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"You've only been a member for 2 weeks. It isn't Freeshagsforall.com Give it a chance ...." Hmmmm that domain name doesn't exist...yet | |||
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"only here two weeks and moaning yet his gallery is full of orgy pics " I wondered that too | |||
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"Ok it might sound like I am having a swipe at fabswingers but in truth I'm not. Going by the verificatiions on peoples profile peole do meet and have fun. I have put a lot of effort in to contacting people but seem to be getting '0' back interest. Ok not the best looking guy and new here so no verification's are not helping. I have just seen someone post that fabswingers is a waste of time because no one has got back to them over an event they posted. Erm actually I did for one and I and looking at their profile reckon there would have been quite a bit of interest. This begs the question on how high are they setting their expectations? What are people experience of this on here? Also lady's would appreciate some feedback on my profile as to how it may be improved to get a better responce. After all we all know its the ladies of the couple that decide who gets the nod... and who doesn't " time, patience, common sense... people here are after good sex, not just any old sex.... people are fussy because they have some sence of what they are after in their own mind... just because people swing, it doesn't they why just into it with just anyone.. and to be absolutely honest... if that is what you think swinging actually is... you are going to be sorely disappointed..... this is the reason I am against giving advice... because it makes it much harder for people to separate those who understand and "get it" so to speak.... from those who don't and think its just a quick way to a legover with minimal effort.... | |||
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" would appreciate some feedback on my profile as to how it may be improved to get a better responce. After all we all know its the ladies of the couple that decide who gets the nod... and who doesn't " Speaking as a couple… I dont know how Bi/Gay guys or TV's would view your profile… but the pics would put us right off, whether you were a man or a couple. The pic of the arse in air and open…. boak. Also, if were looking at pics, we prefer no playing pics…. we would want to see the profile holder(s) not pics of some randoms fanny who you last met up with. Profile text seems ok though. Steve and J | |||
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"only here two weeks and moaning yet his gallery is full of orgy pics " Because no one is allowed to have pics from times before joining fab are they? All pics must have been taken whilst on verified fab meets only, you cannot be seen to have enjoyed some group sex before you created your profile on here Honestly some if these new rules are getting a bit silly | |||
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"only here two weeks and moaning yet his gallery is full of orgy pics Because no one is allowed to have pics from times before joining fab are they? All pics must have been taken whilst on verified fab meets only, you cannot be seen to have enjoyed some group sex before you created your profile on here Honestly some if these new rules are getting a bit silly" the pic's clearly hasnt broken the rules - point being he moans of now meets yet posts pics of meets ... might help him to state that in his profile | |||
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" the pic's clearly hasnt broken the rules - point being he moans of now meets yet posts pics of meets ... might help him to state that in his profile" Sorry, could you clarify what you think I should state? | |||
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" the pic's clearly hasnt broken the rules - point being he moans of now meets yet posts pics of meets ... might help him to state that in his profile Sorry, could you clarify what you think I should state?" simple line in yr profile as to when the pics were taken (assuming they were before u joined fab - seeing as yr moaning you've not had a meet cant be since you've joined) | |||
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"I dont think you need to state anything. Some people (including myself) might wonder why you are saying you cant get meets yet have pics. But as someone else pointed out, and yourself, they are from a previous site" I agree. I wouldnt assume someone has never had sex before just because they havent had a meet whilst they have been on the site... | |||
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"You shouldn't have to add explanation text or remove pics if your profile is how you want it Just because some people on here are always looking for the negative in people and wanting to shoot others down all the time. Don't change for them!!" I agree entirely. You cant please all the people all the time and will die trying. I do however take on board what I consider valid points and if I agree will change. Not everybody likes the pics of me wit someone else but they are staying and will get added to What do people think of cock pic's? are they a good thing or a bad thing? | |||
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"Well good luck anyway" Thank you Blueangel T xx | |||
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"You've only been a member for 2 weeks. It isn't Freeshagsforall.com Give it a chance ...." well said | |||
