FabSwingers.com forum: Real life v’s fab life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will blow your minds, this is real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"This will blow your minds, this is real life."

So we aren't in The Matrix then?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.

Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.

Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?

*not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.

Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe some people feel like are judged less or be more themselves on fab.

It’s still real life to me as you still meet people. You only do the actually first part online, so it’s all real life to me

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We love the social side of swinging nearly as much as the playing. We have made some fabulous connections and friends. We are no different on here as we are in real life. We are both still quite modest and shy but with the right people, we happily let our guards down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will blow your minds, this is real life.

So we aren't in The Matrix then?"

Morpheus offered me either the red pill or the blue pill. I just took both of them at once. Now I know I'm living in a hallucination but I'm not bothered like...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Soooo been on fab for a wee while now so kinda know my way around etc. I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?

Hmm. How do you know who gets attention on fab, or off fab? Cos that kind of track and trace technology could be handy right about now.

Mrs TMN

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Attractive to one is not necessarily attractive to another, that's real life.

Im not going to find the kinky men I want up my local

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Attractive to one is not necessarily attractive to another, that's real life.

Im not going to find the kinky men I want up my local

Very very true!!! Agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"

What do you mean inflated egos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm. How do you know who gets attention on fab, or off fab? Cos that kind of track and trace technology could be handy right about now.

Mrs TMN "

It’s an assumption I’m making I’m not saying it’s true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably one of those people but it doesn't give me an ego boost. I don't think about it.

I suppose in some ways If people are willing to lower their standards that's their concern not mine.

Attraction has to be mutual though so I guess its win win.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"

Possibly in the same way that people online can be so nasty and spiteful when behind a screen yet probably wouldn't have the backbone to say boo to a goose when confronted with them face to face.

You can reinvent yourself on here, be more confident, funny because you have time to compose your witty reply. Clever because you can just open Google on another tab.

It's Fab, don't overthink it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta agree there are a few egos on here, kinda like the popularity contests back at school some days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gotta agree there are a few egos on here, kinda like the popularity contests back at school some days "

Yup!! Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.

Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?

Yeah that’s totally cool good opinion

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

There are people in every walk of life with big egos. I don't think it's possible to tell that fab in particular has caused someone's ego to grow. Maybe those people are just like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you found that OP?

I think women definitely get more attention on here, you can set up an account and have no pics and you’ll still get some men messaging saying “Hi, you look gorgeous, fancy meeting ?”

I think it can dent egos rather than inflate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you found that OP?

I think women definitely get more attention on here, you can set up an account and have no pics and you’ll still get some men messaging saying “Hi, you look gorgeous, fancy meeting ?”

I think it can dent egos rather than inflate them.

Ha yeah same here think you only literally need to say female and you get tons of messages just like that ...weird .

More curious to see if folk have come across this or not.

It doesn’t necessarily have to be appearance it could be how they come across in real life like perhaps some are total dicks and don’t get any attention but maybe here they can be more themselves and get more attention ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?"

I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?

I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making "

Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you??"

I've always said if you have the confidence and skills in real life, you'll do ok on here. FAB works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?

I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making

Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life?"

Am I not allowed to ASSUME things...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with people in real life too. It's the same on here, some will like you and you'll annoy the hell out of others.

If you mean attraction, then yeah, it's difficult to know if you'll be attracted physically until you meet unless you've been sending copious amounts of pictures! Even then the chemistry might not work.

But I certainly don't think you can generalise and say people wouldn't be attractive to others in the real world.

I've waffled on enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

Oh Minnie Minnie Minnie, how wrong you are! I am very content with my fab life thank you...are you??

I've always said if you have the confidence and skills in real life, you'll do ok on here. FAB works for me

As it most certainly does for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know they don’t get attention in real life OP?

I didn’t say I KNOW it it’s an assumption I’m making

Why do you assume they don’t get attention in real life?

Am I not allowed to ASSUME things...?"

I’m just curious

would help me form an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get on with people in real life too. It's the same on here, some will like you and you'll annoy the hell out of others.

But I certainly don't think you can generalise and say people wouldn't be attractive to others in the real world.

