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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

More they wish we did not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you ask us what we are thinking about and we say nothing, we really mean nothing.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

They just need to be less intense and stop analysing everything and let the menfolk chill

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you ask us what we are thinking about and we say nothing, we really mean nothing. "

I now know this! My husband always answered ‘nothing’ and I couldn’t understand how he wasn’t ever thinking of anything.

Turns out we think in different ways, he doesn’t have the wee voice in his head chatting to him. Whereas the wee voice in my head doesn’t shut up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they can think with their head.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?"

That I'm guaranteed to be the best lover they ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That we're not just sex symbols and cant put it on a plate all the time. We have other needs and qualities too ya know!

Oh and more women need to take it up the bum!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

That snoring and farting is simply us doing our job. It goes back to caveman days where we scared the dinosaurs and kept them away from the cave. Thus protecting our family.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"When you ask us what we are thinking about and we say nothing, we really mean nothing. "

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

Would you rather someone didn’t tell you that you’re not their type? Or is it the way they say it?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

When I say "I'm fine" I really am fine with nothing simmering away underneath.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

We need quiet, downtime on our own sometimes. Even if it's just an hour, it's needed.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'll get back to you on that one

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"When you ask us what we are thinking about and we say nothing, we really mean nothing. "

See my post above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

Would you rather someone didn’t tell you that you’re not their type? Or is it the way they say it?"
more a light hearted comment that bit but yes it would be nice if women would let us guys down gentley. Worst reply I had to a message I'm not realy in to fat hairy guys... if a guy let a woman down as bluntly as that it would be called nasty and un called for I'm just saying us guys have feelings to and arnt always body confident

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I once put a picture frame up straight on the first go.

I once carried 12 full Co-Op shopping bags home about 3/4 mile.

I once stood at the female changing rooms of New Look for an hour and didn’t complain once.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?"

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

Would you rather someone didn’t tell you that you’re not their type? Or is it the way they say it? more a light hearted comment that bit but yes it would be nice if women would let us guys down gentley. Worst reply I had to a message I'm not realy in to fat hairy guys... if a guy let a woman down as bluntly as that it would be called nasty and un called for I'm just saying us guys have feelings to and arnt always body confident She sounds lovely...you should think yourself lucky you dodge a bullet with her."
yes I was shocked if thats is what she thought thats fine I'm not going to be everyones cup of tea I get that as I'm sure all men on fab do but I think some women need to understand that us guys do have feelings and while we may act the hard macho man and put in a bravado we are all people x

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot. "

Awww I’m feeling this.

Same goes for woman to though

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

That we really dont want to go to 35 different shops to get shoes , we just try not to complain

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Us men have feelings to we may all act big macho and tough but we still feel. So when you tell us we to fat or to hairy or not your type remember guys have feelings to.

Also as an added note we dont always use the toilet seat.like tou ladies do so.please Rember to.lift the seat for us guys hahaha

Most definitely better off without someone like that in your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here "

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?"

We are not all illiterate horn monkeys who just want wank fodder.

I mean sure we ARE that but some of us are striving for an erotic connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be understood.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you? "

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That we really dont want to go to 35 different shops to get shoes , we just try not to complain

Yeah? Tell that to my husband who drags me around shops. I just wanna go home!

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

"When I say "I'm fine" I really am fine with nothing simmering away underneath.

When I say " I'm fine " I'm not but I want you to show you care by "making me" tell you

See not all men are the same

Oh and I may mean " I'm fine" you have to read the signs and work it out

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"That we really dont want to go to 35 different shops to get shoes , we just try not to complain

Yeah? Tell that to my husband who drags me around shops. I just wanna go home!"

Role reversal there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That our feelings get hurt too

That you should never judge a book by its cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

They are aren't they?

Ooo snacks! Budge up!

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By *evilmancoolMan
over a year ago

london

That I’m not just a large penis on legs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

They are aren't they?

Ooo snacks! Budge up!

Go flirt somewhere else!! We’re learning here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I say "I'm fine" I really am fine with nothing simmering away underneath.

When I say " I'm fine " I'm not but I want you to show you care by "making me" tell you

See not all men are the same

Oh and I may mean " I'm fine" you have to read the signs and work it out

And yet you guys moan at us for that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

They are aren't they?

Ooo snacks! Budge up!

Go flirt somewhere else!! We’re learning here!!

Do I need to flirt with you too my Queen?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

They are aren't they?

Ooo snacks! Budge up!

Go flirt somewhere else!! We’re learning here!!

Do I need to flirt with you too my Queen?

Yay threesome

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot.

Awww I’m feeling this.

Same goes for woman to though

Of course it does. It’s the same for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Sounds like an educational day for me

I’ll sit in the corner over here

Was just thinking the same thing, can I join you?

