FabSwingers.com forum: Disabilities

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am disgusted with people on FabSwingers just because you may have a disability they don't want to know you this is disgusting people with disabilities are know different from any one else we are a caring Society so if you do have any disabilities please message me i do care iv been a support worker for challenging behaviour and learning difficulties and iv been doing my job for 32 year so please have respect for those with disabilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean they don’t want to meet you? There are plenty of people I don’t want to meet but it doesn’t mean I don’t have respect for them. It looks like you have met as you have a verification. You haven’t been here that long either. I think the majority of men find it difficult to meet regardless of disabilities etc. Are people specifying that’s why? What kind of thing are they saying that makes it disgusting, if you don’t mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day it's like any website even if you're on a dating website a lot of people don't respect each other it doesn't matter if they're disability or not there are some decent people out there that will meet disability people you just have to find the right one that will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen, people can meet who they want. If someone doesn't want to meet another person because they have disabilities then so be it. There will be people that do.

I appreciate you're trying to raise awareness but it reads no different than the threads that state... "people on this site are racist" which sound nothing more than bitter rants coz they've been turned down.

For an awful lot of people MANY boxes need to be ticked to consider a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have disabilities OP? Also as a career do you feel it’s OK to have a sexual relationship with a disabled person? Does the type of disabilities not come into it? I’m actually slightly concerned by your profile and the message a career is sending out. Yes everyone is allowed a sexual relationship but only if they have capacity to make that choice. Please go very careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened OP?

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

"I am disgusted with people on FabSwingers just because you may have a disability they don't want to know you this is disgusting people with disabilities are know different from any one else we are a caring Society so if you do have any disabilities please message me i do care iv been a support worker for challenging behaviour and learning difficulties and iv been doing my job for 32 year so please have respect for those with disabilities "
since when do you tell people they have to meet you? Suggest you find a site that suits your lack of thought... Nik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I certainly don't condone anyone being blatantly disrespectful of another person for any reason, it still boils down to the fact that people have a choice of who they will or won't meet and if they have no desire to meet someone with a disability, as unpalatable as it may sound, it is still their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people need to realise one thing it doesn't matter if you've got a disability or not. Messages of people telling me that I have not what they're looking for or I live too far away from them Mrs I'm just not in their criteria you've just got to move on to the next one at the end of the day everyone has got their likes and dislikes I've come to realise this there is many women on here that I would love to have my wicked way with but I know I don't stand a chance. So what do I do pester them? I just go out of my way to hopefully try and find someone that actually matches me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What I'm trying to say people with disabilities are no different from anyone else and shud enjoy themselves and block people that say different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm trying to say people with disabilities are no different from anyone else and shud enjoy themselves and block people that say different "

Has someone said different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm trying to say people with disabilities are no different from anyone else and shud enjoy themselves and block people that say different "

What has someone said to make you do this post though? Hard to comment without knowing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very possible to be very successful on here with a disability.

Yes of course it will put some people off but that's OK.

Its all about attitude and how you approach it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a Snickers...

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"What I'm trying to say people with disabilities are no different from anyone else and shud enjoy themselves and block people that say different "

So you're saying we're all the same?

But we don't all look the same, smell the same, have the same tastes, enjoy the same activities etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP some people will not want to you simply because you have a disability, some people won't meet me simply because I'm not a size 10.

Its ok to make personal choices but some people will want to meet you.

Try not to focus on those that don't as it will stop you enjoying the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we please keep it to the forums OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course your majesty I must keep it in the form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm trying to say people with disabilities are no different from anyone else and shud enjoy themselves and block people that say different "

But they are different.

The person above me on the thread is different to me, the person below me on the thread is different to me. Everyone is different.

If you're trying to say they still have feelings and sexual urges, well of course they do.

People won't meet me coz they like tall women and I'm a short arse.... and? That's their choice and I couldn't give a shit.

In some cases it can take a lot of planning, or isn't actually possible to get the desired meet with a disabled person.

I met a guy with one leg and travel was a bitch, he needed to come in at a different train station to my normal one due to stairs and access. It's just fact. He also suffered from PTSD which I didn't know about when I agreed to meet. Had I known I wouldn't have met him. That may sound cruel but I'll tell ya why, I have wooden floors and every time my dog walked around on it he was freaking out (must have sounded like gunfire)

I felt like a cunt that he was clearly suffering, and I felt totally responsible yet I couldn't exactly tie my dog to the radiator the whole time to stop her setting his PTSD off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just had a disabled persons rant.

No different from the able bodied rant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thabk you for your response i do appreciate it

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

What do you think about respecting the rights of cleaning ladies ???

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Can we please keep it to the forums OP?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

What do you think about respecting the rights of cleaning ladies ???"

Good point, it does sound a little creepy doesn't it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think about respecting the rights of cleaning ladies ???