I've waffled on enough

Totally agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?"

Not sure what you mean?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I get plenty attention in the real world thank you very much but i prefer to keep a quiet home life and a busy secret life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably one of those people as I’m very introverted in my daily life and prefer being under the radar...on fab I get a little attention because I’m able to express more of myself where it’s socially acceptable. But I absolutely don’t think it’s given me and ego, just confidence. And I’d imagine a lot of people on here are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get plenty attention in the real world thank you very much but i prefer to keep a quiet home life and a busy secret life."

Cool cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other way round for me. I probably get more attention in real life than here. I’m too picky here and probably come across a bit different to how I do in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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this is a website, so anything you do on a website site is amplified in some cases world wide which covers New Zealand, the US of A and even Wales so of course you're going to get more attention on this website than walking around your local town city or community and because of that you may be able to achieve great beauty in those that show interest, its all about amplification

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m probably one of those people as I’m very introverted in my daily life and prefer being under the radar...on fab I get a little attention because I’m able to express more of myself where it’s socially acceptable. But I absolutely don’t think it’s given me and ego, just confidence. And I’d imagine a lot of people on here are the same."

That’s ace!! Yeah got to agree there huge difference between confidence and ego! And gaining more confidence through fab is ace

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?"

Do you get more attention on fab than real life?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I get attention on Fab and in real life. I’m a tall lass and hard to miss, a lot of the attention is unwelcome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type? "

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life?"

Umm I get a lot in both. You?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it

Possibly in the same way that people online can be so nasty and spiteful when behind a screen yet probably wouldn't have the backbone to say boo to a goose when confronted with them face to face.

You can reinvent yourself on here, be more confident, funny because you have time to compose your witty reply. Clever because you can just open Google on another tab.

It's Fab, don't overthink it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"

For me "real life" has been a few decades of shame and hiding my inner self. My relatively short "Fab life" has on the whole involved acceptance and encouragement. Yes there has been positive attention and yes at times that has hugely boosted my ego. It may be at times I have encouraged that attention, but on the whole this scene has been a reassuring experience. So perhaps the Fab me is to a degree more real than the real me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life?"
i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whenever I see a thread like this one I always read the subtext as "People who think they are attractive feeling miffed by people they consider not attractive getting more sex than they are"

Or to paraphrase "Sour Grapes"...

Always amuses me

Happy fabbing OPs

This.

Yeah good one

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Why does it bother you so much OP? Everyone’s entitled the use the site in a way that helps them maximise their chances of meeting compatible people right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is a website, so anything you do on a website site is amplified in some cases world wide which covers New Zealand, the US of A and even Wales so of course you're going to get more attention on this website than walking around your local town city or community and because of that you may be able to achieve great beauty in those that show interest, its all about amplification

Oye! Leave New Zealand alone. I get a lot of attention from Kiwi girls, especially when I go to visit the old folks home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get no attention on Fab, but then I don't seek it.

Either people like you, or they don't.

I'm not clacking my pan or unleashing my drama llama today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people

Okay. What skills are we talking about on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not"

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it

That’s awesome!! Yeah I have a few tv friends who have to hide their tv from friends and families and it must be so hard! Getting the confidence through fab is awesome really happy for you and all tvs who don’t have to hide here! Go girl!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it bother you so much OP? Everyone’s entitled the use the site in a way that helps them maximise their chances of meeting compatible people right? "

Curious to know this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people

Okay. What skills are we talking about on here?"
verbal diarrhoea lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?"

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life?

Umm I get a lot in both. You?"

I get way less attention on fab. Hence, I have to flirt my way through fab. My strike rate is sitting at .12%. Planning to increase to .5% by end of May. It's a tough yalker tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train"

“ I’ve got to say one thing that tickles me is how many women AND men that probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life MUST get it here. So it gives them a huge ego. Where as in real life maybe not...? Thoughts?”

You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?

How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train"

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life? i get lots of attention in life its about how you are with people, if you have good skills with people

Okay. What skills are we talking about on here?verbal diarrhoea lol

Oh. Bullshit. I see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?

