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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I do not mind at all. The face seals the deal.

Fat or skinny I'd like to dip my dick in

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How overweight we talking?

I’ve been with ‘over weight’ men but they were fit

Fat? No

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Being slim isnt always in shape, shape comes in many forms

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Tend to sail in the middle. Don’t find slim or overweight attractive in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men I’m not attracted to very overweight or very slim. Somewhere in the middle. They don’t have to be gym fit though.

Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Well if you want to give it a go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with both. It didn't make a difference. It's was their minds that did. Someone creative and able to turn on my mind will always be more fun that someone who is just ripped!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Men I’m not attracted to very overweight or very slim. Somewhere in the middle. They don’t have to be gym fit though.

Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women. "

Exactly that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women. "

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.

Interesting "

Why? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.

Interesting

Why? Lol "

Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.

Interesting

Why? Lol

Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you "

. Nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was overweight. Prefer larger guys to super slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Women I’m only attracted to curvy feminine women.

Interesting

Why? Lol

Just wanted to have some kind of social interaction with you. It worked thank you

. Big Nob "

I know I have

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Most strong men/rugby build guys class as over weight. I much prefer that to the physique of say a distance runner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "

No preference as been with all types but I would say they need to be strong as I’m a “big” girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker either way.

I'm more attracted to the face and personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good. "

Yup, this!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Whomever I find sexy and attractive. It's not completely based on body shape.

One thing is certain, if the face doesn't appeal the rest doesn't matter.

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Been with a man that was alot over weight. He changed his lifestyle and losted

stones. Fair play but I rathered when he was over weight. Wasnt the same at all. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed it’s the person that counts

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

If I could make a lady I would always choose slim gym fit with toned muscles is perfection for me.

But each person is different and it’s how they carry themselves which is the biggest turn on for me.

The hanging belly fat type lady is not for me but perfect for many other men’s preference.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm overweight, but I don't consider myself fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to BMI charts I’m overweight

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm attracted to athletic men someone you look at and you just know there're fit it's a life style choice it's an overall body shape ( toned ).

I have no idea why but I'm just not attracted to overweight or slim doesn't mean there cant be a friendship. Friendships are good right!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight "

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jessica - slim

GB - overweight

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Size isn't much of an issue. We are drawn to the personality above all else. You can have supermodel lookalikes that have a personality of a doormat. We would walk away even if they laid it on a plate for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just a healthy looking body which has not been neglected is fine for me although i would rather feel a few extra pounds than bones.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight "

I'm obese

I honestly don't care. Personality, face, then the rest is nice but not super important.

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Overweight is a no-go for us

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

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Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion ."

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc "
Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.

Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it."

But a withings you will know your muscles mass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it."

I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.

Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.

"

I love tennis players physique.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.

Lily

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it.

I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course "
Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "
in shape towards overweight i find overweight a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to BMI charts I’m overweight

I am the same but you tell me how many overweight people could do a 5km in less than 28 mins

Apparently to bmi i am 3 pounds overweight and people ask me if i eat so its utter bollocks in my opinion .

Agreed it doesn’t account for muscle mass etc Disturbing though i dont have a bit of fat on me and according to them overweight they need to rethink it.

I just studied your pics, for research purposes of course Ditto"

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.

Lily"
You dont look big to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to fat & not to thin , but just right

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I only like big althetic men.. So neither them body shapes will make me wet

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Definitely in shape. Neither of us are attracted to overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not bothered as long as I find them sexy and funny and they don’t want to change me.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Small is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with both but ladies size 24 up are good

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I do prefer slimmer men, but not too slim, and some muscles are always nice...but if they haven't got a face that I want to snog then I won't be attracted to them regardless.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I prefer curvy women and like men to be small and slim ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a footballer’s physique to a rugby player’s physique.

Nothing too extreme at either end of the spectrum.

I love tennis players physique. "

Yes! Very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men with a bit of meat on their bones. Cuddly type, with some roundness and softness here and there.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "

What!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx"
that's me out then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave no preference, as long as their personality draws me in and they are happy in their own skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx that's me out then lol"

You are my good friend , youve been friend zoned

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Personality and a great ass does it for me.... Now which ladies like the dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the man, ive been with large men but average is my preference. Being a little fit helps. I like the slimmer side of a dad bod if that makes sence. Not into thin men at all xx that's me out then lol

You are my good friend , youve been friend zoned "
oh god even worse in a god way

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We like couples with similar body types to us.

