FabSwingers.com forum: House meets

By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Would you ladies invite a guy to your house for the first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt Im afraid no.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No. But then we wouldn't accommodate as we have teenage children at home.

We feel it would be safer for single ladies to meet guys at a hotel or a club rather than a guys house.

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I wouldnt Im afraid no. "

I've been surprised that I have met 3 that have. After lots of chat and photo swaps.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No.

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"No. But then we wouldn't accommodate as we have teenage children at home.

We feel it would be safer for single ladies to meet guys at a hotel or a club rather than a guys house."

I'd meet you anywhere you like. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few house based meets and I have no idea what possesses a girl to let a strange man like me in their house, I'd never consider it the other way around.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt Im afraid no.

I've been surprised that I have met 3 that have. After lots of chat and photo swaps."

Surprises me too to be honest, but depends on the person I guess.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No my house is off limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for a first meeting no. Probably after meeting up 5/6 times. Maybe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done.

Everyone seems to be worried about the woman's safety in that situation but what about the man? He has no idea what's waiting for him!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done.

Everyone seems to be worried about the woman's safety in that situation but what about the man? He has no idea what's waiting for him! "

On a previous profile I was invited to a womans house for our first meet and have to admit to being nervous and unsure about the whole situation....but when I heard the high heels walking towards the front door it made me feel far more at ease

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I have done.

Everyone seems to be worried about the woman's safety in that situation but what about the man? He has no idea what's waiting for him! "

Very true. I was probably as nervous as they were.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Apparently you're more likely to get murdered in someone else's house than your own.

Because they know the where, when and how on their house but not in yours.

Cheery thought!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope

Nor would i go to theirs first meet,always a social for safety .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ladies invite a guy to your house for the first meet?"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have done and have also gone to others on a first meet.

I don't do so lightly but after building up trust and ensuring we are on the same page. It's not something I've done often and I have never had any issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done before

But I have a baby now. So no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I wouldn’t for any meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum"

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok "

You can do that in the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden"

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary"

Especially my racing slugs

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Although I've never met at a lady's house, I've had several travel up to stay with me for a couple of nights, 3 of them came from the south coast, and one stayed 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary"

What about snails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. It's not something I do all the time, but if we have been talking for a while and I get a good vibe from the guy, I sometimes make an exception.

I have two dogs who are very protective. One is large, one is small but has a very nasty bite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary

What about snails?"

The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days

Do you like crunchy snails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary

What about snails?

The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days

Do you like crunchy snails? "

Yay for LBC

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Although I've never met at a lady's house, I've had several travel up to stay with me for a couple of nights, 3 of them came from the south coast, and one stayed 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in

4 days,that is a long time..a guest has to know when it's time to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never let a guy in my house. I have kids. I live in a village where everyone knows your business before you do. So for me, play meets are either clubs or hotels. Socials are always outside of the village.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, my little one is here and it's her home. I'd never ever bring anyone to this house.

What about your mum

My mum likes it up the bum so it's ok

You can do that in the garden

But slugs live in the garden and they carry sharp forks

#SlugsAreScary

What about snails?

The local snails are super friendly but I can't resist them and always blend them into my smoothie for added crunch... they don't visit too often these days

Do you like crunchy snails? "

No. I tell my husband off for standing on snails. We must protect them at all costs

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

4 days,that is a long time..a guest has to know when it's time to leave "

As much as I enjoyed her company, I think that I might have started to drop some subtle hints if she had wanted to stay any longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet socially first. Out in public place. So if I invite someone back to mine, he's not a stranger anymore.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t do that.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No. Not on a first meet or any subsequent ones either.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely not, not the second or third. Huge amount of trust and getting to know someone before this ever happens, this is my kid’s territory and I wouldn’t risk that safe haven being jeopardised

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Would you ladies invite a guy to your house for the first meet?"
nope

Or a 2nd or 3rd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done many times in the past when hubby worked and would do again if it was possible. I dont have a problem with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done many times in the past when hubby worked and would do again if it was possible. I dont have a problem with it! "

That's brilliant whats your post code lol xxx only joking x

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Have done it both ways round, obviously alot of messages and photos prior.

Any meets at mine I always ask the lady if she wants to message her friend to let her know she's ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not for the 2nd, 3rd or 20th meet either. The thought leaves me cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done both ways round in the past. Definitely wouldn’t now ended up with a very crazy stalker type guy, police involved the lot. Definitely don’t risk your home until trust has been strongly built, but even the people we trust can be dangerous. Go careful people xx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been invited into someone's home several times for a first meet. Obviously occurred after frequent messaging and chatting for a while. I was always humbled by the trust they put in me to do such a thing

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By *at1Man
over a year ago

bedford

I prefer the ladies coming to mine or club/hotel meet. Though I have had good and bad experience in the past both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My home is my private space. No one gets here initially.

Once I know someone really well and trust them then I might consider it. However my house is very rarely empty so it's unlikely to be possible

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No way far too dangerous. Better safe than sorry

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I have done both ways round in the past. Definitely wouldn’t now ended up with a very crazy stalker type guy, police involved the lot. Definitely don’t risk your home until trust has been strongly built, but even the people we trust can be dangerous. Go careful people xx"

Exactly us ladies need to be more cautious

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I was once fucking a woman at my place when her phone rang. It was her son telling her to make sure I used a condom. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been

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By *allBristolManMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"No. But then we wouldn't accommodate as we have teenage children at home.

We feel it would be safer for single ladies to meet guys at a hotel or a club rather than a guys house."

Inagreenwith this 50 million percent

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

NEVER our home is our sanctuary

for privacy reasons too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha"

They like peanut butter I’ve heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have in the past. As for safety, it's the safest place we know. No one knows what we have to protect ourselves or where it is. The personal protection dogs are well trained haha

They like peanut butter I’ve heard "

Ours only move when told

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