How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious. "

Maybe they’re fuck ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does it bother you so much OP? Everyone’s entitled the use the site in a way that helps them maximise their chances of meeting compatible people right?

Curious to know this too"

When did I say it bothered me...nope pretty sure I didn’t say that. I think this site is awesome for many reasons as I’ve mentioned in other responses if you care to read them rather than just make up your mind before reading carefully...main point is huge difference between inflated egos and gaining confidence ...is there not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that play out for you OP?

Not sure what you mean?

Do you get more attention on fab than real life?

Umm I get a lot in both. You?

I get way less attention on fab. Hence, I have to flirt my way through fab. My strike rate is sitting at .12%. Planning to increase to .5% by end of May. It's a tough yalker tbh!

maybe if you use better pictures of yourself youll be more successful

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Titch you have hit the nail on the head there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?

How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.

Maybe they’re fuck ugly

I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!

Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"

Who have you offended? Like I’ve explained, I’m asking why you’d assume that, so I can answer your OP profiler

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?

How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.

Maybe they’re fuck ugly

I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!

Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive."

Yes I totally agree with that 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Properly* damn cold hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"

You’re welcome to assume.

I don’t think anyone’s offended, we are just curious as to where this assumption came from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so confused OP, are you saying people on here that get attention, dont get it in real life???

I'll answer it how I think you've asked.

I get attention on here and in real life, not always wanted attention. I'm here because it fits my lifestyle, it's not all about attention but it helps to attract people's attention if I want to create a connection with them or even just fuck them.

Does that answer your question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?"

ASSUME = You make an ASS out of U and ME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

You said probably, not perhaps... have you forgotten what you’ve written?

How do you come to the conclusion that someone probably wouldn’t get any attention in real life? There’s no “negative train” I’m curious.

Maybe they’re fuck ugly

I did ask if they’re not they’re type but they talked about personality too, so it can’t be that!

Besides one man’s ugly is another’s beautiful or attractive."

True but a person can be stunning on the outside and ugly on the inside and the other way round

Personally both of mine are pretty ugly

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you know they wouldn’t get any attention in real life? Is it because they’re not your type?

Nope didn’t say that and it can be about personality too not just if someone fancies them or not

But the point still stands how do you come to the conclusion they’d probably get no attention in real life?

I’m sorry when did I say I had come to that conclusion... I said perhaps... read it properly before jumping on the defensive negative train

I don’t think anybody’s being negative, we’re just wondering why you perhaps think they don’t get attention in real life

Its an assumption... are people not allowed to assume things these days without offending folk?

ASSUME = You make an ASS out of U and ME!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.

But you may think they have a huge ego, whereas they may just be joking. I tell everyone I’m a solid 10/10 and, although I am, I know fine well that not everyone agrees with me. If someone points this out, I’ll tell them they’re wrong.

Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx "

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx

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over a year ago

If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.

Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself

Some people dig the whole ‘huge ego’ thing, so if they meet in person and realise their huge ego is only when they’re online, then meh. They played themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx"

So me, love you too OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you include yourself in that? Or are you deserving of the attention you deride others for receiving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx

So me, love you too OP

(As in, I have a great time and confidence)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably. Probably not. They get that attention for a reason I believe. They are welcome to celebrate it.

Let's no rain on other peoples parade eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it makes them feel better about themselves then sure, have a huge ego.

Why? Cause it’s a joke. No ego here, despite what I’ve heard about myself

Some people dig the whole ‘huge ego’ thing, so if they meet in person and realise their huge ego is only when they’re online, then meh. They played themselves "

Yeah good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you include yourself in that? Or are you deserving of the attention you deride others for receiving?"

Interesting question. If my verifications weren’t hidden perhaps you could make your own assumption from that.

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By *urves and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

If you think you're better than other people, you might wanna check in on your own confidence/arrogance before bashing other people's behaviour. Dulling someone's sparkle ain't gonna make yours shine any brighter.

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like these get negativity because they imply certain people are not deserving of the attention they get on here. And on whose say so? Would an ego be more acceptable if the person gets that attention in ‘real life’ too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx

So me, love you too OP

(As in, I have a great time and confidence)"

Cool! That’s great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am not and never have been on here for an ego boost.