Larger lady, slim male.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Give me a rugby player/dad bod type any day of the week

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women "

You dont like dwarfs then

Nice to see you

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Face is what attracts me to someone. Body doesn’t matter..... I do prefer a rugby player to a footballer if I had to choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer slim and in shape, a tad overweight is fine but not obese, I always find height more of an issue than shape with most women

You dont like dwarfs then

Nice to see you "

Can’t say I know many dwarfs, but no they don’t seem to float my boat and yes good to see you too, hope your holding up in the present situation

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I prefer some chunk on my hunk and I appreciate the look of a larger lady, being one myself I like the larger bosom/ample bottom look

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m not into slim guys, or muscular, just a nice inbetween average build. Face, beard and personality are more important to me

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP your body is amazing. I don't just like one body type though. Gym fit is hot. But so is curvy.

Hugely overweight doesn't appeal though. But each to their own. I know I'd be too skinny for plenty

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford


"I (Mrs) am quite a big female so prefer a medium to large build. I find a very slim men make me feel quite self conscious, the only time this changes is when the man is slim but tall.

LilyYou dont look big to me "

Ow there are people on here who like to remind me that I am not the smallest person quite often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "

What last bit wasn't necessary!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Again, I couldn't care less. So long as they are a decent human being I'm pretty easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to sail in the middle. Don’t find slim or overweight attractive in general. "

Just as above...attractive face and average body is fine by me (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In proportion and naughty. Size is a variable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a few curves usually but not fat as such. Each body has its unique charm innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whomever I find sexy and attractive. It's not completely based on body shape.

One thing is certain, if the face doesn't appeal the rest doesn't matter."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again, I couldn't care less. So long as they are a decent human being I'm pretty easy."

I disagree. Hot as hell and filthy as fuck

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "

Slim slim ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round is a shape isn’t it

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy. "

No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy.

No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful!"

Glad you said it haha

I'm fat but prefer men who are stocky to average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does size matter? You are attracted to who you are attracted too, size is irrelevant

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By *hesty BetsyWoman
over a year ago

Bury


"Definitely slim to curvy, and by curvy I mean a size 10 curvy, not a size 18 dumper truck curvy.

No wonder you have hidden your profile. What a comment! Assuming from it you are an Adonis! But I'm doubtful!"

Well said

At a curvy size 22-24, I’d hate to know what his definition of that is? Hmmm, what’s bigger than a dumper truck? Answers on a postcard!!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

If I was specifying I am attracted to men who are slim and toned.

In reality there are so many factors of looks, personality, chat, spark, intelligence, flirting, connecting. Which mean that I'm attracted to people for myriad reasons and size is just part of the whole thing.

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By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope

I'm very overweight myself but I'm comfortable with my size.

I love bodies of all sizes, especially contrasting ones like you'd see from supersized Vs super skinny. Though I always have a soft spot for other big people as I'm a fat admirer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In pics. or perving on the street I prefer slim (there's always exceptions).

In RL it's the face and how someone presents themself I find more attractive but when it comes down to it if you do what I like in bed, and I do what you like, then I'm not bothered.

Body size is no indication of how good or bad you are in bed.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t mind .... I just like them to have an air of confidence and dominance about them.. I’m yet to find any bloke that is sexually more confident than me in the sack or maybe I just need to let them take charge a bit more their belly’s doesn’t really bother me but an air of fitness helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm overweight

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

In shape for me, not overly skinny but nicely toned

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We'd prefer somebody to be a bit on the large side than a bit on the slim side.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I don’t really have a preference so long as they have stamina and a personality I have rapport with, whatever gender they are.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I like a guy with a bit of meat on him. I'm not a fan of ribs & abs, I like to have the odd cuddle

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

A bit of meat is good! Who likes fucking sticks!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're not too far to either extreme, I'm not too judgemental about body types. Slim and petite or curvy and voluptuous both have huge appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer in the middle. Too slim/skinny and it puts me off, too big and it puts me off.

If he's skinnier than I am it's a no - I don't want to be the biggest person in the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you connect with the person then weight shouldn’t matter. Personality is key for me and obviously some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to bothered by weight.

Too slim doesn’t tend to attract my attention but it’s face, personality and chemistry that get to me!

Cheeky smiles especially

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "

I like curves. So someone can be slim but still curvy or larger and still curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's weight or size is literally the last thing either of us is bothered about.

We both find many shapes and sizes attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will never be everyone's cuppa tea and everyone won't be yours. As long you love yourself and your body the way it is you are never a label such as overweight or slim and if u get yourself a sexual partner who yearns for your body at least just a much as you love your body. #BobsYourUncle #FannysYourAunt #DesiresReachedAndExceeded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the person but there has to be a attraction facially, body types not too keen on extreme either way. But everyone is different and variety is the spice of life, attraction comes in many forms x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A little overweight is fine. Would rather that than a very skinny male.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone's weight or size is literally the last thing either of us is bothered about.

We both find many shapes and sizes attractive."

