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"I am only jealous when I feel that his cum seems to be hotter than mine when we both cream pie her in double vagina pene Have a vindaloo the night before..." If only I knew what that mean I'd probably wouldn't do it | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc" yes for sure. Only couple I ever played with he put me up against the wall in the loo and said you only want her!!! Never ever would I meet a couple again. | |||
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"The threesome between myself, mr mystique and _hillout. Yes, feelings got in the way. They fell in love " Sounds like a wwe triple tag team | |||
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"I've always had fun with best mates. So there was no room for jealousy." Bet there was | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx" I thought of having a threesome, but then I realised, if I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time, I might as well have dinner with my parents! | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx" With a cracking body like that I doubt you’d be short of volunteers, I’d definately be first in line! | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx" Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy. They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted. Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries. As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through. We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play. Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play' The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation. This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun Mr | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx I thought of having a threesome, but then I realised, if I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time, I might as well have dinner with my parents! " | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy. They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted. Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries. As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through. We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play. Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play' The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation. This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun Mr" I totally understand, our mfm hasnt been easy, we were both very new when we tried mfm and some of the men were very over powering (dom) as that's what im attracted to. I could never enjoy it fully as i was aware that my hubby was struggling. Plus back then hed never played with men so it was just interacting with me. We played last year and now hes bi curious things were so much better. Im still unable to relax fully though as im constantly aware and worry if hes enjoying it. Im certain hed be the same with me in a fmf x | |||
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"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part." Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte! | |||
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"Ive had a few 3sommes with my hubby and other men but ive never tried it without. Ive searched a few years but its proven difficult. Id just like to try 2 men that are new to me and not worry that ive not given my hubby the same attention because that's what has gone through my mind in the past. Not sure if men think like that but I do xx Well some of us do. When we've had threesomes with another woman I am very conscious of not giving the impression that I'm not interested/less interested in C. When we've had threesomes with a guy I'm very much focused on making sure she is safe/enjoying/happy. They only work if the three of you all stay within whatever boundaries you each have which means learning each other's boundaries. We had a few awkward experiences to start where we behaved in ways that we felt were appropriate for ourselves but weren't what the other wanted. Having learnt each other's boundaries you then need to find the right person who is going to fit in with and be satisfied by those boundaries. As above, a club situation can make this easier as there is far less need for build up and interaction outside of play time. Even here though communication is important, it is easy to assume your partner is aware of a growing situation that they may not be or may even actually be unhappy with. Things move much faster in a club so you both need to be open and clear about your feelings all the way through. We have experienced play in a club where I thought she was totally aware of building interest between another woman and I and ok with it. Turned out she was preoccupied and unaware so by the time she noticed it felt to her that we'd just jumped into play. Equally, on another occasion I was aware that she was getting attention from someone I found cocky and rude. I didn't say anything assuming she felt the same (we tend to have similar views when no drinks have been had/we're not aroused). She assumed that my silence was consent so I was a little surprised when she happily allowed herself to be led off for a little 'soft play' The big thing is to be able to discuss these feelings without anger at the other person. Understand that there was no intention to hurt and that we each have different perceptions of the same situation. This all makes it sound fraught with problems but the truth is that with a bit if understanding and clear communication there is no need for jealousy and you can both have a great deal of fun Mr" Well written and great advice! Totally agree | |||
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"Our most intense experiences have been threesomes with other men. Just hard to find the right guy.. " Does the 'right' guy wear cool glasses like me? | |||
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"Our most intense experiences have been threesomes with other men. Just hard to find the right guy.. Does the 'right' guy wear cool glasses like me? " He could do! | |||
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"My ex asked me if I could have a threesome, which of her friends I would choose. Apparently, I was only supposed to name one, not two! " Lol my ex used to allow me to play with all her friends , everything, but no penetration | |||
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"Prefer a threesome with 2 males. I have had a threesome a couple of times with a male and a female but find the female gets jealous when not getting enough attention. One even stormed out in a huff." Wow! A stamping feet tantrum | |||
