FabSwingers.com forum: The subtle art of not giving a fuck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1. Remember that there are very few things that truly matter in life.

2. Realise that other people are constantly telling you what to care about.

3. Know that listening to them sucks your time, attention and joy.

4. Get comfortable saying no and ticking people off if you really want to change.

Keep adding to the list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you father. I needed this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I truly do not give a fuck even if you are hot

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have decided decidedly to give a a fuck about nothing..love it.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thanks.

Jo.Xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I truly do not give a fuck even if you are hot "

I truly give a fuck just because you're hot

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If I respect you as a person I will take on board your thoughts.

If you are just sticking your nose into my business and your thoughts are not from a good place then butt out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One I came across recently and loved it for its simplicity:

'Never stop wondering.

Never stop wandering.'

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Nothing subtle about it

The fucks I could not give

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

bookmarking this for rainy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna borrow my phone?

What for?

To give someone a ring who gives a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wanna borrow my phone?

What for?

To give someone a ring who gives a fuck

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

That true happiness comes from within. Find pleasure and enjoyment from the simple things in life.

Always remember that money can't buy happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"Thank you father. I needed this"

Thought I was your Daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DILLIGAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're need to write a list or keep reminding yourself, then mate, you ARE giving a fuck, js....

Peace and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's my nickname?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what are we talking about here? I don't give a fuck. I am leaving!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A useful attribute to emply when needed. Taken to extreme folks will soon not gaf about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn""

Would you give me a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One I came across recently and loved it for its simplicity:

'Never stop wondering.

Never stop wandering.' "

Love this

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Expect more from yourself and less from others

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Hate all those top selling pop physiology books

How to not have a really shit life

The rules of life

And the other 1000 bullshit titles by wannabe physiologists

Who buys them ?

Here’s one....

Just get on with working hard and being a decent kind generous person, it’s much more likely to work than reading thier books

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"That true happiness comes from within. Find pleasure and enjoyment from the simple things in life.

Always remember that money can't buy happiness."

This is one of my sayings to

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Always be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not giving a fuck is not always the right/good thing.

Giving a fuck is not always the right/good thing.

Having the wisdom to know in which situation you find yourself is a blessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not life altering then dont sweat it, you'll deal with it and your world will keep turning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you decide to do

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Loving this thread!!!

"Fuck it!" is theee best saying ever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody exists on purpose nobody belongs anywhere everybody's gonna die. come watch TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you decide to do

This. Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other peoples opinion of you is none of your business...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called stoicism ... check it out.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s called stoicism ... check it out."

memento mori

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s called stoicism ... check it out.

memento mori"

My WhatsApp status

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you decide to do

Yes... a bit like

The greatest prediction of your future is your daily actions

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Dudeism is a religion, philosophy, or lifestyle inspired by "The Dude", the protagonist of the Coen Brothers' 1998 film The Big Lebowski. Dudeism's stated primary objective is to promote a modern form of Chinese Taoism, outlined in Tao Te Ching by Laozi (6th century BCE), blended with concepts from the Ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus (341–270 BCE), and presented in a style as personified by the character of Jeffrey "The Dude" Lebowski, a fictional character portrayed by Jeff Bridges in the film.[1] Dudeism has sometimes been regarded as a mock religion due to its use of comedic film references and occasional criticism of religion in its traditional sense[2][3] but its founder and many adherents take the underlying philosophy seriously.[4][5][6][7] March 6 is the annual sacred high holy day of Dudeism: The Day of the Dude.[8]

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