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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I've just been on another webenar about loving my inner little girl to become a queen of deservability. To improve my self worth, to believe I truly deserve the things I want andto be unapologetically me.

So my question is, are you unapologetically you?

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

75% of the time yes, sometimes I find myself trying to gain approval from others and straying away from 'being me'

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

100% of the time yes.

I am my own worst critic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm very happy being me so as a general rule, yes.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

On here yes mostly, In other parts of life I probably have to filter myself more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always me, and if I ever get that niggle I boot myself in the arse (that's skillz)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Which is why no fucker likes me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why on earth would I apologise for being myself. I only apologise if I've done something wrong or upset someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Which is why no fucker likes me

Ha ha... brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being me generally ends in apologising, so not sure how that pans out against the question.....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"So I've just been on another webenar about loving my inner little girl to become a queen of deservability. To improve my self worth, to believe I truly deserve the things I want andto be unapologetically me.

So my question is, are you unapologetically you?

I'm apologetically me

But me is who I what to be with who I want to be when I want to be it and thus me is not always me just me if you get me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Probably not for most people most of the time. I'm becoming truer to myself, but life is compromise and to a degree censoring myself.

I'm not sorry for who I am like I used to be, though.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Erm!!

I think I am. Well I'm getting there.

Jo.Xx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I try to be, at all times.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Fuck yes .

A Grumpy Sarcastic Twat

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've never even thought about it ..so I guess I am ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not.

I'm me, but I carry a lot of guilt about who I am even though I like me for the most part.

I have guilt about needing things or emotions from people.

I have guilt that I can be stressy over stuff.

I have guilt that I don't trust easily and am very sceptical and cynical, looking for ulterior motives in people or their behaviours.

I have guilt that I can't always be the person or think the way other people want or expect me to.

I am apologetically me, unless I'm with those who really know me, understand me. That's when I feel like I'm "home and free"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep, I probably should in etiquette apologise some of the time but then I wouldn't be true to me or them as It would be a false apology and that's disrespectful, like me or leave me flows more naturally with my personality

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most of the time. But as you get older for me you realise who and who should know the real you.

The end of the day I am me and if you don’t like it tough luck

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"No I'm not.

I'm me, but I carry a lot of guilt about who I am even though I like me for the most part.

I have guilt about needing things or emotions from people.

I have guilt that I can be stressy over stuff.

I have guilt that I don't trust easily and am very sceptical and cynical, looking for ulterior motives in people or their behaviours.

I have guilt that I can't always be the person or think the way other people want or expect me to.

I am apologetically me, unless I'm with those who really know me, understand me. That's when I feel like I'm "home and free"

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am all me yes. I can be a bit of a crackpot at times, but those who know me, know that is me too and accept it.

Good on you for the tougher stance though. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally, I don’t have the energy to try and be anyone else lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No I'm not.

I'm me, but I carry a lot of guilt about who I am even though I like me for the most part.

I have guilt about needing things or emotions from people.

I have guilt that I can be stressy over stuff.

I have guilt that I don't trust easily and am very sceptical and cynical, looking for ulterior motives in people or their behaviours.

I have guilt that I can't always be the person or think the way other people want or expect me to.

I am apologetically me, unless I'm with those who really know me, understand me. That's when I feel like I'm "home and free"

I hear you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like me

I'm not apologising for that

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We are entirely true to ourselves.

Dave makes enemies sometimes due to his opinions, but if people take offence, that's their prerogative.

We get a lot of grief for dressing the way we do, but we'd never notice the people who shout abuse if they'd kept quiet, so it speaks volumes about them.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am me and happy . Someone tried to change me over 25yrs and i was lost and sad. Now i have bounced back and content with my life and myself..

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"I am me and happy . Someone tried to change me over 25yrs and i was lost and sad. Now i have bounced back and content with my life and myself.."

Ooh We love a happy ending!

Well done, keep up the good work.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I am me and happy . Someone tried to change me over 25yrs and i was lost and sad. Now i have bounced back and content with my life and myself.."

I share a similar story and am the most content I have ever been now and that includes accepting my faults as part of me, it’s just who I am

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’m far too old to worry about distorting myself to align to another person’s sensibilities. Fortunately I’m diplomatic so it’s not often I upset anyone (although it does happen sometimes).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've rather got used to being me....

If others have a problem with that then that's for them not for me to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say I was unapologetically me, I say what I think and rarely hide feelings on any subject but I do apologise for things I’ve said sometimes after a bit of self reflection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, I've never apologised for being myself. I treat people accordingly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m totally me, not always everyone’s cup of tea and I won’t apologise for that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my question is, are you unapologetically you?

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yes take me or leave me I'm me and I'm under no pressure either way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be disliked for being me than liked for being something I'm not. I'm not sure if that's the same thing, I'm not sure what being unapologetically me means, it suggests a defiance that I don't really have

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes I am. If people don't like me that's fine, I don't like everyone that I meet - I'd rather walk away than even consider changing who I am to suit somebody else.

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