FabSwingers.com forum: First glance

By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "

Nice pic, by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes lips teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture. "

She is my kind of woman. Intelligence and looks!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Their face as a whole for me. Although on here it's usually body first as that's all I can see on pictures, but if I don't find their face appealing when I see it then it's a no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes lips teeth"

Will dentures be okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kind face and a nice pair of legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually.. rushing to add Voice.. which doesnt apply on here so much .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His eyes and smile, expressive eyes, lots of eye contact can say more than any verbal language could

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Face for me too.

I like nice full lips and eyes that show soul and passion.

D has it all going on for me.

Jo.Xx

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!"

I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.

I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture. "

Hand posture??

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Eyes lips teeth"

But which one comes first Nora??

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Their face as a whole for me. Although on here it's usually body first as that's all I can see on pictures, but if I don't find their face appealing when I see it then it's a no go"

Lol

Yeah I think that’s with most of us on here.

If we’re talking about body pics then it has to be somewhere in the middle.

I don’t like too muscly or too skinny

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body.

Nice pic, by the way!

Thanks Hun

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Eyes first for me from a physical point of view, although there has to be a connection there for the conversation to continue.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Could be anything really. I see beauty in most but I cant "fancy" someone until I can see a connection somewhere in the chat. Your lips made me chat to you the first time. Bustys smile attracted me to her.

So yours would be the mouth area bants??

You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

Hand posture??"

Haha. Should have used commas.

I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"A kind face and a nice pair of legs

A good pair of legs is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

Hand posture??

Haha. Should have used commas.

I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things.

In fact same applies to women. A great confident walk..nice moves..

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"His eyes and smile, expressive eyes, lots of eye contact can say more than any verbal language could"

I hear you on that.

That’s my second place to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you know gobby I'm a sucker for sexy lips and eyes but I think i.aslo get attracted to personality being in forums and listening to different people I find some people attractive that I maybe wouldn't be at first look but as I speak to them and get to know them I find them sexy for them not their looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!

I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.

I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?"

Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, their personal values are attractive traits for me than physical looks. Contrary to popular belief, I am a one woman man. This swinging thing is not my cup of tea. So what I look for is some who can communicate well, and there is a balance between emotion and logical thinking, cause it is not going to be a one night stand!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

A little bit of everything, I like to be surprised and intrigued by people.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Face for me too.

I like nice full lips and eyes that show soul and passion.

D has it all going on for me.

Jo.Xx "

Awwww Jo

I’m with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am most attracted to a cute face...

...and If they have a dry sense of humour and don’t take themselves too seriously then I’m hooked from there on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

Hand posture??"

I think she was talking non verbal ques, which is a sign of confidence

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

Hand posture??

Haha. Should have used commas.

I meant: hands gestures, his body language which shows through posture, amongst other things.

In fact same applies to women. A great confident walk..nice moves.."

Oh ok I get you now. Yes the way a person carries themselves can be sexy as fuck sometimes.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Face definitely. A twinkle in the eyes and a happy demeanour. A good looking smile which conveys sincerity and warmth. All this is a very good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "
knees omg i love scuffed knees

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"As you know gobby I'm a sucker for sexy lips and eyes but I think i.aslo get attracted to personality being in forums and listening to different people I find some people attractive that I maybe wouldn't be at first look but as I speak to them and get to know them I find them sexy for them not their looks"

That happens a lot for most id say WD...

A person becomes more attractive the more you get to know them. Or it can have the opposite effect.

Attracted to looks but personality puts you off them.

I was just wondering what’s the first thing everyone look at when you first see someone or if someone sends you a pic.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes on the face for attraction, but a good pair of legs for turning me on.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!

I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.

I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?

I hope you find all of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens a lot for most id say WD...

A person becomes more attractive the more you get to know them. Or it can have the opposite effect.

Attracted to looks but personality puts you off them.

I was just wondering what’s the first thing everyone look at when you first see someone or if someone sends you a pic. "
send me a picture or 2 and I'll let you know lol

As I said lips and eyes are a bug thing for me

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"A little bit of everything, I like to be surprised and intrigued by people. "

What kind of surprise tho?? Three breasts??

Massive teeth?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they smile is what I look for.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture. "

That

, and I would add lips.

It’s not just do they have nice sexy eyes, lips, posture etc , it’s what story are they telling.

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Eyes, love eye contact. After that definitely their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!

I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.

I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?

I hope you find all of that

One day. I am sure it won't be on fab. So I will flirt (not fuck) my way through fab till I find that person!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.

For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out

Attraction is a multiple of things for me

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I am most attracted to a cute face...

