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Have you ever fallen for a one night stander?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And wished it could of been more? I have few times, whilst I do understand it is just for one night and stricktly nsa, it was just for that. I respect it as you dont know their situation as it could be complicated as well

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes...... I was with him for 7 months after.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. I tripped on her undies that was on the floor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , but i did fall for someone who i shouldn't have ..he fell for me too .

It didnt end well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And wished it could of been more? I have few times, whilst I do understand it is just for one night and stricktly nsa, it was just for that. I respect it as you dont know their situation as it could be complicated as well "

Yes exactly this...But wiser as I've got older...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never fallen for a one off, had a some men I'd like to do that again with and I have done so, but no I leave my feelings at home with my boyfriend where they belong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , but i did fall for someone who i shouldn't have ..he fell for me too .

It didnt end well x"

I now remember. That was the exact undies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And wished it could of been more? I have few times, whilst I do understand it is just for one night and stricktly nsa, it was just for that. I respect it as you dont know their situation as it could be complicated as well "
I'm married to him now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never got into a relationship with someone that let’s me sleep with them within hours of knowing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were meant to meet for NSA sex but we fell for each other on that first meet. 4 years later we are blissfully happy with our life together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , but i did fall for someone who i shouldn't have ..he fell for me too .

It didnt end well x

I now remember. That was the exact undies! "

As i remember it you tripped on your boxers ! X

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By *o3somesMan
over a year ago

Luton

Yes I have and it lasted..4.5 years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , but i did fall for someone who i shouldn't have ..he fell for me too .

It didnt end well x

I now remember. That was the exact undies!

As i remember it you tripped on your boxers ! X"

Well technically. But my boxers were tangled with your undies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , but i did fall for someone who i shouldn't have ..he fell for me too .

It didnt end well x

I now remember. That was the exact undies!

As i remember it you tripped on your boxers ! X

Well technically. But my boxers were tangled with your undies! "

Ahhhhh memories x

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Formby

Nah got to nail and bale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s happened once before and I ended up with her for two years it was a one night stand behind her boyfriends back which we both clicked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had it , she knew the score and started after I'd fucked the shit outta her going in like she was in love ... Where does it say in the Kung Fu book of Kung Fuckin that's gonna happen sugar pants ???

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No but some i have liked more than others. Falling for someone is not something i intend to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No! "

Would you like to?

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Fall in love no! but few meets I’ve done I wish I could meet them again and again as I enjoyed playing with them very much

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fall in love no! but few meets I’ve done I wish I could meet them again and again as I enjoyed playing with them very much "

That is called lust. They both start with letter 'L'! Can be a bit confusing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It's never a possibility. I think it's easier to detach sex from emotions when you are part of a couple already.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And wished it could of been more? I have few times, whilst I do understand it is just for one night and stricktly nsa, it was just for that. I respect it as you dont know their situation as it could be complicated as well I'm married to him now lol. "
btw we wasnt swingers when we met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And wished it could of been more? I have few times, whilst I do understand it is just for one night and stricktly nsa, it was just for that. I respect it as you dont know their situation as it could be complicated as well

Yes exactly this...But wiser as I've got older..."

Yes and same here .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fall in love no! but few meets I’ve done I wish I could meet them again and again as I enjoyed playing with them very much "
Same here. I had lots of fun with them as well

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Fall in love no! but few meets I’ve done I wish I could meet them again and again as I enjoyed playing with them very much

That is called lust. They both start with letter 'L'! Can be a bit confusing!"

My Lust is now Lost...

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Fall in love no! but few meets I’ve done I wish I could meet them again and again as I enjoyed playing with them very much Same here. I had lots of fun with them as well "

Tell them to come back and take turns

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

No, I've never had a one night stand.

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

No but one did with me. I was cool for us to be casual and mates bit she wanted a full relationship. She was never rejected by a guy and didn't take it well.

Calling me saying I should sack work to come spend the day with her. I went over after work and hooked up and chilled but wanted it to be more.

I was having too much fun with other side girls to stop on one thotty. She was a 4ft 9 cute Indonesian girl. I would have stayed but she had a kid and I refuse to date single mothers. Fuck yes, date no.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I’ve never got into a relationship with someone that let’s me sleep with them within hours of knowing them "

Why would you not ? Just curious ?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely "

This.

I have had a ONS turn into an ongoing fuck-buddy arrangement. Sadly he wanted more than I did (fantasies of moving in together ) so I had to end things and he created quite a bit of drama.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely

This.

I have had a ONS turn into an ongoing fuck-buddy arrangement. Sadly he wanted more than I did (fantasies of moving in together ) so I had to end things and he created quite a bit of drama."

It can be a little awkward if you want different things, but I don't know why some people have to create so much drama Honest communication is the key

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

I have had a deeper connection develop over time and developed some lovely friendships, though.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

To quote Queer as Folk (Uk)

The one night stand that just never went away.

I’ve had a few

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely

This.

I have had a ONS turn into an ongoing fuck-buddy arrangement. Sadly he wanted more than I did (fantasies of moving in together ) so I had to end things and he created quite a bit of drama.

It can be a little awkward if you want different things, but I don't know why some people have to create so much drama Honest communication is the key "

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I’ve never got into a relationship with someone that let’s me sleep with them within hours of knowing them "

Is that a conscious decision or it's just never happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, The one night stand ended up me being with the women for nearly 2 Years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth before I fell in love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fallen for someone on here before silly sod eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely "

This 100%

Had this a while back. Started working at new place and about 3 weeks after I joined my team were having thier night out. A girl in my team (who was also coming out) was a quiet individual and sweet and very pretty suggested we could share a taxi into town as she happened to live 2 roads away from me. I asked her if she wanted to come to mine for a drink before hand and she said yes. Up until now we hadn't spoken much given my short time working at this place and she was a very quiet person.

She came over at the agreed time and when I opened the door I was taken aback by her beauty. Stunning and a personalty to match! The taxi was booked for an hour after she arrived and in that hour we clicked massively. It turns out we laughed the evening away and on the return the taxi dropped her off and she invited me in...we had the best sex and a lot of that was to do with how well we clicked. Admittedly we both wanted something more than a ONS but she was going travelling 6 months later and we agreed to be friends. Incredible person she was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, she told me she loved me on her way home and I was like oh yeah it's pretty good isn't it..... ....took two years to work out she wasn't the one for me.....

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Yes...I met P in a club and she came back here for an after party. I've still not managed to get rid of her nearly 15 years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can even fall for people before I even get them into bed so should say yes really, but on balance I dont think I would no, I have to get to know a person pretty well

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Yes

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Yes x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"We were meant to meet for NSA sex but we fell for each other on that first meet. 4 years later we are blissfully happy with our life together."

Love it. Lucky you two

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

No

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Yep, she told me she loved me on her way home and I was like oh yeah it's pretty good isn't it..... ....took two years to work out she wasn't the one for me..... "

We all been with the wrong person thinking it was the right person... Hear ya

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Apart from meeting from here, which doesn't count. Never had a one night stand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fallen for? No

Had an instant connection and wanted to see them again? Absolutely "

Yes more of a connection to see them again

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