Do I get my fair share of messages? Yes.

Do many men hold my interest on here? Not really.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx"

Yes, but what you have done here is create negative energy for yourself and that can't feel good.

But.. We all do what we want right!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

Yup agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

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awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

Absolutely this!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have some

We all need it!

Jo.Xx

I have loads of love! And I love that folk have a great time here and get confidence...it’s the huge egos that tickle me xx

Yes, but what you have done here is create negative energy for yourself and that can't feel good.

But.. We all do what we want right!

Jo.Xx "

I enjoy seeing what folk think. And think everyone is bored right now and having a debate is great. But my original point has gone lost here. I’m taking about egos not confidence but folk are jumping on the wrong train.

No it’s not nice when folk get the wrong impression of what you’re trying to say and I probably should have worded it better than I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

awwww

Finally someone who feels sorry for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will blow your minds, this is real life.

So we aren't in The Matrix then?"

Fab is better than The Matrix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will blow your minds, this is real life.

So we aren't in The Matrix then?

Fab is better than The Matrix!"

Might be more blue pills on fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

awwww

Finally someone who feels sorry for me

I will find you a place. What about my place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance sometimes.

Confidence is saying "I look great", arrogance is saying "I look better than you".

Confident people, on the other hand, couldn't give a shite about what attention other people are getting, whether it's "deserved" or not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

awwww

Finally someone who feels sorry for me

"
do you correct there spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

awwww

Finally someone who feels sorry for me

do you correct there spelling

I always correct their spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only on fab coz nobody wants me

awwww

Finally someone who feels sorry for me

do you correct there spelling

I always correct their spelling

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes ! "

You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !

You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too

Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !

You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too

Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams ! "

Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !

You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too

Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams !

Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen!

Or in your room so I can say the word !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......

In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....

But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

For some of us munters this is the only place we can come and not feel like munters.

Twat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes !

You're an asshole with expensive shoes on Fab too

Come on woman ! Let me live my dreams !

Sorry Roberto I'll get back to the kitchen!

Or in your room so I can say the word ! "

Oh you just gave me a minge twinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......

In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....

But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ......"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll be the first to admit I get more attention online that in My real life.......

In real life , No one looks at me sexually or will chat me up....

But online I am a bbc bull that will get 10 emails a day from MEN asking to suck me off ......

That’s awesome for you both! Like I’ve said fab is awesome to gain confidence it’s when the confidence turns to an ego I think that’s when someone can change and not in a good way. But yeah happy for you and go with it xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here I am a king outside I am just an asshole with expensive shoes ! "
lol theyre expensive......... we have a saying.......... they saw you coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"Thoughts are you’re looking to bring up a subject that you know is going to divide opinions and put people down

No I’m

Interested in knowing what folk think I’m bored out of my brains and have come across so many inflated egos! No need to read too much into it just opinions on what I said not why I said it"

Why do you think their egos are inflated? Do you think self worth should be based on looks then?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment?

Pandemic on, try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will blow your minds, this is real life."

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment?

Pandemic on, try it

Can abide by social distancing quite nicely with profile showing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

So when did you hide your profile? Before or after your 'munter' comment?

Pandemic on, try it

Not worth my breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which category do you fit into then

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time."

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do have to be so mean ;( Everyone is beautiful in their own and some find it easier on here to talk to people. What’s wrong with someone having compliments? Everyone wants to feel good about themselves

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

No one has had a pop at the OP.

She knew exactly what she was doing when she started the thread and her subsequent comments.

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry. "

I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.

I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont we all appreciate a little attention? And ultimately feeling appreciated and wanted has a positive affect on us all.

I'm trying to be objective about your debate, but I really dont think attention on fab is about people's ego getting a boost or them being able to get attentionnormally. Its sexually orientated no doubt, and people will pay compliments to have their way, but were all different and fit into life in a mosaic pattern....usually looks great as a whole picture.

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over a year ago

The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.

I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence. "

Some of the fluffy brigade may call it nasty, others on here who dare to speak their minds may call it being honest, either way I haven't seen anyone from the fluffy brigade have a go at the person who called me a twat? Or is that acceptable?