...and If they have a dry sense of humour and don’t take themselves too seriously then I’m hooked from there on

Yeah I like a cute face too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Face definitely. A twinkle in the eyes and a happy demeanour. A good looking smile which conveys sincerity and warmth. All this is a very good start

The eyes speak a lot for most

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees

So you look straight down at a the knees??

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Eyes on the face for attraction, but a good pair of legs for turning me on."

Ok so a few have legs down as a turn on for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jawline

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

Awww loving yours too sexy

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"The way they smile is what I look for. "

I get that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

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I have all those things

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What's he telling me with his eyes.. hands.. posture.

That

, and I would add lips.

It’s not just do they have nice sexy eyes, lips, posture etc , it’s what story are they telling. "

I think I know what you mean about the stories

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Eyes, love eye contact. After that definitely their mind."

The mind is a vert powerful thing.

Mental stimulation is so important

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Looks dont bother me, as long as they are presentable. EQ is what gets me interested!

I get that it doesn’t bother you but surely before chatting to someone. You find some sort of attraction.

I’m not talking about just on fab. Even when on a night out. Surely something pulls you in first?

I hope you find all of that

One day. I am sure it won't be on fab. So I will flirt (not fuck) my way through fab till I find that person!

You never know where youll find it.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.

For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out

Attraction is a multiple of things for me "

So would you not be out on a night and think “oh he’s good looking?” Not saying you want more to be there but something that makes you look twice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and a shared relaxed glance of "I get you"....

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Jawline "

This I get too

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Eyes and a shared relaxed glance of "I get you"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be the eyes I think for me. I take in the whole face, but eyes can show so much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic "

A little left to the imagination, snippets of a beautiful face, hell even clothed just showing what they do for fun. I don’t need to be seeing every inch of someone but I will bypass tasteless up close profile photos of vaginas in the same way most woman bypass a dick pic profile photo. Is that an ok description?

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Eyes

Smile

Boobs (duh I look sneakily)

Their style

That they're checking me out when I'm checking them out

Then personality blows my mind (if they have one)

Or just the latter with a naughty side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly look more at a personality now than I did when in first joined fab there are some on here that are very sexy but not nice people and some that arnt thenbest looking that I'd jump in bed with in a heart beat as I think they are fun and nice to talk to

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.

If we're talking about a fleeting "ooh I like the look of them" on a night out or similar then it could be a variety of things that attract my attention, eyes and smile are big attractors, and legs and bums catch my eye, but it could be something as simple as the way someone stands or holds themself or generally acts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.

For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out

Attraction is a multiple of things for me "

All my fav women are looking gorgeous in their pics. Is there any challenge going on in any of the threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be eyes, doesn't matter the colour more the intensity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So yours would be the mouth area bants??

You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha"

In all honesty, no. Your mouth was all I could see when I first started chatting with you. Granted, busty is very busty but the first thing I complemented her on was her smile.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.

I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Eyes

Smile

Boobs (duh I look sneakily)

Their style

That they're checking me out when I'm checking them out

Then personality blows my mind (if they have one)

Or just the latter with a naughty side

Lol I hope you get away with the sneaky looks, as it’s uncomfortable when you have eyes bogging at the boobs

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Her smile, and then if she bites her bottom lip when I speak to her I’m sold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.

I like profiles that gets my mind ticking. "

Phew

I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I'm not sure there's a single "thing" that defines attraction for me - it's more about someone's overall presence and personality and the connection and chemistry we find for me to want to take things further and that usually develops over a period of time if we're talking about here.

Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.

It’s never the same for you then Gemini man

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

So yours would be the mouth area bants??

You sure it wasn’t the boobs your eyes saw first haha

In all honesty, no. Your mouth was all I could see when I first started chatting with you. Granted, busty is very busty but the first thing I complemented her on was her smile."

Awwww bants

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't think there is just one thing for me. Can be different things with different people. In the forum it is definitely their personalities that draw me in. Mostly those that make me chuckle to myself but also come across as a nice person x

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Her smile, and then if she bites her bottom lip when I speak to her I’m sold... "

Biting of the lips is so sexy

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.

I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.

Phew

I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it

Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.

What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"Eyes

Smile

Boobs (duh I look sneakily)

Their style

That they're checking me out when I'm checking them out

Then personality blows my mind (if they have one)

Or just the latter with a naughty side

Lol I hope you get away with the sneaky looks, as it’s uncomfortable when you have eyes bogging at the boobs

Well you didn't notice

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"I don't think there is just one thing for me. Can be different things with different people. In the forum it is definitely their personalities that draw me in. Mostly those that make me chuckle to myself but also come across as a nice person x"

Yes that’s a big thing for me too. Someone that can make me laugh is such a big thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess everyone is different to some degree in what draws in, A nice smiling, welcoming face to start, after that its all about connection for me

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I suppose if we are talking about out in public, then the way a person holds themselves is what draws me in first.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.

