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Uninvited friend requests ?

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By *r and Mrs S99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Why is it you post the odd thing on the forum and all of a sudden you get inundated with friend requests from people all over the country ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They want to see your pictures. Ignore them.

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By *r and Mrs S99 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"They want to see your pictures. Ignore them."

We know that’s all there after but do people honestly think that it works

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I never look at friend requests, or winks

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"They want to see your pictures. Ignore them.

We know that’s all there after but do people honestly think that it works "

Depends, you may get a request from someone who fits your play needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never happens to me lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They want to see your pictures. Ignore them.

We know that’s all there after but do people honestly think that it works "

On here? Who knows. I'm not sure everyone thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, from people who haven’t even bothered to check your profile or preferences. We don’t mind if they’re genuinely friendly messages with content but it’s the “you’ve got an amazing arse/tits ones that kill is as it’s often MR who reads them first haha.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I also never look at winks or friend invites... have god know how many sitting there being ignored...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We except if it's a single guy who looks interesting or a couple weve chatted to and we think there genuine. You can always unfriend so no problem and depends what mood I'm in lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you post the odd thing on the forum and all of a sudden you get inundated with friend requests from people all over the country ?? "
friendly people in forums maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people ignore winks, surely it's a good initial way to show interest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I type on here I get bombarded, I try to make sure my filters are on whilst messaging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it you post the odd thing on the forum and all of a sudden you get inundated with friend requests from people all over the country ?? "

Nosey devils

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like on Facebook, people maybe think it impressive to have many friends on here, wether they’ve met or not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks.

Unsolicited friend requests?! Not so much. Its cheeky imo. Never spoken to someone but yet they feel entitled to see your friends only pics.

I now wait until theyre offline, accept the request, check out their pics, then unfriend and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm. I use sarcasm and have fun with it. Apparently, Im a natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at friend requests, or winks"

Back to the drawing board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever send winks or messages after I have read the profile, no point wasting each others time otherwise. Would never just send a friends request as I think that's just to forward and rude.

Must stop being a gentleman sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s when they send the one message to me informing that they have sent a friend request.

I just say thank you and ignore it.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I leave them, as they will resend another if you delete it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are all my friend requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you didn't mention pegging did you ?

I usually just accept all friend requests

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I never send uninvited ones .. always ask first if talking.. god I’m a gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hand on heart say, I've never been swamped with friend requests. Would love to be though. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the messages asking me to accept friend requests, er, no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hand on heart say, I've never been swamped with friend requests. Would love to be though. Lol "
one sent lol

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I mainly get them and messages from single women, which I don't mind at all if they've read my profile but it's usually clear that they haven't.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I must be lucky I don't get friend requests never mind, unsolicited ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hand on heart say, I've never been swamped with friend requests. Would love to be though. Lol one sent lol "

Bloody hell that was quick, and unexpected. Lol. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have agreed with the general consensus that it was to see your pics. However you don’t have any friends only media. Maybe it’s just how they reach out to show you they are interested in chats. I don’t know why some people have got all snobbish over what they will reply to and what they will ignore. So what someone winks at you. It’s allowed. It’s part of the way the site allows people to show someone interest. I think of it as a virtual smile. If the other person smiles back (winks) then we can chat on message. To say you actively ignore winks I’d have to ask when did you become above that and too good to be here? It’s what the site offers and for some im sure it’s worked to spark some amazing experiences.

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