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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a pleaser? Do you like to satisfy the man/woman you are with? Or do you want to just receive pleasure? Do you think it should be equal or depends on the mood?

The reason I ask is a Ex fb just messaged me for head and I enjoy giving it He is extremely attractive but often I find that I’m left with minimal pleasure as he is very much just a receiver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

I like to ensure the lady had been pleasured and enjoyed herself before my pleasure ,,,,

But also happy to be used as her toy if that's what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be give and take unless it's a birthday or special occasion

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Damn. I thought this was the shoes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else. "

Oh see I have many times before and enjoy it! But equally I like to be satisfied!! So mood dependent for me.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Definitely a pleasure... dont get me wrong i love to receive pleasure .. but if I can give pleasure that for me wins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to ensure the lady had been pleasured and enjoyed herself before my pleasure ,,,,

But also happy to be used as her toy if that's what she wants "

That’s what I really like best a man to satisfy me before he is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win "

What do you mean? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like things in balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else.

Oh see I have many times before and enjoy it! But equally I like to be satisfied!! So mood dependent for me. "

Yeah I understand that. Lots of people seem to do that, men too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby often just "does me". Some of his meds can make it difficult for him to come.. So he likes to make it Al about me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Are you a pleaser? Do you like to satisfy the man/woman you are with? Or do you want to just receive pleasure? Do you think it should be equal or depends on the mood?

The reason I ask is a Ex fb just messaged me for head and I enjoy giving it He is extremely attractive but often I find that I’m left with minimal pleasure as he is very much just a receiver. "

Tell him to fuck off he sounds like a selfish bugger who is just using you for his own sexual pleasure. Plus we are in lockdown. Maybe attractive from the outside but sounds ugly inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pleaser I think, satisfying my partner is such a big turn on for me. She is also a pkeaser, so it's win win all around

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win

What do you mean? X"

If I’m with someone who also likes to please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you a pleaser? Do you like to satisfy the man/woman you are with? Or do you want to just receive pleasure? Do you think it should be equal or depends on the mood?

The reason I ask is a Ex fb just messaged me for head and I enjoy giving it He is extremely attractive but often I find that I’m left with minimal pleasure as he is very much just a receiver.

Tell him to fuck off he sounds like a selfish bugger who is just using you for his own sexual pleasure. Plus we are in lockdown. Maybe attractive from the outside but sounds ugly inside."

oh don’t worry I did!! He is an Ex FB for that reason. He is probably the most handsome man I have ever had sex with but the most ugly at the same time. A year ago I was very much in a bad place and he was the ego boost I needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a receiver when I didn't know what I was doing and lacked confidence. Surely there's no excuse for it after a bit of experience though?? Personally my goal is always to see my partner enjoying herself, and it's like a challenge to get her to lose control, scream, soak the bed etc. The more you give, the more you receive in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be a receiver when I didn't know what I was doing and lacked confidence. Surely there's no excuse for it after a bit of experience though?? Personally my goal is always to see my partner enjoying herself, and it's like a challenge to get her to lose control, scream, soak the bed etc. The more you give, the more you receive in the end "

Ooooofffftttt

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Are you a pleaser? Do you like to satisfy the man/woman you are with? Or do you want to just receive pleasure? Do you think it should be equal or depends on the mood?

The reason I ask is a Ex fb just messaged me for head and I enjoy giving it He is extremely attractive but often I find that I’m left with minimal pleasure as he is very much just a receiver.

Tell him to fuck off he sounds like a selfish bugger who is just using you for his own sexual pleasure. Plus we are in lockdown. Maybe attractive from the outside but sounds ugly inside.

oh don’t worry I did!! He is an Ex FB for that reason. He is probably the most handsome man I have ever had sex with but the most ugly at the same time. A year ago I was very much in a bad place and he was the ego boost I needed. "

Good to hear.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a pleaser through and through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much a giver. I prefer it that way too. I get off on reactions and control to an extent.

Don't get me wrong, receiving is great and I like it but I'm no pillow princess

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I used to be a receiver when I didn't know what I was doing and lacked confidence. Surely there's no excuse for it after a bit of experience though?? Personally my goal is always to see my partner enjoying herself, and it's like a challenge to get her to lose control, scream, soak the bed etc. The more you give, the more you receive in the end "

I like the sound of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a pleaser. I'm quite submissive and when I'm giving it turns me on massively, and that really satisfies me, even more so than actually getting to orgasm most of the time.

My partner likes to make sure I cum though as he is a pleaser, but I think some of my favourite times during sex are the moments I'm being dominated and just giving and giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very much a giver. I prefer it that way too. I get off on reactions and control to an extent.

Don't get me wrong, receiving is great and I like it but I'm no pillow princess "

This for me too

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m a bit of Both....I have had sexual partners that weren’t much givers which would only result in me having to sort myself out or left feeling frustrated

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Depends "

On??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends

On??"

A myriad of factors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Cause I’m a picker

I'm a grinner

I'm a lover

And I'm a sinner

I play my music in the sun

I'm a joker

I'm a smoker

I'm a midnight toker

I sure don't want to hurt no one

I'm a picker

I'm a grinner

I'm a lover

And I'm a sinner

I play my music in the sun

I'm a joker

I'm a smoker

I'm a midnight toker

I get my lovin' on the run

Ooh, whoo, ooh, whoo

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m always a pleaser but also I think it should go both ways.