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"You shouldn't have to add explanation text or remove pics if your profile is how you want it Just because some people on here are always looking for the negative in people and wanting to shoot others down all the time. Don't change for them!! I agree entirely. You cant please all the people all the time and will die trying. I do however take on board what I consider valid points and if I agree will change. Not everybody likes the pics of me wit someone else but they are staying and will get added to What do people think of cock pic's? are they a good thing or a bad thing?" Cock Pics? Generally, ditch them from the main Profile; keep them in reserve for Friends only, as and when you start getting replies and you wish to take things further. Put it this way, if you were going to meet up with someone, you'd recognise them from facial pics, not getting your tackle out on arrival so they could recognise you from that!!! Seriously, a lot of people I've spoken to, plus through comments on here, have said they find cock pics a turn-off. Get yourself known on the Forum pages; interact there, plus maybe look at attending a club in the London and Home Counties area; there are plenty to choose from. Don't give up! It does start to improve as time goes by. But this is not an "Instant Fix" site! Good Luck. | |||
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"You shouldn't have to add explanation text or remove pics if your profile is how you want it Just because some people on here are always looking for the negative in people and wanting to shoot others down all the time. Don't change for them!!" I agree with you. | |||
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"You shouldn't have to add explanation text or remove pics if your profile is how you want it Just because some people on here are always looking for the negative in people and wanting to shoot others down all the time. Don't change for them!!" How can you attract like minded playmates if you have to go hiding pictures that show what you are into? Some people would love those pics and think "that guy is for us" and some won't. I used to hate looking at cock pics and couldn't understand why some girls said they liked them ...now I love looking at them Different strokes for different folks | |||
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"More than 50% of 'single guys' arent single. More than 50% of women on this site are suspicious and cynical." Point taken. For the record I split up with my partner of 28 years 9 months ago. Never played away once in that time either. It will be a looooong time b4 I am even remotely interested in getting in to another relationship | |||
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"More than 50% of 'single guys' arent single. More than 50% of women on this site are suspicious and cynical." Experience make you suspicious and cynical. 99.9% of my meets are in my home so I didn't care whether playmates accommodated or not until arranging the next weeks meet with a regular playmate. My daughter was coming home from uni so suggested we meet at his house. He was aghast. Said he didn't open his house to swingers. Told him to get dressed and get out. Will not let anyone in my home who can't accommodate...don't care what the reason is as I'll always assume they think their house is sacrosanct whilst mine is a knocking shop! | |||
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" Will not let anyone in my home who can't accommodate...don't care what the reason is as I'll always assume they think their house is sacrosanct whilst mine is a knocking shop! " I can understand why you would be suspicious. I live in a shared house which makes it difficult to accommodate. It is occasionally possible at weekends but the place is very blokey so not ideal to bring a lady or a couple back to. | |||
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"Well lets hope he has more luck than some rude people on here " I'm sure I will blueangel. I'm a very determined and persistent individual... In a non pushy way of course | |||
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" I have just seen someone post that fabswingers is a waste of time because no one has got back to them over an event they posted. Erm actually I did for one and I and looking at their profile reckon there would have been quite a bit of interest. This begs the question on how high are they setting their expectations? " And why shouldn't they set their expectations as high as they want? You want them to lower them so they'll have sex with you? This is a swinging site - not a fuck all you can, any hole's a goal (for most anyway) My expectations are very high. I have a great sex life at home so if i'm getting a little extra, I want it to be worth my while. | |||
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" I have just seen someone post that fabswingers is a waste of time because no one has got back to them over an event they posted. Erm actually I did for one and I and looking at their profile reckon there would have been quite a bit of interest. This begs the question on how high are they setting their expectations? And why shouldn't they set their expectations as high as they want? You want them to lower them so they'll have sex with you? This is a swinging site - not a fuck all you can, any hole's a goal (for most anyway) My expectations are very high. I have a great sex life at home so if i'm getting a little extra, I want it to be worth my while. " Woa easy tiger. It was just a question based on the fact they were moaning about not getting any responses when in fact they were. No problem with people having high expectations, Just them blaming fabswingers. Read through the thread and you will see I point this out. R u always this erm.... feisty | |||
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"You've only been a member for 2 weeks. It isn't Freeshagsforall.com Give it a chance ...." We'll shag anyone.com | |||
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"You've only been a member for 2 weeks. It isn't Freeshagsforall.com Give it a chance .... We'll shag anyone.com " Does that include the space's? Only I looked on Google and couldn't find it anywhere | |||
