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The good things in life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would things get better or worse if humans focused on what was going well rather than what’s going wrong?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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In my opinion, better - negativity is such a draining emotion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion, better - negativity is such a draining emotion "

Truth gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, much better I think.

I have some pasty’s in the oven.

I’m focused on those right now.

I feel good about my pasty’s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, much better I think.

I have some pasty’s in the oven.

I’m focused on those right now.

I feel good about my pasty’s "

I thought this said Patsy and I was going to ask why you put her in the oven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a refreshing change. Nothing seems to sell better than misery though

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.

I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.

The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.

I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.

The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made. "

Yes! I don't think there's anything wrong in taking time to learn from mistakes and trying to grow. As a whole, maybe focusing on the positive is a good thing. On the other hand, it's okay to not be okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, much better I think.

I have some pasty’s in the oven.

I’m focused on those right now.

I feel good about my pasty’s "

Positive vibes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grilled cheese on toast and a cuppa always creates good vibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good vibes are contagious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good vibes are contagious "

#goodvibezonly

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Good vibes are contagious "

This. Good vibes are always welcome

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Better. Positivity has to be a good thing.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Focusing on what's gone wrong doesn't have to be negative.

I always try to be positive but I'm a firm believer in learning from my mistakes. If I didn't take time to look at what went wrong I wouldn't develop as a person.

The same can be said for society as a whole. It's only by recognising what's gone wrong that solutions and improvements can be made. "

Absolutely but I think there's a difference between focussing on what's gone wrong and learning from it and dealing with it positively and having a negative outlook and demeanour and assuming the worst all the time.

And I know for some that is a struggle, and count myself lucky that I am able to see the positives in most things, and when I do have periods of negativity, which we all do, that they're usually short-lived.

I also know it's not simply a case of just "being positive and things will be positive" for some, you have to *feel* positive to be positive and I honestly feel for those that struggle with that.

For me though as I said, I always look for the positives, even in adversity and it usually serves me well.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It needs to be both. I try to strive for self improvement, which skews me towards the negative, but it's exhilarating to break through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion, better - negativity is such a draining emotion

Truth gal"
What can I say to that answer young Leviosa..your a hoot!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Would things get better or worse if humans focused on what was going well rather than what’s going wrong?"

Got to be better! I try to look for the positives. Doesn't have to be big things. Just the little every day things. Especially at the moment

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my opinion, better - negativity is such a draining emotion

Truth gal

What can I say to that answer young Leviosa..your a hoot! "

Aww I so hope you’re not being sarcastic - thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Twitter feed would beg to differ - fucking whingey twats!

It’s why I like your posts OP, they invariably have a picture of you in various states of underwear at the top of them .. definitely a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My Twitter feed would beg to differ - fucking whingey twats!

It’s why I like your posts OP, they invariably have a picture of you in various states of underwear at the top of them .. definitely a good thing! "

Aw JeremyLondon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr nice

That avatar is ace

I was gonna pm ya but you’ve blocked all men so I’ve had to publicly declare my admiration

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The trouble is negative news/things tend to have a bigger impact than positive news/things so it sticks in our minds more - it's how we process them as individuals that is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.

I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.

I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers "

We have matching hair cuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.

I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers

We have matching hair cuts "
looks better on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When turkey twizzlers the most positive thing back in the day got banned, humanity just went downhill and everyone became negative.

I don't think we'll recover and be positive again unless they bring back turkey twizzlers

We have matching hair cuts

looks better on you "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant sweep certain feelings and failing under the carpet. So yes the scales should tip to positivity, but every emotion deserves time to process.

Give me a reason.. x

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"You cant sweep certain feelings and failing under the carpet. So yes the scales should tip to positivity, but every emotion deserves time to process.

Give me a reason.. x"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

To my mind, you can’t bury your head in the sand and just focus on the good things. That’s basically just ignoring a problem if you know there is a problem.

To fix a problem you have to address it, or the problem could get worse, making it nigh on impossible to ever bury your head in the sand about anything, ever again.

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