I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.

Phew

I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it

Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.

What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong

It’s ok I can be under pressure deciding which pringles I want to buy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I’ve never been an instant attraction sort of person.

For me it builds up as I talk to them, how the chat flows, the sense of humour, the eyes, the smile and it’s the same on a night out

Attraction is a multiple of things for me

So would you not be out on a night and think “oh he’s good looking?” Not saying you want more to be there but something that makes you look twice?

I can appreciate a good looking person if it’s bought up in conversation, but I don’t look around the room thinking oh he’s nice, she’s nice.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.

It’s never the same for you then Gemini man "

I don't think it is no, but then everyone is different so it's no surprise to find different things attractive in different people really.

To give an example that may help relate, and to an extent is an "oooh I like the look of them".

We often see on here "celebrity crush" threads and my usual response is Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance - and it's the same for me on a night out.

Maybe it's because I've never been a "go out on the pull" type so I'm not actually looking to attract when I go out so don't have a "type" I focus on if that makes sense?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"A little bit of everything, I like to be surprised and intrigued by people.

What kind of surprise tho?? Three breasts??

Massive teeth?

Lol"

Hahah exactly that, I’ve chatted to a few just seeing body pics then been like damn... you are fit as fuck when they shared their face.

A cute naughty smile does it for me.

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By *ornyhun69Woman
over a year ago

Wales

100% personality over looks any day of the week. You could look like God's gift to women but if you act like a dick it's an instant turn off. Looks wise tho I do like broad shoulders and chest hair

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By *iggydog78Man
over a year ago

London

Firstly eyes without a doubt can get lost in a set of sexy eyes then has to a confident walk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the smile, the way you carry yourself then how you move.. You're off to a very good start if it's all to my liking

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance."

Yes, white and slim. So very different.

(I'm teasing in case anyone gets very upset).

OP do you think you like your lips/hope others notice them that's why you like lips a lot?

In a photo on here, I like a genuine smile with warmth behind it. That and eyes are things I notice first in a face picture.

Out and about, I really do have varied taste. Lots of different things can catch my eye or attract me to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way a woman protest herself through her pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way a woman protest herself through her pictures.

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some photos just draw me in, tasteful photos though mainly

What’s tasteful to you groot? Describe a tasteful pic

That’s a perfect description and Im definitely in with you on that.

I like profiles that gets my mind ticking.

Phew

I thought I was going to get ripped a new one for not adhering to the potential social construct that is “tasteful”.. or I may be over thinking it

Haha sorry didn’t mean to put you under pressure with that question.

What we all class as tasteful is different for us all so no answer is wrong

It’s ok I can be under pressure deciding which pringles I want to buy

pick the prawn cocktail flavour or sour cream

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes I was talking more about the “oh I like the look of them” attraction.

It’s never the same for you then Gemini man

I don't think it is no, but then everyone is different so it's no surprise to find different things attractive in different people really.

To give an example that may help relate, and to an extent is an "oooh I like the look of them".

Maybe it's because I've never been a "go out on the pull" type so I'm not actually looking to attract when I go out so don't have a "type" I focus on if that makes sense?"

I do get what you’re saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s eyes and lips for me

A gorgeous pair of eyes and a pair of kissable lips have me putty.

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over a year ago

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees

So you look straight down at a the knees??"
yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely enough - I like chins too and a cute nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

That being said, I’m sucker for kind eyes too so if I got chatting to someone who didn’t tickle my pickle initially, and we got on well, we made each other laugh then I’d still fall head over heels

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"Keeley Hawes, Hermione Norris and Ruth Wilson all of whom I think are very attractive - yet are physically different in appearance.

Yes, white and slim. So very different.

(I'm teasing in case anyone gets very upset).

OP do you think you like your lips/hope others notice them that's why you like lips a lot?

In a photo on here, I like a genuine smile with warmth behind it. That and eyes are things I notice first in a face picture.

Out and about, I really do have varied taste. Lots of different things can catch my eye or attract me to someone."

Hi _eli

Haha no that’s not why I like lips.

I’ve always gone for guys who have nice lips, it quite simply is something that first draws me in.