Of course you can gorgeous, the more the merrier. Lots to learn since men are such complicated creatures :D

I’ve got snacks too

They are aren't they?

Ooo snacks! Budge up!

Go flirt somewhere else!! We’re learning here!!

Do I need to flirt with you too my Queen?

Yay threesome

Woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also is men arnt just pieces of meat for you.ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say threesome???

That’s sometimes when we’re lonely we just want someone to talk to and listen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot.

Awww I’m feeling this.

Same goes for woman to though

Of course it does. It’s the same for everyone

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?"

Women (group) nothing

Women (some)

I wish they would realise that women are individuals and that some men treat them as such

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Women (group) nothing

Women (some)

I wish they would realise that women are individuals and that some men treat them as such

"You're all individuals!"

"Yes, we're all individuals!"

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Women (group) nothing

Women (some)

I wish they would realise that women are individuals and that some men treat them as such

"You're all individuals!"

"Yes, we're all individuals!""

I'm not

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?

Women (group) nothing

Women (some)

I wish they would realise that women are individuals and that some men treat them as such

"You're all individuals!"

"Yes, we're all individuals!"

I'm not

Well you're on your own there

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"That my past isn’t yet completely in the past, and because of that I’m not always as strong as I pretend to be. Sometimes that means I get hurt, and sometimes it makes me an idiot.

Awww I’m feeling this.

Same goes for woman to though

Of course it does. It’s the same for everyone

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

"When I say "I'm fine" I really am fine with nothing simmering away underneath.

When I say " I'm fine " I'm not but I want you to show you care by "making me" tell you

See not all men are the same

Oh and I may mean " I'm fine" you have to read the signs and work it out

And yet you guys moan at us for that???

It's dreadful when you cannot apply a consistent one size fits all stereotype to people isn't it?

We are such snowflakes really....or are we just luring you in by appealing to your nurturing side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That we don't have to compete.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read an excellent book Men are from Venus woman are from Mars really explains that we do see the world in a completely different way. It’s a miracle we ever manage to live in harmony under one roof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like some quite time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like some quite time!

Quite what?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite quiet. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like some quite time!

Quite what?"

Stop yapping woman! You are giving me a headache!

That is what I meant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like some quite time!

Quite what?

Stop yapping woman! You are giving me a headache!

That is what I meant!

You’re on my thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cunts.

We like them.

We don’t like you being one.

Thank me later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like some quite time!

Quite what?

Stop yapping woman! You are giving me a headache!

That is what I meant!

You’re on my thread"

If you keep yapping away and dont stop, I will end up getting a head ache and you won't be getting any to tonight.

It works both ways!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like some quite time!

Quite what?

Stop yapping woman! You are giving me a headache!

That is what I meant!

You’re on my thread

If you keep yapping away and dont stop, I will end up getting a head ache and you won't be getting any to tonight.

It works both ways!

No idea what you’re on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just not all of us are good at putting our thoughts into words

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Read an excellent book Men are from Venus woman are from Mars really explains that we do see the world in a completely different way. It’s a miracle we ever manage to live in harmony under one roof "

I dont get that ?

That logic suggests all women think in a particular way and all men another

I'm not a fan of binary vastly too simplistic and wildly inaccurate and misleading which to my experience both men and women can be guilty of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s hot and sunny Please crack the windows if you’re gonna leave me in the car while you ‘pop’ into b&m homebargains

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If it’s hot and sunny Please crack the windows if you’re gonna leave me in the car while you ‘pop’ into b&m homebargains "

????

You a man or dog?

You dont need to stay in the car

They have garden tools, beer DIY stuff and bbq stuff

Oh n wash n wax n hose fittings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s hot and sunny Please crack the windows if you’re gonna leave me in the car while you ‘pop’ into b&m homebargains "

Yes papi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s hot and sunny Please crack the windows if you’re gonna leave me in the car while you ‘pop’ into b&m homebargains

????

You a man or dog?

You dont need to stay in the car

They have garden tools, beer DIY stuff and bbq stuff

Oh n wash n wax n hose fittings

I was tired from walking in the park and chasing sticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s hot and sunny Please crack the windows if you’re gonna leave me in the car while you ‘pop’ into b&m homebargains

Yes papi"

Strangely... I like it when you call me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you wish women understood/knew about you?"

That if l say or speak or say something in a quite , controlled, respectful way or tone... l still mean it ..just because l wasn't raging or shouting it does NOT mean I don't mean it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men, you really aren't listening are you, even when you look all wide eyed and eager and nod as if you are, you really aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, you really aren't listening are you, even when you look all wide eyed and eager and nod as if you are, you really aren't? "

Woof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men, you really aren't listening are you, even when you look all wide eyed and eager and nod as if you are, you really aren't? "

Are you getting men confused with puppies?

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