FabSwingers.com forum: Why should you choose an average, married guy

By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he’s my type, then maybe.

Those points are absolutely nothing to go by.

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"If he’s my type, then maybe.

Those points are absolutely nothing to go by. "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't because... well.

I only bang men whose lovely wives, fiancées or girlfriends can give permission.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Are we talking married cheating guys?

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"Are we talking married cheating guys?"

Aawh moral high grounder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of those are exclusive to married men.

3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder."

Can we not just accept people are into different things?

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"None of those are exclusive to married men.

3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning

3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying.

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder.

Can we not just accept people are into different things?"

I always do, labelling is easy and what I said was reflection in a sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies like a cheating husband

Just saying

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder."

She simply asked if married and cheating - I wouldn’t meet a guy who was married and partner didn’t know they were on here.

Some people would, not everyone is the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder.

Can we not just accept people are into different things?

I always do, labelling is easy and what I said was reflection in a sense"

You labelled the person you responded to quick enough...

Maybe fucking someone else's husband without their knowledge doesn't sit well with them? They didn't judge you, they asked a question...

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder.

She simply asked if married and cheating - I wouldn’t meet a guy who was married and partner didn’t know they were on here.

Some people would, not everyone is the same "

Fair enough.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder."

Where did she take the moral high ground?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

1. Can't prove that unless he turns up with his marriage certificate/album

2. Subjective

3. No guarantee of that

4. Suggests he's cheating. Besides, does anyone shout out publicly that they're on fab and who they've met?!?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is the ultimate verification ?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

1. What does “has the ultimate verification” actually mean? Being married doesn’t make you a better meet than a single guy who can provide all that I am looking for, in fact the last it would make you so much more less attractive to me.

2. Single guys appreciate us

3. Women and couples can be intimidating

4. Discretion in this scenario sounds more like creeping around to avoid the wife

Married men, no ta

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Some ladies like a cheating husband

Just saying

And lots don't.

Just saying

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"What is the ultimate verification ?"

Being verified for 10 or more years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of those are exclusive to married men.

3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning

3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying. "

If you’re comfortable with yourself, you won’t be intimidated by anyone else in that sort of situation.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I don’t do average, so not an issue for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the ultimate verification ?

Being verified for 10 or more years"

Being married doesn't make you verified.

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By *smith45 OP Man
over a year ago

wantage

"None of those are exclusive to married men.

3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning

3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying.

If you’re comfortable with yourself, you won’t be intimidated by anyone else in that sort of situation. "

Its not intimidating me, me being average wont be an intimidation to others, just a possible thing that can be putting off mf couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of those are exclusive to married men.

3 should be a basic requirement for everyone regardless of if you’re planning to meet them to get your frisk on, or if they’re delivering your post in the morning

3 is more like, in an mmf situation, being average wont be intimidating to other men. Otherwise, what you refer to goes without saying. "

And number 1? The ‘ultimate verification’ is you being married. And we would know you’re dishonest so that verification would be redundant.

Not judging anyone for cheating, or those that meet married men. I’m just pointing out the flaws in your logic And let you see it from an outsiders point of view

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Are we talking married cheating guys?

Aawh moral high grounder."

I ask because my only experience with married men is those in open relationships and didn't want to wade into a discussion if my contribution was irrelevant but whatever

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

Well I am sold.

Put me down for 6 of those, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

Sorry but this makes no sense whatsoever.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What is the ultimate verification ?

Being verified for 10 or more years"

The Queen has been married for 72 years. Does that make her a better swinger than you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

What ultimate verification? ? We don't see it.

Appreciates? Question there is does the married man appreciate his unsuspecting trusting wife at home enough to tell her what he is doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine how upset his wife would be if she knew, if you want to play away do the honest thing and tell her, if she is ok with it then fine, but if she kicks you out then move on, understand that some couples dont have much of a relationship, but cheating is never ok

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"What is the ultimate verification ?

Being verified for 10 or more years

The Queen has been married for 72 years. Does that make her a better swinger than you ?"

It’s amazing how people’s mind works innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the ultimate verification ?

Being verified for 10 or more years"

We see that.

Are you verified by your wife?

Is that what you are saying??

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

I think even an average married guy can fail on those points

they are only human after all.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"What is the ultimate verification ?

Being verified for 10 or more years

The Queen has been married for 72 years. Does that make her a better swinger than you ?

It’s amazing how people’s mind works innit

Well she is always getting licked on the back of her head, or being fingered in pockets

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

If this is what I was looking for I have my hubby up the other end of the sofa.. Only difference is he gives me respect - if he wants to go for a sexy meet he is honest and tells me

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Why should you choose an average, married guy, he;

1. has the ultimate verification, cant be that bad.

2. appreciates.

3. doesn't intimidate.

4. requires and provises discreation"

Definitely not. There's no challenge or fun. Average is what you do when you're desperate right? Why can't you find someone that ticks all your boxes then you appreciate each other more instead of feeling like you're just using each other.

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