FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies..... i cant apologise enough

By *parkyt500 OP Man
over a year ago

midlands

To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Guys.. we have to cop on... its not fair on some of the ladies. My friend was just dipping her toe in for a look.... and the messages she got.. and her profile was blank. No pictures up .. and still the messages and content.. not fair on them..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Tell her to set filters and it won't be so bad.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

So why you apologising for all guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So why you apologising for all guys?"

This

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"So why you apologising for all guys?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arise sir sparky

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Thats the problem. There are some total plonkers on here that can put women off before they even start. The genuine good guys sadly get tarred with the same brush.

It can feel like you're lookinh for a needle in a haystack when looking for the nice people on here but there are plenty who exist. We have been fortunate and have met/chatting to some real gems, incl a few single guys.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thats the problem. There are some total plonkers on here that can put women off before they even start. The genuine good guys sadly get tarred with the same brush.

Na I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's generally not the forum guys that will read your post that are the culprits.

But yes, show her the filter and message setting features

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparky, you're a hero, and a sailor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sparky, you're a hero, and a Gondola captain."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she reply to me within 10 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !"

Its almost a certainty that those guys don't use the forums to read this and given their attitude towards the girls they are uncapable of treating them any different.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think most of these profiles, and I would be careful, it could be anyone, behind the profiles..have a hobby of being rude and disruptive..its how they get their kicks..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had a male friend who joined and got plenty abuse and awful messages from females after 2wks on here. Bad people come in male and female form.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I had a male friend who joined and got plenty abuse and awful messages from females after 2wks on here. Bad people come in male and female form."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you don’t have to apologise for me, in the time I’ve been here I’ve never and never intend to start being rude or demanding.......rudeness is a reflection on the individual and will be treated accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ?

No"

Sorry I forgot to add

'please'

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ? "

Maybe start with something smaller

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ?

Sorry I forgot to add

'please'"

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

Works both ways bud, as its already been said, most of the guys in the forums will already be treating everyone with the respect they deserve anyway, but a lot of people, of all genders and sex sign up wanting it to be just a pure sex site and think everyone will just meet them regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ?

Sorry I forgot to add

'please'

No"

At least I have tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh meat... it gets them circling

It will calm down a little after a week or so, but tell her to set her filters and delete and block (to prevent multiple messages) those she’s not interested in.

When I first joined I was shocked at the volume of messages and the content, it’s not often I’m shocked any more

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Can I borrow you boat in order to fuck the anus of a woman I met on here ?

Sorry I forgot to add

'please'

At least I have tried "

Try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !"
I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters

"
we#edle out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arseholes come in all and non sexes. I think anyone on here who gets an arsehole in their inbox knows how to deal with them. Some people like one type of approach and some people don’t. This site is all about choice. If you want the vanilla then try a dating site. I’m on tinder btw

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters

we#edle out "

You polite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to apologise on my behalf thank you kind sir, I am always polite and courteous in messaging people. If I get any sort of rejection, I am always dignified and reply politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for your apology.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Thank you for your apology. "

Where POF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters

we#edle out

You polite?"
yes always

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"To all the ladies on here..

Im so sorry about the way some guys treat ye...

A friend of mine joined up today.. and within 30min of her joining the amount of messages and some not all too nice and some very demanding..

Again i apologise..

Guys..

Cop on !I'm always polite, agreed about filters tighten them to le out a lot or just look for guys herself and block guys all together using filters

we#edle out

You polite?yes always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for your apology. "

We all, really needed to hear that. To start the healing in our hearts

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I had the same. My friend joined but couldn't handle the messages she got so left after a week! We were planning all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a male friend who joined and got plenty abuse and awful messages from females after 2wks on here. Bad people come in male and female form."
Agree I’ve now blocked all single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but I never apologise for anything.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

The only nasty message we ever had to our couples profile was from a single woman.

I did wink her back though, just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t encourage her to go on cam then the things guys say to women is disgusting!

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Such a shame for the decent guys to struggle amongst the idiots.

I can honestly say I’ve never sent (or received) anything other than pleasant messages

I’m polishing my ...errrr ....halo this evening

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"I had the same. My friend joined but couldn't handle the messages she got so left after a week! We were planning all sorts

I think you should ask her to reconsider. Um...........plans?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had the same. My friend joined but couldn't handle the messages she got so left after a week! We were planning all sorts

I think you should ask her to reconsider. Um...........plans?

A three way with Bertie Bassett.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I think OP was just trying to be kind on behalf of his friend. Don't think he meant to insult every nice guy out there, of which there are many. But there are some people, male and female, who spoil Fab for the rest of us with abusive messages. It's a shame.

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