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By *allBristolMan OP   Man
over a year ago

nowhere

Has anyone else cried for no apparent reason other than the ongoing situation?

I've been generally fine but I just feel overwhelmed today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cried LOTS over the last week just let them fall sometimes a good cry helps hugs to you OP xx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Hope your ok OP sometimes crying helps to clear the head sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Ive burst into tears many times. Out of no where..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I totally understand why you may feel that way. Outside of the threat from the virus itself, this type of isolation/separation and restriction doesn’t suit a lot of people.

I’ll be eternally thankful that those other conditions don’t really bother me, although I’m missing my coffee shop visits.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes i have - but i know we'll get through this x x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yep. I’m an emotional tosspot.

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By *allBristolMan OP   Man
over a year ago

nowhere


"Yep. I’m an emotional tosspot."

Now THATS the description i was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a natural emotional chemical called oxytocin that floods the system...my gf sometimes cries after passion..it is for no reason except an OD of oxytocin. I get that sometimes but my system has taken a shift since my meltdown so Im quite prone to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep most days but I am a builder and we are a emotional bunch!!!!

Take a breath and do something for you today.

Best of luck and stay frosty out there!!!!!

T

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yeah, I think it's normal to feel like that in these circumstances. I think I cried 3 times last week

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. It's normal enough. Be kind to yourself. This is anxiety inducing.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes, sad for loss of so many lives ,sad for not hugging my family and scared for the future...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes, you're not alone OP.

I've cried while home working recently, and also for a friend who is in a pretty bad way.

No doubt more tears will flow before these strange times are over.

Hug of support to you.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I haven’t cried yet - partly because I’m lucky in that my two youngest kids live with me (and our puppy - who’s a great distraction) - but I do feel a sense of deep sadness at times.

I’m a very affectionate person, and not being able to hug my mum (I’m one of her carers so at least see her regularly), oldest daughter or brother - or see my friends - is killing me!

Mostly I keep it together though as I’m naturally ridiculously happy and positive - though when I saw the now-packed London tubes on the news yesterday I felt close to tears - as that can only prolong the situation!

The English government’s priority now seems to be getting us back to work - which I understand if we’re to avoid a massive recession - but it’ll probably prolong the virus’ effects - and make it far longer before I can hug the people I care about again. The thought of that makes me feel like crying - but if I did there’d be a tsunami - so I don’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else cried for no apparent reason other than the ongoing situation?

I've been generally fine but I just feel overwhelmed today"

Regularly

Missing my freedom

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

No managed to keep my spirits up for the most part, it will obviously affect some people more than others

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes, most recently last night.

I’m not feeling much better but I’m working my way through it.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I cry almost everydays but nobody notice, or may really don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay strong, big love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a mess last weekend and very emotional last night OP. Anxiety of not knowing what the future holds. Money worries, scared for my family, trying to stay strong for my young daughter, lack of affection, too much time to overthink things. Stay strong OP this is all only temporary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry almost everydays but nobody notice, or may really don't care "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a nice feeling, big hugs lovely and hope your feeling better tomorrow xx

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

I went through my emails and deleted loads...so many about events that were coming up for my kids...camps, climbing things, parties. Had a big cry then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even tough guys have a little cry now and again.

It’s a perfectly normal human emotion.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes. Don't even need an actual real reason x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I did a few weeks ago, when the isolation started to get to me!

Unfortunately I'm getting used to it, plus I think working from home has surprised me as I thought I couldn't trust myself, but I have been very disciplined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, loads of times. It's really hard isn't it, in so many ways.

Sending hugs to everyone who needs them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cried at least every other day.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else cried for no apparent reason other than the ongoing situation?

I've been generally fine but I just feel overwhelmed today"

Crying is a wonderful way of getting rid of pent up emotions. Just go with the flow OP and don’t worry about it...

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

Yes now and then, it's hard at the moment xx

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