FabSwingers.com forum: Getting older sucks

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Anyone else feels like this.

A thread earlier about being too young and I was like, them were the days.

Don't get me wrong I have my moments. Some days..I wouldn't mind turning the clock back.

I'd go back to my mid thirties.

I was wiser, more confident in my skin and more together generally.

Do you have a time that you harp back to?

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Probably 30s here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else feels like this.

A thread earlier about being too young and I was like, them were the days.

Don't get me wrong I have my moments. Some days..I wouldn't mind turning the clock back.

I'd go back to my mid thirties.

I was wiser, more confident in my skin and more together generally.

Do you have a time that you harp back to?

I'd be 18 in a heart beat. Last time I had a full head of hair, a noticeable 6 pack, a sports car and no children!

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By *4nd5omeMan
over a year ago

leicester

Definitely mid 20’s i would go back to if i could ??

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I actually feel contented more centred and confident the older i get im enjoying it opposed to my manic youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else feels like this.

A thread earlier about being too young and I was like, them were the days.

Don't get me wrong I have my moments. Some days..I wouldn't mind turning the clock back.

I'd go back to my mid thirties.

I was wiser, more confident in my skin and more together generally.

Do you have a time that you harp back to?

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no not really but the time goes so quickly

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn’t go back this is a great time in my life. I'm currently trying to accept crepey skin on my arms though, I wouldn't mind my 40 year old arms and legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting old sucks but I think I’m the fittest (health wise) I’ve ever been

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Getting old sucks but I think I’m the fittest (health wise) I’ve ever been "

I wish I could say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living my best life now tbh

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

My early 30s when I was super fit!

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside

"Getting old sucks but I think I’m the fittest (health wise) I’ve ever been

I wish I could say the same"

Same. Go back and make more effort for fitness of body - you've only got one so best look after it

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

There are certain moments in my life I would love to go back to, but I’m more confident and comfortable now than I’ve ever been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aging is fun.

I enjoy the new knowledge and feelings and the very different experiences that come with different perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id go back to about 35 I think, I had so much more energy and things still pointed north lol

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Right now. I'd stick with this.

But then I don't know what the future holds.

I've loved every decade more than the last so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Aging is fun.

I enjoy the new knowledge and feelings and the very different experiences that come with different perspectives."

I agree. It's to be embraced nor feared or regretted and its way better than the alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just hit my 40s and must admit I wouldn't turn back the clock life is good and I've never felt so good

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'd happily park at 40 as I was still fit, happy, wiser and with the perfect combination of looking older and experienced but not too old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aches and pains from a hard working life and annoying hairs sprouting from places you cant quite reach are the downsides but, the confidence in who I am and the ability to focus on what matters to me is a huge bonus. I miss the haircuts but not the insecurity of my youth and the one true bonus is that I know I am a hell of a lot better lover now than I was back in the day. I could be richer, better looking, taller, but I am happy in my slightly tired skin

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

God, I’ve hated every decade till now! I finally feel like a grown up now and loving life.

Mrs J x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"God, I’ve hated every decade till now! I finally feel like a grown up now and loving life.

Mrs J x"

That's a great place to now be in x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Aging is fun.

I enjoy the new knowledge and feelings and the very different experiences that come with different perspectives.

I agree. It's to be embraced nor feared or regretted and its way better than the alternative "

As I wrote this I thought about the alternative!

I am very happy to be here that's for sure

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

"There are certain moments in my life I would love to go back to, but I’m more confident and comfortable now than I’ve ever been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a now person, I've made bad decisions in my life but you can't regret them I'd love to go back to a time when i was very fit but i can't, i look forward to the future and life...... the only one you've got...... is what you make it

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By *innMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Now - this is my time, my decade.

Everything before led to this place.

I know what I want, I do what I want and best of all I can afford to travel and enjoy life’s pleasures.

Each year getting to this point took something from/out of me. But they also added qualities like patience, manners, respect and being able to recognise happiness and joy in the moment.

So now is just right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to have my mid-20s body but to swap who I am now with who I was then? No way. I've got a good life that I worked hard to get.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm happy as I am...yes, there have been blissfully happy times before now, but there have also been hard times. Not everything is perfect right now, but I have the knowledge and confidence to either accept or change those things, and I'm more confident in myself as a person than I've ever been.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not getting any older would suck even more.

Cal

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

It gets better as you get older imo

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just wish we had started swinging when we were a bit younger but saying that we probably started it when we did as the kids are getting older and we are getting our lives back a bit x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m quite happy where I am.

Only reason I’d ever think of going back to a certain age is to spend time again with those that have past, the rest is lessons learnt and no better or worse than now

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By *lumber53Man
over a year ago

brean

Agreed it all.pills and kidney stones lollll

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’m quite happy where I am.

Only reason I’d ever think of going back to a certain age is to spend time again with those that have past, the rest is lessons learnt and no better or worse than now "

To go back and have more time with those we have lost well, I can't think of a better to go back for x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

32 for me. I had the time of my life then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 25-26. Felt absolutely bulletproof; everything just seemed to go well, I ate well and was in great shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont personally but thats due to the fact that its only since 50 that I ve broken down the blocks on my cery bad past and found the real me. Prior to that I raged against the world without knowing why and it took me to the darkest of places..now Im free to learn more of myself and enjoy that liberation

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Anyone else feels like this.

A thread earlier about being too young and I was like, them were the days.

Don't get me wrong I have my moments. Some days..I wouldn't mind turning the clock back.

I'd go back to my mid thirties.

I was wiser, more confident in my skin and more together generally.

Do you have a time that you harp back to?

Wish I was a little younger I have missed a few things in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20’s all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else feels like this.

A thread earlier about being too young and I was like, them were the days.

Don't get me wrong I have my moments. Some days..I wouldn't mind turning the clock back.

I'd go back to my mid thirties.

I was wiser, more confident in my skin and more together generally.

Do you have a time that you harp back to?

You're only as old as the partner you're feeling up. If you don't mind being 38 again, you can feel me up anytime you want!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Actually I have enjoyed getting older.

My 40s have been the best time of my life so far.

Financially secure, children grown up, fit and healthy. Have enjoyed travelling to new places and exploring sexually too.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

I sometimes think back to the early 90s era of clubbing & dance music. I loved it all but didn't really know Gemma back then like I do now. I could have had so much fun going out en femme & dancing the nights away. Missed opportunity somehow. Time to pay catch up & live a little once we're allowed to get out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late twenties, thirties, forties and now fifties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be back in my early 20’s. No back pain and recovered a lot quicker from hangovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a new back but really I don’t feel mentally any different to being in my 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm mid 20's would be nice.

I don't feel old but when I see my age in text I think damn I'm old now lol.

I'm approaching 40 next and I feel my best years are behind me. However I also feel I didn't make the most of them and I'm hoping to make up for it from now on.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

t what point do you go from wanting to be older to wanting to be younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 30,S as was wiser and better shape than in my 20’s and had great 90’s music

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I wouldn't - I'm happier and more conformable in my own skin than I've ever been

Mrs TMN x

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