I feel the same way - when I connect with someone their body size is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "

Mrs-Prefers toned or slim with no big belly

Mr-Loves curves, have to have a bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always like a bit of meat on my bones, and I think enjoying the company of a woman with a fuller figure is just as good as a skinny lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to bothered by weight.

Too slim doesn’t tend to attract my attention but it’s face, personality and chemistry that get to me!

Cheeky smiles especially "

Couldn't have put it better myself X

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i prefer tall and healthy looking so he can throw me about a little bit

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No preference really as long as they have a kind heart and good personality.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Dad bods

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By *uesswhosback!Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Face and connection is way more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no preference. They need to have a personality and there needs to be a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little overweight is fine. Would rather that than a very skinny male.x

"

Best news I've heard all day!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No preference really as long as they have a kind heart and good personality."

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Has to be an attraction and chemistry, I like some meat on the bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer those rolls and curves.

I want my hands to be able to grab the love handles, feel the weight on my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all types but I prefer in shapes ones.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I was young and shallow, I used to choose my women by the season. Voluptuous Rubenesque women for the cold winter nights, Slim athletic Women for those hot summer nights. And curvy sexy women chosen to suit the spring and Autumn weather.

Now I'm more about what's in her head though..... the mind is def the sexiest organ and if you make a really hot connection, then body shape is largely irrelevant.

Overall curvy is generally more attractive than bony......

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Skinny males seem to be very unpopular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont mind

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Skinny males seem to be very unpopular "

I love toned, slim bodies with good definition.

I can’t do overweight, overhanging belly or dad bods. Just can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the person it’s know problem

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Body shape doesn’t matter, what catches me is the connection, eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference really.

My off fab lover is 6'1 and quite broad all over, probably a stone or so overweight but he carries it well and he's very in proportion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Face and connection is way more important"
This

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By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope


"I prefer in the middle. Too slim/skinny and it puts me off, too big and it puts me off.

If he's skinnier than I am it's a no - I don't want to be the biggest person in the bed "

I sure don't mind being the biggest person in bed. If y'all want to feel small then come cuddle up next to me hehe

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By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope


"I prefer those rolls and curves.

I want my hands to be able to grab the love handles, feel the weight on my body.

"

love this

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

It’s all about personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all about personality "
lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a picky bastatd, if youre not going to be the next victoria secret model then ill probably say no

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Never been with an overweight person before but just wondering what’s people’s preferences. Overweight or slim and in shape? "

Give it a try. It's the person that counts, not the body shape.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I like them to laugh me in to bed. I've been with all shape and size

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"On men I do like both, it's usually the face that attracts me most. As long as they're not extremely over or underweight, i'm good. "

As usual NSA chick is the voice of reason

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Im a picky bastatd, if youre not going to be the next victoria secret model then ill probably say no "

FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy. Best way to put it is my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been with a slim slim woman before, always curvaceous women

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Both of us are larger people. I, Jason, have a belly button that has its own echo . But that doesn't define us.

To me Rhiannon is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. We have been together over 12 years and she still takes my breath away when she smiles.

Before I got I'll I was a gym boy and shallow as hell. I treated people badly and would love to track those people down and apologize for being a year. Now I k is who I am. I don't rely on looks , thankfully, to meet people and we both find that most who we do meet tend to like us. Being bigger has mafee a better person even if I'm less attractive to others and I'm good with that. I rather have ³ friends that I can make feel good than a thousand lovers who are just an empty experience.

We look for the same in the people we play with. We want fun, friendship and laughter and some people of slimer sizes rely to much on looks rather than personality and heart. That also goes for bigger people but we have found less so.

In the end it's the person, not the size. It's the heart and care rather than an empty experience. Happiness is down to connection and those who judge on size alone miss so much that life has to offer. Be nice to each other . It costs nothing and you might just make someone's day

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey "

You don’t know me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey

You don’t know me at all "

Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey

You don’t know me at all

Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow "

Aww thank you

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey

You don’t know me at all

Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow

Aww thank you "

Rhiannon and I would definitely have to agree.......wow indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in the obese category under bmi standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them tall girls, I like them short girls

I like them brown-haired girls, I like them blonde-haired girls

I like them big girls, I like them skinny girls

I like them carrying a little bitty weight girls

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

In between I would say is a good measure

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard

"

You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI

Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person

The irony is

The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer

Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant

The concept being

Ok your BMI is x and you do zero

Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise

Dont want to

Happy

Awesome

Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future

Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"It’s all about personality lies your all a our sexy six packs a d whiskey

You don’t know me at all

Busty Belle is actually what I would say is my perfect type.... wow

Aww thank you

Rhiannon and I would definitely have to agree.......wow indeed "

Aww that’s so kind thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a slim guy myself I can tell you that it is definitely not the preference of women from over in my neck of the woods anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a slim guy myself I can tell you that it is definitely not the preference of women from over in my neck of the woods anyway."