Good point, it does sound a little creepy doesn't it..."

More than a little

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I'm creepy now it's nothing to do do with cleaning ladies only if they have disabilities I will respect them but unfortunately you think I'm creepy I suggest you get a day job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so I'm creepy now it's nothing to do do with cleaning ladies only if they have disabilities I will respect them but unfortunately you think I'm creepy I suggest you get a day job"

Op why so bitter? And you’re not really answering questions so how are people supposed to help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to understand Fabswingers is a site people join to have sex with those they’re attracted to.

It may seem unfair to you but people have a right to only want to meet those they are attracted to no matter how outrageous or silly their requirements may seem.

This is not somewhere you go to demand “equal opportunities” or similar. People are free to make their choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do i delete my threds its going nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do i delete my threds its going nowhere "

Because you’ve made a statement and you’re not explaining any further!

You can’t, you need to ask a mod to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do i delete my threds its going nowhere "

Right, so what outcome do you want from it?

People to say "fuckin ell, I didn't realise people with disabilities are human too"

Course they do. You're not preaching anything people don't know, it kinda sounds like you're trying to dictate to people to meet people BECAUSE they have a disability rather than because of the person they are which is all kinds of fucked up.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Ok so I'm creepy now it's nothing to do do with cleaning ladies only if they have disabilities I will respect them but unfortunately you think I'm creepy I suggest you get a day job"

As it happens we do have day jobs - as well as part time jobs at weekends - what's the relevance?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

That was a quick unlos

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Was it something I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am resgisted as blind but I can see abit I do have bit of disbaxirea that affects me with my spelling and my speech sometimes when I talk I sound bit like Arkwright from open all hours.

They class me as disabled.

And lot of people I spoke to on here seem to be fine with it. If i message a woman they dont always replay they delete the message so i move on of they message me say sorry not what i am looking for i say good luck.

People with disabilities can do things well as able body people can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was sad

I don’t really get what happened. I hope he is OK but slightly concerning.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It doesn't mean that you are not a decent person if you choose not to meet anyone with a disability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a disability, but still able to meet. I have to plan a bit and work around it - but it was only ever pointed out by a dickhead who hosts at a club!

I can understand why many wouldn't want to know disabled people (depending on that person's disability) but we all have to push ourselves further, be stronger! Find ways of socialising, in groups if the chance arises! What we must not do is demand, expect, and I'd hate to be looked upon as a sympathy shag - who are desperate!... Sorry but my point of view x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"This was sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am resgisted as blind but I can see abit I do have bit of disbaxirea that affects me with my spelling and my speech sometimes when I talk I sound bit like Arkwright from open all hours.

They class me as disabled.

People with disabilities can do things well as able body people can"

You are a great guy Derek. Just saying

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"This was sad

I don’t really get what happened. I hope he is OK but slightly concerning.

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I find it sad that people go out of there way to pick apart someone's thread and even there profile to the point where he leaves .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was sad

I don’t really get what happened. I hope he is OK but slightly concerning.

I find it sad that people go out of there way to pick apart someone's thread and even there profile to the point where he leaves ."

I just wasn't quick enough to message him...

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am resgisted as blind but I can see abit I do have bit of disbaxirea that affects me with my spelling and my speech sometimes when I talk I sound bit like Arkwright from open all hours.

They class me as disabled.

People with disabilities can do things well as able body people can

You are a great guy Derek. Just saying

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thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen, people can meet who they want. If someone doesn't want to meet another person because they have disabilities then so be it. There will be people that do.

For an awful lot of people MANY boxes need to be ticked to consider a meet.

Sad but true.

People don't want to meet me because I'm:

Too old

Too beardy

Untamed pubes

Too far

Too needy

Too old again

Too small in the dick area

And many many more.

Shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine this didn’t proceed in the direction Op was expecting somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine this didn’t proceed in the direction Op was expecting somehow"

I’m not sure what he was expecting. Seems he just wanted to make a statement and not discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine this didn’t proceed in the direction Op was expecting somehow

I’m not sure what he was expecting. Seems he just wanted to make a statement and not discuss. "

Certainly didn’t seem keen on sticking about for further discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He did message me.

He said he was leaving anyway as it wasn't him but his FB and she had already left because people wouldn't meet her because she had a disability.

I think he just wanted to get it off his chest before he went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He did message me.

He said he was leaving anyway as it wasn't him but his FB and she had already left because people wouldn't meet her because she had a disability.

I think he just wanted to get it off his chest before he went. "

I had the same message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He did message me.

He said he was leaving anyway as it wasn't him but his FB and she had already left because people wouldn't meet her because she had a disability.

I think he just wanted to get it off his chest before he went.

I had the same message "

Yes I thought that was the case.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Was it something I said

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