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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you know there’s something you have to, or really should do, but you have no interest or emotional/intellectual investment in it whatsoever, how do you manage to just get on with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I don't until I have an imminent deadline, I'm the world's worst procrastinator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with that too ! And I wait the last minute to do it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Motivating myself to start is sometimes the hardest part. So I set the timer on my phone and say I'm going to do, say, 20 minutes. Break it down into manageable chunks, which are less daunting.

20 mins and a break then another 20 mins and a break.

Rinse and repeat.

Works for me

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"When you know there’s something you have to, or really should do, but you have no interest or emotional/intellectual investment in it whatsoever, how do you manage to just get on with it?"

Story of my life starts and ends there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you know there’s something you have to, or really should do, but you have no interest or emotional/intellectual investment in it whatsoever, how do you manage to just get on with it?"

Close your eyes and pretend she is someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Glad to hear I’m not the only one who gets off the line like an arthritic tortoise.

As for thinking of someone else, alas this issue isn’t lady related.... although to be fair, I’d take that as an alternative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am normally quite focused till the end result. I am more of a logical person than emotional.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

The end goal can look daunting but the individual steps of the journey are what you focus on first, one step at a time. Then give yourself positive feedback about the individual steps you have accomplished, the goal then will be attained but the journey will be special.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I procrastinate and then procrastinate much more. I’m terrible at putting things off. GCSE, A Level, 2 degrees, postgrad etc etc and I still haven’t learnt.

Ultimately though, I imagine a time where I don’t have to think about said task and how great that must feel.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Generally I don't, or put it off right up to the last minute.

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