When talking to someone i tend to stare at the lips a lot (hoping it doesn’t come across as freaky to them)

Always nice to have a good lips to kiss also

In person I get more compliments on my eyes than lips. I’d much prefer them noticing those.

I just chose to bombard fab with my lip pics haha

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"The way a woman protest herself through her pictures. "

That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.

That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person? "

The way a woman portrays* herself outside

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees

So you look straight down at a the knees??yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times

Haha you must be on your knees a lot to maintain that kind of contact

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over a year ago

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice "

Also accent/pronunciation/content. A few months ago I was out with friends and I just heard this beautiful voice say ‘well if you’re not going to let me listen to Taylor Swift I’m going to drive myself’ and my heart skipped a beat!

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.

That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?

The way a woman portrays* herself outside "

such as??

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over a year ago

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice "

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.

That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?

The way a woman portrays* herself outside

such as??"

Let's say that I avoid loud women, or women who want to make themselves seen by others by any means necessary

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see if they have a seagull on their head...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

How he talks to me in messages

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

Very husky then??

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"The way a woman portrays herself through her pictures.

That’s just on here though. What attracts you first in person?

The way a woman portrays* herself outside

such as??

Let's say that I avoid loud women, or women who want to make themselves seen by others by any means necessary "

Oh ok that makes perfect sense. I know what kind of woman you’re talking about

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"To see if they have a seagull on their head...

Have you found any with one of those seagull on their head before

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over a year ago

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

Very husky then??

Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

Very husky then??

Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years "

Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.

Would love to hear a husky voice

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over a year ago

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

Very husky then??

Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years

Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.

Would love to hear a husky voice

I can’t take things seriously I’d be sucking on helium for shits n giggles before hand

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It would have to be the eyes. Ones that make me swoon

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By *obbychick OP Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"On here? I’m not really sure. I’m not looking to meet anyone really so I’ll strike up conversations with someone if I like the way they type and think we could get along.

Out and about from a physical point of view it’s someones height, broad shoulders, dreamy smile that would make me look twice. Or if they had a nice laugh or voice I might look over.

Yes a voice can sometimes me a game changer. A little husky is very nice

Not sure if I’m past a little husky at this point

Very husky then??

Yeah we could say that, comes with screaming in a metal band for years

Sounds intriguing....you should do one of those voice challenges I’ve seen up on here.

Would love to hear a husky voice

I can’t take things seriously I’d be sucking on helium for shits n giggles before hand

That’s even better

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By *illyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We go the other way. Any kind of genital jewelry is a no. Infact if we see a prince Albert, as soon as we finish throwing up it's an instant block.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

It's whatever catches my eye, could be their smile, their heels, their bum, different all the time.

If I saw you though, it would be lips and cleavage!!

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over a year ago

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. knees omg i love scuffed knees

So you look straight down at a the knees??yes i maintain eye contact with the knees at all times

Haha you must be on your knees a lot to maintain that kind of contact "
i go for really tall women that way i always look up to them

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "

I generally do not try to look for an attraction

It is just there really and not really any set rules

However once drawn in by whatever iv found alluring and sexy I will probably focus carfully upon the eyes and lips first to determine something

I can find a warm, cheeky and or innocent face alluring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man with kind eyes and nice smile!

Happy and funny always ticks a box!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the eyes, then the lips x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Body language speaks a thousand words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Body language speaks a thousand words."
yes the language of love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes first definitely after that their smile. Have chatted to guys here and thought was chemistry but in person nothing and I'm sure a few guys have thought same when we have met. I know one very publicly said so lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good smile will do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always a certain je ne sais quoi about them. However for a really strong initial physical attraction it is invariably due to their face, the soulful eyes and an enigmatic smile. On here I find a lot of bodies attractive and don’t have a particular type.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Eyes, definitely something in the eyes

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"What is the first thing you are looking at when you are trying to see if there’s an attraction?

I love a guy with sexy lips. I’m drawn to those

first and then register the rest of the face and sometimes body. "

In fab usually how they presented themselves in the profile as you can’t see face or conversation straight away but they are effective whether my first glance stay for more or not

Outside - smile

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"A good smile will do it for me.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

I have all those things

you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

I have all those things

you do

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so your saying theres a chance

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

I have all those things

you do

so your saying theres a chance

I’d never ruin our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving your new pic beautiful

I’m attracted to broad shoulders, arms and big hands

If they have a smile that lights up their whole face I totally melt

I have all those things

you do

so your saying theres a chance

I’d never ruin our friendship

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oh your cuddles wouldnt do that

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By *ark_KnightsMan
over a year ago

london

Without doubt Legs

Haha don’t judge but Legs and we go from there

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