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"Ok it might sound like I am having a swipe at fabswingers but in truth I'm not. Going by the verificatiions on peoples profile peole do meet and have fun. I have put a lot of effort in to contacting people but seem to be getting '0' back interest. Ok not the best looking guy and new here so no verification's are not helping. I have just seen someone post that fabswingers is a waste of time because no one has got back to them over an event they posted. Erm actually I did for one and I and looking at their profile reckon there would have been quite a bit of interest. This begs the question on how high are they setting their expectations? What are people experience of this on here? Also lady's would appreciate some feedback on my profile as to how it may be improved to get a better responce. After all we all know its the ladies of the couple that decide who gets the nod... and who doesn't time, patience, common sense... people here are after good sex, not just any old sex.... people are fussy because they have some sence of what they are after in their own mind... just because people swing, it doesn't they why just into it with just anyone.. and to be absolutely honest... if that is what you think swinging actually is... you are going to be sorely disappointed..... this is the reason I am against giving advice... because it makes it much harder for people to separate those who understand and "get it" so to speak.... from those who don't and think its just a quick way to a legover with minimal effort...." I have to laugh Fabio as you always comment on a thread like this if you see it. | |||
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"You've only been a member for 2 weeks. It isn't Freeshagsforall.com Give it a chance .... We'll shag anyone.com yep we will shag the spaces too. Does that include the space's? Only I looked on Google and couldn't find it anywhere " | |||
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" I have to laugh Fabio as you always comment on a thread like this if you see it. " I think it is a case of the perception that people have of people that swing that is in a way un-nerving... then on top of that it is a case of expection vs reality... and thats why I asked the question in another thread a while back... I wonder how many folks think.... hmmm... maximum results, minimum effort!! | |||
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" I wonder how many folks think.... hmmm... maximum results, minimum effort!!" That's how life works in general nobody wants to put maximum effort in for minimum output. I don't see any problem in giving other swingers positive advice though myself but I don't feel threatened by the competition. I like the term one good turn deserves another and happy to advice myself. | |||
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" I have to laugh Fabio as you always comment on a thread like this if you see it. I think it is a case of the perception that people have of people that swing that is in a way un-nerving... then on top of that it is a case of expection vs reality... and thats why I asked the question in another thread a while back... I wonder how many folks think.... hmmm... maximum results, minimum effort!!" works for me lol my pe is very minimalist | |||
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" the pic's clearly hasnt broken the rules - point being he moans of now meets yet posts pics of meets ... might help him to state that in his profile Sorry, could you clarify what you think I should state? simple line in yr profile as to when the pics were taken (assuming they were before u joined fab - seeing as yr moaning you've not had a meet cant be since you've joined)" Don't see your thinking here at all, I don't think he has to explain he has had sex before joining this site, at 49 I would assume it's a cert he's had sex previously. Maybe his pics are from 2007 | |||
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" I wonder how many folks think.... hmmm... maximum results, minimum effort!! That's how life works in general nobody wants to put maximum effort in for minimum output. I don't see any problem in giving other swingers positive advice though myself but I don't feel threatened by the competition. I like the term one good turn deserves another and happy to advice myself." too right, just as one good swinger deserves another. | |||
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"It isnt Freeshagsforall.com it isnt ?..............Bugger!!!!!!! " no thanks, not into anal. | |||
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"It isnt Freeshagsforall.com it isnt ?..............Bugger!!!!!!! no thanks, not into anal. " Oh but I might be...... or not . Still working on that one. Seriously though I have had some great and very helpful feedback and a damn good chuckle at some of the comments as well | |||
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"Ok it might sound like I am having a swipe at fabswingers but in truth I'm not. Going by the verificatiions on peoples profile peole do meet and have fun. I have put a lot of effort in to contacting people but seem to be getting '0' back interest. Ok not the best looking guy and new here so no verification's are not helping. I have just seen someone post that fabswingers is a waste of time because no one has got back to them over an event they posted. Erm actually I did for one and I and looking at their profile reckon there would have been quite a bit of interest. This begs the question on how high are they setting their expectations? What are people experience of this on here? Also lady's would appreciate some feedback on my profile as to how it may be improved to get a better responce. After all we all know its the ladies of the couple that decide who gets the nod... and who doesn't " 2 weeks is no time be patient and pick up on some of the positive advice given. | |||
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