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"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part. Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte! " Hubby didn't ask for a threesome, he doesn't partake, me and two others playing, ie, threesome. What's so difficult to understand? Maths and rolling eyes....what's all that about. | |||
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"Had quite a few all with two other men whilst hubby watched, no jealousy on his part. Hubby asked for a threesome and you got two men. You were meant to get one other man, not two. Looks like maths is not your forte! Hubby didn't ask for a threesome, he doesn't partake, me and two others playing, ie, threesome. What's so difficult to understand? Maths and rolling eyes....what's all that about." I am a maths teacher. I popped in to see 3 sum! | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc" Threesome are like any other sexual encounter I suppose, it depends on the people involved, some will be better than others. I have very much enjoyed the ones I've had. Aaah fond memories | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc" Some can be amazing some can be awkward it depends how experienced the couple are. I tend to avoid first time couple's now as when fantasy becomes reality they're like rabbits in headlights | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc" Depends what you mean by threesomes, if you mean long term threesomes we don't know, if you mean a couple meeting the same single man over many years we have a few of these and everyone is happy with the situation. We think jealousy should have no place in swinging | |||
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"Threesomes can be awesome, but does depend on the attraction and also the respect shown. It’s not always the single woman who is treated without respect. Sometimes it’s the woman in the couple treated like her feelings don’t matter, where the single woman has one agenda, and that’s to fuck the man. Obviously happens with men as well. As long as everyone is honest, boundaries have been discussed and agreed on (like with any meet) and it’s relaxed, it can be an amazing experience x Viv x" So, yes, they’re worth it, just have to be sure that everyone is on the same page, and just relax and have fun xx | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc" We've had a few and why would jealousy get in the way when we're both willing? We don't have a jealous bone in our bodies, it's not healthy. | |||
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"So threesomes are they worth it in the end? Does jealousy play a part? What’s the best threesome fantasy you know of? Role play etc We've had a few and why would jealousy get in the way when we're both willing? We don't have a jealous bone in our bodies, it's not healthy. " That’s how we see it, if we were jealous we wouldn’t meet others. We don’t meet men (my choice as much as his) and we enjoy seeing each other with other women, so it’s all good x Viv x | |||
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"Threesomes are fab with the right people " Putting my hand up! | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! " On my list. FFFM I've done. Amazing | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! On my list. FFFM I've done. Amazing " That was a lucky M lol! | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! On my list. FFFM I've done. Amazing That was a lucky M lol!" Absolutely | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! On my list. FFFM I've done. Amazing " I want that!! Haha xx | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! On my list. FFFM I've done. Amazing I want that!! Haha xx" It almost didn't happen because I didn't realise I was being invited. Oblivious dumbarse | |||
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"I want a threesome with two new men!" As opposed to two second hand ..guys ? | |||
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"Popular in clubs and when asked, I never refuse - mmf especially x" Got to love a spitroast | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! " .where can I put my name down for this? | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! .where can I put my name down for this? " Right here | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! .where can I put my name down for this? Right here " Room for me | |||
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"Popular in clubs and when asked, I never refuse - mmf especially x Got to love a spitroast" No I like the guys together. As in MMF... Nobody spits or roasts, not with me anyway honey! | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! " Definitely not like MMM. It's two men having sex and another being a witness! | |||
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"I do enjoy a threesome. Or a foursome. Or more... " What about a handsome like me? | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! Definitely not like MMM. It's two men having sex and another being a witness! " I see ways around this | |||
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"I do enjoy a threesome. Or a foursome. Or more... What about a handsome like me? " Send me an arse pic, and I'll let ya know! | |||
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"I do enjoy a threesome. Or a foursome. Or more... What about a handsome like me? Send me an arse pic, and I'll let ya know! " As long you dont plan to peg it. It will be a real pain in my arse! | |||
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"I do enjoy a threesome. Or a foursome. Or more... What about a handsome like me? Send me an arse pic, and I'll let ya know! As long you dont plan to peg it. It will be a real pain in my arse! " Now there's a thought... | |||
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"The threesome between myself, mr mystique and _hillout. Yes, feelings got in the way. They fell in love " It’s only cause his bum hole is tighter than yours | |||
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"FFF is definitely worth it! Definitely not like MMM. It's two men having sex and another being a witness! I see ways around this " GREEDY!!! | |||
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"Some are. Some aren't. It's a lot of fun. Not really a fantasy for me at this stage." this. | |||
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