Not really here either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard

You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI

"

This.

I'm in the extremely/morbidly obese category.

Perfect example of it being bullshit.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard

You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI

Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person

The irony is

The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer

Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant

The concept being

Ok your BMI is x and you do zero

Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise

Dont want to

Happy

Awesome

Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future

Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need

"

I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.

I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

I find it hilarious that the majority of the guys saying that they are overweight are dad bods if that much can be said.

I'm overweight, but I've never ever been with a woman that I couldn't satisfy both in and out of bed!

It's all about confidence, however, if I'm not your cup of tea, that's your problem lol, there's plenty of fish in the sea and I only ask once.

I don't have a specific body type, I've been with super slim to large women, any woman is good as long as there is chemistry on both ends...

But these are just my 2 cents.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It genuinely depends on who we are attracted too, generally we go for a fit/average body type but we have seen a few women that are of the fuller figure that are gorgeous and would definitely be our cup of tea

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney


"I fall in the obese category under bmi standard

You know no intelligent gym goer needs the BMI

Its specifically for the un trained sedentary person

The irony is

The damn thing is mocked but actually for the majority of the sedentary it's a fair indication their health may suffer

Obviously if a human is already training the concept of BMI is redundant

The concept being

Ok your BMI is x and you do zero

Your health could improve by food reduction and more exercise

Dont want to

Happy

Awesome

Truly awesome we only say you may suffer in the future

Personally I dont like to carry more fat than I need

I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.

I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong "

BMI is definitely bollocks.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"

I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.

I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong "

Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!

So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable.

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Skinny males seem to be very unpopular

I love toned, slim bodies with good definition.

I can’t do overweight, overhanging belly or dad bods. Just can’t.

"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"

I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.

I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong

Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!

So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable."

You believe what you like but I know what I was told on three separate occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I see your logic but I think the BMI is b*llocks at my lowest weight 7s 2, I was told I was obese. I just laughed at the woman said “so if I cut my boobs of will that but me in your normal scale and make you happy”. It’s the most unhealthy I’ve ever felt and was skin and bone.

I can laugh it off, always have, tell them to do one, but most take it to heart and stress about it and then go on ridiculous diets to right something that isn’t wrong

Sorry, but I don't believe that, that is my current weight and I'm 5'1, or it was until I lost a further 5lbs since working from home, and my BMI then was 18!

So for someone to say you were obese at that weight is not believable.

You believe what you like but I know what I was told on three separate occasions "

BMI doesn’t take into account muscle mass. By the logic of BMI every single bodybuilder with under 5% fat would be obese. It’s an illogical and outdated scale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked mine..

36.7 hahaaa

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By *estrained_DallianceMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Struggle with the weight issue myself... However one of the many things I love about this scene is that sexiness is far more linked to self belief than traditional views of hot or not... Much healthier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32.5, I should be in poor health based on that, however, not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like slim, similar to my body really, and curvaceous. I don't like fabulous or muscle bodies.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Many people fall into the friends category as everyone has something special about them.

For me when I look at someone its about life style chooses. Are they similar to me or would I drive them round the bend.

I'm just not attracted to men that are overweight or the new dad bod thingy. I have no idea why its just the way it is.

I need to be attracted physically to someone other wise we make great friends.

Athletic in body and mind over 5ft 10 with hair and teeth.

Where are you hidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be attracted to younger guys as unfortunately, and no fault of their own, but a lot of guys on here aged 50+ do not have the physique/hair/teeth that I want to meet with. Just my preference

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I tend to be attracted to younger guys as unfortunately, and no fault of their own, but a lot of guys on here aged 50+ do not have the physique/hair/teeth that I want to meet with. Just my preference "

Everyone has a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can fluctuate from a 6 pack in the summer to being abit over weight in the winter so understand people's body change, think that's why I am more drawn to personality and the way a person carries themself.

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By *assparellasparkeldustCouple
over a year ago

BLACKPOOL

I'm over weight curvy but will definitely start healthy eating next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people fall into the friends category as everyone has something special about them.

For me when I look at someone its about life style chooses. Are they similar to me or would I drive them round the bend.

I'm just not attracted to men that are overweight or the new dad bod thingy. I have no idea why its just the way it is.

I need to be attracted physically to someone other wise we make great friends.

Athletic in body and mind over 5ft 10 with hair and teeth.

Where are you hidding "

Athletic like a shot putter you mean?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I can fluctuate from a 6 pack in the summer to being abit over weight in the winter so understand people's body change, think that's why I am more drawn to personality and the way a person carries themself. "

Nice glutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like slim.

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