what one feels like

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Contact, hugs and touch with our peers or intimate partners are, for most of us, essential for our mental health, well being and general functioning.

Our bio chemistry is designed so that even from being in the womb, we help to regulate each other with touch,sound, movement and exchange and response.

Our mood, instincts, parasympathetic nervous system, serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine levels and all rely on close human contact and in the flesh exchange ranging from smiles and conversation to touch.

It's so wrong that lots of us are without this during such a stressful time with many people facing huge challenges.

Our bodies and minds know it innately and it causes us to feel imbalance and confusion in our regulation systems.

I have found it jarring and challenging. Like a feeling of losing all my reference points at times!

Oh for a beautiful regulating hug to sink into. I wonder when it will come.

I can only offer a virtual hug, I'm afraid. But it's yours.

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I’d love a hug please x "

On its's way x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Throwing one in addition to the already fine bunch.."

And a fine one it is, too...

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By *eilgvnrMan
over a year ago

Reading

Sending hugs to all those who need them x

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By *isaB45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hugs.... I’ve forgotten what one feels like

It's like a warm sunny morning in your heart and soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I can be sure I'm not a threat and am safe myself, I've got a lot of hugging to do. I might see if I can figure out how to give a good scalp massage, I miss those.

Then have a PPE hug xx

Its the 2m rule that ruins it...but id be happy to hug in gloves and mask

lol xx

Deal."

Cant wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending proper hugs to you all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx

Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?"

Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx

Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?

Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say

Hope you are ok Lois xxx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have a good for anyone who needs one..a big bear hug. I also have one you Lisa. It's such a nice post.

Any coming my way would be gratefully accepted x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Hugs to all that need one and an extra squishy one to you Lisa as you always do a hug thread for us xx

Thank you, Lois. Are you feeling any better?

Different meds are helping now. Just longing for the day I can put a bra on again. And that is something I never thought I would hear myself say

I didn't know you were unwell Louis. I'm glad the meds are working for you x

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Free hugs? Yeah I'll take one of those please, or maybe two if that's not too greedy.

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

God I miss hugs

anyone need a big spoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hug please Lisa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then

I’ll have one x

And a couple of hugs for you too....... your arms must be very tired from the lockdown hugathon xxxxxx

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