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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Avoid my ex like the plague

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Avoid my ex like the plague "

I would say the same. But then I now see my short coming too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooo so back when I was 13

I’d catfish so many people and make some money. Pretty easy to do nowadays

Gotta use my knowledge for good! (Good for me, I’m skint)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooooo so back when I was 13

I’d catfish so many people and make some money. Pretty easy to do nowadays

Gotta use my knowledge for good! (Good for me, I’m skint) "

Maybe I will ask you that question in 13 yrs time!

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Summer 2015 - cash in all my savings and put the lot on Leicester City to win the league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we make it 20 years? That would suit me so much more

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Avoid my ex like the plague

I would say the same. But then I now see my short coming too! "

Well same for me. I'd just save myself from 12 years of misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be looking forward to my Thursday night piss up and taking some random girl home

The good old day fucking anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills when things started going bad... dont let my confidence be ruined by xenophobic bullies.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!"

I'd slash my wrists knowing what I know now would be coming....im staying in the here and now thankyou very much as it's a far nicer place to be and the people aren't phsyco's

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Run for the hills when things started going bad... dont let my confidence be ruined by xenophobic bullies. "

Hell yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’d be 15.

I’d probably smile more in in pictures and not be so insecure about my braces

Besides that I don’t think there’s anything I’d change.

Probably would bet on sporting events and make some extra money

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we make it 20 years? That would suit me so much more"

Go on then. Just imagine that I asked you this question 7 yrs ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much I could have done differently but it would be to late to change anything major in my life

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

A curious number to choose

In my case i'd have moved to the UK a lot sooner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well "

Yeah, that too. Dont do it for others. Do it for yourself!

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Have an ex I'd rather avoid too, maybe get here earlier and track down my current FWBs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have gone self employed much sooner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A curious number to choose

In my case i'd have moved to the UK a lot sooner "

In my case, if I had moved out of UK a lot sooner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 13 yrs? I think I need to go back a bit further to make much of a difference

Move south anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only 13 yrs? I think I need to go back a bit further to make much of a difference

Move south anyway. "

2007 is where everything changed for me. It doesn't have to be 13yrs.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well

Yeah, that too. Dont do it for others. Do it for yourself! "

It was my last year as an undergraduate and I took on a subject on which there had been no publications since before I was born.

... There was a reason for this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd tell myself not to be so bloody ambitious academically, it won't end well

Yeah, that too. Dont do it for others. Do it for yourself!

It was my last year as an undergraduate and I took on a subject on which there had been no publications since before I was born.

... There was a reason for this "

I did spend bloody four years doing a degree in IT!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I wouldn’t change a thing as although I left my ex with 6 hard years to deal with, I would be without my lad.

I’m very much a believer that an alternative path you would choose, with hindsight, is not likely to be any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years ago, I’d be 11. Idk maybe study more in exams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t change a thing as although I left my ex with 6 hard years to deal with, I would be without my lad.

I’m very much a believer that an alternative path you would choose, with hindsight, is not likely to be any better "

I reckon this aswell,your mistakes are always going to be yours to make. It just would have been with different people. X

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

past is in the past, let’s move forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different. "

I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.

I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now! "

Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday is but a memory that cannot be changed. Tomorrow a place we cannot see...

Today is where our life is now. What we do with today is how we change our lives our Hope's our fears. Today is where we change.....if we want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many things would be different for sure but i wouldn’t change a thing if it changed what we have now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself that I can get through anything and to live my life to the full. You can’t change your past but you can definitely learn from it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would tell myself that I can get through anything and to live my life to the full. You can’t change your past but you can definitely learn from it x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.

I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!

Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now. "

What is stopping you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yesterday is but a memory that cannot be changed. Tomorrow a place we cannot see...

Today is where our life is now. What we do with today is how we change our lives our Hope's our fears. Today is where we change.....if we want to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.

I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!

Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.

What is stopping you? "

My daughter is young, I would never take her away from her Father. Doesn’t mean it won’t happen just not until she is older.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How strange think you will like this! I would have been 21 OP, I had not long been divorced after marrying very young! I should have taken the chance to move to NewZealand with my family but chose to stay here. No regrets but I’m certain my life would be completely different.

I should have met you then. You would be on NZ now!

Totally should have gone, If I could I’d be there now.

What is stopping you?

My daughter is young, I would never take her away from her Father. Doesn’t mean it won’t happen just not until she is older. "

Fair enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move forwards never look back.

I doubt I would change much, mistakes are meant to be made because it shapes us, it helps us grow and develop.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

To be honest I don't think I'd do much differently. I think I'd turn out differently if I did.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To be honest I don't think I'd do much differently. I think I'd turn out differently if I did."

My scars are definitely part of me. I like me very much.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!"

A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!

A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad."

How do I know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck! You mean I have to go through the recession, raising teenages and menopause all over again? Not a fucking chance!

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham


"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!

A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad.

How do I know you? "

I don’t think you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh fuck! You mean I have to go through the recession, raising teenages and menopause all over again? Not a fucking chance! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck off so much nonsense. And I'd mind how I spent my time with people - appreciate the company of some and figuratively set fire to other friendships.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd fuck off so much nonsense. And I'd mind how I spent my time with people - appreciate the company of some and figuratively set fire to other friendships."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What would you do if you woke up tomorrow and it was 13 yrs in the past and you were your younger self but still had your current memories and experiences?

How I see success today, would be complete different to what I believed it was 13 yrs ago. I will put more focus on relationships that mattered and dont take important people in my life for granted!

A huge believer that there’s medicine in every experience but...if I already had my current memories and experiences, ie I’ve learned all the lessons from the last 13 years, I would definitely make changes. I would walk out of my marriage and not look back, I’d go back to Australia and see if two or three opportunities were still available, I’d follow my vocation dreams rather than a career so I’m not juggling kids and starting over now, and if I could go back a smidge earlier still, I’d have another few conversations with my dad.

How do I know you?

I don’t think you do "

Maybe not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest I don't think I'd do much differently. I think I'd turn out differently if I did."

For the better or worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can't change whats gone before you can only live your life, i was happy enough 13 years ago and I'm happy enough now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you can't change whats gone before you can only live your life, i was happy enough 13 years ago and I'm happy enough now "

Oye! You should be in bed sleeping. Did another hot chick walk past your room and set the alarm off again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can't change whats gone before you can only live your life, i was happy enough 13 years ago and I'm happy enough now

Oye! You should be in bed sleeping. Did another hot chick walk past your room and set the alarm off again? "
nope not tonight and no hot chicks here lol

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London


"Avoid my ex like the plague "

O hell yes... This one right here.

Top Ans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared..theres a shit storm coming your way and its gonna rip you apart. Who you are now will cease to exist but who you ll become will find the answers and find life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d spend two years saving up money so that in 2009 I could buy a shitload of Bitcoins when they were barely more than pennies and then cash out when they hit over £15k each.

I’d learn to code so I wouldn’t end up professionally obsolete a decade later.

I wouldn’t have made certain mistakes I did.

I’d have prepared for the sub-prime market crash in 2008 so it wouldn’t almost bankrupt me.

I’d eat better and train more to avoid getting as heavy as I did about 7 years later.

I’d have seen that counsellor sooner.

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