FabSwingers.com forum: Terms or names you don’t like

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This beautiful sunny morning I have had some lovely messages but I hate being called a BBW especially by someone that doesn’t know me. I know it’s a nice term but not one I like myself. What term or name do you not like being called?

I also HATE babe. This word turns me into a Giant dinosaur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate babe too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down babe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Calm down babe x"

Do you want me to bite you?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I'm from a part of the world where these terms are more likely to be used than your name. I'm guilty of it too. They don't bother me unless they're further abbreviated so bbe, bae or luv rile me inexplicably

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm from a part of the world where these terms are more likely to be used than your name. I'm guilty of it too. They don't bother me unless they're further abbreviated so bbe, bae or luv rile me inexplicably

One of my best friends and her family are from Manchester and they call me babe and love a lot but more to wind me up!!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Urgh, I'm with you on the BBW thing, I despise it, especially from random strangers.

And I don't like being told I have a "phat ass"...phat,just no, and it's arse

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

"Urgh, I'm with you on the BBW thing, I despise it, especially from random strangers.

And I don't like being told I have a "phat ass"...phat,just no, and it's arse

Ah I don't mind the phat ass thing. Poor men lol. I hate all the babe and bbe business, and I also hate "girl".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Urgh, I'm with you on the BBW thing, I despise it, especially from random strangers.

And I don't like being told I have a "phat ass"...phat,just no, and it's arse

I really don’t like it, I know I’m classed as “big” but I don’t need to be told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big cock. I know I have a big one. But then I find it offensive!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I hate men calling me insult words, bitch, slut etc. they may think they are being sexy but jog on dinlos

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I use babe and Hun a lot

As a poster above mentioned that we use it to replace a name.

I’m picky on who I use it on though. Only if I like you

I hate the word “baby” used by guys on here. I’m definitely not their baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Calm down babe x"

Grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use babe and Hun a lot

As a poster above mentioned that we use it to replace a name.

I’m picky on who I use it on though. Only if I like you

I hate the word “baby” used by guys on here. I’m definitely not their baby "

What would you like me to call you?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I hate men calling me insult words, bitch, slut etc. they may think they are being sexy but jog on dinlos

Yes this too...I block and delete if such derogatory language is used

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm often called hun or babe by people I chat to. Doesn't bother me at all. I know it's not with any malicious intent and more oft than not is used affectionately.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Totally hate BBW also, find it impersonal it's just a bunch of letters.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I'm often called hun or babe by people I chat to. Doesn't bother me at all. I know it's not with any malicious intent and more oft than not is used affectionately. "

this

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I use babe and Hun a lot

As a poster above mentioned that we use it to replace a name.

I’m picky on who I use it on though. Only if I like you

I hate the word “baby” used by guys on here. I’m definitely not their baby

What would you like me to call you?

Lol _obbychick is fine with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use babe and Hun a lot

As a poster above mentioned that we use it to replace a name.

I’m picky on who I use it on though. Only if I like you

I hate the word “baby” used by guys on here. I’m definitely not their baby

What would you like me to call you?

Lol _obbychick is fine with me

Okay!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'm with you OP on 'babe'. Absolutely hate it with a passion.

The phrase we don't bite...not unless you ask us to. Uuuurgh makes me shudder

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Unless it’s said with malice, the various names used don’t bother me.

I’m guilty of calling people love, hun - northerner blood - more so in person if I’ve forgotten someone’s name and they clearly know mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also dont like bbw a woman is beautiful if she is big or small so why cant it just be bw beautiful woman.?????

I dont like chubby or cuddly it's just a nicer way of saying I'm fat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Babes” it’s like the retarded cousin of babe. Both are cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can call me whatever they like. As folk have said, it depends where you are in the world and how pet names can be used. I dont think being called babe is a bad term.....unless it's to do with the movie!

I'm not so keen when a girl calls me "mate" or "cute" though! That's just being friend zoned and only babies, puppies and kittens are "cute". Maybe ducklings too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I use babe and Hun a lot

As a poster above mentioned that we use it to replace a name.

I’m picky on who I use it on though. Only if I like you

I hate the word “baby” used by guys on here. I’m definitely not their baby "

I’m not offended if it’s people I know, but more the first messages or being “chatted up”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called mature woman totally rips ma knitting that. Instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In open honest conversation I'm a bbw, big lass, fat, whatever, it is what it is and I'm not going to explain myself as the opposite and expect a person to like me if we met.

Use the terms just to be a dick though then thats just ignorance at it's finest.

The other side is being sub (happens to most not just subs) I get mainly guys messaging with slut, bitch, whore etc and then commands/orders, as though I'm going to message back with yes Sir I'll do as you please

literally just roll the eyes and ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"totally rips ma knitting"

Hahaha never heard that one before, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm with you OP on 'babe'. Absolutely hate it with a passion.

The phrase we don't bite...not unless you ask us to. Uuuurgh makes me shudder "

Exactly that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not called as such but described as Milf. Me being a mother has nothing to do with my sexual life. Two separate things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not called as such but described as Milf. Me being a mother has nothing to do with my sexual life. Two separate things. "

100% agree! I’m a 34 year old woman you want to fuck not a mum!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't bear babe, hun, cheeky, trouble, milf, from anyone.

There are pet names I like once I know someone well, but only then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind anything apart from ‘buns’ or ‘bubba’ makes me want to vom !

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I used to hate babe and hun. But then I met MrD and he calls me that!

Im so used to it now after a year and a half. I think there is something wrong if he calls me by my name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This beautiful sunny morning I have had some lovely messages but I hate being called a BBW especially by someone that doesn’t know me. I know it’s a nice term but not one I like myself. What term or name do you not like being called?

I also HATE babe. This word turns me into a Giant dinosaur

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i hate the name brendon sorry just not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind anything apart from ‘buns’ or ‘bubba’ makes me want to vom !"

Bubs not buns !!

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Dont like being called a cougar! Im far too young for that!!

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

I think the only term I am not keen on is 'babe' not sure why I've always had a dislike to it. I know people don't use it maliciously so I do my best not to take offence to it especially in person.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

People can call me anything they like...it's just words. I never use "babe", "love" or anything else like that when talking/email/chatting online to a woman though. I use "mate" or "pal" for a lot of my male friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any that I categorically hate. I tend to find it depends on the person using them. Sometimes a word can annoy me used by a particular person. Someone else can use it and I find it annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really hate being called Luv..

I don't even know why, just always hated it Lol

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