So if you’re not moaning or groaning. I’m not doing my job properly

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Mutual pleasure where you both leave with smiles on your face and want to do it again is surely the only way to be, regardless of what has happened? I love spending time pleasing, and that in itself would be pleasing enough for me - but if I felt someone was just laying back and taking I'd feel a little used.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I'm a pleaser I get off on her getting off and will push her over the edge multiple times as it takes me a while to cum. Often ends in squirting or gushing which I enjoy (that's a different discussion )

I like the control I like the visuals and reading the body language until she can take no more and just wants to fuck

No better words than "fuck me please" or "just fuck me already" when you're between her legs. But then I also like edging and tease play to frustrate her making her scream to be fucked all the more

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m a pleaser that likes to meet other pleasers. It’s an all round pleasure fest then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win

What do you mean? X

If I’m with someone who also likes to please "

Oh ok, I’m with you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very much a giver. I prefer it that way too. I get off on reactions and control to an extent.

Don't get me wrong, receiving is great and I like it but I'm no pillow princess "

Pillow princess

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Pleaser..there is nothing more satisfying than making a women..get there.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I’m a pleaser for the ones who desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a BDSM submissive so I absolutely love to please, I love having things done to me but pleasing him in every way is what makes me happy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘Cause I’m a picker

I'm a grinner

I'm a lover

And I'm a sinner

I play my music in the sun

I'm a joker

I'm a smoker

I'm a midnight toker

I sure don't want to hurt no one

I'm a picker

I'm a grinner

I'm a lover

And I'm a sinner

I play my music in the sun

I'm a joker

I'm a smoker

I'm a midnight toker

I get my lovin' on the run

Ooh, whoo, ooh, whoo

"

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else. "

We are both the same as

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleaser 100% hate I'd hate it if a didnt fully satisfy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a pleaser I get off on her getting off and will push her over the edge multiple times as it takes me a while to cum. Often ends in squirting or gushing which I enjoy (that's a different discussion )

I like the control I like the visuals and reading the body language until she can take no more and just wants to fuck

No better words than "fuck me please" or "just fuck me already" when you're between her legs. But then I also like edging and tease play to frustrate her making her scream to be fucked all the more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else.

We are both the same as

D."

I like a battle of wills

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m very much a mutual pleasure person, but that will switch through the night to one way or both at the same time depending on our mood. It’s never a one way thing for me, either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a pleaser. I get immense pleasure from giving it

L x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love to please my man but I do expect to have my cake and eat it to!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm a giver and I like strong giver men who will stand up to me and not let me win, which then leads to a pleasure marathon of equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win "

Won't beat me tho but!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving pleasure

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By *ubeeStarrXoXTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Love both but get turned on a lot more pleasuring someone x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m a pleaser but I wouldn’t meet someone just to please them. I’m a pleaser in so much as turning someone else on turns me on more than anything else.

We are both the same as

D.

I like a battle of wills "

It's exhausting but so worth it!

Jo.Xx

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Definitely a pleaser

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I’m a total pleaser to the point where il compete and eventually win

Won't beat me tho but! "

We shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a giver and I like strong giver men who will stand up to me and not let me win, which then leads to a pleasure marathon of equality "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a giver and I like strong giver men who will stand up to me and not let me win, which then leads to a pleasure marathon of equality "

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a giver and I like strong giver men who will stand up to me and not let me win, which then leads to a pleasure marathon of equality "

'A pleasure marathon of equality'

Love the way you posted that. I am a giver and receiver. It's always more enjoyable when a marathon and not a sprint to the finish line...

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m a bit of both, depends on the person and situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50

Depends on the vibe

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Mutual pleasure .. however that manifests. I don't like to stick yo one role

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to share. So more in favour of mutual pleasures really....

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

100% pleaser!

I couldn't cum and role over knowing she's not 100% satisfied!

Iv spoke to friends as couples and hear a lot that they just cum and role over and have no guilt doing it!

I find that disgusting to be honest!

In everyday life its always nice to hear and see you done a good job no???

Same in this situation!

Hearing her pleasure and knowing she's pleased is a turn on in itself for me!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Id rather do mutual what I get or give I would like back as well.

If I gave someone a loverly massage, Id like the other person to return this to me and enjoy it.

Experience over the years taught me not to be one sided with pleasure, giving it has other rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a pleaser. Your joy is my happiness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a pleaser. Your joy is my happiness!"

So surely a pleaser would be a taker because they’re pleased when pleasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a pleaser. Your joy is my happiness!

So surely a pleaser would be a taker because they’re pleased when pleasing "

True! I am an undertaker!

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I would consider myself a pleaser,I really enjoy going down and putting my tongue to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider myself a pleaser,I really enjoy going down and putting my tongue to work "

Giving oral to a lady is like joining a mafia. One slip of the tongue and you are in shit!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Damn. I thought this was the shoes. "

That was last week, did you not get the memo?

I like to please and be pleased. I enjoy pleasuring somebody but I feel fair is fair and we should all leave with a smile and a wet patch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a "you sit yourself down and I'll get the kettle on" kind a' girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give 100%. More than happy to please a girl and stop once shes had enough. I just like being with someone. Dont really mind if I finish or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm more of a pleasure. When I'm giving it turns me on so much and I find it very satisfying. I don't need to cum myself because it pleases me so much knowing she is thoroughly enjoying herself.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Damn. I thought this was the shoes.

That was last week, did you not get the memo?

I like to please and be pleased. I enjoy pleasuring somebody but I feel fair is fair and we should all leave with a smile and a wet patch."

Well I wish it could be pleasers, every daaaaay.

When the heels start clicking and the wearers begin to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give, I love to hear and see their pleasure..the sighs, the moans, the expletives lol..the body tensing and arching and writhing....thats my greatest thrill

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