Or, is that laughable to suggest they might?

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry. "

People can have different opinions on here and they do, all the time. Difference is, you resorted to name calling which there was no need for

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

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You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.

People can have different opinions on here and they do, all the time. Difference is, you resorted to name calling which there was no need for"

So someone calling me a twat is acceptable then? Don't see you calling that one out? Or are you part of the fluffy gang too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

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You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.

I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down"

Sorry but who was putting who down? If you read through the thread there are several put downs towards me. One saying I had sour grapes...so implying what about me? Another about losing ones shine by putting folk down...which isn’t what I did!!!

Confidence=great! Ego=not!

That was my message...but heaven forbid someone has a bleeding opinion.

Sorry if I offended anyone as it wasn’t my intention despite folk saying it was. And if you lot actually read everything I’ve said you’d see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter

Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight

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over a year ago

"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter

Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight

Christ but you’re fun at parties

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fluffy cuddles anyone?!

Jo.Xx

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

So, just because I'm not all fluffy like you lot and speak the truth I'm nasty? But you lot all jump on board and have a pop at the OP and that's fine?

Do one

You lot? Who was having a pop at the OP? you're the one that's started calling people names. Calling people munters (to use you're word's) is the truth???

Try reading through the thread properly

If anyone pops there head above the pit in this place and dares to question, all the fluffy brigade gang up and jump on board, it's pathetic, sorry.

I think you Will find having a different opinion on here is perfectly acceptable, I do all the time. The difference is Some of us can do it without being offensive and putting others down

Confidence=great! Ego=not!

That was my message...but heaven forbid someone has a bleeding opinion.

Sorry if I offended anyone as it wasn’t my intention despite folk saying it was. And if you lot actually read everything I’ve said you’d see that

They have selective reading skills, they only see their fluffiness and miss all the slagging off they do to others as that's acceptable in their fluffy world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The green arrow gives you a great insight into a person. Excellent filter

Yeah it shows I'm not up everyone's arse and is an honest person who says it as it is. Bloody hell, the fluffy gang are all out tonight

I applaud speaking your opinion, after all if you're on the side of the majority, check your position as the saying goes.

But not everyone who's sensitive to others positions are pink and fluffy?

You can still have an opposing view without offending people?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Is it why it's called "bumping uglies"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fluffy cuddles anyone?!

Jo.Xx "

Can I have one pretty please. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comment was nasty. You cant deny that. Calling people munters isnt speaking the truth, not calling people munters isnt being fluffy. It's laughable to suggest either of those is the case.

I'm not convinced, actually I'm never convinced by the "telling it like it is" defence.

Or, is that laughable to suggest they might?

I think many/most will always respond to a deliberately provocative post. That's what your's was. The abusive response wasn't provocative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody gets attention from somebody eventually. There is the perfect person or people out there for everyone.

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time."

He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.

Happens all the time here.

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over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.

Happens all the time here."

Oh look here's another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree OP, bang on. The only people who will slag off your post is the ones who know its true and don't like it shoved in their faces that they're really munters

You’re a very unhappy person aren’t you?

Every post you make consists of being nasty about others.

I really think you should seek some professional advice for what’s causing you to be so rude and nasty all the time.

He’s probably been rejected a few too many times so has turned bitter overnight.

Happens all the time here.

Oh look here's another one

Another what, “fluffy brigade” as you call it?

Or maybe just maybe you’re the problem here and not everyone else who sees you being nasty...

When several people are saying the same thing it’s time to look at yourself to see what you’re doing...

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.

For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it.

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over a year ago

"I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.

For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it.

how competitive do you get? would you risk losing a chess match for a meet?

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

"I think people are missing the point of this thread. Saying single guys who have trouble dating in real life, are successful on fab, doesn't ring true.

For single guys it's much harder to get a meet on fab than to meet outside. Personally I love the competitive side of it.

how competitive do you get? would you risk losing a chess match for a meet?"

Hmmm. That's a good one.

I'd play chess to win. Loser becomes sex slave

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